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And Red Pill podcasts.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 02:43 PM
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Thanks for replying. It's good to know this. I'm traveling the world with my GF for many years, so I get most of info on 'dating culture' online.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 02:41 PM
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What way do they flip? Please explain
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 02:37 PM
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Perhaps I've been watching too many red pill TikTok compliations?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 02:35 PM
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I'm looking for a list of coaches. This doesn't answer my question.
/r/seduction07/04/24 10:37 AM
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Thanks for your support and useful comments. You guys help to create this summary. https://medium.com/game-global/why-is-mainstream-dating-advice-for-men-so-awful-abe5f386988a
/r/TheRedPill31/12/22 03:54 PM
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You're making conclusions about an entire gender based on one experience with one woman You're listening to her words, not her actions. Women lie to men about this sort of stuff all the time. You literally kissed her. If she's really not attracted to you, isn't the proof that women follow their emotions? You could have escalated to sleep with her - and if the sex was good, that could change her whole long-term opinion of you. Your post comes off as very emotional about a first date with one woma…
/r/seduction26/10/22 07:44 PM
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I mentioned this post as part of YouTube video answering 'game newbie' questions. I wanted more newbies to see it https://youtu.be/M32N01X8IPQ
/r/seduction04/09/22 03:59 PM
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I made a YouTube video answering 'game newbie' questions and answered this post in more detail as part of it https://youtu.be/M32N01X8IPQ
/r/seduction04/09/22 03:58 PM
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I made a YouTube video answering 'game newbie' questions and answered this post in more detail as part of it https://youtu.be/M32N01X8IPQ
/r/seduction04/09/22 03:57 PM
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I made a YouTube video answering 'game newbie' questions and answered this post in more detail as part of it https://youtu.be/M32N01X8IPQ
/r/seduction04/09/22 03:56 PM
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I made a YouTube video answering 'game newbie' questions and answered this post in more detail as part of it https://youtu.be/M32N01X8IPQ
/r/seduction04/09/22 03:55 PM
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Use the pain as motivation to improve
/r/seduction21/08/22 11:52 AM
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Ok dude. Well, don't travel solo until you do. Seriously. Spend the money on therapy, not a trip.
/r/seduction17/08/22 04:43 PM
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I just saw your Edit 2: Fix your mental health before travelling abroad solo.
/r/seduction17/08/22 03:27 PM
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Go to Thailand to enjoy yourself. It's a fun place! If you have no social skills and approach anxiety, you're still going to struggle to meet women. Yeah, you'll get 'attention' from massage girls, bar girls and prostitutes. But other than that, you'll probably have to make it happen. Also many people complain about Tinder mostly being full of prostitutes, bar girls and ladyboys also, So, you'll have to deal with all that. There are hundreds of ways to 'improve your confidence', but I don't thin…
/r/seduction16/08/22 04:42 PM
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A lot of women get opportunities just from being pretty. As a man, you usually have to *earn* all your opportunities in life. In dating, you can do that by building yourself into a high-value man - and/or by putting the initial effort to woo a woman. You can cry about it. You can give up. But that's the way of the world.
/r/seduction16/08/22 02:03 PM
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Ok, now I can answer the question of your original post. -- Men have to make more effort on dating apps because there are LITERALLY hundreds of thousands of guys also messaging them. Unless your photos make you look superior to almost of them, you're fighting an uphill battle. So, that's why you have to fight. When you meet women in real life, you put yourself to the front of the queue for her attention, just by standing in front of her and saying 'hi'. It's also easier to get her excited about …
/r/seduction16/08/22 01:31 PM
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Do you approach women in real life ever? Do you realize the advantages of doing that over online dating?
/r/seduction16/08/22 06:09 AM
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I agree with that. That's why content like this is important.
/r/seduction15/08/22 03:03 PM
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What don't you like about it?
/r/seduction15/08/22 03:02 PM
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What don't you like about it?
/r/seduction15/08/22 03:02 PM
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It's a start - but make sure you keep going out regularly and make you keep building on that. Also, don't take advice from people on here who have not even done one approach.
/r/seduction14/08/22 06:14 PM
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No.
/r/seduction14/08/22 06:11 PM
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This response tells me you're not seriously interested in changing. You're just interested in being a victim and feeling sorry for yourself. Millions of people have people have overcome shyness. It's not a medical condition. Toughen up - or continue to down the same path you've been on. Your choice.
/r/seduction12/08/22 05:43 AM
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"I'm too shy to approach women" There's your problem. You want experience? Approach women. There are thousands of guides on overcoming approach anxiety, but I'd suggest getting a coach or an experienced wingman if you're serious about fixing your life. Stop being a victim when you've not even tried.
/r/seduction12/08/22 05:39 AM
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This is a cry for help. Well, I've given you the steps in this post. Now it's up to you to follow them.
/r/seduction11/08/22 05:44 AM
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Since you're at rock bottom, I suggest you follow the steps in the final section of this post.
/r/seduction11/08/22 05:44 AM
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Since you're at rock bottom, I suggest you follow the steps in the final section of this post.
/r/seduction11/08/22 05:43 AM
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"How do I casually remind her of this and set up a time/place?" Stop overthinking and just do it.
/r/seduction10/08/22 04:16 PM
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Invite her on a date.
/r/seduction10/08/22 04:02 PM
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Unless you are super outgoing and funny in real life That's literally what game is. And guess what? It still works. If you're not outgoing and interesting, you would have failed in the early 2000s too.
/r/seduction14/07/22 01:47 PM
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Haha. Well, they'll find out pretty quickly if they ever agree to meet with you (That's assuming it doesn't come across in your Tinder and Bumble texts, like it does in your Reddit messages)
/r/seduction10/07/22 03:50 PM
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She doesn't want to have sex with you, not for you to sleep with anyone else. That sounds like a bad deal to me. It's time you man up and tell her want you want to do, rather than letting her dictate the terms.
/r/seduction10/07/22 03:47 PM
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It's rare that women initiate the conversation. Women hate to lead. That's your job as the man. You can absolutely get the woman on a date even if she never texts you first. However, after having seen your other responses to this thread, I imagine your self-esteem might something to do with it
/r/seduction10/07/22 03:43 PM
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I love it. Mix all of these together and you've got the perfect recipe for being left on read. Don't forget texting a woman, then sending "hello?" after she doesn't reply.
/r/seduction10/07/22 03:41 PM
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Hello, I can tell from the nature of your question that you're not experienced in cold-approaching women. If you were, you'd know it's the vibe and the energy you bring that matters, not the words you say. The classic daygame opener regularly works when you have a confident and playful vibe (although I wouldn't recommend asking for the number right off the bat). It regularly flops if you're feeling anxious, needy unconfident etc. I once opened a girl with a nightclub with "Do you like my shirt? …
/r/seduction04/07/22 04:00 PM
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Exactly. Sadly, a lot of us male humans are conditioned to adopt nice guy behavior.
/r/seduction21/06/22 11:22 AM
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Hell yeah. This is awesome to hear.
/r/seduction21/06/22 11:22 AM
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The upvote percentage is very low. Perhaps unsurprising since it's literally a post about being polarizing.
/r/seduction21/06/22 11:22 AM
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Post at r/ratemytinder
/r/seduction20/06/22 04:02 AM
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Hell yeah, seduce your readers!
/r/seduction13/06/22 12:32 AM
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You can be successful and intelligent, but still not where you want to be. It's called being ambitious
/r/seduction12/06/22 03:30 PM
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When you create a new account, you got a boost in the algorithm and will be shown to more people. You look good enough in that one picture to attract matches. But don't be fooled. One picture and no bio isn't optimal. And you're absolutely overthinking the messaging part. Here's some info on how the Tinder algorithm works, delivered by an ex-Tinder employee.
/r/seduction08/06/22 04:43 PM
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I see so many groups of average-looking men with no game in the club, doing fuck all except drinking. Needless to say, they don't get girls And if they go somehow fluke into a conversation, they mess it up.
