Something that completely changed my game.

Dilsssss · 2013-02-06T11:43:57+00:00

I'm going to give meditating a try. Thanks for sharing

nobody2000 · 2013-02-06T15:57:12+00:00

OP: You seem down to earth and genuine with your explanation. I'm sure girls pick up on this too. I think people should take note.

Everyone else: take note & throw this type of information in your [FR]s. We are literally being bukkaked with strategy all over the place. But the tactical explanations are a little light...

TACTICS - the "doable." "Initiated kino" is a strategy. "Pretended I knew how to read palms to initiate kino" is a tactic. You can read ANY PUA book in an afternoon, and understand the strategy, but the online communities are best to generating ideas to apply those tactics to the strategy.

OP posted some very simple tactics that you can bring out with you and do. Many of us who overcome AA develop EA (escalation anxiety), which is honestly a bigger hurdle. The Escalation ladder is a strategic start, but posts like this enhance the tactical side.

Some will copy your tactics. Others will improve upon them or modify. It all goes into improving the community.

nomdeanon · 2013-02-06T15:37:48+00:00

The number one rule of obtaining anything: "If you don't ask for it, it won't be given to you."

SemanticsLogistics · 2013-02-06T20:41:20+00:00

Man, everyone is really clinging to your offhand comment about meditating. I've done meditation, it's great, but meditation doesn't kiss girls. Doing exactly what you said (calibrating, escalating, and having some guts and a pinch of luck) gets girls. I'm glad you found this tactic and could overcome your limiting belief about how long you have to wait to kiss a girl! Think about it, how long after meeting a girl do you know if you'd want to kiss them? For me it's about 5-10 minutes (enough time to gauge if you're cool or snooty or a bitch or funny or whatever). They probably know in about that time too, especially if you get off to a good start.

caesarfecit · 2013-02-06T18:03:10+00:00

I needed to read this.

If there is one serious stumbling block my game has right now, it's going for the kiss.

I can approach well, I can flirt well, I can even escalate to some extent very well, and I've been told I'm good in bed.

But going in for the kiss, barring an open invitation (which never happens unless she's very drunk and/or horny), shoots my anxiety level through the roof, probably from bad past experiences.

It gets incredibly frustrating sometimes to have a stumbling block like that, when you can pick up models but turn into a chump when it comes to time to make a move physically.

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Darksider123 · 2013-02-06T16:01:21+00:00

This is beautiful. Good for young guys like me, freshly finished Highschool

reallytricky · 2013-02-06T13:47:10+00:00

Yes I highly recommend meditating for everyone and not just due to game, but generally for life. Clearing your mind is a very good step into tackling any sort of problem.

GentlemenOfLeisure · 2013-02-06T15:05:28+00:00

When I meditate. All I do is put on a Hare Krsna chant and think about nothing but my breathing. The only words I think are in and out. The chant helps me focus and according to the Gita it is the only way to meditate in this age of Kali. Chanting helps too definitely, in fact I recommend a little of both.

DrunkAtTheWedding · 2013-02-06T13:24:32+00:00

Dude! Awesome!!! I had the same epiphany recently, it is fucking awesome!! Good Job!

I need to get back to meditating, thank you for reminding me :)

ConquistadoRR · 2013-02-06T15:52:02+00:00

How do YOU meditate?

I am not in need for it (I think), but I wonder how you do such a thing.

Edgar_Allan_Rich · 2013-02-06T16:52:47+00:00

Wow, short, concise, tactical detail? What a refreshing post! Take notes, field reporters.

Thanks man.

Hello-Universe · 2013-02-06T18:42:02+00:00

Do you follow RSD Tyler? A lot of this advice sounds like it may have came from him.

Rapquest · 2013-02-06T19:34:24+00:00

Are you taking a class on meditating? Or are there some tips/pointers for beginners?

gruder · 2013-02-06T19:43:30+00:00

and Lift

This is key, keep the testosterone up, keep the stress down, and feel good about yourself man!

2013-02-06T20:22:11+00:00

I've been hearing a lot about meditation. I'm going to try it.

JamesHarrison21 · 2013-02-06T22:58:52+00:00

Just to clarify for certain people, when he says he is meditating 20 minutes a day I am going to assume he is practicing vipassana. This won't make you better at your game. If done right (e.g., with the goal of mental liberation rather than some egotistical goal), you will slowly develop a sense of mindfulness. That is all. It is not a technique used to further your game. It will just make you more aware of life in general.

Comogia · 2013-02-07T00:30:12+00:00

Do you even lift (yeah I went there).

ChaseGod · 2013-02-06T21:11:34+00:00

I think I'll start mediating

Troll_Man24 · 2013-02-07T00:14:45+00:00

I love this approach. I am going to try it, no doubt.

Afterall, women, want to hook up too. As men, do we tend to forget this? I know I sure do.

magic_mike_25 · 2013-02-07T00:43:44+00:00

Bro.

magicroot75 · 2013-02-07T01:41:16+00:00

I have been wondering when the hell is the right time to initiate a makeout. Every time I go out I tell myself I'm going to go for it, then the night goes by and I don't feel like I had any opportunities. This gave me a little glimpse into the mindset I need to take. Thanks.

IllFil · 2013-02-07T04:55:19+00:00

Two points in this post made me think damn what a boss

Thanks for sharing man!

spinladen · 2013-02-07T08:59:25+00:00

meditation IS the golden path

clydeefrawg · 2013-02-08T00:23:12+00:00

You, my friend, are a genius.

byepolarbear · 2013-02-06T16:52:45+00:00

Thumbs up broseph

nivar · 2013-02-06T22:32:53+00:00

what meditation do you do? how you do it? just want to know what and how you do it.

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fuckbitchesgetmoney1 · 2013-02-07T01:50:40+00:00

I've been working at it for a while and the beginning was tough, but recently things have been clicking more and more for me. I feel like I'm about to encounter this snowball and I look forward to it.

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zenmagnets · 2013-02-07T07:17:01+00:00

If you "mention that my wingman is my boyfriend or that my boyfriend is getting drinks, look at her shocked face, then go for it." What is the aftermath?

aboredhispanic · 2013-03-01T09:25:10+00:00

"and Lift" Bravo dude...Bravo.

yachtie · 2013-02-06T16:23:19+00:00

Kegels

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djangelic · 2013-02-06T22:49:41+00:00

I just discovered this the other day, two fcloses in a week. It really works. Don't be scared of rejection.

Something that completely changed my game.

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