And 9s and 8s too. But that's just rhetoric.

Now let's talk about negging.

Negging is a great way to playfully tease a girl, showing that you are both confident and possess a sense of humor.

Negging is also a surefire way of taking down an incredibly hot girl's ego, inciting in her a desire to qualify herself to you.

Negs, when done correctly, as to not be pure insults, are an invaluable resource for a man to have.

That being said, be careful.

Most girls that skirt the line of average in physical appearance are not half as confident as you assume. They are insecure and far less self assured than you are. Girls are good at hiding this but it is the truth.

You cannot use the same amount of negging on a 6 as you would on a 9. You likely think all girls are emboldened by delusions of grandeur and have egos up to high heaven, but you're wrong. You must learn to be calibrated and present the right amount of validation to actually make the girl feel appreciated, valued, wanted.

You must not over-neg a girl or you'll wound her and she'll hate you. Trust me. From experience. I know. You don't want to ruin a good thing and make yourself look like a vicious asshole.

If she's curvy, don't make a joke about what she's eating. Even if it wasn't offensive, she is already painfully aware of not being slender looking like a Victoria's Secret model and will hate you for reminding her of her perceived inadequacy.

If she's short, don't call her a midget. Even if you didn't mean to be rude, she'll remember that she's always wanted to be 5'8" like a runway model and will hate you for reminding her of her perceived inadequacy.

Those anedotes are actually true stories. When I said I speak from experience, I meant it.

Be careful out there my guys.

You can be confident, funny, sarcastic, brash even, but you don't need to be a little asshole. Girls are attracted to confident men, not walking ballsacks.