/r/seduction29/05/22 11:56 PM
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I hope this is satire lol
/r/seduction23/05/22 03:04 PM
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Correct
/r/seduction23/05/22 02:59 PM
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A shopping mall, a beach or a busy park (for example) would be far less intimidating than a nightclub, for example.
/r/seduction23/05/22 02:59 PM
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You two must be extremely new to this community. I guarantee neither of you have tried it, and I'm assuming you've never seen a coach demonstrate it. Either that or you want to tell yourself it isn't real, due to your fear of actually trying it. There is absolutely a way to meet women as you go about their day. Check out the link under Step 2 of this post for a basic demonstration.
/r/seduction23/05/22 02:56 PM
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This is all true, but I didn't want to overwhelm people who have barely done one daygame approach in their life. The exercise in the post is a great starting point to build from.
/r/seduction23/05/22 02:52 PM
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I love that closing sentiment
/r/seduction16/05/22 04:13 PM
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You're right
/r/seduction16/05/22 04:12 PM
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Yes, but we all start somewhere. Most people on this sub will need this advice.
/r/seduction16/05/22 04:12 PM
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Rule 8 is all you need, daddy ;)
/r/seduction16/05/22 04:12 PM
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"I prefer to keep things low-pressure on the first date. Let's grab drinks at XYZ bar first."
/r/seduction13/05/22 04:29 PM
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Good for you, man. Respect
/r/seduction25/04/22 08:01 PM
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That's true. However, a lot of guys want/need to learn how to be exhibit attractive behavior and that's why the dating advice industry is worth billions
/r/seduction25/04/22 07:59 PM
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Yes, a playful tone is needed. Just as with any teasing.
/r/seduction25/04/22 01:32 PM
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Yeah, there's a nuance to it which is hard to put into words on Reddit. Calibration is key - and I mentioned that in the post. Thanks for your reply!
/r/seduction25/04/22 01:32 PM
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Quite possibly ;)
/r/seduction25/04/22 01:31 PM
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Yup, I mean it's possible to spend your time twisting the words of any Reddit post. Kudos to you, I guess
/r/seduction25/04/22 01:30 PM
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You're right, so I decided to make a video expanding on (and trying to demonstrate) good eye contact this morning https://youtu.be/en8qGL2UpaU
/r/seduction25/04/22 09:41 AM
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You can say anything as long as you keep using these tips and don't break the tension.
/r/seduction25/04/22 09:39 AM
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See the link in point 7 of this post
/r/seduction25/04/22 09:38 AM
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You wouldn't have slept with these guys either way. The tips in this guide still hold up. Actually, this is a good place to mention my past... In my teens and early twenties, I had tons of dates where both of us wouldn't stop talking. There were jokes, there were stories, there wasn't a moment of awkward silence. But there wasn't sexual tension either. In fact, it's usually nervous energy that creates this non-stop frantic chit-chat on a date. And guess what? On nearly all of these types of date…
/r/seduction25/04/22 09:38 AM
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Yes, but explicitly saying it out loud kills the sexual tension. It can also make a feel like a hussy.
/r/seduction25/04/22 09:33 AM
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I think you're talking about negging. Disqualifiers are a fundamental part of the push and pull which is flirting.
/r/seduction25/04/22 09:33 AM
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Hey there, I filmed a video on eye contact this morning just for you https://youtu.be/en8qGL2UpaU
/r/seduction25/04/22 09:32 AM
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Great comment! This attitude will help men get over sexual anxiety also
/r/seduction25/04/22 09:31 AM
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Yes, this advice is for people you're in a conversation with.
/r/seduction25/04/22 09:31 AM
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I filmed a video this morning just for you https://youtu.be/en8qGL2UpaU
/r/seduction25/04/22 09:30 AM
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Just print this page haha
/r/seduction25/04/22 07:34 AM
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Yes, both parties know that deep down, but explicitly saying it out loud kills the sexual tension. If you need more detail and examples, click the link that's in that part of the post (point 7). That'll take you to a video of me explaining this topic.
/r/seduction25/04/22 07:34 AM
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This video does the best description I've seen https://youtu.be/A72BI-mXvmA
/r/seduction19/04/22 05:15 PM
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Here's the thing. Any opener can be a good opener if you have good confident energy behind it. If you think it's cool and funny, say it. Your vibe is the most important thing, not the actual words you say. Most likely, this guy was lame enough for you to write a Reddit post about him because he wasn't confident in the golf wife thing. Anyway, props to that guy. He tried. Most guys don't approach at all, or they grope girls on the dancefloor.
/r/seduction17/04/22 06:01 PM
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The plausible deniability thing is huge, especially if you want to sleep with a girl on the first encounter. Talk about it while you're doing it, or after the first time. Show her a good time, avoid the biggest sex mistakes men make the first time round, and surely you'll get an opportunity at round 2
/r/seduction17/04/22 05:58 PM
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Yes, so start from the bottom and build your way up. Build a cool social circle. Make some female friends. Invite them to the club with you. Post some photos with them on Instagram. And go from there. Basic social circle game. Or just complain how the rich get richer and do nothing about it. Your choice.
/r/seduction17/04/22 05:53 PM
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Go wherever you feel most comfortable, provided there's plenty of women to talk to!
/r/seduction13/03/22 04:04 AM
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"What happens if I try everything but still have no luck at all?" Then you'll be in the same position you're in now... That part of your post confirmed what I expected all along. You're thinking too far ahead and intimidating yourself. A better strategy is to start taking action this weekend. Do whatever you can. If that's only complimenting two women, fine! If it's only asking the mall security guard for the time, also fine! But do something! And aim to improve on that next time - and again nex…
/r/seduction13/03/22 03:37 AM
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The concept is called 'social proof' It works with established brands. It's the reason why you buy Coca-Cola instead of some unknown cola brand. It's the reason you eat at the restaurant with the queue, rather than the one with no customers. It's especially important for women in dating. For starters, it offers solid evidence that a man isn't dangerous or creepy. Women fear that a lot. Their safety is the most consideration after all. But it also offers the most solid evidence that a man is cool…
/r/seduction13/03/22 03:28 AM
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Bars and clubs are "not your thing" Online dating is "not your thing" All I see is excuses I'm starting to understand why having sex is "not your thing" at the moment
/r/seduction01/03/22 11:28 AM
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Go talk to her.
/r/seduction01/03/22 09:46 AM
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I understand the parody. But why would you not want these things? Women inspire men to be better. That's good for society. If men got laid despite being losers, there would be a lot more losers out there. And that would be bad for society. With that said, it's a pretty good list.
/r/seduction01/03/22 09:45 AM
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Doesn't ever cold approach. Friend sets him up with ONE woman. Logs into Reddit. "Guys, having male friends is KEY!" Hahaha Actually, mate most of your original post described why having female friends is key
/r/seduction01/03/22 09:39 AM
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Hey man, "how to be confident" is such a broad topic which myself and plenty of people have written entire books on... However, if I could recommend one thing, it would be: GOING OUT and getting social reference experiences *with women especially. The more you practice, the more confident you should get, presuming you learn from your mistakes. At that point, social momentum should skyrocket your confidence.
/r/seduction28/02/22 01:17 AM
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It's a good post. Allow me to make a TLDR: ​ GOAL 1: Introduce yourself GOAL 2: Find out if you like her GOAL 3: Ask her on a date GOAL 4: HAVE FUN ​ I'd also like to add that the main reason guys run out of things to say is: they don't think what they have to say is 'good enough'. Try some exercises to improve your self-worth, and you may find you can talk to women endlessly (just like you probably already can with your friends and family)
/r/seduction28/02/22 12:45 AM
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I'd like to add that it *can* get easier as you get older, because it you should be able to develop the personal qualities that women find attractive as you age. Intelligence Confidence Wealth Emotional Maturity Better in the bedroom A lifestyle she'd want to be a part of A history of interesting stories and experiences When you have these qualities nailed down, you can get away with being bald, short and old-looking etc. ...But it only happens if you put in the work to build these qualities. If…
/r/seduction28/02/22 12:30 AM
1

