How do I respond to this?

HBT-JIN · 2019-05-23T07:06:27+00:00

"As I said before, you have great taste in men" 😂

widestancegod · 2019-05-23T09:11:26+00:00

Well you're just as good at making mistakes then

RedTauren · 2019-05-23T13:16:09+00:00

“Please don’t unmatch me I’m sorry for that opener I really need this” and then cry

Scum-Mo · 2019-05-23T14:45:26+00:00

ouch. so you only regular like me?

NumerousImprovements · 2019-05-23T04:33:22+00:00

“Meant to swipe up?”

Rastamur · 2019-05-23T16:57:39+00:00

Ask her if she wants to taste your butt hole

phuckme2tears · 2019-05-23T04:31:12+00:00

Mistakes happen. Ask your parents.

Omar117879 · 2019-05-23T15:20:24+00:00

That’ll be the perfect story we tell our children.

pinkielotus · 2019-05-23T14:30:58+00:00

Never try that message again. Instant turn off for girls when guys pat themselves on the back.

Titanruss · 2019-05-23T13:07:27+00:00

Your subconscious disagrees.

Lord_Augastus · 2019-05-23T10:12:00+00:00

Right there, you used an arrogant opener. You cant respond that. Unless you backpedal and peak her interest with something down to earth.

kalifo_yt · 2019-05-23T11:21:54+00:00

ztsmart · 2019-05-23T16:37:14+00:00

https://1zl13gzmcsu3l9yq032yyf51-wpengine.netdna-ssl.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/05/Bob-Ross-Quote-2-1068x561.jpg

PapaEmiritus · 2019-05-23T13:52:38+00:00

Why such a cocky statement...ugghhh

hlap1995 · 2019-05-23T04:29:51+00:00

Dont just unmatch

Jugurthajones87 · 2019-05-23T19:27:45+00:00

“I have an 8 inch cock.”

immerdergewinner · 2019-05-23T12:39:05+00:00

/r/tinder

cazminda · 2019-05-23T14:29:45+00:00

Super likes are always done by mistake in my experience.

TroyFrancisPUA · 2019-05-23T17:26:55+00:00

Don’t

Shakeandbake23 · 2019-05-23T19:47:11+00:00

Is this your way of playing hard to get?

recyclablebanthas · 2019-05-24T01:21:45+00:00

The mistake here is getting too wrapped up in a text exchange with a girl. If it's going to work, she'll go along with it.

If she's being funny here, she'll work with a lot of different responses. If she's serious here, there's not a lot you can do with someone who has probably already unmatched you.

Also, this belongs more in AskSeddit or the Tinder sub.

light-----------dark · 2019-05-23T14:50:52+00:00

“is that what a super swipe is? I’ll take it. coffee this weekend at 12? coffee makes everything right.”

heal_likeagod · 2019-05-23T08:03:13+00:00

As a female dater, that is honestly a funny line, but maybe she did accidentally swipe wrong, who knows, just unmatch. Don’t sweat it, I literally take nothing personally until after I have met someone and even then not for a few dates probably hehe

There are the exceptions to that, those that possess a lot of respect, and I admire that because I am the same way, but I am referring to the general pool.

lazy784 · 2019-05-23T17:18:44+00:00

That opener sucks

NineBeanSalad · 2019-05-23T13:15:47+00:00

Maybe, just maybe, she's not interested.

hoopingtonberg · 2019-05-23T04:38:10+00:00

Well you've dug yourself quite the hole there. She's probably really used to being told those kinds of things on tinder so she might look at you as just another blur of a typical guy on tinder. You might want to try saying something that'll throw her off. Something that'll make her confused or say "wait what" Spark her interest by saying something unique that most guys don't pick up on or a this or that question. An example would be "Would you rather have no eyebrows for the rest of your life or live without a phone for 7 years" Not the best example, but it makes her think or say to herself "No one has ever messaged me something like that" Good luck buddy I hope this helps!

gh0stastr0naut · 2019-05-23T14:51:28+00:00

Girl, if I'm wrong, you don't wanna be right.

or

There are no mistakes...only happy accidents ;)

RevolutionaryDrive5 · 2019-05-23T15:18:12+00:00

'You should be sorry!'

LDM123 · 2019-05-23T18:04:19+00:00

Don’t

didled · 2019-05-23T22:37:05+00:00

Some of life’s best lessons come from mistakes

HeavyMeringue · 2019-05-23T10:47:45+00:00

Don't apologise,I never do.By the way you swiped right.

A_solo_tripper · 2019-05-23T16:16:39+00:00

The old 'cocky & funny' lol

You can mirror and re-frame: 'sorry- I typed wrong...' And start over with something else.

You can 'forgive her' for a mistake she made and still accept her with all her flaws

You can say sorry- they don't have a [super-duper like] [i wanna bang] [insta-bang] button. (choose one or make up your own)

I think cocky and funny has its place and time.

