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I didn’t know my comment would get such attention. Fwiw banana republic athletic taper fit is the only pants i can fit the thigh in at 34. Check them out if you havent tried.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/09/19 12:28 AM
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My actual waist measurement is 29.5 been buying 33-34 for the leg room and having the waist taken in. 🤷‍♂️ My chest is 46 so i guess i have about the same taper as you. I’ve found its way better to buy bespoke then buy large and tailer down.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/09/19 11:01 PM
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Thats easy to trigger you huh?
/r/MarriedRedPill05/09/19 09:51 PM
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Oh and add some fucking line breaks to this wall of text next time.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/09/19 07:34 PM
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A solid and common stance for the conventional deadlift is to stand with feet hip-width apart, the bar directly over your mid-foot, and toes pointing forward. It's never a one size fits all. How you line yourself up for a lift depends greatly on your anatomy. This is why a good trainer/coach is needed.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/09/19 07:33 PM
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Everyone needs to do what works for them, that said... I'm 204 @ 10% BF now, a >10 lb muscle gain in the last year or so. 90% of my routine is deadlifts, squats, bench and weighted pull-ups. Brad Pitt and Tom hardy are lean little guys, not impressive really. The main reason I prefer compound movements is because they keep you symmetrical, then sprinkle in iso to bring up weak areas. When all you do is iso moves its easy to become imbalanced. If dead-lifts didn't build mass I wouldn't need to bu…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/09/19 07:31 PM
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Dragon flags
/r/MarriedRedPill05/09/19 07:05 PM
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It hurts to get up early, lift heavy, run fast, work late, raise kids, make money, grind, game, hustle and hump. To do it all and then some. Thats why most people don’t do it, its uncomfortable and most want to be warm and cozy, Fuck that shit. Theres this translation of Rumi I’ve been reading daily for awhile now, I think it’s appropriate. “Run from what's comfortable. Forget safety. Live where you fear to live. Destroy your reputation. Be notorious. I have tried prudent planning long enough. F…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/19 09:41 PM
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The graduation song: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oaMq6hcRbNc
/r/askMRP21/08/19 06:55 PM
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Stretch. And I don’t mean that sidebend bullshit i see most do. Get a stretching strap, use it daily. Hold each stretch for 2-3 minutes. I’ve seen so many knee problems disappear when proper stretching is introduced.
/r/askMRP27/07/19 05:54 PM
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Bro you got a post here from 6 months ago with amost the same stats? What is you doing in the gym? That shit aside, I was once ogled by an etire school full of teachers. Had a chick tell me my body is a peice of art. I have plates sending me, pictures of me, telling me they miss me. How did i get here? A fuck ton of hard work, like 6 days a week, sometimes 2 a day. Lifting heavy shit, running miles and also... drugs.
/r/askMRP24/07/19 02:05 AM
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affirming my belief that inflammation is probably the root cause of many illnesses and issues Inflammation is part of the healing process. Inflammation is a response to external stimuli, not a source of anything. Inflammation from accute injuries and cronic inflammation/allergic reactions are different things. This information is widely available, why form beliefs that contradict what we know to be true? Thats said, inflammation management: If you’re going to regularly take nsaids, swap those ou…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/19 12:28 PM
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I'll never begrudge a person who takes their last controlled action that way. And I see it as pure fucking weakness. I idolized suicide thanks to a childhood that made death a respite from the day to day. I once would have said the same as you. Today I see it as giving up. Being too weak to accept the pain. There is a great divide between the mindsets, i cant live this anymore and fuck you - tear me screaming from this world, I will not go willing. Tell me whats the difference between laying dow…
/r/askMRP12/07/19 12:58 PM
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Had some fat fuck explain fasting to me, he understood the concept but didnt actually apply it. He didnt see fasting as a tool to rise above the 99%, he saw himself as a victim and dieting as his punishment. This is how I feel when I read Rollo’s bullshit.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/19 02:01 PM
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She’s probably trying to avoid seeing your floppy sack of shit body in the shower. Seriously fucker, you need to control her behavior or you need hugs from mommy. Which weakness is it?
/r/askMRP11/06/19 01:57 PM
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17% BF is fat, fuck off. Settling for a HB5 is lame, fuck off. You flirt like a horny, cringy teenager, fuck off. Your game is awful, each pic a blowjob?, fuck off. Including your kids in your anger for the situation, pussy level 1000, fuck off! You have no frame, you are a child. You want her to fuck you like you’re the man, well start acting like one. You’re shitting the bed and you’re mad cause she didn’t wash the sheets. Fuck this train wreck.
/r/askMRP27/05/19 01:27 PM
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She does not want to know how the sausage is made. Why are you taking V every day? Why not use it as a boost occasionally? You stink of validation and frame issues. This is all about proving something to yourself, thats what she senses.
/r/askMRP23/05/19 03:04 PM
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Unless its sky high, it’s probably prolactin. Prolactin release is responsible for the refactory period after sex. Also more prolactin is released after sex than rubbing one out which is why jerking off feels so much less satisfying. So if his prolactin is high/low, dick no worky. Look into PT141, works better on women than men. Its a new class of drug, melanocortin, it works in the brain, not a vasodilator. I have it, have not tried it yet but the stories are like cialis is to pt141 as test is …
/r/askMRP23/05/19 02:59 PM
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Better to make a joke out of it. She asks if you’re married. Say yes but I’ll leave her at home. If they’re down to fuck it don’t matter, if not you’re wasting your time. Don’t ever answer these questions directly, they’re not about sex.
/r/askMRP20/05/19 04:01 PM
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You don’t owe anyone an explanation, even more so for shit that has nothing to do with them. Things change, nuff said. Get some frame.
/r/askMRP20/05/19 03:54 PM
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When you’re attractive, it doesn’t matter what you say. Actually 90% of the time a grin is all that’s required. Let that sink in.
/r/askMRP04/05/19 06:29 PM
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You signed a contract that does not maximize your earning potential but enforces, with financial penalty, your exclusivity. Thats called a shit deal bro. You’re either shit at negotiating, shit at marketing yourself or shit at writing code. Hint, it’s probably a combo of the first 2.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/19 09:36 PM
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It's a nuance, and thinking of it as creating drama or fighting is too aggressive. It's part fucking with her, pushing buttons and part doing what the fuck you want. The outcome of the later usually results in some form of tension at times anyway so might as well use that shit. It's the kinda thing, when done correctly, she still fucks but she makes it a point to say she's still mad at you tho... ​ But it has to be meaningless shit. You have to know your girl. And she has to want to fuck you in …
/r/MarriedRedPill24/04/19 06:17 AM
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So your theory is, his own biochemistry is self sabotaging his potential to procreate because it somehow ascertained that its in the species best interests that he do so? I dunno bro kinda sounds retarded, goes against evolution whatev 🤷‍♂️ Hows that manifesto coming along?
/r/askMRP24/04/19 02:04 AM
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Why the fuck are you in an LTR at 22? This is the question you need to answer...
/r/askMRP02/04/19 08:05 PM
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Lab corp does paternity testing.
/r/askMRP31/03/19 11:12 PM
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You should post this, stretching vs mobility and range of motion, very different things. +1 for westside, Joe Rogan had Louie on his podcast a ways back if you haven't seen.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/19 07:57 PM
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Did you convince yourself?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/19 02:50 PM
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If a dude is tracking sex, he already knows shit is bad, but he needs the numbers to justify his position since hes not his own source of validation. Tracking macros is about keeping yourself honest. The difference, tracking your own actions vs tracking her actions. And if Sally gives you the herps and you give It to Stacy and then a couple weeks later you’re at the doc with a broken dick, hows your spreadsheet going to help you?
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/19 01:32 PM
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I literally typed "repairing fibers" in the post you just replied to. I think we're just talking past each other. I read what you wrote, empirical knowledge and the assumption of the mechanism of action of these supplements are different things. Creatine's primary benefit is facilitating ATP production which increases work capacity. With increased work capacity comes the possibility of more muscle tears, hence more DOMS. ​ recover quicker since the body isn’t replenishing fluid entirely as well …
/r/askMRP06/03/19 03:53 PM
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DOMS is caused by micro tears in the muscle fiber, lactic acid is not doing what you think it is post workout. Your knowledge is outdated.
/r/askMRP06/03/19 01:51 PM
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Not all pre-workouts are bullshit, not miracles but not bullshit. Gotta know what ingredients you’re looking for. citrulline malate performance
/r/askMRP06/03/19 12:44 AM
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What about enthusiasm, do we go with a simpe 1-5 rating or perhaps a system of colored stickers, gold star for when she swallows?
/r/askMRP25/02/19 01:20 AM
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Yeah bro it’s called sperg tracker, creepo edition.
/r/askMRP24/02/19 03:05 PM
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theres a few things that can cause this. Low blood sugar, dehydration, not breathing properly. It could also be a spike in blood pressure that happens during heavy lifts. Rule out first 3 i mentioned since those you can control.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/02/19 03:38 PM
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My 2 cents, and fwiw I’m 205 at around ~12% have been as low as 9% and i can become a fat fuck with ease. I mention this simple because so many people have such great advice... that they’ve never followed. Anyway, rest time between sets should be proportional to the percent of 1 rep max. Something like: 50% 30 seconds, 50 - 80% ~1 min +80% fuck time focus on form Always lift then cardio, gas out in the lift. Cardio needs to be on the clock. Time will keep you honest. Time under tention = growth.…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/02/19 02:02 AM
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Bro what the fuck are you doing at the gym that you need to do the office lady workout routine? Want to be lean, eat less. Want to eat like a horse, work like a mule. 30 minutes can be all you need. How long would it take you to do 200 burpes? To me this shit reads like “how to supplement your fuckarounditis at the gym”.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/02/19 12:43 AM
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Disney = mental junk food. Seems obvious, like pointing out skittles is not a good post workout meal. A more interesting conversation would be discussing what kind of society produces this crap and why. “He alone, who owns the youth, gains the future” look it up lazy fuckers.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/02/19 03:28 PM
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crossfit is horrible, doing shit like 50 heavy snatches for time is fucking idiotic. Its shit for strengh/swole and really only benefits cardio. Most boxes don’t spend enough time on form and due to the volume of compound lifts, the likelihood of injury is huge. So ask me why I’ve been doing crossfit 4x a week... lmao
/r/askMRP13/02/19 06:58 PM
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☝️This. Saw this chick changing her own brakes with fucking air tools. Fuck that shit is sexy. Shes was maybe a 6 in general but her competency was sexy as fuck. Most chicks I know can’t even do simple, menial shit and it’s not because they’re incapable. Shit is a turn off.
/r/askMRP12/02/19 09:10 PM
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Dude should talk to her like this for a week. 😂 https://youtu.be/LbCaptV509g
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/19 05:41 AM
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Bro those bitches at the bar don’t know you. You could look like a greek god but if you’re home shitting the bed 3x a week the pussy is going to dry up. I’d be willing to bet you’re not an 8, the bitches at the bar were beer goggle 6s, your frame sucks and you’re not leading at home. How do I know... cause thats who gets starfish sex. She’s not, not fucking you. She’s giving you what you deserve. So who do you resent now?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/19 05:11 AM
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Na hes right. I’m only here cause I don’t know what else to do while taking a shit... and i eat 6000 calories a day so... lots of time. Hahahahahahah
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/19 01:12 AM
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What you described comes from a positive place, like you said, “rooting for him to win” but shit tests are a spectrum. On one end you have the flirting shit test, these are fun and most guys should enjoy them. But guys who grew up without a male social circle never learned to give and take shit. Either way these are wiffle balls and easy to learn to pass. On the other end you have shit tests in the form of narcissistic abuse, coming from a negative place, seeking only destruction. In between is …
/r/askMRP10/02/19 01:19 AM
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I call it going along for the ride. We have these mental conversations with ourselves, trying to bring closure to past events, or preparing for future conflict. But who the fuck are we talking to? We get baited in by that voice, perhaps its ego, maybe the shadow as jung puts it. The shamanic perspective is its not even part of ourselves, an external entity. Who the fuck knows. For me, I acknowledge the thought, but i do not embrace it, i refuse the ride. It’s been a long time since I’ve taken th…
/r/askMRP09/02/19 02:26 PM
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Unless you have your head in the sand, you’ll notice her behavior change if she’s fucking someone else. Trust your gut, not that shitty little ego lying to you. Since im dishing out the quotes today here’s another. “I've lived through some terrible things in my life, some of which actually happened.” -Twain Stop worrying about what might happen and focus on what is happening. You’re only a cuck if you allow it. All this mental energy being wasted on her, stop that shit. Now I’ve got shit to do a…
/r/askMRP09/02/19 01:56 AM
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how do you get rid of insecurities even if you feel you are the prize? Stop lying to youself bro, these can’t exist in the same frame. If you’re the prize and she cheats, you move on to your next great thing. If you’re the prize you have nothing to lose, she does. “The man who lies to himself and listens to his own lie comes to such a pass that he cannot distinguish the truth within him, or around him, and so loses all respect for himself and for others. And having no respect he ceases to love, …
/r/askMRP09/02/19 01:24 AM
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You pass judgment and virtue signal but offer no insight. Why are you here?
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/19 10:46 PM
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I was generalizing, sometimes she doesn’t want your opinion even if thats what she asks for. In regards to the other thread, i agree.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/19 09:44 PM
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Its not that your opinion is wrong. Thats poor frame. Its just not what she wanted in the first place. I’m just refining the point, i think you understand tho... The dude passing judgement above is just another lost soul projecting male logic onto female emotion. Its fucking game they don’t know how to play.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/19 07:06 PM
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It’s meaningless, her behavior will tell you all you need to know.
/r/askMRP05/02/19 01:17 AM
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I’ve always enjoyed your perspective, solid add.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/19 12:56 AM
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Who the fuck eats rice in bed? I’m pretty sure this is listed in the DSM, psyco level shit right here. Lmao...
/r/askMRP04/02/19 05:29 PM
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Depends on the dude. A beta turd will need to string along some side chick with prospective relationship bullshit, maybe even lie about being married completely. A man of value will decide to accept an offer for pussy and she will fully understand his situation. He does not chase nor misrepresent himself in any way. When a man of value cheats she needs to step up her fucking game, dudes don’t cheat with empty balls. When a beta turd cheats shes better off without him anyway. This usually plays o…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/19 07:53 PM
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At the park with your kids? Put the fucking phone down and do some pullups on those monkey bars. Everything you do is a lesson for them, actions > words.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/19 01:34 PM
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👍🏻 Bingo
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/19 01:18 AM
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Solid add for our autistic rambos here.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/19 01:13 AM
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When you stick your head in the sand you leave your ass in the air... to get fucked. ​ Good luck bitch, you'll need it.
/r/askMRP25/01/19 03:57 PM
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Imagine your kid is grown, comes to you for advice with a similar situation, what's your advice... do that.
/r/askMRP24/01/19 04:52 PM
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You’re leaving a bunch of shit out... while you continue to protect your ego nothing changes. Oh and she’s probably comparing you to the ex and the hamster is not sure what direction to run. Do the work pussy.
/r/askMRP15/01/19 12:45 AM
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Ass to mouth and how big of a dick shes going to peg you with.
/r/askMRP08/01/19 05:15 PM
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You don’t fucking get it still trying to reason and logic your way to establishing a boundary. You are such a fragile little thing aren’t you? Standing up for yourself is butthurt. Verbally defining an obvious boundry is bullshit. You need to toss her attitude back at her with a heavy dose of humor and amusement. You got a long way to go and that you don’t get it is the reason you’re even dealing with this kinda bullshit.
/r/askMRP08/01/19 05:11 PM
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Don’t bring it up, she’s waiting for that. The next time she pulls this shit you call it out right then, but don’t do the beta rage baby bullshit. Your goal is to embarrass her, and for fuck sake do not waste any time on logic or reason. Stay calm, be amused not angry. But most of all be mentally prepared to end that shit even if it means tossing her aside. Treat her like a bratty little teenager. Extra points if she cries.
/r/askMRP08/01/19 01:41 AM
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I don’t know whats worse, no sex for 1/4 of a bullshit LTR or the idea of spending every waking moment with a chick. You’re a doormat bitch.
/r/askMRP05/01/19 12:32 AM
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You lead, she can follow or not, its her fucking problem either way. There’s no duality just your weakness in needing to fix her problem.
/r/askMRP23/12/18 03:10 AM
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Hey guys, do us chumps a favor and stop getting your dicks wet... you’re so worried about these bitches that you don't realize being in the top percentage of men creates a buffet out of the majority of the female population. But its always been this way, feminism just puts it out there in the open. Do you get made at the way the grass grows too?
/r/MarriedRedPill22/12/18 06:33 PM
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+1 for the paternity test I've had several plates say shit like; "My husband is my best friend but bla bla reasons why I'm fucking you..." Now, whenever I hear a dude say this shit I immediately think, who's she fucking?
/r/askMRP21/12/18 06:50 PM
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Buy yourself a tailor's tape. Waist circumference is the only measurement that will matter This 1000 fucking times. Im currently 210 maybe 13% bf. My advanced system of bodyfat measurements includes one set of pants in 32 and one set in 34. I cut till the 32s get loose and then i bulk till the 34s get snug. Repeat till i die.
/r/askMRP20/11/18 01:20 AM
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Its only free if your time is worthless.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/18 02:22 AM
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Always painful when reality peels back our protective self-delusions to expose the ego to truth. Bartender showed you your wife lacks appropriate boundaries. Your wife showed you she gives two fucks about what you think. Truth often hurts but be grateful. Like it or not you’re better off today than you were yesterday. The only thing to consider is how you choose to react. And any reaction that includes words or anyone else is a waste of fucking time. Change the inside and the outside will change…
/r/askMRP04/11/18 02:16 PM
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Absolutely there are dudes who get a raw deal. But for everyone of those there are a 100 weak bitches who were nothing more than mommies big man child. The wife ends up relieved because she now has one less mouth to feed and ass to wipe. The judges see this shit, weak incompetence. They don’t get 50/50 because they dont want it and the raping gets that much worse. Not true in all circumstances but true enough for most.
/r/askMRP28/10/18 04:56 PM
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This sounds like he took a back seat and became a part time dad. Fucking phone and email, helping out mom, WTF? Is this how faggots win the long game? u/red-sfpplus please get in here and nuke this pussy bullshit.
/r/askMRP28/10/18 02:12 PM
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That dude with the beard, always so concerned about what we do with our dicks. If you want to limit your potential outcomes with religion thats your choice... but at least make it your choice. Last time I checked Jesus died a bachelor.
/r/askMRP28/10/18 12:12 AM
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Why not both? The only investment you should be making is in yourself. SMV creates opportunity but frame puts it into action. I’m going to get my dick sucked and I’m going to get her to suck my dick sound similar but they’re worlds apart.
/r/askMRP26/10/18 11:52 PM
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You know whats better than a bj from your wife. A bj from a chick that actually wants to do that shit. 17 fucking years man, 17 years...
/r/askMRP26/10/18 10:14 PM
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Solid points.
/r/askMRP24/10/18 05:20 PM
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Say What? ​ Look bro, this is not an enforceable boundary. I mean, you could tell her to knock it off but what is that saying really? That she should not be attracted to men your physical superior, or that she should not communicate that to you? Your solution has nothing to do with her behavior. Your solution is to improve your SMV and get some fucking frame. She's not telling you she wants to fuck your buddy, she's telling you she wants to fuck the version of you that aligns with what she finds…
/r/askMRP24/10/18 02:50 PM
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Nope both are forced compliance via violence. Think about it like this, are you raising children or adults?
/r/askMRP13/10/18 03:46 PM
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Maybe next time you start texting that hot instructor with the fake tits that asked you to take her in the bathroom... oh thats not you. Yeah go with the words she obviously gives a shit.
/r/askMRP11/10/18 11:44 PM
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Pretty much the same for me but fuck those night sweats man my side of the bed starts to smell like a fucking ferret cage
/r/askMRP11/10/18 09:29 PM
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i hear yeah. I only allow myself 1-2 blasts per year to keep shit normal. I’m guessing you don’t get much sides either. So hard to stop when that tren treats you so well.
/r/askMRP11/10/18 01:00 PM
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Curious why the quick PCT? Cruise dose or off completely?
/r/askMRP11/10/18 12:35 AM
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Bill Burr's take on Steve Jobs is amazing... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E3s-qZsjK8I
/r/askMRP03/10/18 02:27 PM
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Also your actions are not what you think they are. You’ve analyzed your beta actions through a beta frame of what would an alpha do.
/r/askMRP29/09/18 01:21 PM
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Just tell her the truth. You’re gay! You have guilt because it’s all about validation for you. You did/do not want the experience of strange, its not about sex, its about proving something to yourself. And the worse parts within your actions are the ones not about you at all. What are you trying to prove? Thats the direction, start walking. And just so we’re clear: “One's destination is never a place but rather a new way of looking at things.” Henry Miller And obligatory, LIFT FAGGOT LIFT!
/r/askMRP29/09/18 01:17 PM
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Separate phone, separate app account, no sim card, everything over wifi. Then use any chat app you like. All chat app convos should be quickly converted to text message. Google voice is your friend. GV can be utilized on the none burner phone, delete and reinstall as needed.
/r/askMRP27/09/18 06:57 PM
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You want real pain have someone else do the punching. You sound like a weak faggot.
/r/askMRP25/09/18 06:06 PM
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Much easier ways to destroy yourself physically, join a crossfit gym. In all seriousness, pain is pain. It exists only in your mind. I used to think i like pain, but now i realize I enjoy the rewards of enduring pain. Make your pain have a purpose.
/r/askMRP25/09/18 12:35 AM
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Then why haven't you? You hoping 1 more year will turn the tide? 50% of your marriage has been sexless.
/r/askMRP06/09/18 05:40 PM
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Steven, come on, open those eyes. You're not interested in advice, you're seeking validation for your decisions. You're responding to every comment with judgement or agreement, based on if it justifies your actions. You're not happy with your current situation but you're also unable to take the steps required to change that. YOU CAN ONLY CONTROL YOURSELF. Guilt is holding you back. It's held you back all your time here. You are looking here to help deny that nugget of truth. You're not out of th…
/r/askMRP22/08/18 03:18 AM
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Leading is not doing things. It’s everything you do. Reread that last paragraph.
/r/askMRP16/08/18 12:05 AM
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Lmao i did not mean to do that but fuck it, I’m going to leave it.
/r/askMRP07/08/18 12:03 AM
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Love tempered with wisdom. A man with true abundance can love unconditionally because when balanced against wisdom, he loses nothing. Love as most you faggots describe it is simply projected weakness. I will lovingly watch my kids struggle but do my best to help them avoid suffering. I unconditionally love my wife and I can do this without ever seeing her again. What you’re looking for is conditional attention not love. Your problem is you think love is action, words and other bullshit. You thin…
/r/askMRP06/08/18 08:51 PM
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Op do not tell her you know. If you tell her this stupid shit above your actions speak “im a bitch” regardless what don drapper bullshit voice you use. He knows I fucked someone else and he did nothing, thats what she will remember.
/r/askMRP03/08/18 12:11 AM
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I find most chicks have an agenda, they just don't say that shit. They'll go along to get along but after awhile they want more. The single ones that is, married chicks just want to live out shades of grey and they almost never have free time for more than fucking.
/r/askMRP01/08/18 04:26 AM
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I had a past plate recently pop up out of the blue, she sends me a selfie that I had sent her, tells me she's thinking about me and counting my abs. idk bro, reads like these chicks are lining you up for LTR from the start and that's on you not them...
/r/askMRP31/07/18 08:01 PM
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Basically what I have learned is that she is so hurt from my verbal abuse that she has built a wall So what are we talking here? Did you call her the old "see you next tuesday" or do you have a giant fucking issue you're not even remotely addressing?
/r/askMRP29/07/18 02:09 AM
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I have found to be true is that happiness and fulfilment are tied to working toward and achieving goals I have no goals. I have things i want, I persue these things, they are independent of my happiness. I dont enter the gym with any goal other than to lean into the pain and hold that state for as long as possible. The action itself is all that’s required, progress is made without a clearly defined goal regardless. What is a goal except a measurement? What are you measuring? If your goal is to l…
/r/askMRP26/07/18 01:47 PM
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“beware of looking for goals: look for a way of life” http://www.lettersofnote.com/2016/07/your-type-is-dime-dozen.html?m=1
/r/askMRP26/07/18 12:06 PM
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You need to give less fucks. She needs to charge more and have less clients.
/r/askMRP25/07/18 09:13 PM
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Not even his hamster. He’s repeating the bullshit she told him. No frame at all.
/r/askMRP22/07/18 11:42 PM
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Overalls and armpit hair. Fuck that shit.
/r/askMRP22/07/18 11:40 PM
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Adapt and overcome. I have a closet filled with every type of brace, crutches and other shit. There was a period of time when I was constantly injured. What i learned is for the most part you can still do shit but it takes longer. One arm means get up early cause even taking a shower and getting dressed becomes a chore. Don’t make excuses, own your shit. If you’re 100% OYS, her feels about it wont matter. Otherwise you’re not just afraid of her, you’re aftaid she’s right. All pain is information…
/r/askMRP21/07/18 09:50 PM
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You actually sound more afraid of your wife than the injury. Why would she react as if you’re her burden? One clavical means you can still wipe your own ass big boy.
/r/askMRP21/07/18 09:03 PM
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If she’s benefiting from your absence, in a time when she needs the most assistance, what does that say about you?
/r/askMRP21/07/18 03:09 PM
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I do understand but you’re making a flawed assumption that the escalation is within your control. Sometimes you don’t get that opportunity, sometimes theres no escalation at all just go time. Scared people dont escalate they cower. Ego driven people escalate. And worse some dudes just want to hurt you. You can not determine if someone has training and assumptions like this are dangerous. UFC and combat sports translate poorly to self defense, same skills with very different application. Bjj is j…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/18 02:39 PM
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Perhaps those dudes had no intention of harming you. Perhaps they were only concerned for the kids safety. Perhaps the entire “threat” was produced by your ego.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/18 01:58 PM
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Once saw a dude just manhandle this motherfucker. Tossed him down, passed his guard, going for submission and then boom! Dudes buddy soccer kicks mr Bjj in the head, lights out. Bjj is great, but I’m not rolling with anyone in the street. You do not sound like your advice comes form any real world experience.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/18 01:44 PM
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Its the same thing, she’s either acting out of fear/obligation or desire for herself or to please. The benefit of letting your actions speak is she will have to interpret behavior making it harder for her to initiate conversation about it. The result is the same. You’re not threatening her with anything other than taking your dick elsewhere. She can say no, its the power over you that she fears she lost. Rape, really?
/r/askMRP17/07/18 02:38 AM
3