I'd recommend you find an experienced wingman in these groups (300+ local cities). A wingman is great for supporting you and lifting spirits when you're feeling low. They'll also be able to point out where you're going wrong and help you improve your game faster.
/r/seduction22/02/22 12:25 PM
1

"Game doesn't work in my city" We have Telegram groups for gamers in 300+ major cities - and I hear this excuse in so many of them. If you have the attitude that daygame is creepy, the women will feel that way. If you have an attitude that meeting women in a mall is completely normal, they will feel that way. Read about The Law Of State Transference and Frame Control.
/r/seduction22/02/22 02:01 AM
1

It's not impossible. I've seen plenty of success story case studies of guys who started dating coaching at an older age.
/r/seduction22/02/22 01:57 AM
2

Oh, cool. Are we going to pretend that looks aren't the most important thing for men? Men are literally biologically wired to be attracted to younger adult women. Read a book. Younger women also often tend to be more feminine, have more zest for life and more fun to be around.
/r/seduction22/02/22 01:56 AM
2

I'd recommend you learn daygame. You can head out to shopping malls, busy public streets, beaches and you'll find plenty of women. Once you sharpen your skillset and build enough social momentum, you'll develop the charisma and bravery to charm the women you walk past as you go about your day-to-day life. At this point, you won't have to worry about the places with best ratios ever again. (For what it's worth, nearly all dating apps have horrific man/woman ratios and most nightclubs are the same…
/r/seduction21/02/22 02:51 AM
2

How about: instead of feeling sorry for yourself, you use this information as inspiration to become better? The fact that woman choose winners is good for society. We don't want loser men making loser children and creating loser families. It really doesn't take too much effort to be in the top 20% or so of guys, especially once you know the basics of what women want and start making steps to gaining those things. Instead, you're crying because life isn't easy. Stop being a cry-baby. You're the s…
/r/seduction21/02/22 02:45 AM
2

It could be a 'choosing signal' or it could be something completely different. Honestly, if you want to pursue this woman, the best thing you can do is assume she's attracted to you, until it's proven otherwise. This will give you the confidence in your approach that women really like. A lot of young and shy guys like to wait for 'choosing signals' before they make their move, but that's really dumb and unnecessary. Sometimes women are shy themselves, or they want a man that's brave enough to ma…
/r/seduction21/02/22 02:39 AM
41

If you have doing the right things in early adulthood, you should be in your dating PRIME in your 30s, 40s and even beyond. This is because you should have more of the attractive personality traits, such as: intelligence, self-confidence, charisma, assertiveness, bravery, groundedness, experience with women, interesting things to talk about. Most likely, you'll be earning more than in your early 20s too. I'm in my mid-30s now, and have been dating women in their early 20s for some time now. This…
/r/seduction21/02/22 02:34 AM
1

That's a hot take
/r/seduction04/01/22 04:59 PM
2

Heard of daygame, bro?
/r/seduction17/12/21 02:10 PM
1

I Dm'd you
/r/seduction06/08/21 05:46 PM
1

Answer the question. Which of those are people born with?
/r/seduction22/05/21 06:25 PM
2

Ok, then buddy... Which of these are you born with? ambition, assertiveness, boldness, charisma, confidence, groundedness, a sense of humour, leadership skills, self-esteem, positivity
/r/seduction22/05/21 03:52 PM
1

Do a Ctrl + F and search for 'Resources'. It'll take you to a link to find wingmen in 280+ major cities. There's hundreds of guys in the London one.
/r/seduction21/05/21 09:11 PM
1

Meanwhile, guys who regularly go out, meet a lot of women, work on their social skills, improve themselves...(I imagine you haven't been doing this) These guys realize that the advice in this post is true.
/r/seduction05/05/21 03:05 PM
1

I recognise this screenname. You've literally been posting discouraging comments on this sub for YEARS. How's your life going, pal? Are you a happy guy? This time, you even posted what I already said most "average guys" would think
/r/seduction04/05/21 01:17 PM
1

Yup, once you realize that personality matters most, you're at the races
/r/seduction03/05/21 05:46 PM
5

Yes, I remember experiencing this at school!! Of course, most average guys will rationalize "he must be rich" or "he must be paying her"
/r/seduction03/05/21 05:45 PM
13

I think he's saying: The main things that make a woman attractive are (somewhat) out of their control. Also, many women believe they can't make the first move, and so they're limited to waiting for Prince Charming. Meanwhile, the main things that make a man attractive, we can improve. Also, it's down to us to approach and make things happen for ourselves
/r/seduction28/04/21 07:03 PM
1

Sure, but I'm sure most will agree you'll miss A LOT of opportunities by waiting for women to make the first move. You do you though, buddy
/r/seduction19/04/21 01:21 PM
2

I don't know. Ask the mods I guess.
/r/seduction18/04/21 08:27 PM
1

The post relates to people of all ages in all venues. But I agree with most of what you said.
/r/seduction18/04/21 05:41 PM
1

That's true! Only works if you're comfortable in the silence though.
/r/seduction18/04/21 04:17 PM
4

I see he's already been flooded with sarcastic exaggerated responses, and "not all women" replies. When, in reality, what he actually said is mostly true.
/r/seduction18/04/21 04:03 PM
24

You're literally in a sub designed to show you how female psychology works. You're given very obvious signs to look for But instead, you say: "No, I only want women who literally tell me they're attracted"
/r/seduction18/04/21 04:00 PM
4

The behaviors in this post are pretty upfront, once you know to look for it
/r/seduction18/04/21 03:59 PM
0

I actually believe in the idea that you value it more if you pay - and that you will use it more and put it to practice. The money creates emotional leverage
/r/seduction04/04/21 05:28 PM
1

You can learn everything yourself. It will take little bit A LOT more time. Some people don't have years to waste as a pickup newbie... ​ Also, what experience do you have with "all coaches" to make these assumptions? Also also, courses don't cost thousands of pounds.
/r/seduction04/04/21 05:27 PM
1

It has a link to Facebook and Telegram groups for finding wingmen in your local area. Right down the bottom, but it's there...
/r/seduction04/04/21 02:33 PM
3

I bought one - and found it helpful. With that said, it would be useless if you don't go out and talk to girls A LOT. That is the best way to learn. Don't become a theory junkie. The course - or free advice videos - only work as a supplement to this
/r/seduction04/04/21 02:30 PM
1

The number isn't the goal, time with the girl is
/r/seduction03/04/21 04:27 PM
3

Cool, so your willpower must be super strong already. Glad to hear it.
/r/seduction03/04/21 04:27 PM
5

Whatever words make you actually do the thing ;)
/r/seduction03/04/21 04:26 PM
2

Yes, but you do have to approach as well
/r/seduction03/04/21 04:26 PM
1

Ok
/r/seduction03/04/21 04:25 PM
1

That's your experience ;)
/r/seduction24/03/21 03:24 PM
1

Having fun! If you're enjoying yourself, she'll feel that and loosen up too. Most guys are either nervous, boring or take themselves too seriously. Oh...and pulling the trigger too. Most guys simply don't open enough. And, if they do, they don't go for the close.
/r/seduction20/03/21 03:07 AM
3

Hey, I understand why you'd want this, but honestly you're shooting yourself in the foot by looking for these. It's not what you say that matters, it's the vibe you put out. These clever witty lines aren't going to make her want you any more. But if it comes across like you've prepared them in advance, that could work against you. You're better off preparing a list of general subjects to talk about, and things you want to know about her, rather than a list of corny pick-up lines.
/r/seduction20/03/21 03:03 AM
236

Your points relate to daygame in general. Doesn't have to be just in grocery stores.
/r/seduction20/03/21 03:00 AM
3

You wrote the solution in your post, but you also called it retarded
/r/seduction03/03/21 03:05 PM
3

The 'pull away to make her chase you' advice is good during the courtship. But not during a long-term relationship Yes, it is good not to smother her, but going completely cold could have the opposite effect to what you intend, especially if she seems to be growing tired of you like you said... If you don't want to turn into the boring guy, then suggest exciting stuff to do with her. Fun spontaneous dates. Mix things up in the bedroom. Honestly, there's loads more suggestions in any mainstream m…
/r/seduction03/03/21 03:26 AM
2

