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Thanks bluepillprofessor. This has always been an area of weakness for me. I'll make efforts lead more directly today. I'll keep at it, and work my way up.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/17 05:41 PM
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Now this is food I can chew on. This seems to be where I'm at. Thanks man.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/11/17 03:48 PM
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It's day 11 and I'm seriously rethinking my current action plan. I just don't want to give in thinking I gave up.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/11/17 03:40 PM
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Honestly, I got caught up on squats and deads. I didn't think I'd come close to these numbers until next year. Unfortunately, I've neglected my secondaries and my diet because of this and I'm trying to reassess and bring back balance. My squat is at max 405lbs, deads 420 and bench is 155lbs. Like I said... balance is way outta wack.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/11/17 03:37 PM
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Hmm. Some good advice here. I appreciate you taking the time. I'm going to reevaluate based on what you have written.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/11/17 02:09 PM
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I've been on Keri for a couple years now. However, mission creep was setting in once I started squatting 405lbs. I rationalized more intake in order to push my numbers even higher. Then I saw strongman power lifters, and realized how unattractive some of those heavy set guys can be. So I tried refocusing on my intake numbers, but even with an app, I just wasn't staying on task. So I'm trying a crazy liquid diet and focusing on isolation. Striped it all down to exact numbers so that there's no wi…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/11/17 01:35 PM
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Thanks man. It's no excuse to lose frame and pop my lid, but I have to realize my limitations and anticipate certain "challenges" or this may happen again.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/11/17 01:27 PM
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Yeah, it's pretty drastic. I was on Keto, but my intake levels were too high. A symptom of bad portion discipline. So I've decided to go liquid until December 1st. That's coffee in morning. Fruit/veggy juicer in afternoon and two protein shakes in evening. It's more an act in discipline than anything else. So far so good, but it's gotten shaky a couple times. I think last night was an example, not that it's an excuse for losing my cool. But it's proving more a challenge than I'd anticipated.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/11/17 01:22 PM
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Thanks man. I think you hit it on the nail. TRP 101 right there. I gotta squeeze the last breath outta that puppy.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/11/17 12:27 PM
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She helped me find the kink in my armour. I'll have to focus on that area of weakness and try to fully understand and begin a new action plan to tighten up that muscle.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/11/17 12:24 PM
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My energy levels are depleted in a major way. It's is discouraging to see my max numbers drop. I've instead, dropped the weight and increased the repetitions. I did notice an increase in fuckarounditis. I'll have to make sure I regain focused.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/11/17 12:21 PM
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Oh man. That is so obvious, I'm wincing right now.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/11/17 03:40 AM
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I got lost in the number of plates I was lifting. Focus on diet slipped. I can lift a truck, but I'm not at a healthy BF%. I'm doing a cut now. Something new for me. It's harder than I was expecting. But I'm on it.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/11/17 01:51 AM
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Don't shit where you eat.
/r/askTRP09/11/17 04:27 PM
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8 months? That's a long time. How much time had you invested before the breakup? How much have you invested into yourself since?
/r/askMRP18/09/17 01:21 AM
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What's your next move?
/r/askTRP04/08/17 01:45 AM
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Once you get a stable habit of going to the gym and following strict diet, you will have a different mindset when on the verge of slipping up. Now days, when I'm about to indulge in bad junk food, I consider how crappy I'm going to feel the next day and how many days it will take to get back on my top game. I still trip up, but not as often and it isn't as bad an indulgence when I do. But you have to fall several times before you get to understand and internalize it all fully. Keep it up!
/r/askTRP26/07/17 01:01 PM
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If you were Brad Pitt, she wouldn't hesitate. Raise your SMV.
/r/askMRP22/07/17 08:38 PM
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My weakest muscle is the rest muscle. I shall work on improving that.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/17 07:48 PM
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I was that same bitch two years ago. I was losing my momentum recently, and this adventure and change to my routine helped get me back on track.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/17 03:49 PM
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You're thinking too hard. If you are practicing everyday and pushing your limits, then keep doing that. It's like a rainbow. There is no particular point where one color ends and another begins... You just get better. And one day, it'll just hit you. "Holey crap I've moved from blue to red!"
/r/askTRP17/07/17 06:26 PM
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This^
/r/askTRP17/07/17 03:39 PM
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Funny, I was just thinking about that the other day. I look back sometimes, and shake my head. I see my former self as a younger goofy brother. What's weird, now that my son is getting into his double digits, I see a kind of second chance. The little guy is cooler and better than I ever was in most things. It seems natural. I imagine it's cause he's modeling himself after my current awesome self. That helps me work at being the best I can be everyday.
/r/askTRP14/07/17 01:48 PM
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I have a good level of aggression and confidence during a solid week of lifting. If I've got my fapping in check and eating/sleeping well, then I know and I feel like I'm in a good place. Wife once told me I become a Monster, with a dangerous glint in my eye, if I add a good run during the week. I could hear the tingles in her voice and realized she was right. If I run twice in one week, I own the world and take what's mine. And so can you!
/r/askTRP14/06/17 02:13 PM
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( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
/r/askTRP31/05/17 06:25 PM
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"Mistakes were made" leave it at that. Apologies are for when you accidentally ran over the dog. You get two or three in a lifetime. Use them sparingly.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/17 04:06 PM
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You are not out of the anger faze yet. You are upset by her being fat. You are bothered at how little she contributes. She doesn't give you tingles. Get out. Go do stuff. Be so busy making yourself so awesome, you don't have time to be ambivalent about her. She is your entire focus. She aggravates you. Leave. Go do something outside of the house. Sit and read a book at the coffee shop. Then join a book reading discussion group. Then write one. Baby steps. You've made great progress. Now focus on…
/r/askMRP05/05/17 02:29 AM
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Warning!: These are noob gains. Do not sit down and ride out the momentum. Double down on becoming more awesome. Also read up on pregnant women during RP awakenings. You are in a special class of Warrior right now. Congratulations BTW.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/05/17 03:53 PM
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Play stupid. Letting her know, that you know, undermines your best interest. Lawyer up. Prepare yourself. This will help you psychologically either way. If she follows through with divorce, you're prepared. If she does not, You're prepared. You'll also internalize the reality that she is not yours, it is simply your turn. Time to put your interests first.
/r/askMRP01/05/17 03:46 PM
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You are on point here. I need to be more patient, as I increase my SMV. I also have to watch that I don't slip into control freak. I need to focus on myself. I'd say this is a remnant of my being in her frame. I should not worry so much about her. Focus on myself and my own healthy growth. She'll follow or she won't. I can't and should not control her.
/r/askMRP27/04/17 10:29 PM
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I'm trying to bend something that will resist my direct efforts. I forget sometimes, and grow frustrated. Action over words. I need to be patient. Once I'm worth following, then there will be no spoon to bend.
/r/askMRP27/04/17 04:03 PM
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My flock are composed of children a teenagers. I have to remember that. The oldest teenager still has a way of getting under my skin. I'll have to check myself on this... ✓
/r/askMRP27/04/17 04:00 PM
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I should be keeping with MRP:101 here. Thanks for the reminder.
/r/askMRP27/04/17 03:59 PM
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Spot on. I'll just keep on my set path. Thanks!
/r/askMRP27/04/17 03:57 PM
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She was not yours​, it was only your turn. You need to ghost her, block and begin your new journey with woke eyes. Swallowing the red pill is never easy.
/r/askMRP23/04/17 01:45 PM
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Keep doing more and more. Push past your comfort zone. In a month, you'll look back and laugh at how timid and autistic you were. I have a long way to go, but I am startled at how much I've grown in the last couple years. And so can you!
/r/askTRP22/04/17 08:56 PM
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My best angle would be to have regrets based on things you dared to do, and not for those things you chose not to do.
/r/askTRP12/04/17 02:26 AM
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I'll give my opinion to a close friend, if I feel it will help him grow so that he's more fun to be around, or at least to shut him up about being in the dog house again. Otherwise, the more I appear to be "normal" to everyone around me, the less danger I'm in. Plus, as sad as it is to see men and boys losing their masculin ways, it offers a higher chance for my boy to achieve the upper 20% and be a king in his own right.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/17 06:43 PM
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Dear Captain save a Bro,. Lead by example.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/17 12:07 PM
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I was chasing a girl years ago. We had two dates. Seemed to be going well. So I popped in to her work one day with two coffees. Figured it was a "nice" thing to do. She was in the parking lot with a co-worker and was being weird. I realized he was an interest of hers and that she was trying to protect her investment in him by brushing me off and being dismissive/disrespectful. Stunned by this revelation, I found myself handing over the second cup, despite all this and was disgusted with myself. …
/r/TheRedPill03/04/17 04:24 PM
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You need to post a testimonial. I'd love to hear your back story.
/r/askTRP27/03/17 09:30 PM
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Ha! This has become a MEME dude!
/r/askTRP25/03/17 05:25 AM
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I am constantly​ challenged for this by friends and family. But I don't give in. It's my line in the sand. It's Empowering.
/r/askTRP14/03/17 03:51 PM
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If she's being a shit, withdraw. Remove yourself from her as a punishment for bad behaviour. Do your own thing as though nothing has changed, keeping in mind that you are withdrawing your time and energy from her. Logistics are fine. No more. You sending the pic, "cause you would have anyway" is not consistent with withdrawal. I get what you're saying, but you're missing the point. You're still thinking about her. BTW: for noobs, this shit is rocket science ;)
/r/askMRP14/03/17 01:58 PM
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It can help break a stare. But I've only done it walking by other women. When they're looking at you, and they linger, that's my queue to give a wink. They either look down and blush or smile at you. I love how they put their hand to their lip in either scenario. I fucking melt. I've had it happen, where one got weirded out and another went robot on me. It was actually kinda funny. It made me smile like I just clued into an old joke. That's when they blink at you incredulously. Ha!
/r/askTRP08/03/17 07:47 PM
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Do it! My first breakthrough was in the livingroom. We only fuck in the bedroom. So after weeks of reading MRP I sat there thinking about it, while we watched TV. I was shaking inside. Then something happened. I said "fuck it" and took my clothes off right then and there. She just looked at me stunned. I nodded. And she shook her head in disbelief. "you've got balls" she said. I STFU, cause I was already outside my safe zone. I used to cringe when she would go on the rag. Now I enjoy that it's B…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/17 09:36 PM
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Same reason why women have orbiters. Validation. That and he has something to fall back on when the season goes dry.
