Getting Pussy is too hard

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Quartrez · 2026-07-15T12:56:34+00:00

Just getting it is easy, it's getting it from someone you're attracted to that is hard.

BumblebeeHuman5699 · 2026-07-15T12:50:03+00:00

Get some dick instead

readyforactiontuna · 2026-07-15T12:56:49+00:00

yes it's honestly true.

Mathisback · 2026-07-15T13:13:02+00:00

😂😂

ComradeCam · 2026-07-15T12:55:55+00:00

You're probably trying for girls out of your league.

MalditosRelatos · 2026-07-15T14:16:31+00:00

Follar es facil,lo difícil es echarse novia.

Lacunaethra · 2026-07-15T13:07:32+00:00

yeah calling it "getting pussy" is 100% gonna help

Rotund_Flatworm · 2026-07-15T14:29:56+00:00

It should be easy is the trick. Let it happen organically. Go where women are but don't make them the source of your joy or the reason why you do anything. Let them make themselves available. Pick the one from those that you like best.

OrinThane · 2026-07-15T20:31:49+00:00

My friend, if sleeping with people is your only goal then of course it is hard. Who is going to want to be vulnerable and open themself to you when your only intention is for them to fulfill a need in yourself?

Just food for thought.

WebNew9978 · 2026-07-15T14:27:50+00:00

It’s impossible for some of us

Nervous-Arrogance · 2026-07-15T13:02:24+00:00

OK well just quit then

DankOfThrones · 2026-07-15T13:37:22+00:00

skill issue, git gud

PM_ME_YOUR_CTOE · 2026-07-15T13:58:29+00:00

Skipthegames

United-Implement-382 · 2026-07-15T12:53:05+00:00

Do you go out to bars/clubs and cold approach on a consistent basis? Do you use any online dating sites?

Smitty-TBR2430 · 2026-07-15T14:50:47+00:00

Obtaining pussy can be difficult; I get hard when I get the pussy.

rocksos · 2026-07-15T13:07:42+00:00

In all seriousness, you can always just pay for it. At least where i live it's legal and I assume it's not a big deal in most places?

Guys mostly in this just really want to get have sex with lots of really hot girls. From what i've seen many don't even want a relationship

So it makes sense to just get hookers to be quite honest lol. You can have sex with girls way younger and hotter than what you would likely get even if you were the master of 'game' (at least where i live there are model looking 18 year old Eastern European girls who will do what you want for £150)

Accomplished_Egg_928 · 2026-07-15T17:44:54+00:00

It's not that difficult. If you dress well, good hygiene, have presence and are not obese then that opens doors.

When you speak to women, speak to them like normal people and never have an outcome in mind. Introduce yourself, ask questions, make her laugh, flirt a little, tell funny stories to give them an emotional spike, then brush up against her and see if she reciporates and go from there. If she doesn't return the same energy at any point, move the fuck on.

The more you try, the harder it is. If you fake it, they can smell it. I always expect to be rejected in the harshest possible way every time and I am pefectly happy if I did end up celibate forever, don't let it bother me. So there is never any pressure, I strike up conversations with some of the hottest women and it's usually either just natural conversation or there is chemistry that either leads to a date or a trip to bang town.

AKMASTERY1 · 2026-07-15T13:23:18+00:00

For you

natural-situation420 · 2026-07-15T13:53:53+00:00

Speak for yourself.

Filthy_Asswipe · 2026-07-15T14:13:25+00:00

Talk to them as humans, have good vibe, flirt, escalate then bang.

billoverbeck00 · 2026-07-15T14:48:48+00:00

I have the problem where when I want some it’s hard to get but when I don’t it’s when they are basically throwing themselves at me. When I say “I don’t” it’s because I won’t be able to physically do anything due to alcohol and coke

Chemical_Custard6365 · 2026-07-15T16:43:22+00:00

idk man, From my Pov chicks are giving it out like free samples on a friday night

Realwoujo · 2026-07-15T14:42:24+00:00

Yes, when you think of it as "getting pussy" it will always be too hard. Instead, you should think of it as forming an emotional connection with somebody you like. The "pussy" part is secondary.