The number one currency traded by humans is emotions. If you can make her feel a certain way, you can get her. There are plenty of women out there dating 'starving artist' or 'scumbag drug dealer' types, who don't bring many tangible goods to the table. But they give her the emotions she wants. Meanwhile, there's plenty of 'nice guy' provider types who can offer the world, but struggle to attract women at all. Game teaches men how to poke at woman's emotions in the right way. So, go learn some g…
/r/seduction03/03/21 02:50 AM
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I have been doing street approaches for 6 years+ and have never experienced rudeness like this. This is such a rare occurrence, hence why you felt the need to make a post. I know most people who lurk on this sub are complete newbies, who are already crippled by approach anxiety as it is. That's why I wanted to point out the rareness of such a scenario. If you're respectful to the women you approach, they're generally polite back to you. Anyway, you handled it perfectly. Good for you.
/r/seduction21/02/21 04:29 PM
3

For whatever reason, society believes that men should be able to naturally be able to do this. As such, there is a belief that learning and practicing approaching is 'weird'. (This belief exists even though the vast majority are awful at talking to women and the average man sleeps with only 7 women in his entire life). Women are especially prone to believing this, because they don't understand the struggles of the average man. Hot women, in particular, only really spend time with the guys who ha…
/r/seduction26/01/21 07:36 PM
1

Yo, relax. A lot of one-night stands are awkward, especially in the middle of someone's house party?! Guys don't really care, as long as they get to hit them sweet walls. Text him as if nothing happened. I'd put good money on him leading the conversation towards meeting up again.
/r/seduction04/09/20 06:16 AM
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Next time she brings it up, be honest with her. Mention why you don't want a serious relationship (do you even know?) Mention how you feel about her (what you wrote here is great) If your feelings might change in the future, definitely mention that. Perhaps she'll leave - but often she'll either change her mind about how she feels or come back when she's horny. Either way, she'll respect your honesty and you'll have a good chance of remaining friends at least. The worst thing you can do is lie s…
/r/seduction04/09/20 06:11 AM
2

Congrats man, but what did you 'do'? You titled the post 'I did it' but she asked you out? A few commenters have asked what you actually 'did' to get the girl... I wonder if she liked you all along, but never liked yourself enough to make a move. So, eventually she got impatient and asked you herself. I hear a lot of stories about relationships that start this way. Guys, she's not "out of your league" unless you decide she is. See for yourself by asking her out... The bravery to do this directly…
/r/seduction04/09/20 06:01 AM
1

The age gap is only a big deal if you make it one. Just approach as if she's the next woman.
/r/seduction16/04/20 06:17 AM
1

Yes!
/r/seduction27/03/20 05:50 PM
9

no, do it when you have a chance of dating her
/r/seduction25/03/20 02:36 PM
1

sorry, I shared this to the wrong sub
/r/seduction24/03/20 10:42 AM
1

We created a list of 28 challenges to help you become more assertive, brave and charismatic at www.4weekconfidence.com
/r/seduction22/03/20 05:19 PM
1

There you go. Once you believe you are "enough", you can behave like that around hot women. This is attractive in itself, and this 'letting go' will allow you to become charismatic with your words to say. Ironically, I just uploaded a video about this a few moments ago at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WYTYewfhCPU
/r/seduction22/03/20 05:18 PM
1

I don't how anyone can disagree with this. Have an upvote ;)
/r/seduction21/03/20 02:11 PM
3

Hi there, mate I wrote a free e-book on overcoming social anxiety. It's available at www.gameglobal.net/conquer-social-anxiety. It's packed with small tips and tricks to help you get over your social anxiety. To add a little more value here, I'd recommend you just tackle this anxiety using baby steps. Create a small but achievable social challenge for yourself, and increase it day by day. DM me if you want an example of such challenges. Jokes, teasing, story-telling are all skills which can be i…
/r/seduction21/03/20 02:10 PM
1

Hey there. Welcome to the community! The book is fun, but most guys who are good at this stuff will agree it's outdated. I'm sure you've heard: you'll learn the most by going out and trying stuff. How often do you go out to socialise with new people? There is a link at the bottom of the original post if you're looking for like-minded guys to go and do this with (corona virus pending). Another resource I can recommend is a free digital course we made called '4 Weeks To Unstoppable Confidence'. Th…
/r/seduction21/03/20 02:07 PM
1

I did a big explanation above. Drop me a DM if you want a clear explanation
/r/seduction21/03/20 02:02 PM
1

Yes, the definiton of a boring person is someone who takes themselves too seriously
/r/seduction21/03/20 02:02 PM
1

Here's the thing with teasing. We only do it with people we're comfortable around - and importantly people who we feel on the same level as socially. By teasing a woman the same way you'd tease your friends, you're communicating that you're comfortable around her and not intimidated by her. She'll like it too! Women are mostly sick of being put on a pedestal (or at least they're not attracted to this behavior). You can be sure her friends and the other guys she chose to date would be teasing her…
/r/seduction21/03/20 02:01 PM
2

Dude, there is so much to unpack here. Including several contradictions. Logically, you know you're not boring, but you feel like you are? What? Since, you took the time to leave such a detailed reply, I will DM you for more info.
/r/seduction21/03/20 01:54 PM
2

Open your mind. Be playful. Be imaginative. What could something mean. It doesn't matter if it's silly. It doesn't matter if you're wrong. The overall vibe is the important thing. If you struggle with this way of thinking, improv class can be really useful. Or just through practice when you see people in the street etc
/r/seduction14/03/20 11:53 AM
2

1 + 3: Thanks for your opinion. In my experience, it's important that she knows who you are. Otherwise you don't stand out and it's not a memorable date. 4: Make assumptions you believe in. 8+10: They don't have to
/r/seduction11/03/20 01:37 PM
1

Cheers captain
/r/seduction02/03/20 11:55 AM
1

It's a hilarious show - and the highlights are on YouTube too 👍
/r/seduction02/03/20 10:43 AM
0

Thanks. My goal was to write a balanced factual post, with a short plug for our free Telegram groups at the bottom
/r/seduction02/03/20 10:42 AM
1

This is surely a good thing. No man should desire to be a fairy-boy
/r/seduction02/03/20 10:39 AM
18

"Ï have just found this sub" "Looks are the most important thing" "Get a nice haircut and a good cologne" Haha classic. Thank you so much for your wisdom!
/r/seduction26/02/20 03:15 PM
1

Yes, if he knows how to pull
/r/seduction26/02/20 03:12 PM
2

Thanks for your comment. I have written a free e-book which can help you with this. Check your DMs.
/r/seduction17/12/19 02:30 PM
2

Turns out she was just a woman and not 'out of your league' at all. Remember that...
/r/seduction09/12/19 10:42 AM
1

Thanks and yes it's true. Humans will only put in as much effort as we think we need to. It's biological. The girls who let themselves go or start acting bratty - they mostly do it either because they think they can get away with it, or they stopped giving a shit about you.
/r/seduction05/12/19 03:57 AM
1

Cool!
/r/seduction05/12/19 03:54 AM
1

Ok, beg may be hyperbole. But it's more catchy than "really really try" It works even if you're an "average joeyjoejoe"
/r/seduction05/12/19 03:53 AM
1

"Beg" may be hyperbole, but you get the idea. Speaking from experience here, princess x
/r/seduction05/12/19 03:51 AM
3

Ex-girlfriend eh? Sorry to hear that. Try it this way next time...
/r/seduction05/12/19 03:49 AM
1

I prefer "wizard"
/r/seduction05/12/19 03:49 AM
2

awesome to hear!
/r/seduction03/12/19 10:17 AM
1

thanks!
/r/seduction03/12/19 10:16 AM
2

no
/r/seduction03/12/19 10:16 AM
2

If she's still there, she's still interested. She could easily leave or ask you to leave - even if she is shy. This is the most helpful attitude, anyway
/r/seduction03/12/19 04:20 AM
1

send a message to @IceWhiteOfficial on Telegram or try gameglobal dot net / groups
/r/seduction02/12/19 04:28 PM
1

Drop me a DM and I'll send you a video I made
/r/seduction13/09/19 01:56 PM
1

When you finally do it, you're going to feel empowered and proud of yourself no matter how it goes, or at will at least be better than feeling like a fairy. You have this community to pat you on the back when you do ;) ​ This moment where someone else got there first will be a blessing for you. Focus on how bad this feels. Embrace the pain. It'll (hopefully) give you the emotional leverage to do actually do an approach next time.
/r/seduction13/09/19 04:52 AM
3

