Does getting with these hoes make y’all never want a relationship again?

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Diligent_Tutor9910 · 2025-10-17T02:43:04+00:00

Yes, youre young.

Myself and every guy I know who was largely successful with women all say the samevthing.

It just gets to a point where you're drowning in a sea of pointless pussy.

Don't make the same mistakes I did and pass up on good wifey type girls cause I was horny fir multiple women. The BEST girls, get snatched up quick whils theyre young and the ones left when you're ready to settle down come with trauma and baggage

Nabs22 · 2025-10-17T02:48:08+00:00

Girls are going to take advantage of receiving resources (dinner, attention, etc) when they can get it. Same way men will take advantage of sex when they can get it.

It's just how you play the game. Don't show all your cards.

ImpossibleBritches · 2025-10-17T03:21:08+00:00

You are attracting a particular kind of woman.

What you are encountering isnt typical of all women.

Its unlikely that its common across most women.

cleetusneck · 2025-10-17T02:42:36+00:00

No. Are they really any different from me?

carterx3 · 2025-10-17T06:28:21+00:00

You're young but yes, women use their pussy as a transactional tool to get what they want (time, attention, money, gifts, dinners). Even if you're having sex with them, doesn't necessarily mean you're the top dog in the dynamic 😂

Prestigious_Water336 · 2025-10-17T02:11:23+00:00

The one night stands lose their lust after a while.

They were fun for me until I reached about age 28. After that, I felt kind of numb to them.

videogames_ · 2025-10-17T04:25:43+00:00

I'm a more average guy who has had to grind for all the hookups I've had but the point is I've seen every situation play out. It can easily make you cynical. You just have to really find the women that prioritize loyalty which is really rare to find since they're already the type usually in a relationship.

miyass_miyass · 2025-10-17T06:38:38+00:00

Men who don't have much game resort to courtship-oriented strategies, where you they present themselves as a good boyfriend from the start.

But you can also just transition from "lover" to "boyfriend" by being the confident, flirty guy and then spending more and more time with whichever of your hookups you get along with the best.

So I don't see what you're worrying about in your case.

becomesharp · 2025-10-17T03:22:56+00:00

So youre going to judge 4 billion women because you know 1 girl who does something you don't approve of?

nintendoborn1 · 2025-10-17T02:21:36+00:00

This is what scares me about it. I wanna have pussy on demand or girls who want me but like. I’m afraid of burning the bridges of serious dating and starting a family

dismalprognosis · 2025-10-17T10:10:56+00:00

Lead with money + nothing else desirable about you = get used for money

Lead with attraction + no other stability in life= get used for sex

Have attraction + living a healthy lifestyle = fulfilling relationship

Matter_Still · 2025-10-17T03:36:41+00:00

That’s the inherent danger of the game ideology. But don’t lay the problem on women entirely. That’s what game is about for many. Sex without connection. Wham, bam, not even a “Thank you, Ma’am.”

Have sex, stick her in a Lyft, rinse, wash, repeat tomorrow night, or next Saturday night.

As Hyman Roth said, “This is the life you chose.”

Certain_Process_7657 · 2025-10-17T03:25:07+00:00

Yeah the hoes you just use for sex but don't actually date them for long term.

topher_atx · 2025-10-17T04:44:28+00:00

Luckily I don't think ALL women are like this. But seeing women's bad behavior first hand does help you lose your naivety. Personally I assume women I'm talking to are "good" but if I detect anything shady alarms go off and I don't let them trick me. I had this kind of intense fling recently and sort of thought I might marry this woman, but she did something shady and I picked up on it and I stopped talking to her and ended things.

Last thing I'll say about this chick from the original post: Really top tier women don't have to resort to stuff like this. They can just go out and pull hot young med student and secure a hot AND rich mate.

Ur_X · 2025-10-17T02:36:26+00:00

Yes, next question

Literally_Autistic · 2025-10-17T05:49:58+00:00

Get a relationship that likes getting with hoes as much as you do

_puffy_cheetos · 2025-10-17T08:40:18+00:00

This doesn’t answer the question but may you tell me how you managed to hook up with all those girls? Especially the 22 year old one.

I’m 22 and still have no experience with girls. Like ngl it makes me feel so bitter and sad.

stick_it_in_your_bum · 2025-10-17T09:14:12+00:00

No but it doesn’t take much to become skeptical of people in the early stages. You’ll save yourself a lot of headaches if you avoid dating people like your FWB.

TopBlacksmith160 · 2025-10-17T09:48:38+00:00

I have a gf that pays towards me and I pay towards her. There out there, but its easier to find them when youre older. Im late 20s👍🏾

Exotic_Pop_765 · 2025-10-17T11:07:20+00:00

yeah its the lover versus provider frame. the thing is lovers dont commit. so she goes for the low hanging fruit. but it is you that she wants ( i mean for as long as you dont entice her with material goods or with reason )

illwill_600 · 2025-10-17T11:22:59+00:00

Women break rules for guys they want.So don't get too hung up on it.

A better solution would be having a polyamorous relationship.

juneprk2 · 2025-10-17T12:04:33+00:00

Lmaooo this sub is cooked

MaCherieLaPoupee · 2025-10-17T12:30:15+00:00

Equivalent of a man using a woman for sex and giving her nothing. Welcome to the world.

Trashboat_96 · 2025-10-17T10:22:13+00:00

Why do you think we hate women so much, cause the only ones left out there are whores

Silver-Wrap-2025 · 2025-10-17T03:04:53+00:00

Do you think that the woman owes sex to the guys just because they paid for the date? Because i doubt the guys said loud and clear to the girls prior to the date something like:

"Hey im only taking you out and paying as long as we agree there will be sex afterwards guaranteed. If you are not ok with these terms, say it now and we can skip the date".

Women don't owe you shit, and if a guy pays for the date that's his responsbility because the girl did not put a gun to their head to invite them out.

And if the only reason they were inviting them out is that it wasn't an actual invite but rather a transaction or bribe then that's their problem once for having that mindset which is idiotic and offensive to women for obvious reasons as you are essentially saying to them "hey is this your prize for sex?" by having that mindset,...

And two for not being clear with the girl 100% about what you want in return from the start.

You say your perception of women has changed for the worst because women don't agree to have sex in return for a man bribing them with dinners, dates, or anything the guy offered without specifying that he wanted something like sex in return?

You think it should be obvious for the woman that the men should want sex and that as such by accepting the date the women are implicitly agreeing to having sex and then failing to honor the implicit agreement that only existed in the guys's heads?

Grow the fuck up mate.

Title	Does getting with these hoes make y’all never want a relationship again?
Author	Buckdiesel2006
Upvotes	122
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Date	October 17, 2025 2:06 AM UTC (10 months ago)
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