You need to learn how to communicate better. I'm not in your head and I can't read your mind.
Try to see the world through multiple perspectives and remember it's not forever.
What "it"? What are you referring to?
Eventually the spouse is expected to figure it out by then.
Again, what "it"? Seems like a different "it" than in the previous sentence, but there's literally not enough context to know what the hell you're talking about.
And by when? Please, figure out what you're trying to say.
The first it is referring to the alimony. The second it is referring to his or her life.
Ok, let's see:
Try to see the world through multiple perspectives and remember it'salimony is not forever. Eventually the spouse is expected to figure ittheir life out by then.
Ok, it's clear what you're saying now, but that still doesn't make sense as a response to the comment you replied to, and it seems like you're contradicting what you said earlier.
Language is horrendously difficult for autistic people.
Are you saying that you are autistic? Because there was literally no indication at all what you were talking about.
I'm not even trying to be a dick about it - it's legitimately baffling trying to make sense of what you're saying.
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Or even "what goes around, comes around"
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Oh that argument can go fuck itself.
What someone is used to is irrelevant if they aren't the one earning it.
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You need to learn how to communicate better. I'm not in your head and I can't read your mind.
What "it"? What are you referring to?
Again, what "it"? Seems like a different "it" than in the previous sentence, but there's literally not enough context to know what the hell you're talking about.
And by when? Please, figure out what you're trying to say.
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Ok, let's see:
Ok, it's clear what you're saying now, but that still doesn't make sense as a response to the comment you replied to, and it seems like you're contradicting what you said earlier.
Are you saying that you are autistic? Because there was literally no indication at all what you were talking about.
I'm not even trying to be a dick about it - it's legitimately baffling trying to make sense of what you're saying.
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I do think that there's something to be said for a push to get back on your feet, but like, cap it at a year or something geez
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