Sure, but if you are out specifically to practice daygame, you'll want to do anything that helps you get in the appraoching mindset as quickly as possible. When you are out in your everyday life - and you see that hot girl - this is your opportunity to build your 'approaching out of state' habit
/r/seduction13/09/19 04:49 AM
2

Sure, but "a bit of Q&A" is different from "interview mode".
/r/seduction13/09/19 04:47 AM
1

I managed this once - after an instant-date. In that moment, it felt like I unlocked God Mode. Next step, F-close.
/r/seduction13/09/19 04:46 AM
2

Keep trying! The advantages can't be denied. Her full concentration. Better eye contact. Better connection. When walking you're fighting for her attention constantly.
/r/seduction13/09/19 04:45 AM
1

Thank you. I hope you use them
/r/seduction13/09/19 04:44 AM
2

This is actually extremely common with daygamers and highly recommended. It's called the "Yad Stop". Google it.
/r/seduction13/09/19 04:44 AM
2

Well, now you know not to :) This is how we improve!
/r/seduction13/09/19 04:43 AM
1

How would they have known this?
/r/seduction12/09/19 02:48 PM
4

Share it here! I'd love to see it
/r/seduction12/09/19 02:47 PM
1

I made a video about this, which I'm really proud of https://youtu.be/9R5YH8Q7SK8
/r/seduction12/09/19 02:47 PM
2

Over 850 gamers in this London Telegram group https://t.me/GameLondon
/r/seduction12/09/19 10:27 AM
3

For sure
/r/seduction12/09/19 09:30 AM
10

Ok, so what will you do to change this?
/r/seduction12/09/19 09:30 AM
2

Thanks
/r/seduction10/09/19 12:59 PM
2

The first two and the last one are entirely in your control - as are the others in the long-term - yet you choose to make sarcastic replies on the internet instead. Your choice.
/r/seduction10/09/19 12:46 PM
4

Go get 'em tiger ;)
/r/seduction10/09/19 03:13 AM
2

Stop feeling sorry for yourself and open your brain. Wake up!!!! Life is passing you by!
/r/seduction10/09/19 03:12 AM
16

Go watch The Notebook
/r/seduction10/09/19 03:09 AM
1

I have a profile picture. I guess the guys in our WhatsApp and Telegram would have to verify my lays (as if I cared how hot anyone else thought there were)
/r/seduction04/09/19 01:40 PM
1

That's the spirit!
/r/seduction04/09/19 01:39 PM
1

How do you know all the other girls saw him? People (and daygamers especially) tend to have an over-inflated view about how much attention random passers-by are giving to us.
/r/seduction04/09/19 01:50 AM
2

A great start could be focusing on your diet, exercise regime or fashion sense. I'm assuming you're a woman. If so, this is the only sentence you need.
/r/seduction04/09/19 01:39 AM
1

This response reads as if you didn't even look at the post
/r/seduction04/09/19 01:37 AM
2

The pick-up community - and probably any hobby - will always be bottom-heavy with beginners. The reason being most people can't commit to getting good and/or give up
/r/seduction31/08/19 04:08 AM
1

For sure. It's too cheesy.
/r/seduction30/08/19 01:33 PM
1

I agree with this. The article says Kiss "at the minimum"
/r/seduction30/08/19 01:32 PM
1

You're right on points 3 + 4. ​ "You can build physicality slowly, starting with light touches, playful pushes, fiddling with jewellery etc. This is all good stuff." This is how you gauge whether she's ready. ​ "If you try to get physical at a pace she's not comfortable with, it's not GAME OVER. You can stop." On consent... ​ I should have made this clearer I guess
/r/seduction30/08/19 01:31 PM
0

I don't agree with a single sentence of this
/r/seduction29/08/19 02:33 AM
1

http://bit.ly/GameGlobal Telegram network for finding wings in 100+ major cities across the globe
/r/seduction25/08/19 01:07 PM
1

Even though I posted instructions on how to change...interesting choice
/r/seduction24/08/19 02:51 AM
1

I would say that: having a good time smiling, eye contact confident voice tonality and body language speaking about what you find interesting ...would equate to being the best version of yourself. I would imagine you act like this around your friends and family. If you don't, then maybe you really do need to change
/r/seduction23/08/19 06:04 AM
2

Sure sure, the point is: the words themselves don't need to be special
/r/seduction23/08/19 06:02 AM
1

Yeah maybe
/r/seduction23/08/19 06:01 AM
1

never mind
/r/seduction23/08/19 06:01 AM
0

Cool, now I know :)
/r/seduction23/08/19 06:00 AM
2

My buddy, who works as a confidence coach, never uses clever opening lines. All he ever really opens with is: "Hey, how's it going?" And the women often light up, incredibly excited to start a conversation... I never even asked why this worked so well for him. It's obvious. His vibe and ENERGY! When you talk to him, you can sense that this a guy who believes in himself. You sense that he doesn't need anything from you. You sense that life is good and he wants to have a good time. These are all t…
/r/seduction22/08/19 01:19 PM
1

Well, then you will never be motivated.
/r/seduction21/08/19 01:19 AM
1

Yes! Well, it doesn't 'literally' keep me up at night but it certainly sticks in my mind. 'No' is always better than wondering 'what if'
/r/seduction21/08/19 01:18 AM
4

Yes, and I found a few playful approaches with no outcome dependence can help shift you into a good mood
/r/seduction21/08/19 01:17 AM
1

I have co-launched a network of 100+ Telegram groups for each of the major cities across the globe, to help people find wingmen. Reddit doesn't links being shared so DM me for a link to the network.
/r/seduction21/08/19 01:16 AM
1

Sure, but you can leave way more of an impression in the flesh
/r/seduction01/08/19 10:04 PM
1

Haha I have seen this once. I approached and we spent the night together ;) Cut to the front of the line and immediately put myself ahead of all the Tinder users ;)))
/r/seduction01/08/19 06:10 PM
1

This is an interesting point. I wonder if there are any stats to back it up. I've certainly read that Generation Z are less likely to go out drinking than previous generations. It's also true that pretty no women longer need to go to the club to get their weekly dose of validation. Why do that when they can swipe on Tinder or post a selfie on IG?
/r/seduction01/08/19 04:35 PM
1

Quiet in volume is OK, as long as people can hear you. Quiet as in "doesn't say much" won't get you far
/r/seduction24/07/19 09:33 AM
2

Interesting point on the blog titles. Thanks for commenting
/r/seduction23/07/19 01:48 PM
1

I read all your comments and have concluded that this post is still helpful :)
/r/seduction23/07/19 08:58 AM
-1

Hi u/WeakEmu8, I'd appreciate if you could explain the difference for me
/r/seduction23/07/19 07:52 AM
-2

Hi u/Imperator_Pyra, I'd appreciate if you could explain the difference for me
/r/seduction23/07/19 07:51 AM
1

I did this. The website looks very professional, but I found plenty of flaws in your questions. For starters, you didn't define a hook-up. Is it a hook-up if it leads to a relationship? I figured, no? Also, there are no clear instructions for people who have had multiple hook-ups. I'm sure you'll find people experience varying emotions after each one. C+ on your dissertation incoming
/r/seduction22/07/19 02:01 PM
1

I mean this is a troll account, but either way stats suggest the average guy gets laid with 7 different women in his LIFETIME. Troll better next time!
/r/seduction21/07/19 10:41 PM
2

I think his point is that you're not the only one reading this sub
/r/seduction19/07/19 08:03 PM
2

A reputation from who?
/r/seduction19/07/19 06:39 PM
1

You know what? I see where you're coming from... Some people find this harder than opening. If you find opening a pretty girl easier, go do that. However, don't be that guy, who says he doesn't need to warm up, then lets 4 or 5 girls walk by.
/r/seduction19/07/19 06:38 PM
1

Yep, go brighten up their day
/r/seduction19/07/19 06:35 PM
2

Yes
/r/seduction19/07/19 10:45 AM
1

Guys, if you don't think these exercises can help build your self-esteem or you have questions about, please do comment. I will answer every comment. Let's fix this together. If you *do* find the tips useful, feel free to let me know too ;)
/r/seduction16/07/19 07:20 PM
12