/r/askTRP03/03/17 02:46 PM
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Dude. I understand what you're saying. Thank you.
/r/askTRP03/03/17 12:42 AM
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At the very least, you know he might dip into your peanut butter jar.
/r/askTRP02/03/17 07:48 PM
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Tapout. Ha! That one got me. I'm guessing I'm in that whole 'Why so serious' meme. I'll aim for that more cocky than sullen persona.
/r/askMRP02/03/17 05:02 PM
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When I reach an impasse, and STFU has been exhausted, I revert to the classics... (.)(.) Be stupid and fun. Gets em everytime.
/r/askMRP02/03/17 04:28 PM
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Your buddy is an opportunistic Ferengi. There is no profit investing in either of them.
/r/askTRP02/03/17 03:55 PM
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Baby steps. Take a stand on something small. Taste the sweet blood of victory. Then add @2.5lb plate to your efforts and repeat.
/r/askTRP02/03/17 02:44 PM
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Yeah. Her interests should be as important to you, as yours were to her. She lied.
/r/askTRP02/03/17 02:32 PM
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/r/deadbedrooms. I was desperate to try anything. One suggestion was to impose a sex moratorium. It was very empowering. She was furious that I would make such a decision without including her. It didn't make sense. We were barely fucking anyway. That's when I realized it was a power struggle rather than a Disney fairy tail. I held firm for a month. She tempted me at every turn, and was so feminine it broke my heart. Then once we were 'making love' again, the old pattern returned and the sex eva…
/r/askTRP02/03/17 01:47 PM
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Alpha Widowed, plus he's stringing her along.
/r/askTRP27/02/17 03:25 PM
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It goes from small little things to the big stuffs. An old buddy of mine, whom I was finding myself distancing from at the time, offered to do a movie. It was my birthday that week or something and he pushed for us to get together. I remember that there was a movie at the time, that he knew I was wanting to see big-time but once we got to the theatre, he began to backpedal. I realized the pattern then and there, and figured out why I was so reluctant to chill with this dude lately. So I decided …
/r/askMRP24/02/17 07:26 PM
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She stepped through a boundary OP had clearly voiced. She must be given a consequence to that action, else OP signals he's spineless weaksauce and is game for some future cucking.
/r/askTRP24/02/17 03:41 PM
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Agreed. Hang with girls because OP needs abundance mentality, not to make her jealouse. She knows she crossed the line, that's why she chased on the phone. She's of low quality.
/r/askTRP24/02/17 03:36 PM
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Trust your gut. But let's say she isn't fucking around. At the very least, she's not supporting your interests or concerns. Either way... Fuck her. You aren't as important to her as you had hoped. You need to reallocate your energy into yourself, your kids and all that falls in between. She'll either adjust to the change and submit to you, or you can distance yourself further and further from her. There's a move I use to measure people. Call it an ante, like in poker. I place a set of options on…
/r/askMRP24/02/17 03:16 PM
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It worked, but the tactic is not sound. I would suggest that you avoid negotiations. It reduces the exchange and makes your wife your prostitute and makes you her John. You want her to be your own personal whore. I think this event helped break the ice. Now make it into something you lead/guide her towards. It's more organic that way.
/r/askMRP24/02/17 02:54 PM
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There's an expression: once you lift, forever shall you be small. I'd say, that once you remove that BP veil and see your true potential, you'll forever strive to do more and become more.
/r/askTRP23/02/17 01:58 AM
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Don't apologize, but rather own it. Admit to dropping the ball, but do it with integrity and leadership. Offer suggestion/solution. Treat it as though you were a politician.
/r/askMRP17/02/17 04:04 PM
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Go for a daily 30min walk outside. After a week, up it into an hour, or just a quick jog. Start small. Little by little, build it up and/or add other things.
/r/askTRP11/02/17 02:18 PM
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This is the answer you have been filtering for. All the other comments were harsh and difficult for you to read but this resonates with your current mindset in RP. Then you say "waiting for the right moment"?!? I was with you on all this shit from the get go, until you decided to sit on your ass. Strike while the iron is hot! Don't wait for her, that is not assertive nor is it masculine.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/02/17 02:35 PM
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When I am overloaded at the gym, and the weight is too much, I've had to call out for help. You should do the same. Goals are important. Once I had reached a weight level I had worked towards for months, I went slack and it all came back. Find a small goal to work towards, it will give you purpose and distract from the ills that surround you. But keep adding more as you go along and push the post markers as you achieve them. A big Boulder you want to move is always hardest to get started from a …
/r/askTRP10/02/17 01:01 PM
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Standard shit tests.
/r/askTRP09/02/17 07:04 PM
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Although it is a relative scope, banging low hanging fruit may prove therapeutic and necessary for a man to break through an RP plateau. Take heed however. You don't wanna turn into that rough looking character I saw at the busstop this morning, scrounging the grounds for half descent discarded cigarettes. Sure it's cheap and easy, but it ain't good for your self esteem, and those dirty buts could give you hepatitis! Edit: tweaked the humour.
/r/askTRP06/02/17 07:40 PM
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Woah. That was an incredible read. By the book play...
/r/askTRP31/01/17 01:25 PM
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Haha! That is a mind fuck. OP! Please follow up.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 01:06 PM
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To quit smoking, make sure there are no cigarettes in the house.
/r/askTRP25/01/17 04:55 PM
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Think in terms of addiction. The chemicals that flowed through your spine when you were with her, have been cut off. An alcoholic, hurting for that drink. Time. Get active. TRP are your sponsors.
/r/askTRP23/01/17 04:50 PM
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Explain it to her. Not in words, but through action. You don't like something, then you remove yourself from it.
/r/askMRP19/01/17 07:51 PM
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Yup. This is new territory for me. I'm going full retard when it comes to compliments. I'm wondering if I'll just get used to it and roll with it all better over time... Shrug
/r/askTRP19/01/17 02:22 PM
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Your radar is stronger than ours lady. If there's doubt, there is no doubt.
/r/askMRP14/01/17 04:30 PM
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Alcoholics get sponsors to help support them through tough times. That's what we're here for. We're just a little more heavy handed with the language. You've got the right angle, when you say chemical addiction to this girl. Now block every venue, so you can't be tempted. I mean, a smoker trying to quit, should not have any cigarettes in the house.
/r/askTRP11/01/17 02:02 PM
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Who's your daddy?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/17 03:17 PM
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Brilliant
/r/askMRP09/01/17 08:48 PM
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If you had many options(abundance mentality), then you wouldn't be compromising yourself this way over one woman. But maybe that's the appeal? Perhaps this is what gets your motor going. That's cool. I'm not being Judgy. Hell, maybe nothing bad ever comes of it. Looking at this tactically, or from a strategic perspective however, not the best play.
/r/askTRP09/01/17 08:17 PM
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Great post! The step toward abundance mentality was a big one for me. This was the stage that promoted me to 'no longer noob' status. I'd get so stuck and flustered by an argument or impasse with the wife, that the best I could do was STFU and sit in a parking lot for a few hours. It was the "I'll show her" mindset. That got boring pretty fast. Started doing other things instead of "parking lot wound licking", and started to find fun things to do. This was the key moment. I was doing things for …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/17 07:41 PM
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If the beta man was not a friend then I'd go with #2. I would consider it a social experiment.
/r/askTRP30/12/16 05:52 PM
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He should get a paternity test kit.
/r/askTRP30/12/16 05:50 PM
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"awkward for everyone there" That is the feeling of disgust a woman has for her beta when she's looking to branch swing. Taste it, and understand how a woman works. Vicarious lesson my friend.
/r/askTRP30/12/16 05:48 PM
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She doesn't believe you can pull in another woman. Either way, up your SMV and lift.
/r/askMRP21/12/16 03:00 PM
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Something doesn't seem right. You are making all these decisions without taking all the early steps. He'll, your afraid to even push for her to be a SAHM. At the very least, you haven't discussed the idea with her yet. Why are you waiting? You make the final call, but if she ain't involved, she's gonna resent you. Your playbook falls short on inspiring others to trust and follow you. I think patience is key here. Sure, you can't change her, only yourself. But do you lead. Leading by example is o…
/r/askMRP21/12/16 02:45 PM
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GHOST! Block everything and anything.
/r/askTRP21/12/16 01:57 PM
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I've read that when masturbating, the body somehow knows and released shitty sperm, while during sex with a real woman, there male releases all the good stuff. Probably broscience, but I remember reading it in the manosphere somewhere.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/16 07:38 PM
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That's better. Shoulda used that.
/r/askMRP08/12/16 08:13 PM
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This!
/r/askMRP08/12/16 04:58 PM
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I up-voted cause I agree with the sentiment. But I would say he is free to change his decision. Maybe he couldn't squat 315lbs at the time, but now he can. The weight is the same, it's simply his capacity to lift it that has changed. If he can stick with her and it works for him, then great. But if he decides it's better to split up, then he should do so. By stregth out weakness, he gave it a go.
/r/askMRP08/12/16 04:56 PM
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I'm looking at this vicariously. I don't know which way I'd go. It's hard either way. With regards to the kids, I'd do what I felt was the best example for them. It helps guide them, if ever they're in that situation. It also helps me take a step back, and get my head outta my own ass. Just like those 80s cop movies, where the lieutenant pulls the cop off the case cause his partner was killed and can't think our see straight. "Your too close to this thing Murphy, I'm putting you in a desk until …
/r/askMRP08/12/16 04:04 PM
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Texting sucks, 'cause you lose tone and context in the words. In this case, your words are loud and clear. You are not happy. You are trying to get others to help you take a direction you have been unable to take so far. Maybe you seek permission? I dunno. But you don't feel good inside. Your soul is bleeding out, everyday that you are with her. Is it easier to just keep things as they are? Do you need to do like women and find a branch to swing to before leaving her? It's hard to go solo, but i…
/r/askMRP08/12/16 03:47 PM
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This is the best comment here.
/r/askMRP08/12/16 03:35 PM
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Red flag. If it's legit and she reported it, then you can measure it at face value. Now decide if you can invest in her further. If this is not completely honest, then you have to play it safe. Did she regret fucking the bartender, and rationalized it as rape? Is it fabricated entirely (there was no bartender) to get a read on you or manipulate you? Are you in danger of becoming her next bartender? This was a warning. Heed it.
/r/askTRP01/12/16 02:14 PM
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Of course it has an impact on you. Every time you dump a load, you are releasing the very material that differentiates you from women.
/r/askTRP30/11/16 05:25 PM
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Major tell here! She misspoke and let the cat outta the bag.
/r/askTRP30/11/16 01:08 PM
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This is no different than cold approach. Consider that there is a process. Start off by shooting the shit with other dudes. They are more receptive and it gets you warned up. Baby steps. Work your way up to women. Practice during the day.
/r/askTRP30/11/16 12:17 AM
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Brilliant!
/r/askTRP28/11/16 05:53 PM
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I respect OP's difficult decision. He offered no ultimatums. He was not controlling her. She demonstrated low value. He's free to find and invest in something better.
/r/askTRP26/11/16 05:03 PM
1

