How can you get really hot girls?

becomesharp · 2025-11-12T03:45:15+00:00

Have top tier skill, money, or status.

But money and status are problematic because you cant tell if a girl is just using you so you'll never really be sure if she likes you for you.

That leaves skill as the only real viable option.

FeistyRip9623 · 2025-11-12T10:28:27+00:00

I just went on a date w someone I met at the gym who was a 7. she showed up on the date looking like a 9. don’t forget how different women can look w makeup etc.

InternationalPlum11 · 2025-11-12T03:52:31+00:00

Focus on becoming hotter yourself. You also need to talk to them, but there's no point if you can't follow through.

Learning cold approach is honestly easy compared to 'becoming hotter'

Someone mentioned money, but that's only one criteria.

Think about all the criteria a woman judges a man on; natural looks, physical looks, income, status, sex, mindset etc.

Think of it from their perspective; why should they date you...?? when they have literally 1000 better options.

Think of it like a RPG in the character creation stage.

This also reminds me of the 'fuck around and find out' graph LOL - No hot girl is going to date you only becuase you have a motorcycle BUT the motorcycle might just be the thing that tips the scale in your favor, different women like different things, you can't start to get good at everything, so you may as well try and get good at the things YOU actually care about and 'fuck around and find out'.

Litterally, stop worrying about it for a while and only worry about yourself.

Get leaner, build muscle, get a better job, join social clubs because that's your actual interest and not because you are hoping to meet women.

On the other hand, take the opportunity to meet women as often as you can. Just find any way to start a conversation. Anywhere you go, I'm in the grocery isle like " you need some help picking a box of crackers" 😂 I did this and went on a date with a girl LOL

Once you get more confident, you can start being more direct "hey I think your sexy" "let's get married" -this is a joke obv etc.

Let us know how you progress

trazcer · 2025-11-12T06:56:58+00:00

If you were the hot girl, would you choose you?

TreyDoesGains · 2025-11-12T04:44:05+00:00

Talk to them… people have different preferences they could potentially be attracted to you. You miss all the shots you never take.

Latter-Helicopter453 · 2025-11-12T04:21:42+00:00

Stop looking at them as hot

Comprehensive-War-34 · 2025-11-12T05:04:27+00:00

You have to approach them. That’s the only way you’ll know if they’re attracted to you.

New_Banana3858 · 2025-11-12T05:05:36+00:00

Most guys think you need money, looks, or status to attract women.
You don’t. You need alignment between what you think, say, and do.

1. Clarity of Intent
Attraction works best when your intent is clear.
If you like someone, let that energy show in your tone, posture, and words instead of hiding it behind small talk or fake coolness.
When your thoughts I like her, your words “Hey, you look great today”, and your actions, actually saying hello all line up, people feel the honesty and 8.5 times out of 10 it's attractive and magnetic.

It happens once in a blue moon I’ll see someone who completely catches my attention.
Not just attraction, but that spark that makes you feel alive, inspired and a little bit electric inside.

In those rare moments, I stop overthinking.
I walk up, say hello and we just kiss each other within a minute of interaction.

Moments like that taught me something profound:
when you’re fully present and not holding back what you feel, people sense it.
You don’t have to chase or impress you just have to be there, fully.

2. Freedom from Outcome

This one is harder, but it changes everything.

I was at a café and noticed someone reading a book I liked.
I asked her about it no agenda, no trying to impress.
We talked, laughed, and then went our separate ways.
It felt great, not because anything happened, but because I acted from curiosity.

That’s freedom from outcome.
You approach because you want to connect, not because you need a result.
Ironically, that’s when people feel most drawn to you, when your energy says, I’m already good, and I’d enjoy knowing you.

TLDR

When you drop the need to get, you start to give:
presence, curiosity and honesty.
That’s what actually attracts.

Think_Reporter_8179 · 2025-11-12T05:24:39+00:00

Best way to get a hot girl is to date a hot girl

Hand_Sanitizer3000 · 2025-11-12T05:17:01+00:00

You need to be attractive and confident

Kindly_Blueberry1918 · 2025-11-12T06:45:54+00:00

You just have to go and approach them. Most of the most beautiful women get approached less because they seem intimidating. You’ll be surprised by the outcome if you do this often.

Happy_Pappyson · 2025-11-12T22:04:48+00:00

Be around more of them. Stop only frequenting places you meet fat, liberal, opinionated women.

Do things that hot women do. The gym, photography, fashion show.

CallRepresentative25 · 2025-11-12T03:42:15+00:00

The only guys who should actually give advice are guys who actually get really hot girls. But most guys consider girls who are above average as really hot or way overrate girls they sleep with to give themselves bragging rights, when in actuality "really hot girls" are few and far between and are most likely dating celebrities, athletes, musicians, or extremely high status guys. These girls get their pick of the top level men since they're so sought after.

Disastrous_Care1877 · 2025-11-12T06:04:52+00:00

I find easier with hotter girls. Conversation and flirting just flows naturally. I just can’t stop myself from flirting and escalating on them.

slippy-tiddy · 2025-11-12T16:20:10+00:00

The few 8's 9's and 10's I have ever gotten were because of game, or social status. Being popular in a group of friends and she is a new comer or a mutual and you can meet that way helps a ton, high confidence and being well put together can also do it. It seems really basic, but those girls that are that attractive can command a higher quality of man. So you need to become that higher quality of man. Another thing that I have seen that seems to work with younger women well is social status, for example if you have a large social media following or are very popular in any given environment.