The two main things I got from this.... ​ #1 She's not that hot, because only two thirds of her right swipes matched her. #2 Even so, she STILL only right swiped 10% of dudes, and met less than 1% ​ Perhaps it's time to learn cold approach, fellas?
/r/seduction16/07/19 08:42 AM
1

You're welcome. I post as regularly as I can :)
/r/seduction15/07/19 09:38 PM
3

Thanks!
/r/seduction15/07/19 09:36 PM
2

I feel like that. Even the most epic pulling stories don't sound that cool if you tell them about yourself. Only if there's a funny story behind it which just happens to end with "and then I banged her". Otherwise, it's just bragging. Better to share these stories with the pick-up community in a field report, adding value by explaining what you did to get the result. That's what I do anyway.
/r/seduction06/07/19 09:03 AM
8

There are plenty of autistic people who have found a partner. Having read dozens of your posts on this sub, it's obvious you're looking for an excuse to give up.
/r/seduction06/07/19 08:50 AM
2

I'd like to say there are some really inspiring replies here. I will try and get around to responding to all of them - and also to write something lengthier about gaming depressed in the future
/r/seduction03/07/19 10:40 AM
1

True true
/r/seduction29/06/19 07:59 AM
3

Sure. I'd say admitting your flaws (like they're no big deal) is part of being comfortable with yourself.
/r/seduction28/06/19 09:06 PM
3

Logically, it might not make sense. But humans are led by EMOTIONS...and women are especially emotional. Her emotional side wants to fuck the cool guy. Being "good at game" involves poking at women's emotions. It involves bringing out her adventurous side. It involves being cool enough for her to take risks for, yet building enough of a connection for her (and her friends) to trust you. It involves solving her logistical hurdles, including smooth transitions between the club and the bedroom. Onc…
/r/seduction28/06/19 09:00 PM
1

Exactly
/r/seduction19/06/19 07:00 AM
0

Here's the thing: Abundance vs Scarcity. When has a man has an abundance, he sets the standards for what happens in a relationship. If the woman doesn't like it, he'll find another one with relative ease. Typically, the woman accepts this and remains on her best behaviour because she's finally found a champion. When a man is in scarcity, the woman sets all the rules. She nags. She complains. She asks for stuff. She even withholds sex to ensure she gets her way. The man lets it happen because it'…
/r/seduction04/06/19 04:15 AM
6

Yeah, well guess what. Just as the OP explains...we all started out rubbish, but we weren't scared to make mistakes. There's nothing wrong with stopping someone if they're walking somewhere to compliment them (and potentially transform their love lives). If they're in a rush, they'll let you know...and that's just fine.
/r/seduction29/05/19 06:07 PM
1

Just like any skill...if you practice enough times (and you're smart about your improvement) you'll get better.
/r/seduction29/05/19 05:59 PM
14

Hey there Mr White Knight. As someone who has developed many many relationships with girls I met on the street over the last 5+ years, allow me to inform you that you don't speak for all women.
/r/seduction29/05/19 05:58 PM
1

Dude I didn't reply because there's no getting through to you. I've seen plenty of your former posts.
/r/seduction25/05/19 06:31 PM
2

Come on dude! The stuff that women find attractive...assertiveness, charisma, condidence, leadership skills, intelligence, groundedness, the ability to provide for her... You should have this more in your 40s than ever If you've been living life properly, you
/r/seduction21/05/19 05:00 PM
1

I actualy believe that her perception of your appearance changes when she realises you're cool. It's to do with the RAS. Tyler actually mentions this in a couple of videos
/r/seduction21/05/19 04:56 PM
2

Why assume? Why not find out?
/r/seduction21/05/19 02:21 PM
2

Yeah, but come on. There's a ton of material online about that. Also, it's nerves that causes this. Funny how you don't run out of things to say around your friends and family... ​ I've written plenty of articles on this. DM if you need more info
/r/seduction21/05/19 02:20 PM
1

Awesome!
/r/seduction21/05/19 02:18 PM
2

So how are you going to fix that? Or are you going to live your whole believing you're pathetic?
/r/seduction21/05/19 02:16 PM
4

Yeah, you can quieten that voice by approaching anyway. It gets easier with time.
/r/seduction21/05/19 01:56 AM
1

Perhaps you need to be more indirect with your approaches
/r/seduction21/05/19 01:56 AM
2

Wow, this sounds too good to be true
/r/seduction21/05/19 01:55 AM
17

See a doctor
/r/seduction21/05/19 01:55 AM
7

Well, I hope you're approaching other women in the meantime...
/r/seduction21/05/19 01:54 AM
11

Oooh that is a good one
/r/seduction21/05/19 01:51 AM
1

Get her thinking about other men she fucked? Other terrible dates. Hmmmm. Not sure about that one.
/r/seduction15/05/19 04:03 PM
1

I don't agree with this
/r/seduction15/05/19 03:55 PM
2

This is the main minefield with writing about dating and relationships. You have to SPELL EVERY OBVIOUS THING OUT or you get accused of promoting sexual harassment. ​ So, OK for the dummies out there... If she doesn't the physical moves you're putting on her (she tenses up or looks uncomfortable), then STOP.
/r/seduction15/05/19 03:55 PM
7

smh. if you don't have ONE hobby or passion, you need to get out there and start trying new things
/r/seduction15/05/19 04:08 AM
3

Sounds good ;)
/r/seduction15/05/19 04:07 AM
1

Are you happy to accept that - across your whole life?
/r/seduction14/05/19 05:14 AM
1

Yeah, running "good game" is a given
/r/seduction11/05/19 03:15 PM
3

Go fix that, then. Start with some self-esteem work. Then, once you start arranging dates, follow these steps ;)
/r/seduction11/05/19 05:57 AM
3

Someone else not being as awesome as you. That judgmental attitude will stop you hooking up quickly
/r/seduction10/05/19 01:38 PM
1

I appreciate the effort here! Yes engage physically is important hahaha. Also, yell your feelings
/r/seduction10/05/19 05:00 AM
0

My buddy was a Tinder warrior, but he wasn't a loser. He just dated a lot of girls who weren't a good fit for him because of it.
/r/seduction10/05/19 04:58 AM
6

A good frame to have: if she's on a date with you, she already likes you. ​ True losers don't get dates at all.
/r/seduction10/05/19 04:57 AM
2

I dropped the condescending 'how can you use this information' paragraph at the bottom, specifically to avoid comments like this...
/r/seduction10/05/19 04:55 AM
3

Go somewhere else that is close. It is you that makes the date exciting, not the venue.
/r/seduction10/05/19 04:53 AM
6

I respect all of them. Everyone wants sex. In fact, I respect her more for not giving into this social conditioning 'don't have sex quickly' bullshit that helps no-one.
/r/seduction10/05/19 04:52 AM
-18

This is like 5 different questions, which I've written 5 separate posts on the past. Drop me a DM and I'll link you to them... ​ In short though, just run 'good game'. You need flirting, mixed well with routine chit-chat. I don't want to overcomplicate it more than that in this post
/r/seduction09/05/19 06:19 PM
5

T-shirt and jeans
/r/seduction09/05/19 06:15 PM
13

What part doesn't work? Have you tried it?
/r/seduction09/05/19 06:14 PM
9

What part doesn't work?
/r/seduction09/05/19 06:14 PM
1

...unless you didn't go out
/r/seduction06/05/19 02:43 PM
1

Yes, I skipped looks. These are all more important.
/r/seduction05/05/19 03:56 PM
2

I'd say you can still get laid like a rockstar, if you have good game. ​ It might be a little tougher to keep them around though (maybe)
/r/seduction04/05/19 04:58 AM
2

Always stick to your boundaries
/r/seduction04/05/19 04:56 AM
2

I'd argue that one would want all these qualities regardless of the pussy.
/r/seduction04/05/19 04:55 AM
2

I never said you need these to get laid.
/r/seduction04/05/19 04:53 AM
0

lucky we are all smart enough to interrpet it the right way
/r/seduction03/05/19 04:03 AM
5

awesome to hear!
/r/seduction02/05/19 08:20 PM
1

i blogged about it here - and there's a video in the blog post too http://www.joeelvin.com/the-awesome-list/
/r/seduction27/04/19 03:40 PM
1

exactly
/r/seduction27/04/19 03:33 PM
2

Leave his 10s alone, guys
/r/seduction27/04/19 03:33 PM
2

Thanks, your cheque is in the mail
/r/seduction27/04/19 03:32 PM
1

Just to clarify a few key points. Yes, there are 'leagues' when it comes to personalities and quality of life. You can work on yours and improve it. You shouldn't judge a beautiful woman who you've not even met as 'out of your league'. Whether you believe or not you're in someone's league, you're often likely to be right Cheers, Joe
/r/seduction26/04/19 03:24 AM
7