My position on this is to lead by example. You can't make anyone do anything. She either comes with you, or she is left behind. Having said that, encourage her in more direct ways. Invite her on physical activities. Think of the first time you hit the gym. Intimidated. Or consider those times you didn't feel like going. You knew by going, you'd get into it. The same is true for her. You want a hot wife. Then guide her there with action not words and with patience. If there is still no movement o…
/r/askMRP17/11/16 06:24 PM
3

/r/keto /r/ketogains ;)
/r/askTRP17/11/16 05:02 PM
18

I would cut my losses. Sure, it's nice to think you can just grab her by the pussy while chasing strange on the side, but I fear you're too emotionally attached and lack the detachment and skill to play this game with her. She was never yours. Your turn is now over. Move along... Move along...
/r/askTRP17/11/16 02:06 PM
1

I had a flicker of aggression rush down my spine at first. I was about to react, then realized that I was at a disadvantage and put my ego in check. I went into STFU mode, cause it's my rookie fail safe mode. I might have more wiggle room next time, and try something else.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/16 12:54 PM
2

I had to look it up. The definition pinched. Ouch. Maybe it's the words I used, or the structure, but I guess it does come off a bit cardboard. I was disappointed with how I handled the drunk chick. But I froze at the situation and just held back in every way. I did go home and have fun with the wife, but she was half asleep so no crazy visuals on that move.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/11/16 09:56 PM
42

Telling her is selfish. It isn't to make her feel better, it's to soften your own feelz and guilt.
/r/askTRP01/10/16 10:02 PM
1

Last paragraph is TRUTH! I nearly shit myself, it's so spot on.
/r/askMRP31/08/16 07:03 PM
1

Genetic viability sits at about 36 years old for women. That's my personal limit. Complications start to arise like Down Syndrom. As a woman's eggs age there's a hightened risk of chromosomes dividing incorrectly.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/16 01:37 PM
11

You can do whatever you want. There's no right or wrong. At the same time, there are smart moves and not so smart moves. There's lazy lifting and there's heavy as fuck lifting. For some it's all about getting pussy, for others it's about growing and pussy being the bonus. But hey, you do you.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/16 02:01 PM
4

Add some sweet, gentle, passive dread game. She controls sex, you control your time with her. You can't force her to do your bidding, any more than she can force you to spend time on her. Each gender holds a currency, that is exchanged for the other. She is hesitating to allow you to cum on her face. You should hesitate to commit so much of your time. Do not voice this with words. Demonstrate this through actions (or lack thereof). Then again, would she hesitate to allow Brad Pitt to cum on her …
/r/askTRP07/07/16 02:29 PM
1

https://youtu.be/olnLcJ0l46w
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/16 07:10 PM
1

Rest. This is an area that I struggle with as well. Lack of sleep contributes to obesity. Think of it this way, you arn't getting swolled while lifting heavy weight. You grow muscle as you rest the body and it heals.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/16 07:05 PM
5

Get your shit out slowly, based on priority of value. If she clues in and SHTF, then cut your losses and ghost. She no longer exists. She's just a hologram. Do what you must to get your shit and then dissapear. Put all her shit in a box and drop it off when she's out as a closing goodbye. Wipe your hands clean. And don't keep any trophies. That shit is weak and fucks with your mind as you try to heal.
/r/askTRP30/06/16 04:13 PM
1

Ha!
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/16 06:47 PM
1

/u/dongpal is right. He is expressing it to you in a masculine way. His 'advice' is for you to change your attitude. You should be doing this for you, not for others.
/r/askTRP23/06/16 01:48 PM
-2

This triggered a memory. I was biking toward an intersection and a truck cut me off. It was dangerouse and unwarranted. So I cut around the next intersection and blocked his way, to confront him. This was stupid. I lost my cool. I was confrontational. There was nothing to gain. But anyway, I realized half way through the shouting match, that he was backing down. I was 'winning'. Whatever that means. Then I could see his hand shaking. He was scared as fuck. I felt bad. Realized I had won, so I so…
/r/askTRP23/06/16 01:05 PM
1

She is a resource to be sure, and it's important for me to include her on matters that affect the entire tribe. There's no doubt however, that the final decision is mine. Thanks /u/TheFamilyAlpha
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/16 02:06 PM
1

Thanks. You and /u/UEMcGill have triggered some thoughts on this. I've got some thinking to do.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/16 02:01 PM
1

Thanks for that. I'm slowly internalizing this, and very guarded about my habit of seeking validation from others.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/16 01:59 PM
1

Shit. You know what. You're right! Honestly, your question got me thinking. So I took another look at all this. Biking would be further, i'd simply have to get up earlier. Gym is still there, worst case scenario, I'd simply have to incorporate the lifting into my evenings rather than at lunch. Change is intimidating. I've grown comfortable in my routine. I even realized my skewed read on the wage increase. The solid ammount is really just over 4Grand not the 2 I was telling myself. I'm turned of…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/16 01:55 PM
2

I dunno man. I get what you're saying, but the timing is suspect and makes the dude look reactionary, butt hurt. Maybe over time, start playing this card. But even then, this would mean she went on the date and he's a cuck anyhow. :/
/r/askTRP16/06/16 06:56 PM
3

This, right here! It's Innapropriate. Disrespectful. You know it, she knows it. Otherwise, why even ask? If it was a girlfriend she was going with, nothing would be said, or it would be mentioned as a happenstance, not a question for "permission". This is a big compromise. Yours.
/r/askTRP16/06/16 06:48 PM
8

You can't change her. You can only change you. And you have decided to grow. If she comes with you, then great. If not, you will continue without her. Having said that, it takes time. Give her a chance. She's been following a faggot for a long time. You can't just flip the script and expect her to jump in without some hesitation. Take your time. If you don't figure this out with her now, you'll fuck up the next LTR again and again. Read up on anger phase. I went through a period where I resented…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/16 04:48 PM
3

This one made me burst out laughing. Thank you.
/r/askTRP16/06/16 12:42 AM
6

First. You don't ask for divorce. You simply choose to divorce your wife or you choose not to. Sounds nitpicky, but there is a world of difference between the two. You are worried about what everyone else will think. Fuck them. Doesn't enter into it. You need to figure out why this marriage isn't working for you, or you are dooomed to repeat it with the next LTR woman. It takes time to unplug. 1 month for every year you've been together. Look, maybe you just need to find out what you want before…
/r/askMRP16/06/16 12:19 AM
1

I like your gruff son.
/r/askMRP11/06/16 03:42 PM
1

"Why do you think life with a woman is going to be free of conflict?" This is a good point. I certainly don't think that, but on a deeper level, it seems to be my subconscious concern. Like I'm doing what i can to make everything happy and smooth sailing. But it ain't a healthy RP mind set. This is an aspect for me to visit and mediate on.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/16 03:52 AM
1

This seems to be where I'm stuck. I can pull back and withdraw and all that level one shit real easy. But I can't seem to let that initial butt hurt moment flow through me and spit back some AA/AM stuff. I just lock up and play the 2 dimensional tough guy routine. Look, I'm clever and smart ass and Cocky out there. I have no doubts when it comes to everything/everyone else. but with her... I trip up. It ain't a natural flow. I'm a try hard tool, instead of just being me. I'm working on it. I'll …
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/16 03:45 AM
2

I make fun use of words in my everyday speech. Nothing obtuse or too unorthodox. For example, a friend might ask what i think of the new kitchen paint job. I'll suggest it's a 'healthy' color. What i find funny and use as a measure stick, is when those same people adopt and use those same words and language with others afterward. ;)
/r/TheRedPill25/05/16 07:29 PM
2