And you still view women as the measure of your success. Back to the sidebar with you.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/18 07:48 PM
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No there's plenty of us out there. Worse beating I ever received started with having rubbing alcohol poured in my face so I coudn't fight back effectively, I was maybe 14. Never had shit I didn't steal as a kid and was working fulltime by 16. I've learned the difference between suffering and struggling is the willingness to fight back at all costs. At the end of the day this "struggle" is the outcome of abuse. And that abuse comes with the blessing of owning your shit at a very young age. It als…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/18 09:55 PM
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Her actions say "I don't really give a fuck about this" and you keep coming back asking us, "how can I get her to give a fuck about this"? Do yourself a favor and slam your dick in a car door cause that's going to be less painful than your future life with this chick. What you need to do is say nothing, give zero fucks and let this shit fall apart. If/when she does nothing to pickup the pieces maybe then you'll see things for what they are.
/r/askMRP12/07/18 08:57 PM
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Never seen a chick throw herself under the bus like that. Im guessing its been going on longer then you think. Also something probably happened to prompt/force her confession. Look up trickle truth.
/r/askMRP12/07/18 12:00 AM
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Usually a business will hire because there’s things to do, money to be made. Does not sound like you have a business.
/r/askMRP11/07/18 01:09 AM
1

The internet bro, wave of the future.
/r/askMRP11/07/18 01:00 AM
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Like the fact this meeting in reality is more important to her than to me Too many fucks given. Please tell me you have some time/financial investment/obligation in this shit.
/r/askMRP11/07/18 12:54 AM
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If it’s a problem then leave without her, she’ll get the message. If it’s not a problem don’t let your ego make it one.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/07/18 09:12 PM
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Imo its a combination of not giving a fuck and having a high threshold for being uncomfortable.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/07/18 01:45 PM
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Discreetly, huh? You ever fucked in a car? There’s always a way. Boil it down bro. Everything is fine, then... College (as in lets go hang out with people we used to fuck) reunion dinner then... Everything is fucked. Occams razor, this is guilt not depression.
/r/askMRP02/07/18 12:21 AM
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The point is to factor in the kids while he does what needs doing. Why be emotionally reactive?
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/18 11:10 PM
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I'm not saying be emotionless, I'm saying don't express emotions mindlessly. Or maybe it allows them to feel the finality and closure in his mind? And a picture, not filing for divorce, is what did this for him? Or for something like this that doesn't really impact them too much...should he not care what they think? It's cumulative, and fuck yes you should care how an 8/9 year old mentally processes something they can't fully grasp. But also no it's not about a picture it's about the mindset. I'…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/18 03:51 AM
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I was curious about how she left cause BPDs are usually scared of abandonment. She's probably going to take the gloves off. Be prepared for anything she knows to be used against you. Regardless of what she does don't project any negativity about her to the kids. PRO TIP: When the chips are down, they will chose mom, no matter what they say to you now, no matter how sorry you think she is. /u/FireTempered gave you gold right here. Don't ever make them choose. Be above it all.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/18 03:30 AM
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How did she end up leaving? Was it the old if you’re not, i am or did she just nope the fuck out? Also do you think she’ll fight for primary custody? Whats your plan there? I feel like there’s a lead buried here somewhere. You gaves us the result but not much about the event. Im not trying to pick your shit apart. My wife displays bpd behavior too. I’ve thought of burning it all down too. I do understand.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/18 01:18 AM
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This triggered me cause it’s reminiscent of what women do as FireTempered mentioned. Only you know the truth.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/18 12:44 AM
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It says he’s too weak/angry/sad to look at her. And in a child’s mind it says a million other things as well.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/18 12:12 AM
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I understand i just think its an emotional reaction.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/18 12:08 AM
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whats done is done, its not about this event its about taking action without emotion. Im trying to point out how your action only benefited you. See it for what it is.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/18 12:04 AM
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But forward for whom? What did she do to the kids? She will always be their mother. Remove her from your mind not their world. Its YOU who can not stand the sight of her. Obviously you’re not going to keep a million photos of your ex wife around but let the fucking ink dry, let the kids process this change. Maybe, just maybe an 8 year old wants to see a picture of his mother. And pretty much every peice of information about divorce will tell you to make as few changes as possible. But then again…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/18 11:54 PM
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I had to interview a few. Knew i found the right guy when he basically explained stay plan = go plan. This was years before i ever heard of red pill.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/18 04:45 PM
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I was lucky, that I "bought a friend" with a psychiatrist to help Same. Find the right guy but sometimes it’s easier to unpack the mental/emotional shit with someone impartial.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/18 02:33 PM
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I went thru the main level of the house and took down all family pictures and replaced them of just the kids and I. I am slowly tweezing her out of our life and her presence from the marital home. And what do you think this action says to those kids?
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/18 02:22 PM
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This faggot is scared of his wife, knows fuck all about red pill and is now going to save his friends. Look at his responses. He uses this strange, repetitive AA about "buying him drinks", calls everyone "Son" and offers no value. There is something majorly off about this guy. I smell epic levels of personality disorder.
/r/askMRP28/06/18 06:23 PM
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She's being passive aggressive because it's low conflict and she's not asserting herself. Your fault is not owning your shit. First the kids safety is primary not your butthurt feelings. If the kiddo is playing prison break then either lower the mattress or transition to a bed. She deflecting, it's childish but meaningless. Second stop being a lazy bitch and put your shit away. Third stop with the hers, mine, ours bullshit. It doesn't fucking matter. She's not disrespecting you, she's holding up…
/r/askMRP27/06/18 05:16 PM
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You do realize you’re suggesting the transfer of a need and will is suggesting the ability to need nothing?
/r/askMRP27/06/18 04:05 PM
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A smart dude once said something like, We see ourselves for what we feel capable of, others see us for what we’ve done. This causes the delay in the feedback. She won’t see new you until old you is long gone. Her and your happiness need to be completely detached my codependent friend. Want happiness for her but be happy no matter. Drop all expectations of her reactions to your efforts. Focus on what you can control. Work on yourself. Be fun to be around. Be happy to see her. Own your shit. Keep …
/r/askMRP27/06/18 02:20 PM
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Today, tomorrow, thing to remember is it's yours to destroy. I think about divorce... Half my shit, possible step-dad situation, 50% time with kids vs stay and do whatever the fuck I want.
/r/askMRP27/06/18 05:00 AM
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/r/askMRP27/06/18 04:37 AM
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I'm going with sex robot over dude with tits but you do u.
/r/askMRP27/06/18 02:13 AM
2

Damn bro I like your style. I'll take two of those Ratajkowski models cause ima break the first one.
/r/askMRP26/06/18 01:54 PM
6

You tell your wife about that raise yet? Did she give you permission to touch the dynamite?
/r/askMRP25/06/18 11:46 PM
4

The distance, sex and threats should go away after attraction is increased using RP methods, correct? No if you do any of this for her you fail. The only way to live with a woman is to be able to live without her.
/r/askMRP22/06/18 04:46 PM
1

Another thing most guys don’t realize. Being incredibly fit is intimidating to many women. If she’s super fit, no problem but if shes just say your average 7, they almost immediately get self conscious. If he looks like that then what does he think of me whispers the hamster. Still a good problem though.
/r/askMRP21/06/18 11:11 PM
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Call me when you want to fuck, then ghost. In regards to finding DTF chicks, you answered your own question. unless THEY are also in a relationship
/r/askMRP21/06/18 04:55 AM
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OP is willfully ignorant. Instead of focusing on the cause he's asking how to navigate around her emotions. He knows what the problem is: "because I am a pussy when it comes to saying no to her." but he's still choosing to try and find loopholes. Should we help him shove his head up his ass?
/r/askMRP21/06/18 04:18 AM
1

It's not the outcome it's the investment.
/r/askMRP21/06/18 04:09 AM
1

Idk bro even Florence Nightingale talked some shit about women nurses.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/18 12:03 AM
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I tried but you just can't help some of these faggots.
/r/askMRP20/06/18 07:05 PM
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Let’s schedule a meeting, lmao... If you listen closely you can hear a soft sucking sound as the moisture from her vagina drifts upwards to be repurposed as tears. OP get out of your own head mutherfucker!
/r/askMRP20/06/18 04:41 PM
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You’re avoiding interaction and possible confrontation. You’re not being assertive and worse you’re allowing her possible questions/reactions to dictate your course of action. What was that you were saying about leadership bro?
/r/askMRP20/06/18 04:36 PM
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meh, 1 year repeated 30 times is not experience.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/18 08:12 PM
1

A plate is nothing more than a short term relationship. It has the same issues and obstacles as a long term and as marriage I disagree. A plate is a disposable relationship. They do not have the same issues as an LTR or marriage because a plates are made to be broken and replaced.
/r/askMRP19/06/18 05:33 PM
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I got married, and had no job for a long time. She picked up the slack. had no job for a long time had no job for a long time had no job for a long time How long did she float you? Maybe she feels entitled. Why is your name not on her account? You're married, why are you splitting up the finances like she's your fucking roommate?
/r/askMRP19/06/18 02:30 AM
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If this kid is not passionate about playing ball and they push this shit on him, great way to fuck his head up.
/r/askMRP18/06/18 03:55 PM
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Depends on the situation. If it has nothing to do with her then why tell her?
/r/askMRP16/06/18 05:45 PM
2

Side chicks only blow up your shit cause beta bitches dangle relationship values and lie about pretty much everything. They do this cause they have a shit SMV and need other bullshit to bridge the gap. The result is she ends up feeling deceived. This is the main difference between alpha and beta cheating.
/r/askMRP16/06/18 03:24 PM
1

I'm 6ft, 195 and I stay around 10%, visible abs year round. Took me fucking years to get here. I plan my goals in 6 months increments. "I've been lifting about 6 weeks now" fucking hilarious...
/r/askMRP15/06/18 05:40 PM
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Couple weeks ago this little blond 20 something is trying her damnedest to swallow my dick. So she's struggling and while not the best performance the effort was worthy of applause. She tried so fucking hard to swallow me whole that the head of my cock hurt for the next 3 days. It hurt enough that I actually went to get an STD test, true story. All in all I was just a little bruised from her exertion. So you tell me what communication is going to get the wife to perform with such enthusiasm? How…
/r/askMRP15/06/18 05:28 PM
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>It’s weird the way to get her out of this is to literally explain myself this is not because the words make her comfortable, its your actions, submitting to her, establishing that she's still in control by explaining yourself.
/r/askMRP14/06/18 07:07 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/6wafgm/you_can_not_fear_her_emotions/
/r/askMRP14/06/18 07:03 PM
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I think "Original Sin" wins for stupidest concept. Karma is bullshit but in the mechanics of causality, karma is evident. The idea that good things happen to good people is stupid. The idea that thought begets action and action begets outcome and that all outcomes are to some degree rooted in our thought>decisions>actions, that's truth.
/r/askMRP13/06/18 05:00 PM
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Yes sure status is attractive, doesn’t matter. It’s all about WHY shes fucking you. And attractive means many things. You are focused on what gets her in bed and not what gets her wet.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/06/18 02:10 AM
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a waste of time and a fucking huge DLV when I can't keep it up If you’re not shit then she thinks what the fuck is wrong with him. If you’re the shit she thinks what the fuck is wrong with me.
/r/askMRP11/06/18 08:39 PM
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I’m not trying to trigger you but the reality is you don’t know. You can not account for all of her time. So while not probable, it’s still possible. My point is stop assuming either way or you will jade your own perception. Right now what you know is she acting out some internal conflict that does not properly reflect the situation.
/r/askMRP09/06/18 01:15 PM
2

Prob 10% or less for the V but fat distribution varies so hard to say. Best tip for maintaining low body fat. Always be hungry. Also good idea to get your thyroid checked. Everyone talks about T but when was the last time you had a metabolic panel?
/r/askMRP08/06/18 12:37 AM
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Weakness comes in many forms. Stop telling yourself a story and start seeing things for what they are.
/r/askMRP06/06/18 12:36 AM
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Don’t create patterns. Don’t dip your toes in cause you’re easing into the rejection. Ie instead of massaging her, slowly undressing. Pin her arms to her sides, push her up against a wall. Force her to kiss you. Im not saying sub one for the other. Mix it up. Have no routine, always initiate. Have you read SGM?
/r/askMRP05/06/18 05:35 AM
1

But are you going to swipe right?
/r/askMRP05/06/18 05:08 AM
1

Way too many fucking words. Just smile, smack her ass and go lift.
/r/askMRP03/06/18 10:10 PM
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My current method is to gym -> shower -> find her and start massaging her and taking her clothes off until I can seal the deal if she is receptive. This is some passive, indirect, beta style initiation. Stop doing this shit.
/r/askMRP03/06/18 10:07 PM
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Idk still sounds like hamstering to avoid the uncomfortable shit. You don’t run cause you don’t run. Has fuck all to do with predators or prey.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/18 02:33 PM
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Imo too many dudes call themselves powerlifters cause they can lift heavy shit but lack the self control to kill the love handles. She does not give a fuck about your deadlift PR. She absolutely gives a fuck about dat V. I don’t train for aesthetics, its just a result of the intensity.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/18 02:28 PM
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My theory on way running isn't masculine is simple. Prey run You’ve written this a few times and i just don’t get it. Prey runs and unless you can move faster than that prey you don’t eat. Whats the metaphor here, be a snake in the grass, a scavenger bird, a venus fly trap? I’d rather be a big fucking beast moving at speed ready to take all. I fucking hate running so i do it atleast 3 times a week. I run till my sides burn and vomit creeps up. Im in 1k club and I’ll run a 6 min mile. I don’t get…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/18 01:07 PM
1

Frame is subjective, fucking slippery concept. Here’s my take on it... Frame is about being present in the moment. When I hear guys talking about losing frame I assume they are either worrying about future outcome or regretting, judging, past events. Either is not present and your actions originate from a leas then ideal mindset. I’ve understood frame as coming from “frame of reference” “a set of criteria or stated values in relation to which measurements or judgments can be made.” Weak frame is…
/r/askMRP23/05/18 01:22 AM
1