If she doesn't smile or hold eye contact, also say hi. You don't need to wait for an IOI. I'd have missed out on a ton of girls if I did
/r/seduction21/04/19 01:30 PM
4

Exactly
/r/seduction20/04/19 01:30 AM
1

For sure...
/r/seduction18/04/19 06:21 AM
1

DM me, including the international code
/r/seduction17/04/19 04:46 PM
1

Bhagavad Gita - a religious text from Hinduism
/r/seduction17/04/19 04:45 PM
1

and who decides whether or not to give a fuck if a girl likes your face?
/r/seduction17/04/19 07:56 AM
1

This is all you'll ever need
/r/seduction17/04/19 07:55 AM
1

The idea is originally from the Bagh Avita
/r/seduction17/04/19 07:54 AM
15

Yes all it takes for everyone reading is that "fuck it" moment - then to keep going out and gain momentum from there
/r/seduction14/04/19 03:38 AM
6

Typical response from someone who doesn't go out - and doesn't want to. ​ The guy explained exactly why he thinks girls were drawn to him. RSD Tyler always talks about how being the most fun guy in the room draws people in. ​ Rather than accept that this is possible for you if you work hard, you dismiss it and say it must be his looks. ​ I hope you have this "fuck it" moment that the OP describes soon
/r/seduction14/04/19 03:37 AM
1

never mind
/r/seduction13/04/19 10:11 AM
1

thanks
/r/seduction13/04/19 10:11 AM
1

I covered this in my latest post https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/bcg957/how_to_avoid_instantblowouts_and_make_a_great/
/r/seduction13/04/19 10:10 AM
1

good to know
/r/seduction13/04/19 10:08 AM
5

"What if she going to think when you suddenly want to know what she's up to for the next 10 minutes?" ​ That I want to invite her for a coffee
/r/seduction11/04/19 02:17 AM
3

Perhaps I will post in full about my "results" soon....but in short it took a while to get to each stage. ​ Overcoming approach anxiety. Getting them to stop. Getting flaky numbers. Getting non-flaky numbers. ​ The thing is: I didn't worry about not getting dates once, because I was committed to mastering daygame and I could always see I was improving
/r/seduction11/04/19 02:15 AM
3

Scattered because some guy just approached her out of nowhere...
/r/seduction11/04/19 02:12 AM
2

That's good!
/r/seduction10/04/19 01:57 AM
1

You can download by step-by-step to daygame here https://unstoppableconfidence.lpages.co/thejoeyjoejoe/
/r/seduction06/04/19 02:47 PM
1

Sure... You can't "be unapologetically yourself" without believing you're awesome. The first step would be fixing this. I listed some helpful exercises for this
/r/seduction06/04/19 02:27 PM
9

5 star comment right here
/r/seduction06/04/19 07:42 AM
1

Be unapologetically yourself. That's what I said. That means being proud of who you are... You're better off embracing any negative behaviours than hiding them, Still, if you think you're awesome, you're not going to feel such extreme anxiety about meeting a girl. If anything, it'll feel like a win-win. ​
/r/seduction06/04/19 07:40 AM
1

Clubs, bars or busy daytime areas
/r/seduction06/04/19 06:03 AM
1

Yes, these are great. During daygame, I use their clothes more often than not.
/r/seduction06/04/19 04:53 AM
5

Start posting
/r/seduction06/04/19 04:52 AM
2

Girls love sex. I think you're overestimating their standards for who they will sleep with. If you're a fun, confident guy who can trigger their emotions and pull in a smooth way, you're good to go. My guess is that you're not pulling the trigger, and risking the hard "no". Am I right? Watch what happens when you actually go for it...
/r/seduction03/04/19 06:16 AM
2

I mean sure all these things are good. My argument is you don't need any of these things to start feeling good about yourself...and you definitely don't need them to get laid. She wants a fun confident guy, who can speak her emotions and pull in a smooth way. ​
/r/seduction03/04/19 06:13 AM
4

Ah the infamous punch-close
/r/seduction30/03/19 12:40 PM
16

The start of an epic journey. Post here again when you do your first conversation
/r/seduction30/03/19 12:37 PM
1

I'll post something this weekend
/r/seduction29/03/19 11:30 AM
2

Amazing. It's only awkward if you believe it's awkward
/r/seduction29/03/19 12:59 AM
0

Yes this is a good hobby, both for escaping your comfort zone and meeting women, especially if you're a beginner to cold approach I tried saying few salsa lessons in London, but the instructors kept telling me off for distracting the girls from their teachings haha. Also a bunch of girls told me to shush so they could hear the instructions. Too much dancing not enough gaming for my liking haha
/r/seduction29/03/19 12:58 AM
2

I will post some ideas this weekend :)
/r/seduction29/03/19 12:55 AM
2

Yes. Yes. Also, some people won't talk back and you'll learn that this is fine! An obvious point - but don't fail to move past this step. Use it as a warm-up for actual flirting with chicks only. Don't be a pussy and go indirect with an actual hottie ​
/r/seduction28/03/19 01:48 PM
1

You don't come to this sub often, do you
/r/seduction27/03/19 01:42 PM
7

Firstly, I don't think virgins are demonised. Creepy, sociopath virgins are. And rightly so... Society doesn't need these people breeding... Perhaps what you mean to say is that virgins are mocked for being socially inept...Yet (as you point out), they're not that much more inept than the average guy who statistically sleeps with only 7 women in his lifetime. Perhaps these guys all deserve mocking too. (To be fair, they are mocked as 'chodes' by members of the PUA community who actually get laid…
/r/seduction11/03/19 04:37 PM
0

Terrible attitude. You're basing this advice on one friendzone situation, which likely only occurred because you failed the shit test
/r/seduction09/03/19 12:34 AM
1

"Easy tiger, no-one said I'm not trying to be your BF, but you do seem interesting...blah blah blah ​ Perhaps I'd also add humour about getting out of a relationship myself....with a chocolate bar or my broadband provider or something
/r/seduction09/03/19 12:33 AM
2

Todd is always opening with "excuse me, you look compliment"
/r/seduction08/03/19 04:03 AM
2

Every girl gets a little bit starstruck during daygame. My guess is that your interpretation of their reactions is a lot worse than how they were feeling in reality.
/r/seduction07/03/19 12:28 PM
1

I would suggest investigating why your self-esteem is so brittle.
/r/seduction07/03/19 01:41 AM
2

Thanks for your reply. "Nice Guys" always in quote marks because even though they like to come across this way, they're actually not "nice" at all. Just like Ted in that show Check out the subreddit r/niceguys for examples. I definitely we agree that we all need to come across as "good guys", not the guys in the r/niceguys subreddit.
/r/seduction07/03/19 01:40 AM
3

Haha yes. I am not putting up with this would be quite funny actually..
/r/seduction19/02/19 04:54 AM
1

Yup 100%
/r/seduction19/02/19 04:53 AM
9

Exactly. Also, in a good pick-up, you should be the buyer, not the seller. A couple of times I've used this and the girl has said "Well.....I like drinking." Not a great response, but at least it's an IOI that she wants a date
/r/seduction19/02/19 04:53 AM
8

Frame switch: they bore you
/r/seduction19/02/19 04:51 AM
2

i'm looking out for them - whats your telegram id
/r/seduction15/02/19 02:44 AM
10

I deliberately worded "I don't kiss...." rather than "you shouldn't kiss". I don't think it's a black and white rule. ​ However, my theory is: if you become the make-out guy before the bedroom, "she knows how the story ends". It kills the tension, she can't justify your excuse to come home or that "sex just happened" and the anti-slut defence kicks in... ​ If I do kiss, it's once, it's short and it's me that pulls away.
/r/seduction12/02/19 05:17 AM
1