If I were to quit smoking, the first thing I would do is remove all cigarettes from my house.
/r/askTRP25/05/16 07:05 PM
3

Humility hurts. I'm glad I came here for guidance, cause evidently I've been getting a little cocky lately. I'm having to reassess how healthy my behavior has been towards others these days. I'm looking better than ever before and feeling great, and I'm pretty high on myself. Guess I'm just choking on my self infatuation. I'm realizing I'm not so shit hot afterall. Time to recalibrate. I've got some reading though, thanks to the advice and direction that's been offered by everyone here. I'll wor…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/16 07:21 PM
1

I'm hearing this from everybody here. This is s new angle for me. I'm going to read up on this starting with your link. Thanks man.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/16 07:11 PM
1

This is good info and new direction for me. I'm going to read more on this and shift my mindset.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/16 07:09 PM
1

This is a new piece of info for me. I'm going to delve into this and wrap my brain around the idea.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/16 07:08 PM
2

Harsh. This is not askMRP, so I was bracing myself for that sting. Thanks for taking the time and saying it. I'm hearing about level2/level3 now. Obligation vs Want. I'm using dread tactics and using manipulation to steer her toward what i want. My focus is still on her, instead of on myself. Things are better, but I'm still stuck in my head. I'll read up more on this latest revelation, thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/16 05:30 PM
1

The replies here have introduced me to level2/level3 subject. I'm stuck between the two. I'm going to have to read on this matter. Want vs Obligation
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/16 05:25 PM
1

Alpha widowed?
/r/askTRP20/05/16 02:20 AM
1

Sorry for laughing, but that rang so true for me. The trick is to get past that first month. You're dealing with a lot of different things. To say you're simply leaving your dick alone, understates it all. What I've noticed, now that I have better control of myself, is that although I can indulge in some fapping from time to time, it's only on these occasions that I find myself stuck fantasizing about each woman that crosses my path. And I'll tell you, blue balls have hit me so hard, it's like m…
/r/askTRP19/05/16 02:02 PM
1

Porn had desensitized me. While fucking my wife, it would be a chore to keep at it. I'd have a hard time getting off while she gave me BJs. That last one really bugged me. Now, because I'm free, BJs are insane. She does stuff that hits me in ways that porn never did. New sensations that startle even me. I'm more vocal and responsive too, which triggers her and gets her more into it, which only spirals in to crazier fun. I'll still pull my pin from time to time, but it is in moderation. And even …
/r/askTRP19/05/16 01:43 PM
1

That was a fun flashback exercise. Thanks man.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/16 11:52 AM
3

The reminder startled me. I was halfway through my own post, rereading it, before I clued in and was reminded by a flashback. I don't know if I can say I've moved on. My attitude has certainly changed. The focus of the original incident was on her. I wanted to be tough guy for my woman. Didn't wanna be seen as weak by her. Was afraid of how she might feel, react or repell from me. Now, it seems I'm more concerned about understanding my injuries. If I've tweaked my arm on a standing gorilla press…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/16 04:46 AM
1

I was just noticing this last week. I was startled at how calm and clear minded I was during a BJ. On mother's day to boot! I was just enjoying it, then started directing her and letting her do her thing. It was all very natural and organic. I put my hands behind me and asked her to choke on it and goop and all that crazy shit and she did it all. It was awesome. It didn't take long either. Not that it was premature or anything. I simply didn't have to make any effort to hurry or force my orgasm.…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/16 06:58 PM
6

I blew it on my 17th birthday. To this day I don't know how. But I did. Man was that a kick in the teeth. But I doubled my efforts, and passed on the second run 3 months later. I feel I did poorly on second and was near perfect on first. Shrug. That's the way it goes. Chin up. Keep at it!
/r/askTRP16/05/16 06:57 PM
4

Brutal is in how you're already being treated. But she's sweet and loves you right? Fuck that! Invest in you. Don't do it for dread, do it so you can see and understand your value. Then you'll see how fucking brutal she is being with you. Dread, at that point, will be the natural byproduct on her part.
/r/askTRP14/05/16 11:04 PM
3

FFS. Just tear off the bandaid. She's a cigarette. Cold turkey my man. I know. It's easier said than done, but fuck man. Quit that shit. Otherwise you'll keep rationalizing and making yourself sick. J-just one more hit then i can quit. I can handle it. Ghost and move on.
/r/askTRP14/05/16 10:59 PM
1

Hi5! You already knew the answer. What is awesome is that you came here and were receptive to that truth when you got shit on by everyone. It is a daily struggle but you are awake. Thank you. This whole post was helpful for me.
/r/askTRP11/05/16 02:53 PM
1

Ground 0. Do not demonstrate butt-hurt. This is tricky. I shut down. I switch over to robot mode, which is not subtle. But cold and detached is better than emotional and demonstrative. I am dissapointed. That is the look I give her. Curl the brow, like The Rock smells breakfast or something. Edge it with an air of 'bitch is crazy' to it. Ghost. Make myself sparse. I'm more active than ever these days. So with what little time i have available, she now has even less. It might take a day for her t…
/r/askTRP13/04/16 06:57 PM
2

Whatever floats your boat. I'm not sexualy attracted to men. I can tell when a man is attractive, but it does not get my motor going. If your gay or bi, then do whatever works for you. I love the idea of a challenge. If some chick rolls over for me, fucks me, then great. But if there's is resistance. If there is a challenge, it intensifies the gatification. Earned reward/victory is sweeter. Lessen that, and you move toward masturbatuon with a dynamic robot fleshlight.
/r/askTRP04/04/16 01:51 PM
1

She is hungry for validation. It's like crack to this one. It's disrespectful toward your LTR. Your behavior is tantamount to helping her sit on Chad's Cock, so she doesn't slip as she mounts on top. You are not aware of the basics of RP truths yet. Read up on validation. It'll help you understand why she's already cucking you.
/r/askTRP30/03/16 07:31 PM
6

STFU. You cannot win a verbal argument. Nor text for that matter. Don't feel bad. Your only just learning to walk. Good on you for trying. Now learn to STFU, and read the sidebar.
/r/askMRP30/03/16 03:53 PM
1

Ha! Too True. I'm huge and Cocky, after the gym. I feel like a million bucks too. No coming down from that high. On the other hand, when she drains my balls, I slump into a pile of mush.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/03/16 12:52 PM
1

Oh man. This is perfect juxtaposition.
/r/askMRP27/03/16 11:33 PM
3

I like this answer. I guess a part of me forgot that women are capable of empathy.
/r/askMRP27/03/16 07:10 PM
1

"You know why your wife didn't bitch? Because your response was authentic so there was no bullshit to call out." This is solid. I'm holding on to this little nugget.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/16 03:11 PM
4

You're thinking too hard. Keep exposing yourself to these kinds of interactions and you will get better. It will begin to flow out of you more naturally. You're thinking too much bro. But that's ok. Practice practice practice. Think of running up the stairs. If you look down and think each step, you're gonna stumble. So don't try too hard or focus too closely.
/r/askTRP18/03/16 02:47 AM
3

You cannot unsee dude. Even in the most intimate moment, the ghost of Christmas past will be there, in her eyes. It is a toxic poison that will slowly hollow you out. You may be able to swallow it. Like snake venome, you will grow a resistance. But the spirit of that toxin is poisoning your kids. They are growing up in the atmosphere and environment you create for them. Ask yourself what you would want your son to choose, if he were faced with this as an adult. Then lead by example.
/r/askMRP17/03/16 05:45 PM
8

For me, it borders on metaphysics. I only say that because I was raised Catholic and was programed to constantly sacrifice of myself for the good of others. My parents are loving and nurturing, but I was indirectly taught that focusing on my needs was selfish. Fast forward to my wife, while we were dating. We went to a therapist cause we had problems. He asked me how I was able to nurture myself. I didn't understand. I would blink and suggest a treat to celebrate a promotion or something superfi…
/r/askTRP16/03/16 04:09 AM
4

It took me years to understand to self nurture. This is the ticket.
/r/askTRP16/03/16 03:28 AM
3

Yeah. If my kid knew, and held his breath, I'd be devastated. It reflects not only on his character, but that I also sucked at raising my boy. Perhaps OP takes after the mother?
/r/TheRedPill13/03/16 03:54 PM
18

When RP helped me understand that in the end, we all die alone.
/r/askTRP11/03/16 03:18 AM
2

Yes. Even negative attention is attention.
/r/askTRP09/03/16 01:03 AM
1

This compounds it. To explain yourself is to accuse yourself.
/r/askTRP04/03/16 02:40 PM
1

I fooled around with a handful, never quite going all the way. I was torn between my convictions (religious programming) and fear of being a looser(TV programming). Then one day, I met someone who blew my mind. She was more than some walking cardboard cutout. Fell hard for her and it happened.
/r/askTRP03/03/16 05:43 PM
67

I love the update of wife response. She says she has nothing. Needs it. Was with him thorought his medical journey. Then says it's the judge making the call. Not her. She's talking outta both sides of her mouth.
/r/MensRights01/03/16 05:08 PM
5

Do it. Post it. It'll be therapeutic for you and help men in similar situations connect. Do it.
/r/askTRP01/03/16 04:59 PM
9

Feels like your shouting into a mirror. But that's okay. You need to vent and get it out. First off. That was not a quick question. I'm being flippant, but also setting the mood. You said too much. You negotiated with her. You explained yourself and had a discussion. It's hard to STFU. I still trip on this at times. But take solace in knowing that I see the awakening in your words. You are alive inside and you are trying to put your foot down. It's been this shitty relationship for a long time, …
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/16 04:05 AM
1