Frame, OI, abundance. If you’ve been here for years. What the fuck have you been doing?
/r/askMRP22/05/18 11:57 PM
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https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cinderella_effect
/r/askMRP20/05/18 01:00 AM
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A mans love is displayed in his actions. STFU.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/18 12:13 PM
2

In reference to a dude being fast yea. Idk guess im dabbling on the spectrum today. Off to count some matchsticks.
/r/askMRP18/05/18 06:57 PM
2

Guys with wheels, wtf does that mean? We hatin on the handicapped now?
/r/askMRP18/05/18 05:50 PM
3

I don’t get all the hate for the stretch jeans. The high end brands make stretch in all cuts they dont have to be skinny hipster style. But i agree bespoke or tailored is aways superior.
/r/askMRP18/05/18 05:45 PM
1

Your skill set should be T shaped in that you have an expertise in some things but then also a wide knowledge across all tech. Basically a generalist with a specialty. Do not get lost in the tech for what it is but see it as a vehicle for accomplishing business objectives. Stay close to the money and offer solutions that translate to revenue. Seek opportunities to lead and grow. Once you have some experience find the right opportunity in a startup to enter early, cofounder or first hire is the f…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/18 05:06 AM
2

Im big on loyalty but the trick is, first loyalty is for people not companies and loyalty to one self comes above all others.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/18 01:07 AM
1

The average tenure at a tech startup is about 10 months. The highest paid employees on average change jobs every 2 years or so. 5 years is a lifetime in tech.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/18 01:06 AM
4

an older HB8 Unicorns all around. You’re adorable Steven.
/r/askMRP15/05/18 11:52 PM
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In other news, A fat fuck drunk captain became a fat fuck divorced drunk captain. Congrats on accomplishing so little OP.
/r/askMRP15/05/18 06:51 PM
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Red Pill women ARE permitted to participate and even give advice Written in this thing over there 👉
/r/askMRP11/05/18 01:56 PM
2

Would kill a little of me to see shit locker central in the photos. Na some of us live this shit...
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/18 04:48 AM
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What you tell her is how she positions you in her mind. Don't sell yourself as good LTR material, sell yourself as a good time and a great fuck. The hot pool boy has more plates than dudes that work at Google.
/r/askMRP05/05/18 04:28 AM
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> You need to able to act indifferently No you just need to be truly indifferent. In your first comment you referenced "The hardest part" being keeping an IDGAF attitude when she becomes of value again... What do you think? Is this true abundance and NGAF or is this a way of protecting something? I don't think you should have to act indifferently towards threats. My wife makes no threats because I make no bluffs. You can engage bad behavior on your terms if you have strong frame. Be indifferent …
/r/askMRP05/05/18 04:07 AM
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You need to be willing and able to wreck it no matter how much you value it This is a possible reaction, this is, if this then that, its not IDGAF. Live your life true to your core values without comprise, without concern for outcome. Then there is nothing to destroy. She either takes the ride or gets off at the next stop. All the while you’ve done nothing different.
/r/askMRP05/05/18 12:45 AM
2

Boom! The difference between faking and making.
/r/askMRP04/05/18 11:56 PM
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So glad to see you, there’s the door. Thats the bases for all power in a relationship. Abundance is the willingness to loses something of value without losing frame. Your speaking about maintaining frame but what your saying is slipping backwards into betadom.
/r/askMRP04/05/18 10:50 PM
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When you have to go back and re-read text messages because you can't remember which bitch is who, then maybe cut back. have a great job, so doing well getting dates. Don't dangle that beta bullshit in front of plates. Sends the wrong message. I get to much a good thing and lose my time for myself This won't happen if you're in your own frame. or somehow fuck this up Abundance bro, personally I like to see how much I can fuck with them up front. It weeds out the princesses and the cunts.
/r/askMRP04/05/18 06:35 PM
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The hard boundary here is teaching the kids it's okay to deceive dad. The rest is bullshit.
/r/askMRP04/05/18 06:22 PM
2

I like strange.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/18 02:17 AM
5

Do the uncomfortable thing. Go hungry, lift heavy, run hard. Do it consistently. Oh and tren, tren is god mode.
/r/askMRP03/05/18 02:06 AM
1

Ive come to realize, for me, there is a distinct difference between “knowing other women will fuck you” and fucking multiple women. Even though the potential for opportunity remains the same, my state of mind does not. Its the difference between thinking/knowing you could hunt and kill that lion and having just slayed the beast. At the end of the day it’s probably all just serotonin and dopamine but there’s an absolute mental difference.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/18 03:01 PM
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For clarity I’m not saying you’re wrong. Absolutely never worry about what she will do. But in this case its about what she did do and he did not. AWALT means they’re all capable, it does not mean they will. It also does not mean they get any kind of a pass because it’s possible they all act shitty. Tell me this dude was her prize, please explain? When right before devoting herself she’s dabbling in strange. The sad sorry fucking fact for many here is that if you’re not nor ever were the prize t…
/r/askMRP01/05/18 01:28 AM
1

Robby gunna take his ball and go home guys.
/r/askMRP01/05/18 01:13 AM
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Na you’re right, ignore her behavior. It’s certainly not a warning sign for whats to come. He should focus on being a happy go lucky cuck like yourself. Having standards and setting boundries is certainly going to land him in her frame right bro?
/r/askMRP01/05/18 12:28 AM
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If he didn’t have ongoing trust issues I doubt he’d be here. That said Im thinking why invest more time in a woman thats not worthy? Any woman worth keeping should be meeting his needs, why should she get any points for doing what she is supposed to do? The longer he's married the more money/assets lost in a divorce. Additionally he may learn to be the prize but he will not be her prize. She clearly demonstrated this right before they got married. We all know AWALT but she clearly demonstrated u…
/r/askMRP30/04/18 07:08 PM
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This is what we tell dudes in 10+ year marriages w/ kids. This dude has been married 8 months. Its most likely going to take longer than that to unfuck himself. Better to fail fast while the damage is limited.
/r/askMRP30/04/18 05:46 PM
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In this instance given no kids and the short duration of the marriage, he can most likely get out now with very little consequence. He will never get over it, why should he? She has displayed, at the peak of trust formation, that she is an untrustworthy bitch. She should have immediately been downgraded to plate status never to return. Instead OP married her. With red pill knowledge he will never reconcile that decision. He will never get over it because its his failure not hers. That she cooks,…
/r/askMRP30/04/18 05:32 PM
2

Life is not a journey because if so, then the destination, the end result is death. But short of that, this is arguing semantics. Forest for the trees...
/r/askMRP30/04/18 02:04 AM
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When you journey to the store, do you follow a process or do you just wander out the fucking door and hope luck gets you there? Maybe you apply a process to enable a journey. Come on bro...
/r/askMRP29/04/18 09:30 PM
1

look up codependency and see of that doesn’t resonate with you. This should be in askmrp.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/18 03:28 PM
2

What’s she doing while you worry about her “happiness” in a hypothetical situation 3-4 years from now? Sidebar or GTFO time wasting faggot.
/r/askMRP27/04/18 12:08 PM
1

Did.. did you just DEER me with your wife’s feelz on your efforts? Lets back track a second because i know you must have learned this shit by now. The adulty sub is meaningless because awalt. If any motivator is derived of fear of losing her then you’re not in your own frame. Hypergamy is not a great motivator. Fear of loss is not a great motivator. Your wife’s comfort test has nothing to do with it
/r/askMRP24/04/18 01:35 AM
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If nothing else it's a great motivator to keep lifting, keep focused on the mission, avoid all bad habits, and never let your guard down. And then she still fucks some strange and you’re left with shit cause you were doing it all for her. Awalt I can smell shitty frame like a fart in a car bro. Its not a motivator at all, it just is.
/r/askMRP22/04/18 01:23 AM
1

Im hitting a bunch of dead links and deleted posts. WTF is nSuns bro?
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/18 12:21 AM
1

The vertical eye scan. Whenever you’re making first appearances watch her eyes. If she finds you attractive her eyes will quickly look down and then back up. Shes attracted and just checked you out. Thing is this will most likely only happen at the beginning of your interaction and it will be quick. The more comfortable she is with you the more often and prolonged the scan will be. Its usually really subtle and done uncontrollably so you need to pay attention. If she does this pretty consistentl…
/r/askMRP17/04/18 01:32 AM
1

Assume the reader is stupid and needs you to walk him through your plan. Outside of ad copy selling shit to the unwashed masses, I think this is shit advice. Simple > Complex > Complicated but there's a great difference between simple and stupid. "If I had more time, I would have written a shorter letter." It's all perspective I guess but distilling your message so that it's clear and concise has nothing to do with the intelligence of your reader. Don't dumb yourself down, refine your message. M…
/r/askMRP13/04/18 07:20 PM
8

I'm most likely entitled to part of the business and alimony, etc., but feel like that's the lazy/vindictive way out. Said no woman ever... Get your fucking head straight bro cause this post reads like some weak victim shit. If she's done with you and you take this pussy, I'm a failure attitude forward, she will fuck you up.
/r/askMRP13/04/18 01:11 AM
17

Fucking Ned Flanders over here ☝️ Okely Dokely Faggot
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/18 01:14 AM
3

Ima save this asshole thousands https://youtu.be/Ow0lr63y4Mw
/r/askMRP09/04/18 09:31 PM
4

100% this. This is the one circumstance where you give her exactly what she asks for.
/r/askMRP09/04/18 09:25 PM
1

The crux here is establishing what is your ego/insecurity and was is an actual red flag? Are you cool with her going on overnight camping trips with other dudes in general?
/r/askMRP09/04/18 05:17 PM
9

Look at all the little judmental bitches projecting their experience in this thread. Drugs have a tendsncy to amplify what you are, if alcohol makes you an asshole, if weed makes you unmotivated, guess what faggot?
/r/askMRP09/04/18 01:26 AM
4

No kids = No problem Just hate fuck her until the resentment fades.
/r/askMRP06/04/18 10:49 PM
1

Good thing mommy likes your new coloring book. The new guys will be along to tell you what a stupid fuck you are. Until then know that either you are such a pussy that your will power can’t control your feelz or worse you need mommy’s approval so badly that you are already seeking validation after only 2 months.
/r/askMRP31/03/18 01:59 PM
1

If she is DTF on the regular, providing value to his life, compassion it is. My point is why does she get points for something she should be doing anyway? Women never extend us as much do they? The only real factor here is him, can he live with the changes that will be required. Is this a sacrifice, how much and is he willing to sustain it given how long is an unknown.
/r/askMRP26/03/18 04:09 AM
6

Even if she is this is a poor metric to factor into a decision like this.
/r/askMRP25/03/18 08:52 PM
4

Perspective is everything. 100 push-ups meh, try knocking out 80 burpees in 5 min. My point being always push your limits because soon enough 100 push-ups ain’t shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/18 12:59 AM
1

“A boy and his dog” 1975 The ending gets me in the feelz every time.
/r/askMRP18/03/18 04:19 PM
1

Because you can’t control it nor should you need it. You want loyalty and companionship, get a dog.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/03/18 12:28 PM
15

I’m not wasting time on this shit you’ve obviously done no work. I do find it interesting that the weakest frames always ask us to spare their ego.
/r/askMRP09/03/18 02:24 AM
6

My gut tells me that 30% includes the people who shit dip toothbrushes.
/r/askMRP05/03/18 04:15 AM
33

Bro you drove shirtless in the cold, to the hardware store, with your toothbrush. This kind of shit only happens around crazy bitches.
/r/askMRP05/03/18 04:11 AM
5

How do you 'trust' your woman when there is literally no incentive for people to be trustworthy in modern society? You are the incentive. Beyond that trust is bullshit, probability is all that matters. Past behavior usually begets future action. Most people are about as faithful as their options and everybody fucking lies. So what?
/r/askMRP05/03/18 03:27 AM
7

What is really interesting is that I knew I had abundance 4 months ago when I met my gf. I had 3 women interested in me then, without even really trying. How did I forget that so quickly ? How did I come to think that this one woman was so irreplaceable that I would consider staying in a relationship that wasn't everything I wanted ? Where the fuck does that thinking come from ? Your frame is shit, it’s reactionary and dependent on validation. You know things but you seem to have learned little.
/r/askMRP04/03/18 02:26 AM
9

Her: Oh do you think that woman is attractive? You: Why did she say something about me? Her: Oh do you think that woman is attractive? You: Do you? Should I ask her to come over? Her: Oh do you think that woman is attractive? You: Can we take her home? She'll probably get sick of it and stop asking but maybe, just maybe, you get to disappoint two women one night. You can be honest, you can lie or you can do what servers your interests.
/r/askMRP28/02/18 05:37 AM
4

You can not enforce boundaries with words.
/r/askMRP27/02/18 10:01 PM
1

Oh and make sure they test estrodiol sensitive not the cheap test.
/r/askMRP26/02/18 08:32 PM
1

This and you should be pinning twice a week to minimize hormone fluctuations. And don’t just accept an AI your blood work is what should determine what you need. The less you can get away with the better.
/r/askMRP26/02/18 08:30 PM
42

Opening up to your wife about anxieties is the same as applying leeches. Expanding on this for the new guys. When you share anxiety you’re sharing your burden. You may think you’re just venting but what she hears is weakness and what she feels is your anxiety. Women have no interest in sharing a mans burden. Your feelings don’t matter, how you make her feel is all that exists. This is all she remembers of these interactions. Celebrate openly but suffer in silence.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/18 01:19 PM
9

This is weakness and you should reflect it back at him as such. You sound like a kind person so maybe ignore his rant and then simply say “I’m sure you’ll figure it out”. Remind him it’s his problem to solve. If after a time he still flails about do for him what my wife once did for me. Ask “why are you being such a pussy about this”. It will sting, but it will be the truth and not your harsh words, that cut deep enough to cause a change. And to the other gentlemen giving advice here, since when…
/r/askMRP22/02/18 12:54 PM
1

Sums me up, Ima use this on tinder.
/r/askMRP14/02/18 02:34 AM
6

For me it goes like this... I’ll AA you cause I like you or for my own entertainment. I’ll ignore you if I don’t like you cause I have no use for you. I’ll confront you if you cross a hard boundary. The thing about boundaries is you have to consistently enforce them. There’s scorched earth on the outside of my good graces and it surprises nobody when it happens. I once kicked my MIL out of my house but it involved my kids. I’d never break frame and let the ego listen in on her nonsense otherwise…
/r/askMRP14/02/18 12:15 AM
19

I wouldn’t even AA this shit. Silent pause and then... did you just say something or oh didn’t see you arrive. Then move right the fuck on without addressing anything. Complete dismissal = no attention. Do you stop to address the concerns of every dog that barks at you?
/r/askMRP13/02/18 06:30 PM
3

it’s true about the mill clinics but if you think $60 in tests is a full panel, you’re an idiot. That test covers test and e2. There are tons of other markers that’s should be watched. Hows your lipids bro?
/r/askMRP11/02/18 01:27 PM
2

How does one remember to be happy? Maybe it’s better to remember a man needs very little to be happy and that which displeases you is most likely trivial. In regards to TRT here’s a pro tip. Order some needles at 27g 1in. Use the horse needles the doctor most likely gave you to draw from the vial and then swap for the 27g. Much easier plus less scar tissue in the long run. You can go as small as 30g although it makes it slower to inject. You will gain muscle strength much faster than the rest of…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/18 05:59 AM
2

Been awhile but I’m fairly sure Reeves uses center axis relock in regards to firearms on that film. I’m also own a few glock mods from TT so.... My point is movies are not real no matter what research went into them the end game is about visual aesthetics. If you want to learn situational awareness then take a class in situational awareness. Would you learn to be a shrimp boat captain by watching forest gump?
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/18 04:07 PM
7

Fucking John Wick? Yea maybe follow that up with the matrix and learn how to stop bullets too. This is some never been advice right here.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/18 03:21 PM
4

Until you stop seeking validation, until you stop valuing pussy over your own integrity, you will be controlled by it. Pussy is worthless else you are worthless.
/r/askMRP23/01/18 04:46 PM
1

I agree but keep in mind to earn anything implies judgment. You can toil in the field but you can not earn the harvest, nature gives fuck all. I’ve earned the ability to take what I want. This is closer to the truth for me as it requires no judgment.
/r/askMRP23/01/18 01:55 AM
1

Same. Ritual is now my cornerstone.
/r/askMRP22/01/18 11:51 PM
3

Anger is a gift if you can harness it into constructive action. Given enough time you will look back and ask yourself, who the fuck was that guy? Then the anger is gone and you will miss it because there are few more powerful motivators for change. Embrace the suck and kill your old self with every new step forward.
/r/askMRP22/01/18 11:02 PM
1

From what you guys are saying it seems my krav experience is atypical. But we do actually spare.
/r/askMRP06/01/18 02:27 AM
0

I get that this is the experience for some/most. Krav pressure tests have provided me more injuries than BJJ and half a dozen other forms over 20 years.
/r/askMRP05/01/18 11:48 PM
2

20 years experience in the trenches but yeah I’m still not sure what the fuck you’re saying here
/r/askMRP05/01/18 11:46 PM
-4

Krav Maga is no problem with lifting. It’s basically cardio. Do you normally practice eye gouges, ear concussions and groin strikes in your cardio sessions or just talking out your ass?
/r/askMRP05/01/18 10:02 PM
13

Keep in mind that you do not want to become the family plow horse. If she wants to contribute value she will take initiative after seeing you taking action. If she does not then it's not your job to do EVERYTHING in the long term. If she does not begin to pickup the slack after some time then funds should be diverted away from her and towards a housekeeper. Your job as a leader is to manifest outcomes. It's the difference between "I want a clean house" vs "I want a wife that cleans". Only one of…
/r/askMRP03/01/18 03:49 PM
1

Outstanding.
/r/askMRP07/12/17 02:32 AM
2

Either you sleep on your parents couch or you sleep just enough to keep from burning out and you grind mother fucker. Is your idea even halfway not retarded? Do you have some logical plan to monitize? Have you heard of investors? Go read the e-myth. It’s dark now and my family is sleeping, I have deadlifts to do. Fuck off.
/r/askMRP07/12/17 02:26 AM
1

I have had two 40 hour a week full time jobs for years. Consulting or salaried? Do they know or do you just manage both simultaneously?
/r/askMRP07/12/17 02:13 AM
13

FUCK YOUR HOPE. Hope is bullshit. This entire post was you hoping we’d say her behavior is an indication of her interest. We can’t know that and it doesn’t matter right now. You’ve changed and with every aspect of your life you must exhibit this change. 25 years is a long time, she probably doesn’t believe you wont go back to being shit. You need to cement your positive behavior with consistency. You have zero DLVs allowed moving forward. You must do this in your frame. Stop fucking worrying abo…
/r/askMRP06/12/17 02:11 AM
1

From a singular viewpoint of biological reproduction, only under the premise of underpopulation, men are disposable. Given the current state of overpopulation it could be argued that everyone is disposable. In terms of a human repopulation project, well you can clone a woman from a man by doubling the X but without a man... We are not disposable but we are in competition for a limited resource. The losers just think they’re disposable. As far as empathy goes, I like the way Aunt Flo said it best…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/17 05:06 AM
10

There is no greater powerlessness for men than a lack of control over our own disposability The entire premise of being disposable is based on external valuation. We are only powerless if we choose to let others decide our value. When shots get fired, most men cower with the women. Some men protect their loved ones moving them to safety. Few men rush towards the danger. These men who move towards the fire, they are not committing suicide nor are they primarily seeking to protect their family. Th…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/12/17 04:03 PM
6

So you agree with the lazy cunt part? Pain motivates most people to move, but not you, holding on to the hot iron and asking us if you should let go. The person you could become would not make the same decisions as the turd you are right now. Your perspective needs to change, that’s how shit gets better. Fuck red pill. Do you want to be the best version of yourself? That’s what this is about, find the signal in the noise.
/r/askMRP02/12/17 03:02 AM
6

But bothered you enough to post about it. This is called insecurity, stop bullshitting yourself.
/r/askMRP30/11/17 01:38 PM
1

have to do this by not trying to do this Tao of MRP right here.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/17 05:25 PM
1

For longevity, it pretty much has to be random. The dopamine response to scheduled rewards decreases over time. I just dabble, perhaps one of the dudes here is in the behavioral sciences.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/17 02:48 PM
3

