This is how I determine whether or not I should kiss a girl, it has never failed me.

It’s how I decided to kiss my current girlfriend on our first date.

The hand test: On a date, make an excuse to go for a walk.

If you see 1-3 Ioi’s (see my body language post) say this exact phrase,“Hey are your hands cold?”

She’ll probably say no.Then you say,

“Here let me see.” or “Hmm mine are.”

Then lace your hand with hers.

If she likes you: She will keep holding your hand until you let go.

If she doesn’t like you: She will let go at the first opportunity, or say she doesn’t like hand holding.

Either way you did a relatively noninvasive way of determining the level of attraction she has for you.

If a girl doesn’t let go of my hand I will attempt to kiss her in the next 15 minutes.Once I know the attraction is there, I know there’s a 95% chance she wants me to kiss her.

I will then move us to a quieter area and when I think its quiet enough I’ll say…

“Hey hold on a sec,” or “Wait…look at me.”

Then I’ll put my hand on her chin and attempt to kiss her.

If she likes you, you can probably smash shortly after.

If she doesn’t like you, she’ll just turn her cheek.

For all the pussies out there, I’ve literally never heard of someone getting in trouble for attempting a kiss ON A DATE.

You only get one shot though, if you get rejected take the loss for the night and reevaluate your SMV or tactics.

If you’re too much of a pussy to even attempt for risk of rejection,

Remember: Pussies, don’t get pussy.

This is how you escalate gradually without overstepping.

The key to this is being laid back and nonchalant, if you don’t make it a big deal she’ll know exactly what you’re doing, and not give a fuck.

LMK if you're struggling with something you'd like me to make a post on.

I'll make a post tmro on how to tell the difference between eye contact that says approach me and regular benign eye contact.