I am writing some information and a comparison about the different ways to approach women. From indirect to direct and more.

Hope you hook up with her. If not, at least you have something to talk about.

iqbal002 · 2019-05-23T17:31:25+00:00

just say "ok" then don't respond , if she is really interested she will come back and if not at least you won't waste your time

Sandvicheater · 2019-05-23T17:40:00+00:00

Either she legit swiped wrong or she's shit testing you. I guess you can be all suave and say some shit like best things in life happens due to small mistakes.

glumbum2 · 2019-05-23T17:44:30+00:00

"same"

iathrowaway23 · 2019-05-23T17:56:02+00:00

You don't.

SFWBoots · 2019-05-23T17:57:37+00:00

You don't.

katahdan · 2019-05-23T19:08:05+00:00

You don't?

Terakahn · 2019-05-23T20:07:52+00:00

Hey, nobody's perfect.

HyperTanasha · 2019-05-23T20:09:08+00:00

Probably better to cut your losses on this one but if you feel you must reply at least end it with something funny or positive like the top comment or "woops wrong app"

sassa04 · 2019-05-23T20:17:01+00:00

Exactly!

TerrorBollea · 2019-05-23T20:24:30+00:00

Sounds like she's got one of those itches that only a dick pick response can scratch

SilverKnight619 · 2019-05-23T20:53:31+00:00

"Hmmm did you now...its okay I'll let it slide this time but when we meet up for coffee you can tell me about all your wrong choices in men ;) "

WolfofLawlStreet · 2019-05-23T20:55:06+00:00

This reminds me of my roommate. He said to a girl that he doesn’t like or want kids either and she goes, “no worries I’ll swallow yours”

bluemoviebaz · 2019-05-23T22:24:22+00:00

Don’t ever type that again!

IntoxicatedOrange · 2019-05-23T22:32:47+00:00

Use the bob ross line for sure.

SandtheB · 2019-05-23T22:36:06+00:00

What is working for me is: thinking that it's cute she is being mean "for no reason". So I just tease and be playful, and "punish" her for chosing to be just SO SILLY. 😂😂😂

I might respond:

" 'I swept wrong'

Weird Flex but OK!! 👌👌 You are adorable though so it's fine. 👍👍👍"

and if she dosen't respond, just move on. It's not worth it getting caught up on one girl (i.e. oneits).

Sorry if this is formatted weird, I am still learning reddit mobile.

redfox180 · 2019-05-23T22:44:13+00:00

Really? Come on you could at least put some effort in to it! the NSA hacked my phone or I gave my phone to my nephew and now Bob age 41 is sending me emojis that don't make any sense! Hit me with your best excuse you look like a creative person!? :P

vinx_finx · 2019-05-23T23:58:23+00:00

"wrong person"

AutoProblematic · 2019-05-24T00:54:02+00:00

best response: ghost and next.

2nd best response: "have you got a friend for me? I'm such a lonely girl..."

caesarfecit · 2019-05-23T12:45:54+00:00

"Fair enough, I have a full dance card anyways"

or

"Lolll, I thought the super-like was mad cute but whatevs"

When you go cocky and a woman responds in kind, always call the bluff. Either it's a shit test and therefore the correct response, or she's about to dip anyway and you have nothing to lose.

midget_messiah · 2019-05-23T12:43:07+00:00

She super liked you

CapIshmael · 2019-05-23T14:13:04+00:00

"Ok, bye."

lance1221 · 2019-05-23T12:10:08+00:00

Don’t respond she doesn’t deserve you

auxdub · 2019-05-23T19:31:57+00:00

Answer: Ok, so besides being a retard on Tinder, do you have other interesting skills?

ComplexProjection · 2019-05-23T13:40:54+00:00

Your subconscient knows best.

savagelaw · 2019-05-23T14:56:53+00:00

"alright. have a great day! :)"

be polite.

frequentsee · 2019-05-23T20:40:27+00:00

Girls do this shit where they act like there's someone else better than you & you're nothing to bring up that bitch barrier. Only really aggressive pseudo alpha guys will combat this & girls think that this = manliness. BUT in reality there is no one better. It's all a rouse. Fuck these little bitches. Don't let some part-time ain't done shit ass little bitch get you tripped up.

lazy784 · 2019-05-23T17:19:24+00:00

playingfire.com

This texting product has literally changed my life.

MustangCKima · 2019-05-23T17:36:04+00:00

Hold your frame and risk it, if it doesn't work move on

L0n3W01f_ · 2019-05-23T10:07:19+00:00

“I don’t usually take my compliments back but fuck you, BLOCKED!”

TaeKwonPiccolo · 2019-05-23T05:09:03+00:00

Play it cool. "Oh, no. You swiped right. That was you subconscious guiding you t what you need in your life."

Title	How do I respond to this?
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	599
Comments	146
Date	May 23, 2019 4:27 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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