Punish swiftly and reward slowly Or punish swiftly and reward randomly.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/17 04:17 AM
-2

Come on bro the gym does not fix weak frame. We can go to any fucking gym anywhere right now and find abs to frame 100 to 1. And I say this as a dude in the gym 6 days a week.
/r/askMRP27/11/17 02:21 AM
2

You traded your fucks for a ticket and went along for the ride. Why would you even care about the outcome of a board game? Part of maintaining frame is realizing what is motivating you to act. Figure out why you bought in to the bullshit and you’ll know why you lost frame. Start routinely asking yourself, why do I feel this way? The intention is to self reflect while still STFU before you spill the butthurts.
/r/askMRP27/11/17 02:17 AM
8

Next time flip the board over and stomp out of the room like a proper bitch. If your frame is so weak that a board game triggers you, well you don’t really have frame do you?
/r/askMRP26/11/17 04:00 PM
0

I love me too, then kino. Never respond to it seriously unless it involves a comfort test. But occasionally, unprovoked, drop it on her. Don’t make a habit of always doing it before initiating tho, keep it random, keep it rare.
/r/askMRP22/11/17 08:04 PM
3

Stopped reading at “my ex says”
/r/askMRP22/11/17 07:48 PM
20

Kill that puppy bro It’s one thing to have an affair but to be openly mocked is an exhibition of her character. Sure you were a weak bitch but even now, would you treat her the same? She continues to demonstrate a lack of respect and you continue to weakly enforce boundaries. The 3 some thing is womanese for new dick. She had an emotional affair, probably physical. Fucking an ex is easy mode. Getting over that and then not be resentful for being mocked, yea good luck. Why would you want to NGAF …
/r/MarriedRedPill19/11/17 04:05 AM
5

The value is not in mirroring behavior disorders. The point is to be awake enough to see all options both true and manipulative. To execute on what serves your best interests which are your own to decide. Knowledge as a weapon or a tool.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/17 04:33 AM
1

Or make yourself a noose, either way.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/17 02:04 AM
1

$500 says this faggot wrote this shit while mommy ironed his underwear in the next room.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/11/17 11:23 PM
11

40 pushups, holy shit! How do you find the time to buy the fig netwons?
/r/askMRP16/11/17 10:36 PM
1

if I weren't with her I'd be having a few different girls a week. Come on bro? Zero chance you have frame or abundance with no game. You're putting this chick on a pedestal because you've created an invisible barrier to abundance. Your not going to assert yourself properly if you don't know she can be replaced easily. Saying it don't mean shit, you need to do the work. Forget about her bullshit. Figure out your hard boundaries, what does she get nexted for? Then tell her what you would absolutel…
/r/askMRP16/11/17 06:32 AM
1

A fucking mess Always is. What happened to the days when you smacked a dude with an empty glove and then a couple weeks later someone gets shot on the front lawn? The good ol' days...
/r/askMRP15/11/17 09:07 PM
1

Pain is no excuse to acquiesce. He won't kill you, but he may just start to respect boundaries if you're willing to enforce them. Unless he will actually kill you. I wanted to punch my father so many times but never did because HE WOULD ACTUALLY FUCKING KILL ME. That said I agree these two should throw down. Not in the kitchen in front of the kids but like the end of rocky 3. Just a private face smashing among two men.
/r/askMRP15/11/17 04:11 PM
2

Oh and focusing on what you don’t want is a sure way to get angry.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/11/17 04:39 AM
3

You can have everything you want, it just might not all come from one woman. Keep working on yourself.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/11/17 04:34 AM
4

Check out the big brain on brad! Seriously I have no idea if you made this shit up and I lack the intellect to repeat it but solid answer.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/11/17 11:44 PM
1

I meant the choice of words, gentle - men. Why gentle?
/r/MarriedRedPill14/11/17 09:58 PM
3

It’s in our very language. We say ladies and gentlemen, not men, we are essential acknowledging that we are not acting in our true state. There is no female equivalent. We need to be men first, gentlemen second. Sometimes we gotta piss on some shoes even if they’re ours.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/11/17 07:18 PM
28

Does 11 not bring into question other legal implications?
/r/MarriedRedPill14/11/17 07:04 PM
10

It always come back to OYS. I don’t get paternity leave so I planned ahead and used two weeks vacation time for each kid. I’ve been to every doctors appointment. I’m there for most breakfast and every dinner and bath. I put my kids to bed every night and I do none of this because I’m concerned about the outcome of a divorce.
/r/askMRP14/11/17 06:54 PM
5

Revenge body lmao, she'd need a time machine cause I’d be openly fucking women half her age. Thats a nice hamster you got there bro.
/r/askMRP13/11/17 01:25 AM
1

I see your point here, I don’t train to power lift, so that’s why I don’t use straps. Im more about balance and simplicity. I’ll go lighter rather than wear a belt or straps. Im easily in the 1000 lb club but I also run a 6 min mile. Both of these are equally important to me.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/17 02:54 PM
1

Google blast and cruise trt, I think it’s what you’re looking for. Basically you cycle heavy in between blood work. I’ve tried many peps. Hard to find legit sources and cost to benefit is not there. I’d pass. Pretty common to get prescribed hcg with trt these days but I think it’s unnecessary to run it year round.
/r/askMRP12/11/17 02:40 AM
1

straps = no traps. I’m not saying don’t use them but you should work on grip strength to eventually lose them.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/11/17 03:45 PM
1

+1 on the weighted pullups. I pretty much only do weighted pulls. I prefer a weight vest. I’ll do 10 sets of 5 with 45lbs fairly comfortably these days. I started with non weighted singles. Initially I could not do i pullup. Persistence is everything.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/11/17 03:43 PM
2

Better to hang for time, keep adding time and increase grip strength. It’s also good for your shoulders. Adding straps is focusing on the symptom.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/11/17 03:36 PM
20

Bang up job Columbo. Even when you got cucked (literally) you're still keeping her in the loop every step of the way. This needs to be emphasized. If you know she cheated, DO NOT CONFRONT HER until you're ready to take action. There's no benefit in tipping your hand.
/r/askMRP08/11/17 03:59 PM
3

Let me guess, it’s a startup? How long you been in tech because you just described business as usual.
/r/askMRP07/11/17 09:30 PM
4

Perhaps I can teach her how to be woman. Na sounds like you taught her how to be a man by acting like a woman. And now that we know all about your snowflake how about you tell us what the fuck you are doing to improve yourself.
/r/askMRP05/11/17 07:27 PM
5

Still rolling that blue pill around in your mouth huh? Marriage is not the metric.
/r/askMRP05/11/17 02:13 PM
8

If you wanted to you would tiny dancer. The difference between I do and I want to do is a set of balls. Go find yours.
/r/askMRP04/11/17 12:22 PM
10

Things that turn your cock into a breaching muzzle Trenbolone + Tadalafil
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/17 08:39 PM
1

Why the hell do DT men succeed with it? It seems like such a destructive quality. I think you're touching on "Narcissistic Supply". Their behavior is destructive but not necessarily unto themselves. Find a narc and you'll usually find a codependent in tow. I've never thought of these behaviors as masculine/feminine mentalities. It's an interesting concept though, something to ponder.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/10/17 09:36 PM
1

False frame certainly relates to some narcissistic behavior but what about lack of applied empathy and the other destructive traits? When narcs break frame they don’t DEER they destroy. I don’t see them as interchangeable. Narcissism is all about false frame, it’s just not a choice. The self narrative extends from frame, false or not.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/10/17 06:09 PM
1

"It’s no use going back to yesterday, because I was a different person then."
/r/MarriedRedPill30/10/17 05:12 PM
2

Is rock bottom another way of saying - I hit the limits of this particular frame and now it is time for me to construct a new one? I never understood constructing frame, only constructing self. Frame should emanate from our true self, hence authentic. If it does not, it's a false persona no different than what is commonly referred to as the narcissist's mask. This mask is a defense mechanism, a protection of one's vulnerabilities. Another way to say it. Frame is based in thought and begets all a…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/10/17 05:10 PM
1

I blast and cruise so im essential always on cycle. Been on for years. Hairloss is genetic, the cycle would only speed it up. Bloating and acne are dosage related and genetics. I never had a problem with sides but some do. Keep in mind i do this under doc supervision. Im dialed in and know what works best for me because I went through the trial and error. I spent something like 10k on meds and tests my first year on PEDs.
/r/askMRP25/10/17 08:03 PM
1

I gained 10lbs while losing 1% bf. Hint... i was on gear
/r/askMRP25/10/17 12:49 AM
2

The point is she’s not an 8 and your overestimate is in conflict with any logical answer. You see an 8, others see crows feet, stretch marks, sun damage, wrinkle lines, cellulite, etc. Even if its minor and She looks great “for her age” shes not a fucking 8.
/r/askMRP25/10/17 12:04 AM
1

It’s not about sparking an event its about triggering her emotions. How you initiate depends on the situation. Control the situation. You want aggressive sex, piss her off. You want romantic bullshit, light some candles. Setting the mood = emotional manipulation same thing. You have to know what, when and how hard to push those buttons. Not awalt in this case, only one way to find out.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/17 04:01 AM
3

The sexual escalation is known as hysterical bonding. This is a possible outcome but it very much depends on how she views the relationship and that depends on his frame and actions. I’ll add this for OP. Watch her shit tests. If she starts to verbally devalue you or worse, thats her breaking you down in preparation of leaving.
/r/askMRP22/10/17 02:27 PM
1

Men need to know their rights and the laws. The laws vary by state but in most states you have a time limit after birth to contest paternity. Get a paternity test, do it right away. Know what you need to protect yourself or get fucked. https://www.labcorpdna.com
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/17 10:14 PM
4

Your definition of marriage is fucked, there is no equality, only balance. Show me one example of equality in nature. Nothing is created equal, society strives for equality of outcome confusing it with equal opportunity. Women want equality and privilege, not binary equality. Find the right balance and she will call that equality.
/r/askMRP21/10/17 03:39 PM
2

My point is to invest time in things that give back to you. Everyone needs down time but don’t make a habit of unrewarding activity. It’s not about what you want to do or what she wants you to do, it’s about valuing your time and putting away childish distractions. You could have fucked your wife but instead you fingered that controller. Its all a choice, be attractive, dont be unattractive.
/r/askMRP21/10/17 02:16 PM
10

Failed comfort test, probably to much push not enough pull. No game. She was willing to fuck you, thats why she came back. I rewarded myself this week, got a sweet set of kettlebells. Put away the kiddie bullshit and reward yourself with more than some mindless entertainment and a dad bod. You might think its just video games, bet she sees a giant manchild playing with his tonka truck.
/r/askMRP21/10/17 12:53 PM
-1

Is polishing turds a Mormon thing? I wonder what happens when you rub two turds together.
/r/askMRP20/10/17 06:32 PM
1

I was 100% spot on about you being full of shit. From your alt I reached the point where I wanted her over my family so I told her and she rejected me. This not about the coworker, it’s not about your wife. Its about you and your inability to accept the outcomes of your decisions.
/r/askMRP20/10/17 12:17 AM
17

I'm more confused about what I did wrong in the situation itself Judging your actions by her reaction is what you're doing wrong.
/r/askMRP19/10/17 05:31 PM
4

YOU ARE FULL OF SHIT. Usually the cure for oneitis is fucking other women. But I don't want to. So that explains the posts in /r/adultery then huh? Figure out what the fuck you want. I'm in love with another woman. You love her? A women you have not even kissed, really? You don't even know her. Let me some this up for you... You've been with your wife since 18, I'm guessing minimal other sexual experiences. You want strange but you can't reconcile the actions and your morals. You want to fuck so…
/r/askMRP19/10/17 05:25 PM
5

Nope your issue is you’re scared to be alone. If you had abundance you would act on what you wanted being ok if nothing worked out because there’s new pussy around the corner.
/r/askMRP19/10/17 01:40 PM
1

Time and gravity.
/r/askMRP18/10/17 09:02 PM
1

I could drop a ton of OpSec information but I'm not going to waste my time if it's going to be removed. Meh, in fairness I should have said unwanted. I'm not aware of posts being removed for cheating, just locked. It's not my concern though. For me, I'm only interested in the big picture, the overall tone and quality of the sub. Why the mods do what they do on an incremental level doesn't concern me. I'm here because of the brutally honest truth that is available at mrp. I'm only concerned with …
/r/askMRP18/10/17 06:52 PM
3

But... but... that's not fair. You mean you do whatever you want and she lives under different standards... you monster. These weak men who seek equality with everything will never understand, I can so I do.
/r/askMRP18/10/17 03:14 PM
3

We should be locking down on the moralizing, not locking out discussions. The little bitches here who are worried what other men do with their dicks need to go. Is MRP about fixing marriages or sexual strategy? The minute we discuss sexual strategy that does not involve the wife the shit brigade shows up to project their insecurities, fuck off. Additionally most of these cunts have a blue pill concept of cheating. For some of us, fucking other women just means not saying no. I could drop a ton o…
/r/askMRP18/10/17 03:11 PM
4

Congratulations this is the opposite of abundance.
/r/askMRP17/10/17 04:01 AM
3

Downgrade to plate, lying stops being your problem. More importantly, are you watching her social media all day bro? Get out of her frame.
/r/askMRP17/10/17 03:51 AM
2

I agree but I think he should verify first.
/r/askMRP15/10/17 08:03 PM
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AWALT, say nothing, verify, fuck trust.
/r/askMRP15/10/17 02:24 PM
1

This is the only sane answer. I bet he spends time crying in the mirror and scratching his nips.
/r/askMRP14/10/17 03:35 AM
1

She is accepting parts of yourself that you have yet to accept, you are the problem. She sees you now, you see yourself then. Own what you’ve done or go back to being shit.
/r/askMRP14/10/17 03:30 AM
1

Is this the best you could do? You're not even a good troll.
/r/askMRP13/10/17 06:37 PM
5

Your frame sucks. You go to your nephew's birthday party for the kid you may be his only access to positive masculinity. Get out of your brother-in-laws frame, who gives a shit what he does? We hate in others what we fear in ourselves. I have to learn to also be at least sufferable, at most fun to be around. Not for them, but because I feel that MRP is a way of life, not something to switch on and off when you want some nookie. This is being reactive to your environment, again shitty frame. Make…
/r/askMRP13/10/17 03:16 PM
2

Nope, sometimes I compare it with drowning kittens, sometimes punching babies. Sometimes it's hard to grasp the words so I just smash shit with my hands as a visual example. Fuck off Ms.
/r/askMRP13/10/17 02:54 PM
6

MRP is sexual strategy at it's core simply because that's what motivates most men into action. Self-improvement is a vehicle for securing more sexual opportunity. What takes place here that most red pill discussions lack is the focus on dealing with women in terms outside of sex. It's not just about sex but it's always about sex.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/17 02:17 PM
3

Are you having fun playing out here? Is this your play-time? 100% When she shit tests you, speaking to you like a child, she exposing how she views you, like a fucking child.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/17 06:30 PM
2

fact is i can always fuck it up 180 opposite at a later date. it ain't over until it's over. Tomorrow is not promised to anyone brother. You may be waiting around for what is over, you just don't know it yet. That's why I'm suggestion to dismiss the current relationship as it is. Don't fix it, burn it down and offer her the option to participate in your new life. Me, I'd file for divorce, separate everything. I'd let her know, in no uncertain terms, that the past is the past, that relationship i…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/17 06:25 PM
4

I just figured mound meant fupa. Dude’s pillow talk must be amazing.
/r/askMRP11/10/17 03:29 PM
8

No hysterical bonding huh? She needs to 180 and the comfort you are supplying is not helping. Are you going to comfort her once you leave? She needs a full dose of what life will be like without you. Only then will she maybe choose otherwise.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/17 03:52 PM
1

Not itunes its the apple id used for imessage. Settings > message > send and receive Seriously this is just stupid bad opsec.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/17 03:46 PM
2

You should be concerned that your frame is such shit that you’re asking us what to worry about. Before you DEER me. Let me say it another way. Worring about shit that hasn’t happened is a sure sign of shit frame. And another, worrying about what she will do is a sure sign of shit frame. Need more examples?
/r/askMRP08/10/17 07:32 PM
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Why does it piss you off? Do you need the validation so badly? You’re the hunter and you are mad because the deer won’t press it’s head against the muzzle.
/r/askMRP08/10/17 05:33 PM
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Was it up to me to re-initiate when she came to bed? No whatever you do, don’t act like a man and go after what you want. Silent butthurt is a solid strategy. Women love it. Oh and sidebar you little bitch.
/r/askMRP08/10/17 02:34 PM
1

If you run ugl for trt are you sure your test is not overdosed? Anabolic lab tests, many are...
/r/askMRP07/10/17 01:12 AM
1

Get your body fat down. More fat equals more aromitase. Genetics are definitely a factor but I run 200mg a week and no AI which puts me >1300ngdl total >30 free with e2 ~30. Im 6ft 205, 10% bf.
/r/askMRP07/10/17 01:05 AM
1

And yet I’ve been on TRT for years... im trying to figure out what social vigilance means?
/r/askMRP06/10/17 09:27 PM
1

Test also increases "vigilance" and specifically "social vigilance" Where are you getting this broscience nonsense?
/r/askMRP06/10/17 06:24 PM
1

There have been a few really solid dudes that have left but I don’t think this is the reason why, maybe I’m wrong.
/r/askMRP06/10/17 12:45 AM
8

Ok you got me I skimmed this one. Solid gains.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/10/17 09:19 PM
8

Enjoy
/r/MarriedRedPill04/10/17 09:12 PM
1

Your example is more projection than gaslighting. Didn't say it wasn't
/r/askMRP04/10/17 09:08 PM
1

Only 2 BF points in a year bro? Get your diet in check.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/10/17 09:00 PM
8

I think your frame sucks if you think you need to give everyone an honest answer or any answer at all. So, why did you move to X? Because I have a warrant out in Y. Or maybe you can't be a smart ass so you say it presented better opportunities for your family. When the complete truth has the tangible effect of causing people to treat me like second class citizen, then I figure I don't owe them the complete truth The only person you need to be completely truthful with is yourself.
/r/askMRP04/10/17 07:58 PM
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Your example is more projection than gaslighting. When people cheat they project their misdeeds. Gaslighting is essentially lying with the intent on make someone question their perception. Example: Wifey drives by your work to check on your whereabouts but your car is not there. Instead of making an excuse when questioned, you simply insist that your car was there and that she is mistaken. This happens over and over until the other person questions their sanity. It's literally an attack on one's…
/r/askMRP04/10/17 07:43 PM
1

So there is alot happening as to why somethings i am just taking it slow with. Good to hear, most guys want change yesterday and things just don't work that way. Slow is smooth and smooth is fast. Just keep moving.
/r/askMRP04/10/17 05:30 PM
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What I'm about to write hinges on you truly OYS, having frame, being the prize. If you're in doubt about any of these things, this will probably back fire on you. When you truly own your shit, her involvement is optional. I do not require my wife to run any part of my household, things get done with or without her. That said I have zero interest in being a chore boy house bitch. My wife has a tendency to get lazy knowing that things will get done regardless. When I see this pattern emerge I watc…
/r/askMRP04/10/17 04:13 PM
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And now we've identified the functional autists. Dude's so ready to bring out the pitchforks they don't even get the joke.
/r/askMRP03/10/17 06:34 PM
2

You should look into the hermetic concept of polarization.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/17 03:28 PM
1

When my wife initiates I fuck her like I’m leaving for war. But you do you, see how this plays out.
/r/askMRP03/10/17 12:47 AM
1

Na i think its lesbians.
/r/askMRP03/10/17 12:37 AM
1

I keep reading the dialogue but I still can’t figure out which ones the man.
/r/askMRP03/10/17 12:24 AM
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A lot of women are fine with it if you are of a high value. Sure if you enter the relationship under that agreement. To flip the script into an undesired situation for her, even if she stays, it will brew resentment. Low odds she would be truly fine with it.
/r/askMRP03/10/17 12:17 AM
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How does the mom treat the dad? This! OP if you do nothing else pay attention to this. Your little snowflake has had her mothers behavior imprinted on her since birth. And a 9 month LTR is bullshit, do you even live together? You haven’t even met her yet, you’re still interacting with her representative.
/r/askMRP02/10/17 07:36 PM
1