That is an interesting angle. How women perceive orbiting betas and how it disgusts them.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/02/16 06:30 AM
1

I'll keep this in mind. I wanted to give her something, without indulging. But you're right. It can't come from me.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/02/16 06:01 AM
2

Thanks Professor! High praise coming from a proven warrior. I wanted to share my field report to demonstrate the act of puting all this reading and theory into practice. Oh it was hard at first, I was quite nervous and scared at times. But I pushed through and each interaction triggered more and more fun. It snowballed.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/16 07:03 PM
3

I may not be welcome here, but I love that RPW Contribute to men's forums. A man can only suffer an amount of abuse he is willing to allow. You are not of the hook, but it takes two to tangle. Please delete if my contribution is unwarranted.
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/16 05:23 AM
1

Ghost her. Good for you.
/r/askTRP22/02/16 11:10 PM
1

Very humbling. I appreciate the appropriate wall of text. You sound like you have a good spririt. I'll have to angle it the way you suggest. Young love and adolescent fun. My humor and wit is certainly juvenile. I'll make some adventures match that sentiment. Thanks for the reassurance. I'll give your angle a go.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/02/16 06:30 AM
1

Yup! My mistake was trying to hide my pain. No need to declare it, but at least own it when she asked. Take a leadership role and delegate my needs while I recover.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/16 05:32 PM
2

This comment hits me. Well said.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/16 05:29 PM
1

Please help me with the second example. I want to fully understand the distinctions.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/16 02:47 PM
2

Very true. I need to learn to take care of myself. Self nurture. If I'm offline, then the whole tribe is at risk.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/16 02:39 PM
0

I was lying to myself. Pushing through the pain. When I finally conceded, that's when she bit into me. I was being a little tongue in cheek about the bro-comfort, but the principle holds true. Is my wife any good? Sure, she's great. A real fucking snowflake(sarcasm). She's also a woman. AWALT. Something I'm learning to understand everyday. To expect her to support me as I do her is shortsighted. Sure, I'll hold her hair back while she pukes her guts out. I'm that kinda guy. But I can't imagine t…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/16 02:35 PM
1

Wow. Great article. I particularly enjoyed the final closing paragraph. This is all theory I'd read before, but experiencing it in person helps digest the information fully. Very relevant link. Great review material. Refreshing.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/16 01:26 PM
1

I didn't want to admit injury. To her or myself. That was weak of me. Losing frame was also weak. I fell into her frame, no doubt. Her reaction shows that I'm not as far as I thought I was. That is as hard to swallow as the realization that I aggravated a muscle, and need to take a few days to rest. :/
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/16 12:41 PM
1

Part of me didn't want to give in to the word injury. Was lying to myself more than anything. I've been pushing hard now that noob gains are kicking in at the gym. Just leaned about overtraining two weeks ago. Call me hard headed. Just don't want to give in. Male Hamster? Basically she poked until I trickle truthed her (&myself) that i was uncomfortable. Truth is, if I was further ahead with redpill than I am, she wouldn't have spilled over the way she did and I wouldn't have lost frame.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/16 12:37 PM
1

She helped me understand something I thought I already knew.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/16 12:32 PM
3

If you were a fat neckbeard with no value, they would use the word creepy. People will shit test you. See 'Crabs in buckets'. Especially people who have known you in the more bluepill days. It's hard for them to change their world view. They have to reclassify you. That is work for them. You cause them dissonance. This was a positive thing. Hey, people are noticing a change. That's is good. Remember not to fall into other's frame. And don't chase for their aproval/validation. Stay the course. Ed…
/r/askTRP13/02/16 06:30 PM
2

If you're well groomed and swolled from lifting, you will not be threatening. You will be attractive. If you're a fat greasy haired neckbeard with shitty clothes and that same resting face would be seen as creepy. Society is shallow. Keep a high SMV.
/r/askTRP12/02/16 01:32 PM
11

Crabs in buckets. Abundance mentality with everything in life. Women, friends, career. If you're scared to lose your friends, you will sensor yourself and play nice all the time. You will be in their frame. Same with women. If you know you can ghost an abusive girl, cause you're huge from lifting, then you wouldn't tolerate her shit. If you have a good education and experience, you won't settle for the job that makes you work crazy hours with a boss that makes you work weekends cause you can fin…
/r/askTRP12/02/16 01:24 PM
1

Amen brother! Also, from my MRP perspective, I want to catch and release. I'm not looking to score, just practice and keep my game up for the little woman at home. I could offer women a fake number, but that feels backseatish. I want to hunt and gather.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 05:08 PM
0

/r/ketogains
/r/askTRP09/02/16 11:12 PM
8

Do it. But only if the primary reason is for personal gain/growth. Doing it for dread means that she's the center of your universe. Dread is secondary, indirect result of you being awesome. You are so busy with responsibility, hobbies and personal growth that you hold high SMV. Your time is precious. Maybe you can fit her into your schedule if she works hard to be a part of it. You've got the right idea here. Don't get me wrong. But the principal is not quite fully internalized. Get out of the h…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/16 02:44 PM
1

Thanks. I grew up Catholic, so I'm programed to denigrate myself. Lol. In going in the right direction. I'll start working on my confidence muscle.
/r/askMRP02/02/16 08:21 PM
1

This! My entry reads like a confessional. Cringe worthy. I just got back from lifting during lunch hour. I feel much better. I'm already planning a run this evening, and some buddies just invited me out to their superbowl Party. Idle hands are tools of the devil. I'll learn from my mistake.
/r/askMRP02/02/16 07:10 PM
1

I discovered the term 'overtraining' on Thursday. I've been going so hard at full tilt, that I started to crash this last week. Elevated heartrate, anxiety, restlessness, physical and emotional exhaustion. I didn't understand. I just pushed through the pain, if you will. I read about it on r/ketogains and learned something new. Now I'm not using that as an excuse for losing my shit. u/stonepimpleitis is right. I need to reevaluate my MAP. But your point is on course. I should be adding meditatio…
/r/askMRP02/02/16 03:06 PM
2

I was hoping for quick feedback, then braced myself when I saw who had replied. Yup. What you are saying is on point. This is a good exercise for me. I need to revisit ands keep refining my MAP. I've changed over the past year and I should be making sure my path is still relevant. I think what I get most out of your reply, is that I still have a sensitive ego. I still can't quite see the Forrest from the trees. That is to say, I'm expecting her validation. Sure, I'm learning to lift and grow for…
/r/askMRP02/02/16 02:54 PM
7

If you had abundance mentality, this wouldn't even phase you. Time to put energy into yourself. It will distract you from the oneitis you have for her. Take us out of orbit Mr. Sulu.
/r/askTRP30/01/16 03:43 PM
1

I was being funny. Sounds like you have the answer to your own question, burning a hole in this forum, the size of a keyboard. I think you're pretty safe.
/r/askTRP24/01/16 06:56 AM
2

Let this be a lesson to you chuck. Or as your mother calls you... Charles. I like the red mailbox on your front door at 234 Fairmont ave. With all those houses looking the same, I bet it helps you find it quicker, on you walk home from the office of J&J Hardware at 4:30 every evening. Google anything man. It's all there.
/r/askTRP24/01/16 06:48 AM
12

Yes. Thanks. If anything, this event has helped me further internalize and accept red pill theory. I shall use it as a lesson and grow stronger from it.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/16 03:07 PM
10

Lift. Even if only for a short time. Then you will have your answer. I didn't lift fir 8 months after taking the pill. I rationalized that biking and running was good enough. Now after lifting for only 2 months, i understand its importance. Lift you son of a bitch. Lift! LIFT!!!!
/r/askTRP17/01/16 03:31 AM
4

Your actions act as a manual for your kids to learn from in the game of life. This scenario for me would be an excellent opertunity to demonstrate to my kids, what healthy behavior is and what consequences are. This simplifies it for me. I hope it does for you too.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/16 03:27 AM
11

Swallowed the pill 13 months ago. Only started lifting Decrmber 1, 2015. I had decided that biking to work, mindful diet and running every other day would be an equivalent. No doubt, it all helped, but NOW at six weeks of lifting, I understand the importance of lifting. There's just no way around it. It's imperative. Since beginning weight training: I want to sleep at a proper time. I wake up with a hard-on every morning. I feel a hunger to Fuck my wife. Not a need or obligation or want. It's a …
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/16 02:38 PM
2

It's a disconnect. The faded ability to fully bond. They've associated the wholesome feeling of emotional connection, with that of hollow gratification. Like assburgers. Can't quite look you in the eye when talking. But 1000 stare is a learned disconnect. Call it stupid. But it's there. You'll know it when you see it. Just like that time you ordered that bigmac at McDonald's from the special kid at the cash.
/r/askTRP12/01/16 08:36 PM
1

Ghost.
/r/askTRP12/01/16 08:30 PM
1

There is a lot about this in previous posts. You will have to dig, but it's there. This is shitty on her part. It disrespects you. But you can't show butt hurt. You'll have to take your time with this. I'm sure she would not like it if you went out on a date with another woman. Boudaries.
/r/askMRP11/01/16 08:09 PM
1

Terrible
/r/askMRP11/01/16 07:52 PM
3

Ha! Nice answer. It was six months before i started to lift. I was able to rationalize it by running every other day and biking to work. Now run, bike and lift. But it's the lifting that was the game changer.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/16 04:51 PM
3

Don't beat yourself up. But it's s good sign that you are open to everyone and that you're owning your shit. What you did was on the right track. But as stated earlier, doit in baby steps. 12 steps of dread really help with a timeline. Give it some time and you'll get a vibe on things. Hell it was two months in before I started to belive this shit was legit. Then the one year mark before I could identify real changes. That was just last month! Keep reading!
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/16 04:44 PM
1