Fair_Club899 · 2026-07-15T14:09:38+00:00

Patient and a little more confidence. You got it.

TheIndianDreamer007 · 2026-07-15T17:43:19+00:00

If it was easy, everybody would be doin it..!!😆😆

Deaf_Sentence · 2026-07-15T13:41:18+00:00

It’s 50/50 for me, it’s either you get it or you don’t 😂 finding the right woman is what’s hard cuz you never really know who’s down or who isn’t

Amazing-Confusion109 · 2026-07-15T13:58:34+00:00

I totally agree that with that attitude it is.

tilldeathdoiparty · 2026-07-15T16:22:58+00:00

If you’re only after sex, just pay for it… because sleeping with any attractive female isn’t easy, or it is and there more trouble than you bargained for

LikeyeaScoob · 2026-07-15T16:24:10+00:00

Tryna get laid the first night u meet someone it is yea. Build some rapport and a friendly relationship and you’ll have better lick

mattelias44 · 2026-07-15T20:08:08+00:00

That's why it's called "Getting lucky"!

ZennedGame · 2026-07-15T20:56:06+00:00

Dating is THE domain in which men who invest more get less [desirable] results.

HitokiriRonin · 2026-07-15T21:15:11+00:00

BASED

HitokiriRonin · 2026-07-15T21:19:53+00:00

"Too Hard" is the quick and dirty TLDR of it, but the more accurate explanation is that the return on investment and risk to reward just isn't there.

It's essentially a humiliation ritual that you pay for, for the chance that some chick might be in the mood to maybe be open to being with you. Nowadays it's just needlessly difficult. It doesn't have to be easy, it in fact shouldn't be. Men, especially young men, should test our mettle in life and especially dating, but this shit nowadays is a joke. It's fully like beset on all sides by enemies lmao everyones tryna cheese you. Take as much from you as they can while giving as close to nothing back. No respect or decorum whatsoever.

StruggleElectronic67 · 2026-07-15T22:08:37+00:00

It’s why so many guys are bi now lol

ScrotalMigraines · 2026-07-15T22:49:22+00:00

It's really easy

cocoadusted · 2026-07-15T22:56:48+00:00

You gotta challenge your self a bit like getting it from a married woman

Creative-Big-128 · 2026-07-15T22:57:08+00:00

Just know whats ur league. What if its 200+lb girls? Just analyze and seduce girls according to your league

Kaloty01 · 2026-07-15T23:19:13+00:00

Cope

HomelessMilkman · 2026-07-15T14:03:05+00:00

*If you are unattractive

Guys just want handouts, you're not going to get any.

Terrible-Special5792 · 2026-07-15T15:28:59+00:00

Nothing worthwhile comes easy in life

Artistic-Simple-9062 · 2026-07-15T13:51:01+00:00

You can’t get, you need to grab

fabmarques21 · 2026-07-15T13:51:39+00:00

maybe thats because you see them as Pussy and not as Woman.

you seem to be trash, therefore you attract trash

Krazay101 · 2026-07-15T15:21:44+00:00

Not if you’re born tall

J4nosch · 2026-07-15T15:52:27+00:00

It’s easy

saryiahan · 2026-07-15T19:35:08+00:00

That’s a you problem

cbdfoplduw · 2026-07-15T19:35:17+00:00

Easiest modifiable way that has nothing to do with the flirting to get super fit. Next is to go somewhere thirsty girls go. You'll find the game changes significantly.

Sorry-Place6291 · 2026-07-15T21:02:52+00:00

Whatchu gotta do to make it easy?

Title	Getting Pussy is too hard
Author	Puzzleheaded_Guava51
Upvotes	46
Comments	120
Date	July 15, 2026 12:45 PM UTC (2 weeks ago)
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