So you realize the difference between OYS and being a weak people pleaser. But why did you not act in accordance with your thoughts on the issue? Are you afraid to make her angry?
/r/askMRP02/10/17 01:40 PM
2

Because, honestly, they can't comprehend what we are asking from them... When the student is ready the teacher appears. There’s no other way. We are understanding. We understand that most of the noobs need a kick in the ass.
/r/askMRP01/10/17 06:39 PM
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Testosterone won’t stop you from acting like a pussy. If all you have is a hammer bro.... What bpp is describing resembles more of a Stockholm syndrome than just the symptoms of low t. These older men are defeated. I have several in my family. I treat them like women, they get confused and uncomfortable otherwise.
/r/askMRP30/09/17 08:44 PM
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Why the fuck are you here? You compain about our advice as if anyone here owes you shit. u/matrixtospartanatLV comment hurt your feelz because there was truth in it. He took the time to look over your bullshit. The sidebar is a collection of reading material of which I bet you’ve read very little. You’re too fucking weak to put in real effort so to you its a cliche. You are a pussy. You want us to hold your hand? Do you think that’s how you’ll find your manhood? Wake the fuck up. I can see your …
/r/askMRP30/09/17 07:36 PM
2

How do you know how much you should lift? Unless your form is breaking down, unless you feel pain, unless you're being reckless, you absolutely want to take advantage of good days and lift hard. Progressive overload is growth. Fatigue is not progressive overload. Don't limit yourself out of fear, listen to your body.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/17 07:06 PM
5

Was it a perfect match with your diamond tiara? Go get a new fucking ring bro.
/r/askMRP29/09/17 04:42 PM
4

Ahh functional probably, decent situationally.
/r/askMRP28/09/17 10:22 PM
2

Women being decent and functional has little to do with the subconscious need to shit test a man. How easily can you make her mad?
/r/askMRP28/09/17 10:20 PM
1

That you even have this concern, nope.
/r/askMRP28/09/17 01:08 PM
2

Why did you delegate this task, a phone call? This saves you what 5 minutes? This is not OYS, its shitty leadership. You have a 2 year old. What was she doing when she snapped at you?
/r/askMRP28/09/17 12:43 AM
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I know what you meant bro. To me it’s not mate gaurding, this is how I’d hadle it with or without the wife. She’s not a factor. To me its about time and fuck boys do not get any time from me. I’m not having a conversation when I can just push you out of my frame. I believe in being able to flip a switch and become the most horrible version of myself, just like I work everyday to be the best version. If you’re not capable of cruelty then your a victim of anyone who is. What do you do when they’re…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/09/17 02:33 PM
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Every politician I’ve ever met is a slimy, manipulative, weak body sack of shit. The kind of men that twist words because they lack spines. The kind of men that hide behind other men. I’ll pass. And... I’d rather act in a way congruent with my frame than change my behavior because wifey might not likey. Lastly the punctuation goes at the end of the sentence, bitch.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/17 02:47 PM
1

I should add my response would start equal to their approach. I’ll ask nicely at first. I never go full retard bro.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/17 10:17 PM
2

99.9% chance it does not escalate to that. Been here done that, majority of people do not want any physical confrontation. If anything it turns into posturing and bullshit which I enjoy anyway. Just opens the door for insults and frame destruction. If i get that .1% then guess I lost the lotto and will have to take my knocks. Im more concerned with assault charges or a civil suit then a bar fight tho... Life’s a gamble.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/17 10:03 PM
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If its an open social environment then yes. But if its a private table that shit is rude and I’d shut it down. I don’t spend all my time worrying about being attractive. Sometimes I gotta do ugly. IDGAF.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/17 09:46 PM
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when a couple of single dudes making the rounds stopped at our table and starting chatting us up Am i the only one thats sees this as rude? Maybe im missing the context but why not just tell them to piss off?
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/17 06:48 PM
3

Did you just DEER that titty bar?
/r/askMRP24/09/17 07:18 PM
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Here’s some questions, IDGAF the answers but you should. Why after fucking here 3 times did you still need to get validation at the titty bar? Why do you treat her shit tests as if they matter or will ever stop completely? Why are you not escalating her words/initiations into action? After fucking 3 times how did you have the energy to go lift? And... When she says you can’t handle me, it means she wants YOU to fuck the shit out of her. She’s telling you to amp that shit up bro. holding frame fo…
/r/askMRP24/09/17 01:20 PM
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If they think you’re an asshole, so what? But if you think you’re an asshole (and not okay with it) well maybe you need to evaluate your behavior.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/17 02:52 PM
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Religion and culture is also what someone else wants you to believe. In regards to being crazy, thats other people’s judgement of your actions. Guess whos frame? Im not interested in a debate, you do you but I’ll leave you with this. When I think of breaking frame I think of death of loved ones, extreme violence, torture, extremes with which I have little idea how I would react. Over and out, I’m done with this one bro.
/r/askMRP22/09/17 12:46 PM
1

IMO stripping away the cultural bullshit is part of developing frame. You can not have solid frame if you’re operating inside someone elses construct. Religion/culture are forms of control.
/r/askMRP22/09/17 11:45 AM
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I’m not suggesting get punched in the face although I find it has therapeutic benefits in both directions. Im saying a large part of frame is about learning to be comfortable being uncomfortable.
/r/askMRP22/09/17 01:01 AM
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Theres a level of fake it until you make it but without the experience to back it up, its self deception. In the ring Tyson belived he was unstoppable, his victories confirmed it. Its a cyclical process. Frame is easier to maintain when you have little if anything to lose, no reason to fight. Frame is much harded to maintain during conflict, even hard during violence. My point is not about defending yourself. If you can hold frame while being punched in the face, arguments mean nothing. you can’…
/r/askMRP22/09/17 12:39 AM
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My concept of frame comes mostly from fighting sports but may have some value for you. I was going to make a post about this but fuck it... Emotions are not the problem. Allowing the emotion to take over your mental state is the problem. The expectation that you will never become angry, afraid or insulted is not realistic. But learning to acknowledge these feelings while not mentally participating in them is possible. Frame is not the resistance of emotion, it's not employing silence to avoid co…
/r/askMRP21/09/17 04:15 PM
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And a chick this close to the wall should not be sleeping over.
/r/askMRP20/09/17 12:47 AM
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So right now you're her entertainment until the next guy with some balls gets to rail her. Next time (and what you should have done the first time) she pulls this shit tell her go home. When she asks why say you're going out, pleasantly kick her out, say good bye and leave. Ghost her. She will either never call you again or let you smash. Either way she stops wasting your time. She knows you want to fuck.
/r/askMRP20/09/17 12:40 AM
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I know I'm losing some but I also know I'm not getting killed either Brother you need to work on self-worth and being assertive. This women was a cancer in your life. You cut out the tumor but you're treating it like it wasn't trying to kill you. Righteous indignation is yours, use it.
/r/askMRP19/09/17 08:06 PM
1

Agreed. You can get better results with less effort using a little social engineering.
/r/askMRP18/09/17 06:57 PM
3

Lets say you have nearly unlimited technical capabilty. Maybe you sit on a network and watch her actions (MITM/SSL). Maybe you root her phone and deploy a metasploit payload of some zero day exploit. Maybe you run santoku linux and go wild with the forensics. I promise you it's not worth the time. When you get to this point, shit is over.
/r/askMRP18/09/17 06:16 PM
2

Download a resurrection app that will restore every text, call log, note, etc. and you satisfy yourself she did or didn't cheat on you. Does not work like this. He will only find shit if the unallocated memory has not be repurposed. Unless she's been recently up to shit, he probably wont find much.
/r/askMRP18/09/17 05:06 PM
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Fear of what? Seriously I'll own it if you have a point here. but the end of 8 years needs to come from more than an unused unexplained packet. Says who, your external validation seeking behavior? What he needs to do is draw a line in the sand and be willing to take the loss. Or you know, just do nothing. Keep asking her for answers that will never come and let that shit eat at you for years. It won't be about what she did, it will be about what he didn't do.
/r/askMRP18/09/17 01:34 PM
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This is pussy thinking bro. Why would he need more reason to next her? To justify to whom? If this is a hard boundary for him then he must take action. Looking for evidence at this point is a complete waste of time. Forget about the pill, look at the way she reacted. You think she has any fucking respect for this dude?
/r/askMRP18/09/17 12:57 PM
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She's gaslighting and emotionally manipulating you. If she found a condom in your pocket, under what circumstances would you have no fucking clue how it got there? Take action soon! Do not sweep this under the rug. This will grow into a fucking harbinger of regret that will eagerly great you every morning.
/r/askMRP18/09/17 12:50 PM
2

Being assertive starts now not if/when she ever comes around. I'm saying you do you and stop reacting to her.
/r/askMRP18/09/17 12:20 PM
6

There's always better, different, new. Chad is a projection of your insecurities.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/17 03:09 AM
1

Women only do introspection when other women are involved. Ghosting her on your trip would make you a jerk in her mind if she even cares. She will not self-reflect on that shit. Her communications problem is not teachable. She knows how to use a phone bro. She needs to give a fuck.
/r/askMRP18/09/17 02:46 AM
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my wife claimed to have "no idea" and attacked me for clearing up the medicine cupboard. And then what pussy, and then what? You didn't get an answer cause she had a little hissy fit? In the future if you want a shot at getting any truth you must catch her off gaurd, keep her off gaurd, and demand an answer. Do not give her the time to plot. P.S. Have you considered she ordered more than one?
/r/askMRP18/09/17 02:29 AM
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And mad that if I'm not some Greek God, she won't be attracted. Are you actually complaining about putting in the effort to better yourself? You don't do it for her. You do it cause your dick stays wet regardless of her.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/17 11:18 PM
2

Does she not benefit from all the work you do? If she jumps ship cause you're focused on your mission, then she's solving the problem for you. She's either contributing or consuming value, no in between.
/r/askMRP17/09/17 03:33 PM
1

+1 on the prolactin https://www.macabido.com/prolactin-and-libido-too-much-or-too-little-can-kill-your-libido/ I just finished up 10 weeks on tren and the last 3 my libido fell off a cliff. It's actually a welcome break for me tho... Go get blood tests and rule out any hormonal issues. Not sure about the paranoia comment though. I find the mental sides vary greatly depending on the person.
/r/askMRP17/09/17 02:39 PM
1

This place is confusing sometimes. It always contradicts. Realize you're getting information from a wide spectrum of guys here. The core message is usually the same but the approach is different depending on their frame and situation. I used to fuck this girl and when my LTR asked if we had hooked up. I said she was just a girl i had met through a friend. I denied it like you said. No reason to deny this. You did nothing wrong. If you're a man of value you certainly fucked women before her, she …
/r/askMRP16/09/17 04:26 PM
2

New guys, most of the weak spots in your frame come from insecurities. Women are naturally adept at finding these.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/17 06:49 PM
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You're either stupid or lazy. Google "sex god method pdf" its out there. Putting in zero effort before you ask for help is a bitch move.
/r/askMRP15/09/17 01:07 PM
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Just buff out the scratches and put that giant spoiler back on your 1987 civic shit box and move on bro. All seriousness, look at it like you paid him/her to go away. Whats your time worth?
/r/askMRP15/09/17 12:56 PM
2

You deny until you can't deny. You don't spill your guts cause she's suspicious. But if you're caught then you have to own it. One and only rule #1 She does not want to know. Unless you're shit then she will use it as an excuse to fuck your life. And by own it i mean say yes to the cheating and nothing else. See rule number 1
/r/askMRP15/09/17 03:31 AM
1

told they're a idiot for doing it wrong and written off as a lost cause You are your own cause, your own judge. I don't think that's the right response to someone who probably couldn't have done it any other way. We are here to throw you bones, we don't care what you think of the taste. We generalize because we can not address the specifics of every man/issue. If it does not apply then do not apply it.
/r/askMRP14/09/17 09:38 PM
1

I don't think the Rambo thing is a big issue. The guys who fuck this up are almost always all talk and no action. They sprinkle the alpha, never develop frame, never make any real changes. They're all anger phase and no introspection, no effort. You don't need to ease into being assertive. But concepts like dread need to be approached with linear progress.
/r/askMRP14/09/17 07:02 PM
1

Women live in a world of assumptions and expectations. Blue and red pill views require different assumptions about life and therefor different expectations about outcomes. A delusion requires some false information taken as fact, an assumption can be entirely based on feels. Semantics aside, what she feels does not matter. Blue pill logic seeks equality, red pill logic seeks balance. Given the female nature equality is not possible. "Once made equal to man, woman becomes his superior." Socrates …
/r/askMRP14/09/17 06:17 PM
1

Consistency (outside of owning your shit) creates zero fucking tingles. Her hamster needs something to chew on. Every now and then I go cold for no reason, no kino, no initiation but still happy, still available. The break in behavior is what she notices. I'll usually find her laying naked on our bed within a day or two. I'll do the same with arguments, use them to create tension, hold tension, then initiate later on. You need to learn how to push her buttons though, this is different for every …
/r/askMRP13/09/17 06:36 PM
1

I'd focus on why he's afraid to disappoint you then, is there a reactionary response to his failures that he's in fear of? Fear of failure will prevent him from taking calculated risks, or any risks at all in life. I'm always stressing praise the effort and not the outcome in my home. I don't give a shit if my kids fail as long as the effort is genuine and they continue to try. I'm only disappointed when they go half-assed at something, even if they succeed, I'll call out their bullshit attempt.…
/r/askMRP13/09/17 06:16 PM
1

The most important thing I want my kids to remember is that I have their back no matter what. Right or wrong. I'll always tell them when they fuck up but I'm always on their side. They can always come to me with anything, ANYTHING. I don't care how extreme it is... "You fucking did what? Go get my shovel." I'd guess your son does not feel like you have his back. If not he will grow up to be a weak sauce pussy until maybe one day he learns to be his own foundation. It's hard enough becoming a man…
/r/askMRP13/09/17 03:18 PM
1

Did they say what type/cause? I deal with joint pain, not sure if it's arthritis. Curcumin is a great anti-inflammatory and has helped me. Start googling Meriva and BCM-95. There have been clinical trials run on both with a focus on arthritis.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/17 08:03 PM
2

Some blue pill lurkers ripped me apart at their Reddit for a comment I made about how I've been initiating sex pretty much every day since we found out about the pregnancy, even when she's feeling sick. Funny that you started with this. Solid frame is about your approval of your actions. Fuck other people's judgement. Crabs in a bucket bro. My wife will fuck me while pregnant, while nauseous, even if I offer a rain check, she will insist. It's still mostly starfish though, pregnancy is not easy …
/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/17 06:27 PM
1

Try switching wifi channels on your router, might be a simple fix.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/17 04:19 PM
2

Always paternity test. And go through labcorp or somewhere reputable. Not the grab and go bullshit from the drug store. OP if she says lets have a baby and your first thought is, this bitch cheated. Guess what you should not do? Time won't make her trustworthy.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/17 03:14 PM
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What part of SHUT THE FUCK UP do you new guys not understand?
/r/askMRP12/09/17 01:23 PM
1

I plated 3 different girls at one point and have various no strings sex. That's fun enough but doesn't help the problem. I still want my wife. Idk bro I think you're not being honest with yourself. The most free I've felt in my marriage was when I realized I didn't care if I ever fucked her again. You still want what she won't give.
/r/askMRP12/09/17 12:23 AM
1

Could be a combo of both. Lets see what he says.
/r/askMRP11/09/17 06:42 PM
1

Are you staying for kids? There's a way out of this but it does not include fixing her in any way. You need to be okay with her being broken. Either that or GTFO. I have to go lift now, you should probably be doing the same bro.
/r/askMRP11/09/17 06:40 PM
1

She has the issue, hes dealing with the outcome.
/r/askMRP11/09/17 06:34 PM
1

Yes the guys who choose poorly have the hardest road. You need frame like most of you will never know. It's a curse and a blessing like most things.
/r/askMRP11/09/17 06:31 PM
1

You don't allow her feelings, you have no control over that shit. You can't fix her.
/r/askMRP11/09/17 06:23 PM
1

You chose her.
/r/askMRP11/09/17 06:17 PM
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I'm far too ashamed to describe things in more detail but it's not my fault. It's always your fault. You may reject this concept initially, I did as well. The point is not to own her actions but realize your part in things. Why be ashamed of her behavior? Is it because you allowed it? I'm not sure if my little unicorn is a narcissist but she sure knows the tools of the trade. She tried to break me about 1 year into our marriage, she almost succeeded. Most people would run from shit like this, I …
/r/askMRP11/09/17 05:55 PM
2

Whey protein, fish oil, maybe a multi and a probiotic is a decent foundation. None of this replaces real food. Labdoor.com does independent reviews.
/r/askMRP10/09/17 12:22 AM
3

What do you want assurances? How about a story? I always know when my wife's sisters are coming over because my wife will appear in the yard with a drink and a shirt for me. My wife is the youngest of many sisters and they all have no shame in openly eye fucking me. It's a horrible problem but I suffer it because thats what happens when you lift 7 days a week. I wouldn't recommend it for you though. You seem pretty happy nestled in her frame. Whats she looking at now?
/r/askMRP09/09/17 12:50 AM
1

It's about boundaries. No real boundary is crossed by her making up an excuse not to fuck. She doesn't even need an excuse she could just say no. She made up some shit not to hurt his feels then fucked him the next day. Do you think he would have got laid if he told her she was lying, made her feel shitty. What would be accomplished? Do you think he can get her to never tell a lie? Your example is a crossed boundary. You had concern, she was late, she knew she should have called. If you know she…
/r/askMRP08/09/17 02:50 AM
1

/u/anythinginc already broke this down. https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/6yo3mv/whose_woman_is_this_episode_ii/
/r/MarriedRedPill08/09/17 01:12 AM
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Calling her out on trival bullshit will only make you a dick in her eyes. If you have iron frame her bullshit is meaningless, only boundries matter. Iron frame comes from what you believe about yourself and how you've reinforced that with experience.
/r/askMRP07/09/17 09:54 PM
14

Maybe she took a shit. There's always a problem if you look for one bro.
/r/askMRP07/09/17 09:47 PM
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Not willing to do the hard work. Not willing to endure the pain. Pussy's don't do well here. Pregnancy/infancy can potentially the stage for the rest of your life, don't fall behind, take charge and lead, you shouldn't need to be pushed; push yourself; when the going gets tough, that is what we are here for. Short of lactating you should be able to do EVERYTHING your wife does in regards to the kids. Don't ask just do. I like to do the 3am feedings when the kids are infants. The wife needs sleep…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/09/17 05:20 PM
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While I agree about boundaries, telling women not to do shit just doesn't work. This does not sound like a hard boundary for him. If he's going to blow this up it needs to end with GTFO. Otherwise all he's doing is telling her to hide her shit better.
/r/askMRP07/09/17 05:56 AM
13

Third. I wasted so much fucking time playing inspector gadget. If she acts suspicious hire a PI, it's not worth your time.
/r/askMRP07/09/17 05:45 AM
2

A covert contract is more like expecting a blowjob for folding the laundry. You be the judge of the situation, is it fair that you get some time to yourself?
/r/askMRP07/09/17 05:42 AM
2

see you havent changed a thing Yep, every opportunity to get you back under control. And it will be this way forever. Women want to know that you are to strong to be controlled, so they attempt it often to make sure. The words you choose (and I'd bet body language too), are not pulling her in. You are pushing her away bro. You don't become the awesome, fun, lovable guy once she submits. You become that now regardless of her. Be outcome independent but be positive in action. She flat out asked me…
/r/askMRP06/09/17 07:03 PM
1

The words mean shit but the feels behind it says, I don't believe in the changes you made. Better if she just expressed unhappiness, not mistrust. She also basically said he's not being constant. "Jekyll and Hyde" If shes going to poke at his frame, she's going to go for the soft spots. I'd say it's unlikely this was just a hail mary. Maybe he's solid and I'm just reading into it, better he account for the possibility either way.
/r/askMRP06/09/17 06:22 PM
3

I don't trust you, I live with Jekyll and Hyde How's your consistency bro? This says to me that you're a flip flopping bitch? /u/hystericalbonding called you out on your shitty leadership a month ago. Are you ready to work on that yet? For fuck sake, stop telling her shit she already knows/should be implied. This little speech below is cringe worthy. My response was, nothing happened but I am a man, you have expressed previously that sex and affection are the only things you feel you have contro…
/r/askMRP06/09/17 05:55 PM
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Why do you need to confirm her feels "Cool, I understand"? Why do you need to give her alternatives "pick me up when you're done with the errands."? This may seem like a nuance but it's worlds apart from what I'm suggesting.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/09/17 05:17 PM
6