I've learned the opposite. I am very loud and impassioned. I don't lose my cool because I allow myself to be fully expressive. My wife used to tell me to tone it down. I'd get overzealous or excited and she'd 'correct' me. I used to embarrass my sister as kids, and she'd use the same technique, to quell my violent masculinity. Problem, is that you're bottling that shit up. You're apologetic and uncertain. Now that I like being robust and masculine, I allow myself a good belly laugh that brings a…
/r/askTRP08/01/16 01:39 AM
6

Dude. Texting is only for logistics. You need to next this girl. You're too emotionally invested and you're gonna fuck up. She owns you right now. You're her silver medal. And you hold a tight orbit. Next her young man.
/r/askTRP06/01/16 08:32 PM
2

Get the fuck away from her. You're still a noob and your neck deep in the angry phase. There's no way you can plate this girl. You're too emotionally attached. Just ghost her. Lift and develop abundance mentality. She'll lose significance over time.
/r/askTRP06/01/16 03:25 PM
40

Anger phase is a beutiful thing. But you can't see it that way until you've passed through it. Hell, I slip back into it from time to time, when I grow lax or too comfortable with my SO. She'll slap me in the back of the head with an AWALT move every once in a while, but once the initial butt hurt goes away I smile to myself and thank Morpheus that I'm awake.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/15 03:10 PM
2

Fuck social media. FFS! This is a feminine platform. They use it for validation. The same way men use porn to fap. Her needing you to contribute to this validation for all to see is akin to you needing her to videotape sex with you. (Whatever floats your boat). Either way, too much fapping is not healthy. Keep it as a rolodex, to keep contact with your outer-rim "friends". But for Christ sakes, chill on the public snuggling. I wuv you pookey boo shnookums bullshit. Unless that gives you a hard o…
/r/askMRP18/12/15 02:08 PM
1

Are you in or out? There is technology to block her entirely. Hard next & Ghost.
/r/askMRP14/12/15 08:49 PM
1

Ha! Good one. Innapropriate. But funny as fuck.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/15 01:49 PM
1

Superior Male - David Dieda
/r/TheRedPill11/12/15 01:46 PM
2

This sounds like a 16 year old's diary. Not healthy in any way. A lot of energy spent being an emotional tampon with the hope of getting a piece of broken ass. It's bad enough, being a crow scavenging off highway road kill. This is a step up, dropping nuts in the road to encourage death and a meal. Go hunt for fresh active meat, or at least look around for more recently decreased carcasses...
/r/askTRP10/12/15 08:47 PM
1

Hmm... good thought. I'll do that.
/r/askTRP09/12/15 11:02 PM
1

Yeah. I sound weaksauce as shit. I'll press beyond my boundaries... and hers.
/r/askTRP09/12/15 08:40 PM
2

You're doing fine. Just hold firm and do your own thing. Be sparse. Soft dread ain't happening if your safely in the basement improving yourself. Took me almost a year before we started to stabilize. I would make great progress then stumble. It was a lot of back and forth. Still happens, but the waves aren't so pronounced. She needs to know that you can protect her from a bear or a pack of wolves. She keeps testing you cause she's not yet sure. She might suspect that all this improvement is just…
/r/askMRP04/12/15 08:47 PM
1

This pisses me off. It reeks of trolling. You need a kick in the ass. Be it from your father, the reflexion in the mirror or some stranger on the internet. Now I know my words hurt your feels, but believe me, I do care. If i didn't, I'd have typed nothing and save the energy I just spent on something else. Read the sidebar. Lurk. Read. Put some energy into yourself. Be it a walk, or meditation. Whatever. Then build on that. Self nurture. Do it brah.
/r/askTRP03/12/15 08:30 PM
1

In black and white terms. Yes. I vote for the latter.
/r/askTRP02/12/15 05:50 PM
1

It's all good, however you are playing both sides. I'd suggest you either shit or get off the pot. Plating an ex is dangerouse and too high a risk for you to relapse into BlueMode. But that's up to you. It reeks of scarcity mentality. Also, I'd have trouble respecting the reflexion in the mirror if i gave any energy to someone that burned me in the past. Ghost and next. Move forward and put energy into something new.
/r/askTRP02/12/15 04:27 PM
2

Shrug. Dunno. But even when I'm wrong, I always leave my posts. Better to have -666 downvotes than [deleted] associated to my name. Thanks for the upvote though.
/r/askTRP02/12/15 04:21 PM
1

And she'll learn to hide it better.
/r/askTRP02/12/15 04:08 AM
3

It was enough for you to stop, check her phone, scratch your head, then ask both subreddits... I like how you rationalized her actions. Men have hamsters too. You also describe her as the most attractive woman you've ever had. That should not fit into the equation at all. Shows your scared to lose your special unicorn. You have within you, generations of experience in your blood. Your instincts and your gut are shouting out red flags and you are trying to quiet them with male Hampster. Do not co…
/r/askMRP02/12/15 03:57 AM
1

You know. That's key right there. Most men can't get past ego to even consider these elements. So you are already in the 80th percentile. Now it's just a matter on how you use your liberated free will. Make sure you give us an update.
/r/askTRP01/12/15 02:29 AM
1

You still have oneitis. You lack abundance mentality. You are giving her attention/validation which makes you a blue pill whore. Sorry bro. Hard next. Move on. Put energy into anything else. Learn to self nurture.
/r/askTRP01/12/15 12:48 AM
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Move toward happiness, or don't. As free men, we really don't know the level of potential we hold in our hands. The least I can do is try. Thank you young feller!
/r/TheRedPill26/11/15 02:08 AM
8

PTSD flashes. I'm not being funny. It's a poison.
/r/askTRP26/11/15 01:48 AM
6

I figured it out after the fact. I knew it was bad, but i was so bluepill that i fell hard for her. Besides, she wad not like that anymore. Pffff. Now that I'm awake, I understand the pair bonding damage she has. I get sick to my stomach at times, for fucking myself over. You have the luxury of seeing this from a healthy mind before you get locked in. Don't blow it. You'll get no sympathy for me. Just imagine those images of her and the football team. Embrace how it twists your gut and soul. It'…
/r/askTRP26/11/15 01:43 AM
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I agree with this. Careful though. She showed you something. I know i know, AWALT. but seriously. She was running a power play instead of being strait up with you. Never forget that. This is what she is dude. Watch out for oneitis. Danger Will Robinson! Danger!
/r/askTRP26/11/15 01:27 AM
2

Baby steps. You don't plow into her ass, dry and without warning. You have to warm up to it. Use non verbal communicating. It will help you learn to STFU in normal everyday life. Acta non Verba.
/r/askTRP25/11/15 10:43 PM
1

She snooped and found out about it a year ago. Makes RP 'Hard Mode' more like 'Crushing mode'. As I become more and more IDGAF, it matters less and less. ...But yeah, I do subscribe to the first rule of fight club, she just knows what I'm up to when i come home bloodied and beat up.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/15 08:44 PM
2

I am very receptive to all the feedback I'm getting. What you have written has been very helpful. Clearly, I am not nearly as autonomous as I had thought. You invested a lot of time and energy into your response. I appreciate it. I'm taking it all in and digesting it all. I was very disappointed by her yesterday. But I realize now that I was more butt hurt than anything else because I am too dependant. AB49, you're right on the money.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/15 06:12 PM
2

Great analogy. I don't like the use of the word creepy, but I won't dismiss it. I'll admit, I need to work on validation issues.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/15 04:39 PM
1

Thank you for that. This has been a deflating post for me this morning. But it's good. I'm getting healthy input to get me back on track. Cold Shower!
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/15 04:04 PM
1

I think I understand false-humility now. It was always a weird word for me. Now I'm starting to see the shades within it. Yuk.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/15 03:59 PM
2

Wow. You're right, and that link kicked me in the teeth. Demoralized, but I'm picking up new angles to work with. Time to meditate on all this. Thank you.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/15 03:52 PM
1

My attention validates her actions. You're right.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/15 03:42 PM
6

Hmmm. Your words ring true. I don't like that. Validation is a four letter word. Reading the post again, I'm thinking you might be right. Shit, there's even a hint of 'Look at me' gloating. Fuck! I should not have told her about the junk food. Your right. I was seeking release/relief from my guilt. I should have simply run it off or made an extra effort with my pushups to absolve myself of the indulgence. Humility hurts. Thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/15 03:18 PM
2

I was going to dismiss your comment, by expressing how I agree and that this was my point, but your last point has me at a pause. I knew she was just throwing shit. I see myself as a good captain. Always moving to improve. I had a need to address it. I wanted to rub her nose is the pee stain in the carpet. I get the vibe from you that this was the wrong approach? Also, please elaborate on the ' something else going on here' comment. Thanks u/MRPguy
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/15 03:12 PM
1

I've been trying to slow down on the over thinking. I've gotten better over the last couple weeks. I will start Meditation now. Learn to be in the moment, flowing with it, not stuck analyzing it.
/r/askMRP16/11/15 12:42 AM
1

I think I have reached a plateau. I shall endeavor to push my luck with her. It's all about growth and getting Gainz!
/r/askMRP16/11/15 12:41 AM
0

Nice break down. I'm stuck thinking it's a little bit of both. Without getting too Metaphysical, I've been learning to listen to my subconscious and my gut instinct. This forum has been instrumental in opening that for me. While I don't think this post was validation seeking, I'll consider the possibility that I am still looking for external guidance, when deep down I already know the answer. Meditation is my next ambition. Time to know myself a little more.
/r/askMRP16/11/15 12:38 AM
1