ThatDarnSmell · 2025-11-12T03:19:20+00:00

Talk to them and find common ground.

RalfMurphy · 2025-11-12T05:03:56+00:00

Develop a killer social circle, then be at the top of it

Edin-23 · 2025-11-12T08:28:09+00:00

"Jarvis, I'm low on bitches"

DetailFocused · 2025-11-12T13:15:44+00:00

i have a hot girl right now super hot and i don’t have a lot of money power or status.

CTWaythenthen · 2025-11-12T17:01:09+00:00

How can you get really hot girls?

Be a really hot guy. No, really. Go to the gym, eat fresh foods, groom yourself, wear nice clothes, have a good skincare routine, be on a solid career path, and have interesting hobbies. Have interesting and genuine things to say. Know how to make women smile.

ToxicRocketry · 2025-11-15T07:49:36+00:00

Hit on them and flirt with them. The only thing that experience has taught me is that there are no guarantees in dating and the only sure-fire way to get girls is to make a move.

Trying to attract extremely beautiful women with wealth or status is usually a losing proposition because a lot of those women usually have that in spades themselves and they don't really care to have more of it.

ArmitageShanks69 · 2025-11-15T17:58:40+00:00

By being a three percenter. Otherwise you need to stick to your own level.

Zenis · 2025-11-12T05:25:10+00:00

Honestly… if you’re not super hot yourself, just go for girls who are hot but flawed.

It’s like a thrift store find!

justaregularguyearth · 2025-11-12T03:30:09+00:00

You have to be a handsome guy to them. Thats literally it. Theres no forcing it, if they are attracted to you then you will know.

schroedinger11 · 2025-11-12T04:09:35+00:00

Urinate in a cup while making eye comtact with them.

Most-Famous-Wasabi · 2025-11-12T03:56:58+00:00

Learn the basics.
Read the wiki for this sub.

Find and read the book Double Your Dating.

Learn the social skills that are specific to dating and you'll be miles ahead of most guys within a few weeks or months of practice.

jsilsmskal · 2025-11-12T03:21:47+00:00

Honestly you just gotta have money if you want to actually retain them

Shoddy-Lingonberry-4 · 2025-11-12T08:27:22+00:00

Get jacked. A woman will be after you, even if you don't have $$$.

FrogsAesthetics · 2025-11-12T11:03:23+00:00

You really have to get used to talking to everyone you meet, and learning how to cut up with everyone. It makes life so much more enjoyable overall, and when you see or meet someone you're really interested in, it feels so effortless to deal with them. Give compliments. Talk with old ladies. Everyone.

ThunderBloodRaven · 2025-11-12T11:05:53+00:00

It starts with identifying what you can and can't change, you can't change yiur height but you can change perception or circumstances.

Deep down women are attracted to men with options and masculinity. The former drives their attraction, and the latter encompasses capability and ability to protect.

Sarthak535 · 2025-11-12T14:08:59+00:00

Your question is stupid. You should be asking how to get girls. Sometimes, even ugly girls may reject you.

luciclover · 2025-11-12T20:28:02+00:00

Men that talk like this but, then say that no one will date them. Simping

Becaus789 · 2025-11-14T02:15:32+00:00

Be worth getting.

arty233 · 2025-11-14T14:12:13+00:00

Improve your body mind and spirit bro: workout, have a dedicated craft or skill, get financially set etc make yourself into the full package. But even then Japanese women are the most flaky, boring, frustrating huns to game. Gorgeous but absolute wet fishes to game. Like I’m Japanese conversational, I’ll approach girls on street/bar/events and talk, have a great convo, number close with a hangout session cemented and STILL get ghosted/bored texting her. Do the same thing in other countries and I’ll have dates lined up into infinity. It’s like they too polite to just tell you fuck off and would rather lead you on a wild goose chase. Japan is where I got into Fuzoku coz of the blue balls: just pay and get it over and done with.

gabowashere · 2025-11-15T20:39:38+00:00

Be hot & rich yourself. You can be rich and ugly, but you won't be able to retain them. They'll cheat on you, and take half of everything.

BrazillianWifey69 · 2025-11-18T13:30:37+00:00

In my opinion, guys lack the confidence to talk. Whenever a guy approached me knowing how to talk, confident, able to make me laugh, interested in my interests and tastes, or at least pretending well, I always went for it and we hooked up. I slept with a friend for two years even though we weren't anything serious because he knew how to talk when I was bored, he made me feel desired and attractive. If you make a girl talk and lauh you get into her panties

reckless-ryean · 2025-11-12T22:14:13+00:00

At night clubs? Bring drugs

The guy with the bag always pounds the hot chicks

TripleDigitNomad · 2025-11-12T04:22:27+00:00

Money (to be able to compete with other guys who throw money at them), fame (easiest way to pick them up, but not the easiest to achieve), status (being seen as important or a leader of some sort), and connections/preselection (like being a fashion photographer or friend of someone with money, fame, or status) are usually the only ways these days.

Because of social media, long gone are the days that 9s grow up being grounded and down to earth. The vast majority get molded into having high egos and vanity because of all the attention they receive online. If they don't see you as being on the same level as them, they won't even give you a chance.

barlowaplesand · 2025-11-12T13:15:51+00:00

be really hot! (and if not, be MEGA rich lol)

Title	How can you get really hot girls?
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