Another option, when you're ready, is the IDGAF response. You smile at her playfully, say nothing and then get out of the car and go eat. It's her choice to come with you or stay in the car. Be happy with either outcome, but go eat your fucking meal!
/r/MarriedRedPill05/09/17 04:55 PM
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Because we are drawn to love by making other people happy. Because we have coupled our self-worth with other people's happiness. FTFY It stems from our childhood. My dad beat the shit out of me. You need to dive in and work on these core childhood issues. I've had my share of beatings. They change you and mostly not for the better. Welcome back bro, keep going.
/r/askMRP05/09/17 02:43 PM
22

Go read the sidebar you lazy cunt.
/r/askMRP04/09/17 12:21 AM
2

Hurray I fixed the dishwasher mommy!
/r/askMRP03/09/17 12:24 PM
1

We both know this is an easily solved problem. You just lack motivation and are not applying any critical thinking. You don't need to always workout in the gym. Do 300 pushups/500 air squats then run some sprints. What's your excuse now?
/r/askMRP01/09/17 12:42 PM
5

Can't you just get up an hour early? Do you workout when you have your period?
/r/askMRP01/09/17 12:21 PM
1

Our whole relationship, long distance, i need this, puke.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/09/17 12:17 PM
3

A month ago you asked this stupid shit and were told to take it to /r/askmrp. Are you fucking stupid?
/r/MarriedRedPill31/08/17 05:18 PM
1

Do you think those monks resisted the pain or did they not feel it at all?
/r/MarriedRedPill30/08/17 03:10 AM
4

"Every time you get angry become philosophical, ask yourself why." Patrice was a profit.
/r/askMRP26/08/17 08:16 PM
19

A better option is to create physical distance. Ignoring her is essentially the silent treatment, its passive aggressive, its not alpha. Her reward for shitty behavior is your absence. Go do something without her. Do not talk about it.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/08/17 03:30 AM
1

People are about as faithful as their options.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/08/17 01:13 AM
3

You should never have such bad OPSEC that she walks in on you. You gaslight her until you can't. If she has undeniable proof you just remain calm and indifferent. You admit nothing, answer no questions, never apologize. She will fire all manor of questions and accusations at you. SHE DOES NOT WANT TO KNOW, she just wants to vent at you. Be present for the onslaught of feels but do not engage. Be the oak. If you act guilty then you are at fault. If you act righteous then she is at fault. Your act…
/r/askMRP25/08/17 03:48 PM
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Your wife fucked another dude. She fucked him better than she will ever fuck you. When you can read the above without any fucks given, you're ready to cheat. Right now you're butt hurt and that's dangerous because you're in her frame. You need to internalize the following: She is not special. She does not control you. She is optional. You need rock solid frame if you plan on going down this road and not getting caught. Many people who cheat subconsciously make mistakes because they want to be ca…
/r/askMRP24/08/17 04:11 PM
4

Ok well i need to get divorced because my wife is hot enough to have orbiters. This is just insecurity. Orbiters are harmless, unless you're shit. Stop being shit. In future i will advise the worried poster to 'next that fucking basket case' no questions asked. I never said anything like that. This is what women do, manipulate language. We deal in truth here. Don't be a bitch.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/17 07:09 AM
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Its never about saving the marriage, it's about fixing the man. These guys would have the same problem in their next relationship. No point in buying a new mattress until you learn to stop shitting the bed.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/17 06:28 AM
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This is a fucking waste of time. Who's frame are you in worrying about her daily cock offerings? If she has a relationship with a man that you don't like, she stops or she goes. The dude is meaningless, watch her actions. The problem is not setting boundaries, not being willing to walk away. If you have your shit together they don't put you in these situations. I'm not saying they won't cheat, they just have the decency fear to hide it. If she's not planning on leaving and she wants to cheat, sh…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/17 06:18 AM
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Not being in the kayak vs not going at all are very different realizations on her part. It's not really up to her though, his boundaries are more important than her intentions. You can not allow her to determine what behavior you find inappropriate. Her intentions, like her feels will change with the situation. Non negotiable boundaries must exist.
/r/askMRP23/08/17 05:41 PM
1

I've had similar experiences, way too easy to isolate and escalate in situations like these. Didn't want OP to start mate guarding tho...
/r/askMRP22/08/17 06:41 PM
1

You almost got it bro, almost...
/r/askMRP22/08/17 06:06 PM
21

Her friend wants to fuck, your wife is the wingman. While your wife may not have bad intentions, good intentions would be realizing that going on a double date with her friend is inappropriate.
/r/askMRP22/08/17 05:45 PM
1

He is not correct. Passive aggressive behavior has no place in an alpha frame. You leave because your time is valuable, it must be assertive, not passive aggressive.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/17 10:30 PM
1

Pussy's avoid conflict There's other people in that room who don't want their valueable time taken up by a dumb bitch blathering on about some insult. This is the main point bro
/r/askMRP21/08/17 10:27 PM
1

I think the butt hurt comes not from rejection alone but knowing she controls your options. I.e. you have none.
/r/askMRP21/08/17 06:07 PM
2

Going to be a river of victim puke in here next week.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/17 03:29 AM
3

You can be the attractive guy who adapts and has fun no matter or you can be the other guy.
/r/askMRP19/08/17 03:06 AM
1

Was the goal to get some pussy or have a picnic?
/r/askMRP19/08/17 01:11 AM
2

Is this what they call functional autism?
/r/askMRP18/08/17 04:42 PM
7

Make her own her statement. Stop, make direct eye contact and ask "what makes you feel that way"? Let her hamster take a shit on the conference table for all to see and then just move on. If you do this correctly she'll think twice about asking for the spot light. Whatever you do, do not engage in anything she says. Smile and remain calm. "Never contradict a woman, if you wait long enough she'll contradict herself."
/r/askMRP17/08/17 02:46 PM
4

You're going to "bridge the chasm" with your distant and uninterested father by casting your sins at his feet and what?... asking for his forgiveness, support, validation? Maybe you change things first and then see how you feel. Never ask about feels. Never ask for sex. Start pushing boundaries let her tell you no.
/r/askMRP17/08/17 03:52 AM
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If she's telling you to stop ASKING for sex, you need to reevaluate how you initiate. Don't be the horny little dog attached to her leg. Kino her when it can not escalate and do this as often as possible. Simple shit like man handle her for 2 min before kids get home. Your kino = sex to her and you need to break that connection with new patterns of behavior. You get to the point where you kino her constantly and there's no expectations. But essentially you're always initiating, its your choice w…
/r/askMRP17/08/17 03:30 AM
4

Most women handle rejection like shit. You really think she's going to do any self reflection beyond hating on you for making her feel bad? You say fuck all about actually fucking, maybe that's a tell. Does she take directions? Was she always this way? She's going to respond to you so my guess is no immersion. You're not fucking her mind. You can't change her. And don't lie about the sidebar we can tell you did not read all the shit.
/r/askMRP17/08/17 03:03 AM
1

I don't think I need anything, I'm just interested. But you make a valid point.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/17 02:23 PM
3

that and this place woukd quickly become about extramarital sexual strategy. Maybe we need a new sub cause im interested in swapping tactics.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/17 03:13 AM
4

Deadline, lmao. We'll see you in a couple years. Enjoy her frame pussy.
/r/askMRP15/08/17 01:21 PM
2

testosterone supplements are up to 99% effective as a contraceptive for men This is a gross overstatement. I can tell you from my personal experience and what I've witnessed, I'd never trust TRT as birth control.
/r/askMRP14/08/17 05:20 PM
5

You'll get some good advice about the other bullshit but I want to focus on one thing. With all the things you are doing. You act like you don't need me. This is not a bad thing. The person who needs the other the least has the most control. That said there's a difference between making her feel like you WANT her and you NEED her. Do you want a Machiavellian level of control over your marriage? Through ACTIONS continue to develop your life so she can be removed from the equation at anytime with …
/r/askMRP11/08/17 02:56 PM
3

Be gone with you troll.
/r/askMRP10/08/17 06:03 AM
4

I lift because I like to lift fuck.
/r/askMRP10/08/17 02:54 AM
1

I wish I could tell you do x,y or z but there's no formula I know of. I spent a couple years cleaning out the skeletons. Books, therapy, meditation, isolation tanks, drugs and anything else that could give me perspective to identify weakness.
/r/askMRP09/08/17 07:23 PM
2

I am afraid of her. Afraid of the yelling, afraid of her judgement, afraid of her demands to explain myself, and afraid of not have sex with her for a week. Work on the co-dependency, nothing else matters until you fix that. You can not have OI without NGAF and you cant NGAF when your locus of validation is external.
/r/askMRP09/08/17 06:13 PM
1

Just so I'm clear. You're not leading. You are so concerned with her feelz that you ask instead of tell. You ask instead of act.
/r/askMRP08/08/17 01:20 AM
1

Let's play a game called: who's the boss? Hint it ain't you.
/r/askMRP08/08/17 12:54 AM
1

Nobody said anything about being reactionary. Im tired of seeing men act like human door mats but you go on my deer...
/r/askMRP07/08/17 11:36 PM
3

I see many women who do not want to be FO. They want to be a passenger who gets to call shotgun. I think FO needs to be earned by actions and so Im not a fan of the FO dynamic as most imply it. I do agree otherwise.
/r/askMRP07/08/17 06:23 PM
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I disagree. She is not acting as an FO she is acting as a passenger and complaining in hopes the captain takes action. When kids act shitty there needs to be consequences. The consequence for behaving badly need to be immediately enforceable by both parents. The "wait until your father gets home" is a poor tactic. You need to clearly set boundaries, expectations, rewards and consequences with your kids. If they fuck up they should know exactly why and what consequence will take place. Empower yo…
/r/askMRP07/08/17 05:21 PM
1

Get the fuck outa here with this shit.
/r/askMRP07/08/17 05:03 PM
2

This x 1000. Its all about mobility. I used to react to injuries, do PT, rinse and repeat. Now mobility work is part of EVERY TRAINING SESSION. I have not had an injury I could not train through in over 2 years. If you have shit mobility your form will only ever be as good as your mobility allows.
/r/askMRP07/08/17 04:47 PM
1

Curcumin is great for managing inflammation without the liver toxicity of nsaids. If you need to run anti-inflammatory drugs daily I highly recommend it. Meriva is a patented version of curcumin that is more bioavailable, you'll piss out the cheap stuff.
/r/askMRP07/08/17 04:34 PM
3

Women will almost always project when cheating. Do not assume the accusation was caused by dread alone. Trust but verify and fuck trust.
/r/askMRP05/08/17 07:26 PM
2

Yeah god help us if women ever figure out how easy it is to get laid. Sounds like you're just waking up, and here's the sidebar you pussy ---->
/r/askMRP04/08/17 03:09 PM
1

Fuck your expectations.
/r/askMRP04/08/17 03:01 PM
5

She might never change. You do you for you. Her alpha is a reflection of your lacking.
/r/askMRP03/08/17 08:35 AM
2

Not out of love but out of fear Do I need to say it bro?
/r/askMRP01/08/17 08:49 PM
6

Fine I'll be the asshole. Congrats bro but get a paternity test.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/07/17 12:37 AM
2

This is not violence, it's cruelty. Violence occurs with the intention of injury. Cruelty occurs with indifference. You escalated your actions beyond what was necessary because you panicked. Anyone can be violent, it's not masculine nor impressive.
/r/askMRP29/07/17 05:12 PM
1

just thought till now that I shouldn't start because I am in this twilight zone of prolonged separation. I'm avoiding doing what best for me because my actions are still dependent on her validation. FTFY.
/r/askMRP27/07/17 06:35 PM
1

Mental gender as in masculine/feminine energy are different degrees of the same thing. Nobody is fully male or female. Much of what you refer to as Alpha/Beta is merely a behavior and does not fully represent the individual or gender. To be masculine is to adopt the female qualities of being fluid and manipulative so as to have good Game while holding the rigid grounding of objective reality. The masculine man is a sort of hybrid who possess the best of both rigid and fluid thinking. Not exactly…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/17 03:07 PM
2

Why have you been ignoring me? I'm not ignoring you, I just don't care. When you act like a pussy, and carry yourself like a pussy people fuck you like a pussy.
/r/askMRP13/07/17 02:40 PM
5

You sound like a giant pussy. You're using her employment as a covert contract in hopes she changes her behavior. You don't seem to want her to work, you want her to stop acting like a lazy teenager. What steps have you taken to ASSERTIVELY address the issues? Sounds like someone is scared of mommy. You want change, go rock the boat.
/r/askMRP13/07/17 02:29 PM
1

Do you have a name for this hamster?
/r/askMRP13/07/17 02:20 PM
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is really pissed at me because I'm not empathizing enough for her She also wants me to work on her house more. What's up bro you don't feel like being an emotional tampon while you wash those windows? Get some options.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/17 09:21 PM
2

You waited 2 years to assert yourself. Whatever issues you have with wifey don't matter until you address your inner bitch. IMO it's way past the point of confrontation, no good will come from it.
/r/askMRP11/07/17 02:20 PM
10

So you're asking if you should grow a pair a ditch this cunt or put the ball gag back on and continue to take it up the ass? Is there even a question here? Pro tip. Your wife has personality disorders and you have zero skills to mitigate it, run.
/r/askMRP09/07/17 01:13 PM
1

going on about me not doing as she asks.. These are shit tests
/r/askMRP09/07/17 03:52 AM
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I'll translate for you: I feel sad now therefore I've always been sad. I expect to be happy all of the time and you're responsible for my feelings. You have set boundaries and I'm going attempt to erode them forever. I'm going to equate your assertiveness to control and cry about loneliness cause guilt. This doesn't have a solution, I'm not going to do anything to fix this. It's not a real problem, i just wanted to let you know it feels bad when I don't get my way. Sincerely, Today's Feelz Someo…
/r/askMRP09/07/17 03:33 AM
1

Was he asking about TRT because all I heard was an echo from inside his wife's frame...
/r/askMRP08/07/17 02:11 AM
3

I think you got a beta shit goblin whispering in your ear. My wife used to cook all kinds of stuff but lately I get corn flakes so I eat out when I can.
/r/askMRP08/07/17 01:51 AM
3

This is oozing with insecurity brother... If your wife is/was attractive then she probably spent some time on the CC. AWALT, who fucking cares... STFU & DGAF she also led me to believe that she didn't have a lot of experience. This is the MO of just about every chick in a relationship. They're only completely mostly honest when, not judged, no investment, about sex only, never really...
/r/askMRP07/07/17 05:24 PM
1

But what are you protecting? She's not in danger she was just uncomfortable. You can't protect her feelz....
/r/askMRP07/07/17 04:07 PM
6

Someone tell this guy he dresses like a substitute teacher and point him towards the gym. This is low quality horse shit with a link drop, wtf mods?
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/17 07:29 PM
1

https://youtu.be/zsmeXwHu6W0 Give this stretch a try.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/07/17 03:02 PM
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Divide and conquer bro(time and tasks) 5am - noon get shit done. 12 - 4 kiddo activity with or without mom. 5pm - 8pm get shit done. 8pm - 10pm dinner/ wifey time, 10pm - 11pm deadlifts. I dont run this kind of schedule regularly but sometimes its the only way. Considering your first excuse is boo hoo im tired. Start by fixing your weak ass frame. Side note: do you think your wife is concerned about you working all the time like you're concerned about her? Whos frame are we in?
/r/askMRP02/07/17 01:36 PM
1

Im not saying you praise a half assed attempt. Thats the everyone gets a trophy for showing up bullshit. You praise real effort, an honest attempt. The whole point is to place the focus on doing the hard work even if it doesn't always result in top rewards.
/r/askMRP30/06/17 02:08 AM
3

Well played Sir. Sounds like your wife's mother could be on the narcissist spectrum. There is a book "will i ever be good enough" about doughters of narcissistic mothers. It might give YOU some insight on your wife's behavior. I would not share it with her unless she communicates the desire to change and even then tread carefully. And... remember to praise the effort not the outcome with those kiddos, good luck.
/r/askMRP29/06/17 01:04 PM
5

So two things, how could I have handled her initial freakout, and subsequent shit tests on the hike better? I have two questions for you? Why are you dating a chick that can't keep up with you? What value does she contribute? She sounds like a real treat, loads of fun. I'm going to guess vagina and lack of options for the win... And, why does she talk about her melt downs in front of my family? Maybe she's preparing them before they witness it first hand. but I want a PARTNER not a DEPENDENT Kee…
/r/askMRP26/06/17 06:20 PM
1

Nice ass, dick could be bigger tho
/r/askMRP24/06/17 04:51 PM
2

This has been well established already. Women would rather share a high value alpha than own a shit value beta. It's no secret, marriage has nothing to do with it.
/r/askMRP23/06/17 03:05 PM
2

So don't get divorced just stop playing her game. "A slave is one who waits for someone to free them."
/r/askMRP23/06/17 03:10 AM
4

If you can just STFU and blow past this it will be a better outcome than doing the feelz. Its ok to make her uncomfortable. Let her hamster wtf is going on. What is she going to stop fucking you, divorce you? This speech shit is soft and you're filing off the edges. But tighten the fuck up before she does catch you in accusable shit.
/r/askMRP23/06/17 02:33 AM
2

Maybe unbelievable circumstance maybe subconscious self-sabotage. Get use google voice. Dont forward it to your phone. Check in on it when is good.
/r/askMRP23/06/17 02:23 AM
12

His wife will hear: Yes, I've been seeing other women........
/r/askMRP23/06/17 02:08 AM
3

Your opsec sucks. She knows enough to know you're misbehaving not enough to make direct accusations. Thats all you need to know, step the fuck out of her frame and shut your pussy mouth. Maybe she read them but unless she reveals that you dont say shit. She didn't catch you balls deep in her sister take a fucking breath. Now why does your opsec suck?
/r/askMRP23/06/17 01:57 AM
3

Anger Phase = Blame society, religion, culture, childhood, wife! Growth Phase = Blame self. Go look in the mirror.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/17 07:41 PM
4

Women do not appreciate the same things, in the same ways as men. Wife did not give a fuck about your knowledge or HER sisters trivial problem. They did not ask you for help. You put on your save-a-hoe costume and got butt hurt because they made fun of your cape. This stinks of validation seeking and butt hurts.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/17 03:21 PM
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Basically yes. The idea is to create a controlled interaction without any real negative outcome.
/r/askTRP01/06/17 04:34 PM
22

No it's not to show her anything, its a litmus test.
/r/askTRP01/06/17 04:25 PM
66

I posted this before but it's expands on what Borsao66 said above: In my experience, unless she's ready to exit the relationship, she will go to great lengths to hide her deceit. The confrontation of being caught will always linger on her mind and panic will ensue whenever the possibility of discovery comes about. This is the real leverage. I would bring about the possibility of confrontation, let it simmer so she can wallow in fear, then never quite bring about any resolution. I just vary and r…
/r/askTRP01/06/17 04:22 PM
12

Is this iphone or android? Did you know that her phone is most likely already tracking her for you? On iPhone go to: Settings > Privacy > Location Services > System Services > Frequent Locations There you will find a history of the places she has been. I doubt this will be disabled since apple hides the fuck out of it. I believe there is something similar on android. Does anyone have a solution/app that can track messages and calls in real-time? You need to root the phone to do this, no small ta…
/r/askTRP01/06/17 04:06 PM
3

This is not entirely correct. iMessage and wifi calls will not show up as they are data usage.
/r/askTRP01/06/17 04:00 PM
2

Oh and no her conversation ability does not matter. If she can hold a conversation with you on every subject you're probably boring. Look at my vast book collection, said no women ever...
/r/askMRP31/05/17 08:55 PM
5

People still smoke cigarettes?
/r/askMRP31/05/17 08:53 PM
5

I'm not currently married, but I will be. I'm not currently engaged, nor am I in an "ltr". And this is how you fuck yourself. If your primary goal is to get married and secondary finding someone worth marrying, well what do you think is going to happen? Forget about marriage and focus on yourself. When YOU are awesome you will attract awesome women (and shit bags). When you find an great woman ask yourself this: Am I a better man for having her in my life? Does she contribute value and do I appr…
/r/askMRP31/05/17 08:49 PM
1