I imagine that she is poking at me, to see if I am indeed worthy of her compliance. She wants to feel safe, and was testing to see if I am. I should up my game and amplify as you say. Hell, even a geek reference "resistance is futile" would have demonstrated how confident I am. Thanks for reading and offering your 2 cents. I'll start making an effort to up my game. At least I'm past STFU. It works but is the 'safe' tool. I get so worried about keeping control of my feelings, that i forget to sti…
/r/askMRP15/11/15 06:01 PM
2

One of the muscles I've learned to develop and grow is humility. I'm more receptive to it now than pre RP. We all fuck up. You are simply better equipped to recover and learn from your fall. Keep in mind, this is not only an opertunity for you, but for her to see in you as well.
/r/askMRP15/11/15 04:47 PM
1

You have a powerful hamster. Fight it my good man.
/r/askTRP12/11/15 12:52 PM
1

Great video. I'll have to try this angle.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/11/15 02:25 PM
6

This is it. Plain and simple. I'm gonna suggest that I'm still slow on the confrontation. I need to communicate my expectations. I go with STFU cause it's safe. Tell myself this is best cause I'm scared to do otherwise. New challenge. Voice my expectations.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/15 12:34 AM
1

I'm an artist. It's a strong part of me. One of the greatest things I've learned through my projects is to do it. Just do it LeBoeuf style. I'll get to a point where I'm indecisive. Or when it's so awesome and I've put so much work into it, that the next move could ruin it. So I'll hesitate. But it's got to be done. There are millions of ways to do the next move. But which one? Oh it hurts. But it's the most awesome feeling in the world. Even if it fucks up, cause you learned something for next …
/r/askTRP07/11/15 12:27 AM
3

That is the safe play that I've been following. It has helped get me on my own path. I'm hanging with old friends again and always out now. Problem is that she'll eventually apologize, but it's empty and repetitive. Plus the odd occasion where she'll hold her breath for up to two weeks. It's not good and we are demonstrating a terrible example in front of the kids. I'm already heading out to a friend's tonight, and away on a big bike ride with kid tomorrow. And more plans rest of weekend... Ther…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/15 11:47 PM
5

I'm struggling with this. I'm close, but not quite there yet. I remove myself and it becomes a face off. Who flinches/gives in first. Which is playing into her frame. You are allowing the impasse to continue. Plus it creates another problem. She can only offer empty apologies, which pauses the circomstance until the next event or she feels backed into a corner with no way out, goes limp or attacks like a trapped racoon. I'm trying different things but it ain't solid for me yet. In fact, I'm in t…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/15 11:12 PM
7

Great report! I've had the discussion with my wife and daughter that they don't get a PMS pass. Losing control of one's emotions is no excuse. That I don't get to punch people in the face when I get testosterone boosts, and inflamed feels. I explained that they get a buffer, cause chemistry is going nuts. But not a free pass. Funny, they agree.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/15 10:33 PM
3

V for validation. TRP is about becoming autonomous. Learning to self nurture. BP is the need for validation through others. You're getting closer and closer to that special place, but have not yet fully internalized it yet.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 01:16 PM
1

I was reading over the comments to see if this was addressed. I wouldn't have answered the phone after 1st nasty hangup call. F-that.
/r/askMRP02/11/15 04:29 PM
1

Hmm... I've never heard of that. Have you had that happen or done it to others?
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 07:13 PM
1

Thanks. That last point hit home. It's not yet fully integrated, but I'm awake and only now starting to see the larger gains. These are very exciting times.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 06:00 PM
1

I find that repeating a point they made using different words or even making an analogy or parallel to their statement draws them in. It shows that you are paying attention and allows you to be in their frame artificially. They will reciprocate of course otherwise it's a one way conversation and you know to 'next' them and move on to the next person/group. As you get more familiar with the other, you can eventually finish their sentence WITH them. This is important. Don't interrupt by forcing th…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 03:39 PM
2

I mirror sometimes. It shows that I'm engaged. Soothes the other. Like saying their name a lot during the conversation. Makes it more intimate. All on a subconscious level for your target of course.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 02:17 AM
3

I was part of the group, but a secondary player. Floated around everyone with no solid place or connection to any particular individual. This was far more dynamic. I hold a presence now and I'm more relaxed and engaged in the discussion. Fewer secondary thoughts. Less worry. Just chilling.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 02:14 AM
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Postpone! at a minimum. You don't need to go all the way and blow it all up, but definitely need time to wake up. If she can't allow you that time, or this decision breaks it all, then you know it was the right thing to do.
/r/askTRP26/10/15 10:16 PM
2

Wow. Brilliant. I could feel her hamster choke on that 3rd one.
/r/askTRP23/10/15 07:17 PM
1

(Slaps Thigh) Awesome answer. I like you Questionablechoise.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 07:00 PM
22

Fuck. I think this is the first FR of this nature that I've ever seen here in RP. I don't say this often, but you have my respect. Wonderful clean example of abundance mentality. Question: Would you accept her proposal to follow you? Maintaining the relationship as it is of course. Or would you discourage her from doing so?
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 06:39 PM
1

This is a good strategy. Different circles of friends allows you to try different things and gives you abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP22/10/15 04:39 PM
1

Self respect tastes sweet doesn't it? I'd say you popped your cherry. Today L-System, you are a man.
/r/askTRP22/10/15 04:34 PM
6

She is toxic. Next her/no contact You need to develop an abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP21/10/15 06:45 PM
2

Title should be labeled [trigger warning] with a (NSFL). I feel gross.
/r/askMRP21/10/15 01:43 AM
2

I did not downvote, but wanted to voice something here. Cheating or compromising one's self, is very subjective. He feels he crossed a line. He is owning it. I respect that. You may think fucking a Chick up the ass ain't cheating because baby jesus said so. Great. That's your prerogative. RP is not making moral judgments. At the same time, your right about her not caring about him sexualy. She ain't shit testing, because she doesn't feel the need to probe his SMV. And that's a bad thing.
/r/askMRP20/10/15 07:17 PM
3

Scale of infidelity is moot. You crossed a line and you are internalizing it. This is good. It's called a catalyst. Use it. Now you know this will happen again if you don't get your shit together, only the severity will climb unless you get your ass moving. This event is a double edged sword. It gave you guilt tingles, but it woke you up. Other women will be sexual with you. Holy fuck! No way! But if you don't figure out your shit with wife, the same bullshit that is happening with her will happ…
/r/askMRP20/10/15 07:10 PM
1

I'm married. Was about to break up with a singlemom I had been dating for two years when we discovered she was pregnant. For seven years I did what I had been programed by TV to do and even expanded the family with another child. Last November I woke up. Decided i would do my best to live this family life on my terms. If I did not improve my life enough to be able to respect the reflection in the mirror after a year, then the plan was to get out. I still have a lot of work to do and i understand…
/r/askTRP17/10/15 05:15 AM
1

Here's how I would relate to this. After waking up and swallowing, I could never look her in the eye again. If somehow I was able to ingest that poison, I couldn't look myself in the eye again. I'm sorry bro. You're her silver medal and she can't let go of the gold. It's like 2nd hand smoke. This will slowly kill you over time. P.S. When I'm lost on an issue, I consider what my choices teach my kids. Lead by example. Be what you want them to be when they leave the nest. (What would you want your…
/r/askTRP17/10/15 04:57 AM
7

Great advice here, but make sure you read up on pregnant wife circomstance. You have to play your cards a little more thoughtfully in this situation.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/15 01:31 AM
2

Yeah man. Take a step back. Move out and when you start to feel less attached and confused by your feels, you can start to reassess. If taking a step back is too much for her, then she'll have helped answer all your questions.
/r/askTRP16/10/15 02:49 PM
1

Sorry brah. I rarely apologize, but this one is a hard one. Whatever you choose to do, be it postpone the wedding until your huge and fuck like a Mustang or continue as though nothing happened... you simply can't unsee this. This revelation is jabbed into your heart and mind like a stay lawn dart from the neighbour's yard.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/15 07:52 PM
0

Yeah. That's the trick. I fucked it up last month on my wife's previous shark week. I was doing well on the alpha growth, but wanted to make sure i was giving her the beta she needed. Well, i ended up over doing it causing a trigger effect for both of us and falling back two months on my progress. I was told not to put too much conscious effort into it. So long as i internalize it, my subconscious will do the rest. Not much of an answer for ya, but i did learn not to be so eager.
/r/askMRP08/10/15 07:27 PM
0

Its been a couple days and i think I'm slowly digesting it. My way of looking at it, is to be open and free to show my feelings. Let her understand that I'm angry or upset or even happy. This avoids misunderstandings, covert contacts and increases intimacy. On the RP angle, keep those expressions in check, in the sense of relevance. If it compromises you then STFU. If it makes you look weak then STFU. If it's irrelevant then shut the fuck up. If your not sure, err on the side of caution. Here's …
/r/askMRP08/10/15 03:48 PM
0

Yeah. This is a truth i cannot lose sight of. She is probing to find out how safe I am for her. If i trickle truth her too much info, she will grow concerned and feel insecure with my long list of weaknesses. I'm the man here. I shall present myself as such.
/r/askMRP07/10/15 01:08 PM
2

STFU and ignore. As you get better and establish your new IDGAF persona, you'll be able to start AA and Fog and so on.
/r/askMRP06/10/15 06:42 PM
1

This is my new focus. Self nurturing. No more mister nice guy.
/r/askMRP06/10/15 05:38 PM
1

Yup. You got me there. Years of blue behavior. Takes time. Again, i need to be focused on me. Not her.
/r/askMRP06/10/15 05:37 PM
3