You wait until she has a dick in her then you jump out of the closet and yell "Got Cha"! LMAO add some fucking context and put this shit in askmrp
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/17 07:49 PM
2

well Genghis Khan was most likely a serial rapist..
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/17 02:43 AM
3

Tony Blauer's Spear system is exactly this: "The SPEAR SYSTEM utilizes the speed and reliability of the startle-flinch mechanism to convert the sudden attack into a tactical counter." https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iCgMO9oNkis (I'm not promoting this just passing along knowledge) MMA is not a good comparison. Knife welding maniacs don't jump out from behind corners in the octagon. If I know your intentions, why should I flinch at all if I'm ready to attack or counter.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/17 06:33 PM
2

This sounds like a solid plan, give her the silent treatment for a couple weeks then skydiving. Makes complete sense, things should work out fine. Good luck.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/17 08:02 PM
3

Better question, why is she suspicious if you're not guilty? Tell me more so i can set the line and we can all place bets if she cheated.
/r/askMRP15/05/17 10:30 PM
1

You clearly don't want a dog but you're willing to give in to avoid conflict? There is only one issue and it's not the dog.
/r/askMRP15/05/17 05:20 PM
1

Also those impedance/resistance tests are not accurate.
/r/askMRP15/05/17 04:57 PM
1

Stop looking at the scale and start taking body measurements. Is your waist shrinking, chest getting bigger, weight does not matter and is a bad indicator at your level.
/r/askMRP15/05/17 04:55 PM
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Yea but what impact? Op could have took the bj then just welched and teased her about it. Id rather my wife think im an asshole than think im judging her that way because sometimes i do want her to act like a whore.
/r/askMRP14/05/17 12:40 AM
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Thats a hefty amount of tren, definitely enough to get some decent sides. Live and learn. 250 is really high for trt, im going to guess your not doc supervised? Your estrogen could be high with a dose that size. You getting blood tests?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/17 11:52 PM
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So you stopped your anti-depressant and decided, fuck it I'll dabble with arguably the most mood influencing steroid available, brilliant! What did your PCT look like, an 8ball of coke and a packet of skittles? You realize this is straight up reckless? Just for shits and giggles, how much tren ace did you run?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/17 05:57 PM
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Really shitty that she doesn't care. I'd document the conversation and all the continued conflict in front of the kids. It could be leverage if you need it. At least it would show who has their bet interest in mind.
/r/askMRP10/05/17 09:14 PM
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I see your point but a personal experience is subjective. Many things discussed here can only be interpreted/confirmed by experience. Things like glycogen depletion can be tested and confirmed externally. When you choose to treat one like the other you bullshit yourself.
/r/askMRP10/05/17 09:10 PM
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You're her emotional punching bag for now. The only appeal that might keep her in line is "for the kids". But I couldn't eject because my daughter was clinging on my feet, sobbing and crying and telling me not to leave. I told her that I'll be back, but she wouldn't calm down too. So I took her with me. I'd have a dead serious conversation about how this drama is impacting the kid. When she acts like shit in front of the kid, remind her of the agreement. When the kids not around GTFO. Knowing th…
/r/askMRP10/05/17 05:44 PM
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Here's what I would do: Go get a blood test, check your Test and Thyroid. Rule out anything systemic. Begin switching up your diet. This could be food induced, allergies or insulin resistance. Just change one thing at a time and adjust accordingly. You could start checking your blood sugar after meals. You should read up on blood sugar, insulin, etc if you're going this route. In regards to low carb, unless you're going keto, not much value to low carb other than calorie restriction. I'd slowly …
/r/askMRP10/05/17 04:29 PM
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and wouldn't it blow their minds to realize that she will still fuck you, even though you made her mad.
/r/askMRP09/05/17 07:06 PM
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Not nearly enough info. How many hours do you sleep? How the quality of sleep? How many calories per day, macros? How much water are you drinking besides coffee, tea? What's the workout look like, time, frequency, intensity? What times are you eating? Do you test your blood sugar?
/r/askMRP09/05/17 06:44 PM
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I'm up for this, but is it being a man or a codependent ? Or is manning up to this leaving ? What the fuck are you trying to ask me here? Okay I'll spoon feed you... If she is a narcissist, good chance you have co-dependency issues. If you display co-dependent behavior good chance you have childhood issue to workout. Stop worrying about her narcissism and focus on your co-dependency. Co-dependency is guaranteed shit frame. Until you fix your shit you will continue to fuck up this marriage and an…
/r/askMRP06/05/17 01:52 AM
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Be on the lookout for her gas-lighting you. This! Gaslighting is one of the most destructive and effective tools of a narcissist. If she flat out denies shit you know to be true, making you think you're crazy, I'd say thats a sure indicator of narcissism. And as bad as that shit is it to can be overcome with a solid frame and a healthy dose of IDGAF.
/r/askMRP05/05/17 05:46 PM
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Stop with the self diagnosis shit. This is no different then becoming a hypochondriac because your tummy hurts and the internet says its cancer. First let me show you something: my wife needs to discuss our relationship issues in detail with no less than about 6 of her friends. AWALT Yells at home, everything is about her, always the victim. Facts are constantly mixed up, even when written on paper. AWALT The problem is that the better I feel and the more assertive I get in the relationship, the…
/r/askMRP05/05/17 05:40 PM
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What I WON'T get bored of and what I know will give real meaning to my life is children. This is a feminine, solipsistic view of child rearing. YOU provide meaning to your life, nothing and nobody else. Sounds like you have some more personal growth ahead. Why not focus on yourself now rather than what could happen in the future? Does this sound like a sensible plan? Did you have similar plans and it all went to shit? Men make plans and God laughs. You will never control all outcomes, you can ho…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/17 05:12 PM
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Shes not your mother. Get the kids to make her a macaroni necklace.
/r/askMRP05/05/17 02:32 AM
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No cure, you can only change yourself. The problem with alpha widows is that you're not the prize, you're a compromise. She will keep a part of herself reserved, she does not think you deserve her all. Her sexual intention is less a desire to please and more so to keep the status quo. Here's what I would do: Read this: https://therationalmale.com/2017/04/30/submission/ Immediately implement IDGAF, why do you need this from her, why is it important to your journey? Once you have true outcome inde…
/r/askMRP04/05/17 05:49 PM
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Is it possible she's an alpha widow?
/r/askMRP04/05/17 04:49 PM
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No dreading of the pregnant woman! IMO passive dread is fine since it's more about her hamster and not a direct course of action. Active dread is asking for problems.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/05/17 06:31 PM
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So you stopped being a whiny bitch and... she stopped treating you like a whiny bitch. Mind Blown!
/r/MarriedRedPill01/05/17 05:34 PM
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You're adorable.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/05/17 05:22 PM
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While appreciated, your confirmation of my assessment was not required. Have a great day school. I hope mommy remembered to pack you a pudding.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/05/17 05:15 PM
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It's very hard to compare two things you understand little about. How do I know you have little knowledge. Well you're obviously not married and "I'm not RP and I can get several girls at any time, not have to worry about kids, and also bang another one that same day." This is faggot speak for I touched a vagina once. Hows 9th grade, are the older kids fucking with you?
/r/MarriedRedPill01/05/17 05:07 PM
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Did you know that your body language and posture impacts testosterone. http://www.people.hbs.edu/acuddy/in%20press,%20carney,%20cuddy,%20&%20yap,%20psych%20science.pdf Do you think this is inherently biological or just typically modern men allow themselves to lapse into lifestyles that lower testosterone when married and complacent? From diet to lifestyle to genetics to mindset, its impossible to know. If you're concerned about this then go see a doc.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/05/17 04:50 PM
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Not my point. I'm saying, if you're concerned about it go get blood work done. You can do all the "right things" in terms of optimizing your natural production but unless you get a blood test it's all conjecture.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/05/17 04:45 PM
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Temporary as in while being used, yes. Once you stop, unless you have other issues, natural levels begin to return. That does not mean you'll go right back to normal. Tons of variables....
/r/MarriedRedPill01/05/17 04:42 PM
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According to this article chopping wood increases testosterone. So maybe go get your blood work done or go chop down a fucking tree.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/05/17 04:36 PM
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HCG and AI have different purposes, HCG helps stimulates natural test production. An AI prevents the conversion of testosterone to estrogen.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/05/17 04:33 PM
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All exogenous hormone use will suppress natural production. Even in the < 1200 ndl range (trt levels). This is why many docs suggest HCG with testosterone. But it's a suppression, it's not "cut off".
/r/MarriedRedPill01/05/17 04:31 PM
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I do it for me.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/17 10:07 PM
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I let her back in to watch the kids so I can go to work, she's usually sober enough by then. I say this as both a parent and a child of an addict; I would not leave my children with her. An addict does not make a choice, addiction comes first, your children will suffer. I wish I had better advice for you but all i can tell you is what I think I would do: Document all drug and child abuse (neglect is abuse) File for divorce and seek 100% custody while exposing her addiction problems Require she s…
/r/askMRP25/04/17 06:28 PM
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Paragraphs you lazy fucker...
/r/askMRP24/04/17 06:20 PM
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This guy fucks.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/17 05:48 PM
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First, if your wife is going to kick you out equally for kissing and fucking, you better start fucking. This is like breaking into a bank to steal a tv. If caught I'd own it, admit it and then wait and see. If she comes back expecting to put you in the dog house, its fucked just go. If she accepts that her failings are in part the reason you cheated then maybe it can be rebuilt. I think again this comes down to frame. A strong frame will think, I have everything I need because I make it so. I ca…
/r/askMRP21/04/17 05:41 PM
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Side Note: I vaguely recall her asking if there was anything she could do to sleep in our bed that night. I told her that if she blew me and swallowed she could sleep in our bed. I would have suggested a much more defiling act and when she agreed, say na I'd rather go to sleep. This gentlemen is how you twist the knife.
/r/askMRP21/04/17 05:18 PM
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Well played Sir, very well played indeed.
/r/askMRP21/04/17 05:16 PM
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But what if he just wants some strange? "Honey, lets role play tonight. I'll be me and you be any other woman on the planet".
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/17 05:01 PM
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I agree but if she doesn't know you know, there's a real opportunity to have some fun fucking with her. In my experience, unless she's ready to exit the relationship, she will go to great lengths to hide her deceit. The confrontation of being caught will always linger on her mind and panic will ensue whenever the possibility of discovery comes about. This is the real leverage. I would bring about the possibility of confrontation, let it simmer so she can wallow in fear, then never quite bring ab…
/r/askMRP21/04/17 04:48 PM
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A. You don't fuck other women. B. You fuck other women and don't tell her. C. You leave her to fuck other women. How do you married and live in ltr guys manage these thoughts? If you're seeking to "manage these thoughts" you've already chosen option A. Stop asking what you should do and start asking yourself what you want. Cart before the horse bro...
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/17 03:40 PM
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Actually I think we are on the same page. Check out my response to Scurve, pretty similar to your thoughts.
/r/askMRP20/04/17 04:11 PM
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Had a feeling this would be interpreted the wrong way. By no means am I suggesting become a cuck. Let me refine my statement some. I'm of the opinion that if she cheated and she knows you know, then you must exit the relationship. I do not believe a women can respect a man that allows her infidelity. That said, if she does not know that you know, you're in a position of power. You have time to make calculated decisions. I didn't literally mean do nothing as in become a cuck. The bigger point I'm…
/r/askMRP20/04/17 04:04 PM
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Are you sure these are shit tests? Maybe list an example. If these are legit shit tests just keep up the AA and have fun with it. Learn to enjoy fucking with her. She's just attempting to bypass the AA and break your frame. By this I mean I sometimes find myself interpreting virtually everything she does as a dominance play You're walking around in her frame. If you had frame you would not know or care about stupid shit like elevator buttons.
/r/askMRP18/04/17 08:29 PM
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But this isn't IDGAF. You are making plans around what has not even happened yet. If my wife cheats (and it's possible she already has). I'm not going to freak out, get angry, run to a lawyer. Maybe I'll leave, maybe I'll do nothing, maybe I'll just start fucking her friends. I don't know what I'll do cause I DONT GIVE A FUCK!
/r/askMRP18/04/17 08:06 PM
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Nope I read her texts as a child hoping they wouldn't need to own up to their shitty attitude. Her text might was well say: "Did you hear my shitty attitude, if not lets pretend I didn't say anything" All dread is fear of losing him. If you're quality the other woman is always implied because all you need to create the opportunity is distance, like leaving.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/04/17 02:15 PM
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He left to go solve a problem, not punish his wife. That's not passive aggressive. Not telling her is just shitty logistics. Did we read the same post?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/17 09:47 PM
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Been saying all along I'm not a former Mod or EC. This is the only account I post from. I'm just an unreasonable man trying to adapt his environment to himself.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/17 04:54 PM
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Going to inject my frame here just to show another side of things: Know why you are divorcing. This is universal. You should know and understand all of your motivations. If not you're drifting or worse being controlled. A list of bad actions will remind you to hold frame but willpower makes that list unnecessary. I see many guys get divorced because the can not get out of her frame. They can not get control of the relationship so they give up. Some women are just toxic but most men are pussys. K…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/17 04:46 PM
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true DT aren't self-aware Not completely true, you can be a high functioning sociopath. You can learn empathy skills just as high functioning aspergers learn social interaction. It's less a natural response and more a check/balance routine but it's possible. This I know for sure. Reduced spontaneous but relatively normal deliberate vicarious representations in psychopathy The man who pulls a knife on you is at a disadvantage … Psychologically, he only has one weapon. His thinking is therefore li…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/17 08:22 PM
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This post touches on a major issue here at MRP. All this alpha/beta shit is polarizing. For the most part MRP is about self-improvement. It's about being the best version of yourself. That best version is not necessarily the most alpha version, especially in the context of marriage. Additionally I believe adopting alpha behaviors that are not genuine creates a cognitive dissonance that will result in failure. I don't even know what alpha/beta means anymore. I see sovereign men and subjugated pus…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/17 06:12 PM
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I made no criticism of him. I simply reflected the events as I interpreted them. Don't be blinded by the outcome. Winning the lottery is not the same as building and selling a business. The men here don't need hugs and high fives. They need a kick in the ass. Vitriolic... really? Did you sneak in here from bluepill?
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/17 05:08 PM
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What are you doing to get more out of your wife? I don't see any references to kino, devi, pua. Are you actively trying to accomplish something or just hoping she'll change on her own?
/r/askMRP29/12/16 04:27 AM
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that doesn't mean he spends all his precious free time with his family but some of us like to spend time with our family?
/r/askMRP29/12/16 04:15 AM
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Hell yes it's her frame centric. I'm tell OP to start the fuck over. The gains he's made remain but he needs a reset with wifey. If not he'll be back here in 6 months asking us about her emotional affair. Better course of action was not to let the wife run buck wild and ask for the daughter back. In all other circumstances yes, but this was a huge comfort test! What did she do? Isolate herself and asked about HIM! "Her telling me she misses me and she enjoys seeing her family but she can't wait …
/r/askMRP29/12/16 04:01 AM
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First the important shit, why the fuck are you not with your family? If you can honestly say you had no other option, then you made a sacrifice, it's what men do. But was there really no other option? Women and children want your time and attention, they could give fuck all about your sacrifices. Nobody dies regretting not having worked more. Make sure you got your priorities straight. within five minutes her mother told her it's mommy's turn honey and took the iPad into their room and just aski…
/r/askMRP27/12/16 08:15 PM
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You lost frame multiple times. You did not STFU and IDGAF does not work on pretend mode. All that happened here is your girl decided to let you fuck her in the ass. Your only part in this was not fucking up when she said go. In other news... my girlfriend of almost a year LMAO...
/r/MarriedRedPill22/12/16 07:35 PM
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No No No! So to calm her, either you turn down the volume of the undone chore noise in her environment... or you turn up the volume of your masculine sexuality There is no choice here. If you think your wife is not fucking you because of some dirty dishes you're bullshitting yourself.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/12/16 07:13 PM
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Women fall in love with how you make them feel. That feeling changes regardless and they try and change you as a result. Subtle differences but thinking a woman "knows you" is a delusion.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/16 08:59 PM
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Waste of time. Any tears shed by this fucking crocodile were not for him, just her own self pity. He should have ghosted her and spent that energy on the next twat.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/16 07:02 PM
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Come on, he didn't even call him a pussy. I'm still around, just busy as fuck.
/r/askMRP08/12/16 08:43 PM
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It's clear to me that all of her talk about making decisions "together" really means that she wants me to make the plans and then she can decide whether they are suitable Women are so good at letting men think they're in control. Have you read the manipulated man yet? It's you lead, she follows. Not you plan, she decides. Good work on the rest.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/11/16 05:41 PM
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I was not trying to fix a problem with attraction. I meant that jealousy and attraction are related. You tried to reduce jealousy no? How is a factual observation a coping mechanism? It's your perception not factual. The value has no meaning. It does not matter if its 5% or 45% it a problem that needs addressing. How so? You would not be providing ratios of her behavior. She has a problem. The good behavior is irrelevant. Do you have any actionable advice? You have to be willing to walk away fro…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/11/16 05:28 AM
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For many women jealousy fuels attraction. Beta will not help you. I think you're down playing her issues: We're talking days of threatening to leave in front of the kids, breaking stuff, attacking me physically her outbursts are fairly long and extreme she's been affectionate, she's been cold, she's been screaming and breaking stuff in jealous rage and she's been crying and begging for a third child. when she's freaking out she's unable to control herself so even honest ultimatums won't work. A …
/r/MarriedRedPill10/11/16 04:53 PM
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Been here. Shady bitches is my speciality. Ill be back with a brain dump soon. Hang in there brother.
/r/askMRP26/10/16 03:29 PM
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I'm a little fucked up right now but here's what I read: Her: Come here bitch and put on this dress. It's a tight fit so push out them titties. Me: I don't wanna, bla Her: (smiling) My little bitch will wear whatever I say. Me: No but I'm willing to negotiate sex for control. Her: Of course you are little bitch! I turn around, she starts really laughing Her: This pussy owns you. Me: (smiling) ...go on... Her: Good little bitches get rewards. Who's a good little bitch? Me: I'm a good little bitch…
/r/askMRP26/10/16 04:02 AM
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Can confirm, I squat every workout as well. 3/2 - front/back squat.
/r/askMRP25/10/16 08:01 PM
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You need to weigh both the outcome and the investment. Maybe you get caught, maybe you don't, but how much of your time are you willing to spend on pussy? Side bitches are work. If the universe wants to toss some low hanging hb8+ in my lap, I'll eat at the table once but I never go back for seconds. My time is my most limited resource and I spend that time as constructively as possible. Chasing pussy has no more value than video games or weed, it's just more fun. Food for thought...
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/16 07:48 PM
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That dude is heavier than 175 and probably on gear. You don't have a clue. Good luck I have no more time for this convo.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/16 04:29 PM
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3% BF, I think you're bullshitting yourself. How are you coming up with these numbers? I know dude's < 7% and not one is natural. Getting lean is 80% diet. All the cardio in the world will not overcome a shitty diet.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/16 04:25 PM
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If you do not track your PR's then how do you quantify your progress? Do you want to get stronger or just look strong? Your trainer is treating you like a chick who want's a nice ass. One size fits all bullshit personal training. @ 175lbs you would probably be around 7-8% BF (if you're truly at 12% now). You will be ripped but you will be a skinny little guy and nobody will notice unless your shirts off. You should try and hold the 190lbs while slowly losing the fat, lean gains. Fuck bench press…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/16 02:53 PM
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baby is crying in the other room. She barks disrespectfully "go in there and get the baby now. Someone in this house needs to hold her besides me". I respond "I'm not going to do it when you ask me like that ** You need to wake the fuck up bro! ** Why does she need to ASK you to hold your child? Why would you say you're going to ignore your screaming child to spite your wife? What kind of father doesn't immediately check on a screaming infant? Your wife has 4 kids right now, you see that don't y…
/r/askMRP20/10/16 05:08 AM
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the fuck is this?
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/16 04:47 AM
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First and foremost: Where am I on this list ? At the bottom. This is butt hurt baby shit right here, reevaluate your thoughts. Second: Stop all efforts to change her and reinvest that energy in yourself. Are you only lifting 2x a week, well make that 4x. Let her eat all the shit she wants, don't participate. You can only control yourself. Third: I've been doing MAP for a while What's a while? To many guys on here make a couple of months of progress and then expect that she will do a 180. A coupl…
/r/askMRP19/10/16 05:48 PM
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We like to pretend we are not tourists. When you are in the "fake it until you make it" part of your journey, well yes you are a tourist. The guys that truly succeed stop faking it at some point. Your thought patterns change, your perception changes, your actions change and your reality changes. Once this happens you are no longer visiting your desired reality. You're constructing your own chosen reality. Keep going.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/16 05:24 PM
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Can we take bets on how long it takes for the D-Tri friend to fuck this girl?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/16 02:56 PM
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Yep if he didn't write his age I would have assumed he was a teenager. Man child bullshit indeed.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/16 02:54 PM
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I am living in fear I am scared of her terrified that nothing I do is good enough You fear the consequences of your actions when the results of you not acting are much worse. Wake up, man up, get moving.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/16 01:42 AM
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OpSec is near and dear to my heart, I'll leave this for anyone that's interested... Only use the incognito version of web browsers, and clear memory and passwords every session. I'd suggest running an anon VM like whonix. This way you do not have to remember to do anything. Stupid human error is almost always the flaw in the system. get a google voice account with the burner email address Google voice requires a phone number to be verified. Make sure google voice is setup to not display or assoc…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/16 09:17 PM
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Fair enough, my other points still remain.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/16 06:37 PM
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Should I try to initiate more often? Why do you need strangers to tell you to go after what you want? This just may be his pace and maybe you are not a match in regards to libido but until you try you wont know. I monitor what I say to not seem critical which is why I don't know if I should say that I want more (and accidently insult him or make him feel bad if we're having sex at a level he enjoys) So to preserve his feelings you will deny your own? Not healthy...
/r/askMRP12/10/16 06:33 PM
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I have not made huge changes in the relationship because of my wifes pregnancy. This is an excuse. Be more mindful of comfort tests and don't go crazy with the dread but all else is fair game. The only right time to improve your life is now. We had something like a main event last week, when she blew up about me not caring about the new baby coming. Not main event, this is a comfort test. I continue to do a lot of subservient things because of it, though. I do all the cooking, dishes, most child…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/16 06:03 PM
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Losing your keys is kiddie shit, first step is to get a routine to avoid this kind of bullshit all together. I'm guessing she doesn't work? She sounds pretty entitled. I'd get that corrected straight away. The new car is yours now, she drives the Honda. What the fuck is she going to do about it?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/16 05:47 PM
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You're full of shit. Start collecting numbers and see how DTF these chicks are. there's a dad at school who a few of the moms have the hots for, and she's started to mention him a bit, how she talked with him for a few mins at a party/whatever ^ That guy gets the fucking numbers. You're worried that your wife might cheat AND that you might be missing out on some strange? Do you not see a conflict of interest?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/16 04:02 AM
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Another aspect is she, her perception of you, must change as well. Her pace in this transformation is independent of your ability to flip that switch. The whole relationship has to change around your efforts. You change, literally changing your reality. She then decides if she would like to continue to be part of the new reality. She'll either stay or go. The guys who have worse marriages are the sprinkle genies. They're not improving so shit gets worse. It's okay to spoon her guys, you're not a…
/r/askMRP10/10/16 03:44 AM
1