You're right! I have to do this for myself. Not for her. She is contributing to my life, not my life's purpose.
/r/askMRP06/10/15 04:43 PM
1

I'd be a 4 had i texted her. I'm still in the game.
/r/askMRP06/10/15 04:39 PM
0

Yeah. I'm glad I was able to stop myself from texting her. The damn book was a trigger and i slipped. What you say is spot on. I just needed to be reminded.
/r/askMRP06/10/15 04:37 PM
1

SMV is climbing high. That's part of the frustration. I'm getting attention from women and I feel good about myself. But she is slow to come around. My focus is still stuck on her. I need to self nurture. It's my weakest muscle right now.
/r/askMRP06/10/15 04:02 PM
0

Thanks. For both reasons. I needed that.
/r/askMRP06/10/15 03:59 PM
15

You are what you choose to be.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/15 01:11 PM
2

Good reference! This was my interpretation of the wolf video as well.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/15 01:11 PM
1

Women love to be chased.
/r/askMRP02/10/15 11:44 AM
0

Yeah. That's a pretty good way of puting it. Thanks, it helps with the current impasse.
/r/askMRP01/10/15 08:00 PM
1

Thanks. I'll read up on LMR and come back at it with fresh perspective.
/r/askMRP01/10/15 07:25 PM
1

Ha! Juicy monkey. Good way of puting it. I am far from giving up. Truth is, I'd probably find the juicy monkey less exciting if she didn't resist a little and make me work for that pound of flesh.
/r/askMRP01/10/15 07:21 PM
0

Elaborate on your first paragraph please. I am dealing with this angle off and on. I'm trying to get a better handle on it.
/r/askMRP01/10/15 04:53 PM
1

I get it. You don't want to tell her about fight club because of the first rule of fight club. I think this is a red herring. It's secondary to the question. So you should focus on the real options and outcomes. You tell her to shut her up. Placate her and reassure her feels so you don't feel guilty any more. Price is that you caved on your boundaries and she now knows how to play you. Your hamster is telling you that it's okay though, cause she might get a hint of dread... You tell her how she …
/r/askMRP01/10/15 02:58 PM
1

I tripped up here myself. Gave her some beta feels during menstration. I was over thinking it. Did something outside of the pattern and it threw her off. Me too. Undid about two months of progress. But I was proactive in trying though and learned something in the slip up.
/r/askMRP29/09/15 06:35 PM
2

Don't say fuck all. If you've got the chance to go have fun while she is out, then do it. If she picks up on you having fun without her, then let her dread. If the babysitter compounds that dread, then double down. But make sure you don't say anything on this. Let her hamster do the leg work. You're getting the vibe that she's cheating right? Well it's been said here before. You are equipped with generations of evolution. You have a radar for that shit. Sure you may be paranoid. But just cause y…
/r/askMRP29/09/15 04:53 PM
1

Thank you. This shifted my paradigm.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/15 12:33 PM
1

A thing my dad always said: "You gotta be good to be lucky. "
/r/TheRedPill25/09/15 12:20 PM
2

I'm past the anger phase. But it creeps in every once in a while. I make gains and celebrate my success, then go lax and complacent. She'll pull some shit to remind me that the struggle to grow never ends. I get a little butt hurt, then realize why I'm resentful. So I'm slowly learning to slow down. Not to try and fix things in big spurts. It's a long marathon that ends when I die an old man. Straight and true, I'll slow down to catch my breath if I go too hard, but never slow to a walking pace.…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/15 11:55 AM
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Enjoy the uncomfortable silence. Everyone hates it. Cringe even. So learn to sit back and watch them writhe to come up with something clever. I am learning to let it hang and let the other person come to me. It's not so weird any more. There's nothing to lose. Who cares. Oh and stop looking for validation in others. That's why you try so hard to keep the conversation going.
/r/askTRP20/09/15 02:32 AM
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Sounds like you said too much. Learn to STFU. Fuck them BTW. Who cares what they think? If you had multiple unrelated circles of friends, you'd be free from this hangup. Abundance mentality. Focus on you, not them. Enough with seeking validation from others.
/r/askTRP19/09/15 04:01 PM
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I admire your honesty. Takes a lot to come back and post follow up. Having said that, i imagine a part of you is happy to have his gurl back. Which is a nice feeling. But there's another part of you that feels gross inside. Bringing the two together is gonna cause dissonance. All I can say, is that you work on you. Build abundance mentality by actually growing more awesome. She won't hold such heavy influence over you if you do more in life than chat on the phone with her and binge on Netflix in…
/r/askTRP18/09/15 01:40 PM
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Just because you are at a lectern, holding everyone's attention, doesn't mean you have to tell them everything. Be honest and forthcoming, sure. But don't splooge your red feels all over a blue audience. That shit ain't gonna fly.
/r/askTRP18/09/15 12:32 PM
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Would this be considered the equivalent to long distance relationships?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/15 02:55 AM
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RP training wheels.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/15 02:47 AM
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I just posted a similar question on askMRP. My problem is similar in that I'm always thinking too much. Much of what I've learned has become instinctual. I react without thought. But when I'm unsure or less confident, I fall back into theory and consult the rule books. I recommend patience. Your reaction was from an insecurity regarding the operation. This was a knee jerk reaction. Jumping on solid dead. It was butthurt move. Try soft dread. Wich implies time and effort. Up your SMV. I saw pics …
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/15 09:29 PM
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Hey thanks. I didn't see that one while looking up my concerns before posting my question. I have to remember that nothing is free. For either of us. I'll have to up her mate retention Hampster swimming during shark week.
/r/askMRP11/09/15 09:11 PM
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Yeah. Safe bet. I'm just over thinking it.
/r/askMRP11/09/15 05:57 PM
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I think, that's the easy answer. Watch out for the male Hampster. Either way, your bothered by what happened and need to make changes to ensure more of same doesn't happen again.
/r/askTRP06/09/15 06:24 AM
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Being her outlet and listening to her data dumps can be hard, but that is intimacy for her. It is the equivalent to sexual intimacy for you. If she doesn't drain your balls, then you don't let her release her feels all over your face. If she gives you starfish, then you do the same and pull away your emotions. Honestly. If she is fucking me good, I naturally grow a genuine interest in what she has to say.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/15 11:49 AM
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I wrote a book. Took me 3 years. It taught me to be patient, dedicated and helped develop discipline. My mind can handle larger concepts, and imagination can stretch along a thought before growing distracted too quickly. It helped me realize that i am an awesome guy. I don't need to be told by others. I can self nurture. I like me a lot now.
/r/askTRP03/09/15 04:34 PM
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I'm a pretty open minded guy. I'll look into this, you put a lot of energy into the suggestion. I'm not sure it fits here for me. You're right though. It's obviously deep, so I'll have to work hard to get past this. I don't know what has programed me this way, but I'll dig a you suggest. As /u/RPMahoutsukai suggested in another of my threads: "Essentially, through guilt and shame and other coercing concepts you've been micro-raped over and over again all your life." I think it's more that I've b…
/r/askMRP26/08/15 01:49 AM
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Do one positive thing tomorrow. Just one stupid little thing and then do one more, to add to it the following day. One day at a time. Just say it. "I'm not gonna fapp today! " you may have fapped yesterday, maybe you will tomorrow, but you will not fapp today. Do same thing forpositives. I will go for a walk to the store today. I will get off my ass for 20 minutes and see the sky... today! https://youtu.be/olnLcJ0l46w
/r/askTRP24/08/15 05:17 PM
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Well put. Sex before bed creates the cuddles scenario. Sex in the morning leads to immediately getting ourselves up and into the new day's activities. Perhaps the morning sex can help me thicken ny skin, and reprogram myself and change the pattern.
/r/askMRP24/08/15 02:52 PM
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Lol. Yeah. I'm reaching here absolutely. I'm just saying, there was something worth mentioning. Next step is to remove fapping all together and replace it with proper sex with another individual.
/r/askTRP22/08/15 05:13 PM
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Too much porn? Testosterone low? (Lift) Sleep? (Rest is important. I only learning this now) LTR mismatch? (If your body and mind are healthy, your soft dick could be trying to tell you something about her or your relationship) Need more info. But I wanted to contribute something to help.
/r/askTRP21/08/15 01:35 PM
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After 8 months, I'm only now catching on to such glances and attention. Hell, most have been after the fact when a buddy points it out to me with a hi5. I still have a ways to go, but it's starting. I'm guessing that I'm retarded in this regard. I do mean retarded in the strictest sense. As I learn to function socially, I'll pick up more on these queues. As my SMV continues to climb, more and more women will react to me in this way, offering me more experience to build on. I may be autistic when…
/r/askTRP20/08/15 04:22 PM
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Not that I want to fall back on the victim mindset, but this resonates with me the most so far. I'm mostly out from the angry faze, I catch myself slipping into butthurt mode from time to time, but recover quickly because I've started to internalize AWALT and OI. I think this instinct inside me, is an indicator of my progress. The voice is there and I'm hearing and listening to it more and more. manosphere is starting to shift from logical theory and rule book play to a more natural unconscious …
/r/askMRP20/08/15 04:04 PM
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Thanks for your angle. I'm surprised that the responses have been so 50/50. I was expecting everyone to either say they my dead game was too high or that it's good that i have set up boundaries. Yours covers both, offering Alpha solution (boundary) as well as offering her Beta support. I'm not rock solid on my position on the matter, but a little voice inside is whispering to hold. I have to admit, a part of me enjoys saying no. (Shrug) Thanks RPMahoutsukai.
/r/askMRP20/08/15 12:33 PM
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This is a good point. I was irked that she would grab it the way she did. I felt disrespected. I'm seeing things a little differently these days.
/r/askMRP19/08/15 08:43 PM
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