You sound butt hurt? That link is a lab test showing showing GNC protein to be of lower quality than most other brands... "28% of calories in this product come from protein content, which is significantly below average in this category (Mean = 67%, Standard Deviation = 20%). " That same link also has lab test of other brands... I was pointing out that there are better options on the market, IDGAF what one you choose. I order a custom blend from truenutrition.com, I also add protease. I'm bulking…
/r/askMRP08/10/16 11:09 PM
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No, that was not the plan Women hear feelz. It's often not what you say but how you say it. Did you say it cool with a smile, probably not. You might have had no emotion or maybe you were a dick, either is a negative with women. You need to add the smile. Another strategy, don't tell her she's wrong, ask here to prove she's right. i.e. Was that the plan? Bigger Picture: When your SMV is high enough you can say the most foul shit and follow it up with a smile and all is right. You're not there ye…
/r/askMRP05/10/16 04:30 AM
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Anyway shes pretty adamant she still loves me but its not going to work because shes given me enough chances... All out of chances huh? She should down grade you to lap dog and you can sleep at the end of the bed while she fucks the next guy. Your frame sucks. You sound like a giant pussy. Ideally would like to salvage this What are you salvaging? What about her has any value to you? Seriously, make a fucking list. If you had options you would not put up with this shit. Either work on you until …
/r/askMRP05/10/16 04:11 AM
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The male hamster in action... She's keeping score and recording evidence to use against you. It's called manipulation. Wake the fuck up.
/r/askMRP05/10/16 03:54 AM
1

Nuts and seeds. Super high in fat = tons of calories plus low in sugar. When I'm bulking I'll eat a salad with lots of mixed nuts, seeds, eggs and high fat dressing. I can easily eat 2000 - 2500 calories in one sitting this way. Try to get sprouted seeds, google Phytic acid. Nuts cause some people gastric distress. YMMV.
/r/askMRP03/10/16 08:16 PM
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GNC makes the shittiest of products https://labdoor.com/review/gnc-pro-performance-amp-mass-xxx
/r/askMRP03/10/16 08:06 PM
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Just to play devils advocate... What about the internal directed why? As in: Why does this bother me? Why am I not progressing? Why did I succeed this time but fail last? The inward directed why is self analysis. It can keep us off auto-pilot and make sure our actions align with our goals. The way I see it how = action and why = motivation. If your motivation is external you're fucking up.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/09/16 06:00 PM
1

This feels like hard mode to me. So much easier to do a 4-6 hour feeding window per day. Also IF is shorter periods to avoid going catabolic. I'm not sure, around the 36 - 40 hour mark, you may not be doing yourself any favors getting so depleted. I'd make sure you eat tons of protein before each 48h fast. I think its like 60 hours for the liver to deplete glycogen but if you didn't have enough aminos going in...
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/16 03:42 AM
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If you want to get back to enjoying the process and not just reaching the end, you need to remove some comforts from your life. To take this a little further, seek out Acute Stress. Our daily events can be categorized as acute or chronic stress. Acute is growth inducing and include things like lifting heavy shit, starting something new, taking a cold shower, sleeping outside (on occasion). Chronic is the shit that causes diseases. The hour long commute in traffic, bad relationships, shitty jobs,…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/16 03:44 PM
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Over the past 3 months I've added around 20 lbs of muscle You gained muscle along with fat and water. Your scale doesn't only weigh muscle. Still gains though, good work.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/08/16 04:18 AM
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This right here! So many parents praise the outcome and not the effort, huge mistake.
/r/askMRP26/08/16 07:17 PM
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You mean she doesn't find it attractive when you play video games? Ahh maybe make her a macaroni necklace or a nice finger painting instead. Kid shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/08/16 07:04 PM
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We are not on the same point. I meant other options in regards to sex. 1 and 3 alone will never result in tingles. You are her best option Being her best option still falls within the realm of beta bux. You can be her best option and easily be a little bitch. Being her best option does not generate tingles. Her knowing other bitches would also gladly use you as a resource does not generate tingles. You don't need her This is how the balance of power is maintained in our favor. The one who cares …
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/16 07:03 PM
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Not following you bro. "You have other options" is passive dread at its finest. Women want what other women want.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/16 06:16 PM
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I think it’s time Red Pill men disabuse themselves of the idea that they are the ‘gatekeepers’ of commitment This! Gentlemen you are not the gatekeepers of anything but your own time and attention. Our commitment is of self-control and honor. Her commitment is one of opportunism. There really is no quid pro quo when it comes to commitment or value in believing you’re a gatekeeper of it. Outside the context of raising a family, her commitment has no value. Fuck commitment. We are on a mission to …
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/16 01:32 PM
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I'm telling my wife about something that was important to me. It was the result of a match today that I was very interested in. Chances are she only gives a fuck cause you do. You should have been chatting up her friend. Be charming because women see value best through the eyes of other women. Instead you went up stairs to nurse your butt and she noticed. Every time your wife asks you "why are you mad", you're fucking up. Your wife has an orbiter, maybe she fucked him, you'll never know. Forgot …
/r/askMRP12/08/16 03:41 AM
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It's not what she says, it's how she says it. You need to learn to start fucking with her. Why would you take this woman seriously? You could have made up some ridiculous shit about the plot, use the opportunity to make your daughter laugh and make your wife feel like the child she is. And the fucked up shit is, your wife will love it.
/r/askMRP09/08/16 04:11 AM
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Fuck this bad boy shit. These little bitches are just as fake as the nice guys. Be Genuine, Be Assertive, Be Confident. You can be kind when you choose to but nice is pussy shit every time. Fuck Nice
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/16 03:50 AM
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I've ate the mushrooms, meditated in isolation tanks, tired hypnosis - past life regression. I've tried the ankh, the tantra, the kundalini and the closest I've come to a spiritual experience is having a loaded gun pressed to the back of my head. I want to believe we are more than talking meat but my experience says all this energy, arua, chi and prana stuff is bullshit.
/r/askMRP05/08/16 12:37 AM
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I like to walk the line between rough sex and sex crime. If she's not crying afterwards you're good to go. She didn't stop you so why do you care? Why do you care?
/r/askMRP05/08/16 12:04 AM
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Rule #1. Don't listen to her talk. We never, you never... Who gives a fuck. Pain is trying to please something that has no concept of happiness. Do what you do and if it happens to align with her momentary desires, well great. Rule #2. She won't with you but others will... It's difficult to care if she's willing to swallow when your balls are empty cause you dropped your load in some other bitches mouth. Rule #3 Don't be a fat fuck loser or else rules 1 and 2 don't apply to you.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/16 11:53 PM
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I'm in total agreement here, just want to refine something. Talking is not doing so shut the fuck up is mandatory. Also... A problem is the difference between the way things are and the way you want them to be, change one.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/16 05:32 PM
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Passive dread is the byproduct of becoming the most awesome version of yourself. Anything else and you're expending energy in creating an outcome you can't control.
/r/askMRP18/07/16 02:52 AM
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Dear Internet, Should I jerk off? Also are my hobbies okay? Your frame is weak. When you do what you want without the need for the approval for others you will realize how ridiculous these questions are.
/r/askMRP14/07/16 02:57 AM
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The answer to that question will literally determine the genetic composition of the Europe of the future. About 16 million people currently carry the Y chromosome of Gengis Kahn. I don't think it's because he asked for the pussy.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/16 02:46 AM
1

I really don't want to get one, mostly for me, but to help her out also. Trying to avoid shitty food is not the answer, you need to develop will power. Diets are temporary and equal temporary results. You need to change your lifestyle. Ask her if she wants the cake and if so buy it but eat none of it. You can not control her, you can only lead by example.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/16 09:15 PM
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She did this, then she did that... but WTF are you doing? Maybe she's a bitch, maybe you don't act in a way that demands respect, who knows. All I can tell from this post is that you're balls deep in her frame.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/07/16 05:08 PM
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She doesn't respect you. You don't have a problem you have a choice.
/r/askMRP06/07/16 02:59 AM
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Should I just have picked up the plates? You should plate this bitch and focus on yourself.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/16 02:45 AM
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Paragraphs motherfucker, use them.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/16 08:03 PM
2

Make sure to arch your back when she wipes her feet because you are a fucking HUMAN DOORMAT.
/r/askMRP30/06/16 04:45 PM
1

Getting someone to take action (sex) is much easier than getting someone to change behavior (bitchiness). when the fuck are you going to be somewhat tolerable and human This is way too weak for my tastes. I'd go with: "If you keep disrespecting me I will fucking leave and I will take everything". Say this as cold and calm as you can. Do not say this is the heat of an argument. Say it and fucking mean it and only say it if you're prepared to do it. And after you say it STFU and stare her down unt…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/16 06:27 PM
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how do you explain that, me being an "arsehole" is just me not allowing her to run the show anymore *You don't tell her who's boss, you show her. * You're still in bitch mode if you think you need to answer that. My wife calls me an asshole because I'm an asshole. I tell her its one of my skills. Own that shit.
/r/askMRP28/06/16 02:18 AM
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She's lying and trying manipulate your perception of events. Do you really need to find her with a cock in her mouth to prove she is low value?
/r/askMRP27/06/16 07:53 PM
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That you watched this shit, let alone took the time to transcribe it, tells me you do not value your time. Don't pickup every piece of shit you find on the road.
/r/askMRP27/06/16 01:09 AM
3

You don't get tired of her pussy, you get tired of her mouth.
/r/askMRP26/06/16 12:43 PM
8

Do Nothing Make her believe that you're mad but going to forgive her. Hire a dude to contact, meet and fuck her. Get said dude to introduce her to some blow, maybe some meth too. Go out of town for a night. Call the cops say your wife is acting weird, please check on the children, wife might be on drugs. You get kids, no alimony, she gets a time out.
/r/askMRP23/06/16 03:17 AM
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Don't get married. You can have everything you want without it. Marriage for most guys is like trying to win a fight by hoping your opponent gets tired of punching you in the face. Answer this question without selling us a line of bullshit. Why do you need to get married?
/r/askMRP23/06/16 02:32 AM
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I'll use a sports car analogy. Sexy sports cars are fun as hell. Let your wife be your own walking, svelte sports car. But this is also about change, novelty. Everyone wants a Ferrari but go drive the same one for 20 years. This is why we need to keep evolving, keep her on her toes.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/16 02:18 AM
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Didn't go home the other night Giant Pussy avoids confrontation had bare back sex with office girl Giant Pussy has no self-preservation I'm not a smart man! Giant Pussy seeks validation A Giant Pussy
/r/askMRP22/06/16 12:38 AM
1

Women choose security over freedom every time, it's their nature. MRP has already had its quota for stupid today, please try again tomorrow.
/r/askMRP16/06/16 12:22 AM
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I want to ask my wife for a divorce, I'm not sure if my reasons are good enough though Make sure you ask permission to leave her, she'll probably say no though so maybe you should just stay and continue to be a giant pussy. A Giant Pussy
/r/askMRP16/06/16 12:15 AM
1

Out of her fault I can't behave in a way she would deserve. How do you know what she deserves? Maybe she wants to be hate fucked in a public bathroom and you're just not the right guy to do it?
/r/askMRP10/06/16 07:06 PM
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I gotta disagree here bro, First, the quality of your practice greatly changes the volume necessary to achieve mastery. Second the 10,000 hour rule has been shown to be an incomplete metric. Also you forgot something: *7. Demand: STFU and pull off her panties. If she's strong enough to resist you, you're still a little bitch.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/16 06:55 PM
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If it weren't for his graduation i would have left but I couldn't do that to him. Don't leave men behind enemy lines. No fucking excuses. If you have to leave cause shes acting like a cunt then take the kid with you. She doesn't see you, she sees the beta bitch you've been. It's going to take more time, if at all, before she acknowledges any change.
/r/askMRP08/06/16 08:30 PM
2

I suggest you look into the relationship between co-dependency and BPD. NMMNG covers many co-dependent behaviors but not in specifics to BPD.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/16 09:15 PM
1

Don't you have cat memes to make?
/r/askMRP31/05/16 01:32 AM
1

She goes quiet for a bit, and eventually I break the silence rambling Side note but worth mentioning. You need to get comfortable with being uncomfortable. That silence was an opportunity.
/r/askMRP31/05/16 01:25 AM
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You Sir, are full of shit. If she was a ham planet would you even consider posting this? Either you're lying to yourself about wanting to drop a load in this bitch. Or worse you're living so deep within your woman's frame that you won't allow yourself to interact with attractive women.
/r/askMRP30/05/16 12:41 AM
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If you read her stupid post while getting your dick sucked by a plate, would you still be butthurt?
/r/askMRP28/05/16 02:02 PM
1

WTF bro, you left out the part when you fucked that bear cause it tried to steal your kill. And then it had cubs and you raised them as your own until one day, they were too big so you had to kill them as well. The first went down with a ridge hand and the next a round house. But that last bear, he was a beast, had to take him down with your nunchakus. Get fucked.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/16 01:48 AM
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Consider returning veterans. Women wait like saints for 5, 7 years for the men to get out of a foreign hellhole. Where are these women you speak of?
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/16 08:22 PM
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You got denied then got butthurt. You remained butthurt and turned down pussy that you wanted to begin with. See the viscous cycle here. I am now ZFG when it comes to her, no more initiating from me But you do give a fuck or you would not be turning down her invitations. This is passive aggressive bullshit. If she initiates I will not deny her, but she is now in roommate status with whom I have kids with. Covert contract. But when I get done she starts giving me shit about how she can hear me gr…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/16 08:05 PM
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I like pain too. TED Talk, cold showers
/r/askMRP26/05/16 04:00 AM
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forgot to mention, you're a fat fuck ;)
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/16 03:47 AM
1

I maintain ~10% body fat at 190lbs. Here's the straight dope. The most important thing you will do over the next 7 weeks is create a habit. Like most of us you're not a genetic lottery winner and you will have to work hard as fuck to be considered ripped. Diet: Ripped is about diet. You can be ripped at 150lbs or ripped at 200lbs. These compositions look very different. You need a calorie deficit. Multiple your body weight by 10, that's your daily calorie limit while cutting. If you can't contro…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/16 03:42 AM
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MRP is a band-aid for a self-inflicted wound. This shit ain't law, there are no rules. Interpret, digest or regurgitate.
/r/askMRP25/05/16 09:14 PM
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This is exactly how not to handle this shit. I hope this other dude raises your kids in a way you approve. Not that you'll have any say since they won't see you most of the week. For the dudes here with kids and a shady bitch. Never let her know, that you know, until you're ready to nuke that shit. It's so much easier to smile, work on self improvement, focus on being a good dad and bury your dick in a side piece. I promise you won't care what she does when you know two things: Your kids are bei…
/r/askMRP24/05/16 09:23 PM
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Esther Perel say, "almost all of these instances of cheating had one thing in common: I felt alive." This is about novelty. She just wants some strange. Has nothing to do with you. What was your offer then and what do you have to offer now? How's that view from her frame? Do you think she approves of you now? P.S. Stop taking advice from women, they're a mystery to themselves and painfully predictable to everyone else.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/16 08:56 PM
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I'm married, how many of you out there have plates on the side so you can really not give a fuck? This shit is hard. Reach down and feel your stomach, is it a little bowl of jelly? I bet it is. All your beta bullshit skills that helped you win wifey don't mean shit to a plate. You have nothing to offer a chick who wants to be fucked into oblivion by a raging ripped beast. Hence no plates.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/16 02:58 AM
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A mans only value is what he makes of himself. FTFY
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/16 10:55 AM
2

Today OP learned the full duality of women.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/16 02:49 AM
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Couple people have said this, I'm not Cad. Just your average misogynist with a few harmless sadistic tendencies.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/16 02:44 AM
3

She somehow can see how many picture messages I get Bitch probably got a copy of your phone bill. They usually distinguish text from media messages. Been there. All pussy feels good. Why work so hard for this one?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/16 06:36 PM
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All pussy feels good. Why work so hard for this one?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/16 06:13 PM
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And remember gentlemen, no choking or ball gags while she's pregnant. Can we do "How to smack a bitch" next?
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/16 03:25 AM
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She ain't going to quit for you. Just bend her over so you don't have to smell that ashhole until you find something new.
/r/askMRP03/05/16 02:26 AM
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Listen up fuck stick. It don't matter if she wants to, has or is fucking chad. Look at what YOU have allowed her to make of you. A paranoid, mate gaurding, cuked sad fuck. Forget her, do you even like yourself?
/r/askMRP03/05/16 02:15 AM
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Listen you human sack of potatoes, don't post asking people to search for shit you could have easily found yourself. Lazy mutherfucker.
/r/askMRP02/05/16 06:58 AM
1

"hopefully it will help on my mission to get shredded" abs are made in the kitchen bro! You want shredded = intermittent fasting Most docs don't know shit about TRT. Your general practitioner will most likely fuck you up. I'd seek a specialist, there is much to factor in regards to getting you into peak performance. TRT will not take you into AAS levels. So if the doc just re-balances you to normal then, while you'll feel better your gains will not be explosive. If the doc takes you to the peak …
/r/askMRP28/04/16 09:08 PM
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