Best of luck
/r/seduction12/02/19 05:06 AM
1

I wrote about that here. People seemed to like it
/r/seduction12/02/19 05:06 AM
-1

Lololol
/r/seduction12/02/19 05:03 AM
-2

No, I'm just a great writer
/r/seduction12/02/19 05:02 AM
20

I had a date on Sunday - and she asked to do this. I texted her saying: "I’d like it better if us two got to know each other. Bring your friend next time x". Worked a charm
/r/seduction12/02/19 05:01 AM
3

Smoking is the dumbest human habit. Discuss...
/r/seduction11/02/19 05:57 AM
3

I'm imagining dozens of chodes taking up smoking after reading this haha
/r/seduction11/02/19 04:50 AM
1

It's bloody obvious what you need to do! ​ Grow some balls and start approaching during the day. ​ No matter how it goes, you'll feel better than you do by pussying out. ​ I have a useful step-by-step guide for how to structure a daygame approach. I can send if you're interested
/r/seduction09/02/19 03:20 AM
0

No, I now travel the world working as a freelance writer. Currently in Chiang Mai, Thailand. ​ Game on the Tube? It's all about not caring what other people think. If you're totally chill and think it's a cool normal thing to do, so will she (usually). The Law of State Transference ;).
/r/seduction07/02/19 03:02 AM
3

I skimmed through the conclusion. Good on you for going out and taking action. My advice on you, from what I read, would be to try and push things a bit further in your interactions. Add a bit of persistence. A bit more edge to your conversations. You're risking a full blow-out by doing this, but also increasing the odds of the woman actually being interested in you. ​ This post illustrates what I'm talking about - - - mayvbe it will be useful to you https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/a…
/r/seduction26/01/19 06:33 AM
1

u/Ciaran_Callam sounds about right...
/r/seduction25/01/19 06:52 PM
3

I always gamed teetotal. Originally drunk one beer when I first started travelling and gaming solo - mostly to deal with the boredom of not being in set - but am trying to wean myself off that too.
/r/seduction23/01/19 02:22 AM
4

Make an effort to chat with the cashiers, waiting staff or Uber drivers who serve you throughout the day. Call a friend on the phone. ​
/r/seduction23/01/19 02:21 AM
1

Yeah, the first draft of this post began with a story of public sex. I deleted the intro, knowing a lot of Seddit users get upset by that sort of thing. Should have deleted the bullet point too. Poor editing, on my part.
/r/seduction22/01/19 10:42 AM
3

You doing or saying something funny, and she happens to be there. She's not the story. Whatever you're doing or saying is... ​
/r/seduction22/01/19 08:42 AM
3

This response is somewhat poetic. I like it
/r/seduction22/01/19 03:26 AM
1

I'd like to address the "harassment" accusations by highlighting this paragraph... ​ I talked about how to build up the physicality in this popular Seddit post. It explains how to escalate at a pace she’s comfortable with - and how to recover from pushing too quickly. Apply this in nightgame and your results will skyrocket.
/r/seduction22/01/19 03:04 AM
0

I'd like to address the "harassment" accusations by highlighting this paragraph... ​ I talked about how to build up the physicality in this popular Seddit post. It explains how to escalate at a pace she’s comfortable with - and how to recover from pushing too quickly. Apply this in nightgame and your results will skyrocket. ​ Thanks for the feedback though
/r/seduction22/01/19 03:03 AM
5

This is an intelligent reply, and I agree with what you're saying. ​ Still, newbies will get a lot further with "desperate" boldness than not making a move at all. ​ The abundance mindset is massively helpful, but it takes time to cultivate. This advice should hopefully help newbies reach it faster.
/r/seduction22/01/19 02:58 AM
1

The most shocking comments on here are those that say: "7 is actually quite a lot." ​ Let's say you were only single for FIVE years of your adult life. (I think that's a conservative estimate). ​ Even then, that means you're only seducing a new girl once every 37 weekends. ​ Are your standards for life really that low??? ​
/r/seduction19/01/19 06:52 AM
2

Bringing out her adventurous side. Encouraging her to bring out her sexuality. Helping her stop worrying "what other people think" etc
/r/seduction19/01/19 06:43 AM
1

Hi buddy, I see a lot of your comments. You've clearly convinced yourself you're a lost cause. I could tell you that practicing ANYTHING makes you better at it, but it sounds like you don't want to hear it.
/r/seduction19/01/19 06:38 AM
2

Me too
/r/seduction18/01/19 12:22 PM
2

Yes, perhaps this article lacks actionable advice in places. However, it does include ideas on what NOT to do. As far as what to do: *Go out and practice talking to girls *Read advice on forums like this - and take it on board. *Go out and talk to girls again.
/r/seduction18/01/19 12:21 PM
2

If you're jealous of Steve, the same advice applies
/r/seduction18/01/19 12:20 PM
2

Hooray (I think)
/r/seduction18/01/19 05:48 AM
6

That's the stupidest name I ever heard.....
/r/seduction18/01/19 05:07 AM
0

The advice above applies even if you're jealous of Steve
/r/seduction18/01/19 05:02 AM
15

Fuck, that totally makes sense. Steve the Janitor at least had a shot with Plain Jane from HR back in the day. Now, even Jane is getting hit up on Tinder and IG. Improve or die alone guys
/r/seduction18/01/19 05:01 AM
1

Always best to assume the former...
/r/seduction17/01/19 09:07 PM
1

Cool, well that's in the post too
/r/seduction15/01/19 05:01 AM
1

There's tips in this post -but the one that goes without saying is to have good game and make her interested in seeing you again
/r/seduction15/01/19 03:23 AM
1

Insta is the most popular at this time - Snap is popular with younger girls too. Ultimately , you need to be where the girls spend a ton of time
/r/seduction03/01/19 01:51 AM
1

She needs to see how awesome YOU are. If you want to be 'arty' in your feed, consider: *going hard with attraction-building in your stories *peppering in pictures of you being awesome in your feed too *creating a new account for building attraction
/r/seduction03/01/19 01:50 AM
1

Not by itself...
/r/seduction02/01/19 04:44 AM
1

Thank you sir. I hope you'll use it
/r/seduction31/12/18 01:42 AM
1

Exactly
/r/seduction31/12/18 01:41 AM
3

Be smart about your choice of date venue
/r/seduction31/12/18 01:39 AM
1

I'm not him and I don't agree. With some girls you'll be waiting forever
/r/seduction31/12/18 01:38 AM
2

I never heard of it, but I'll take that as a compliment
/r/seduction30/12/18 01:56 PM
0

You're welcome
/r/seduction30/12/18 09:43 AM
1

This guide should help then....;) Try the stuff in the list. Note whether it's a 'Yes', 'Neutral' or 'No' then proceed accordingly
/r/seduction30/12/18 05:53 AM
3

This post doesn't sound very "confident". I'd argue these tips are helpful regardless of what you look like Now answer me this: Is this attitude to your height helping you or hurting you? ​
/r/seduction29/12/18 07:59 AM
2

Haha even one every day will help
/r/seduction29/12/18 01:54 AM
1

Follow the tips then ;)
/r/seduction29/12/18 01:52 AM
2

Sure, although I'd like to think there's more to it...
/r/seduction29/12/18 01:51 AM
2

This is one of the reasons we in this sub tell you: "don't shit where you eat". There's billions of women outside your workplace, who won't create professional problems if it all goes tits up
/r/seduction29/12/18 01:50 AM
1

Hahaha
/r/seduction29/12/18 01:49 AM
1

Wow thanks
/r/seduction29/12/18 01:48 AM
6

Do it now. She could fuck a dozen guys between now and Valentine's - and maybe become exclusive with one of them. Also, women love assertiveness. It's attractive to go for what you want as soon as possible
/r/seduction29/12/18 01:48 AM
6

All 12 tips still apply ;)
/r/seduction28/12/18 05:04 PM
26

Tip 11, buddy. Go meet more women
/r/seduction28/12/18 05:03 PM
3

Awesome! Which tip in particular??
/r/seduction28/12/18 05:02 PM
4

Cool! I've never read that book, but have heard good things
/r/seduction28/12/18 05:01 PM
1

Awesome. Have fun mate!!
/r/seduction24/12/18 06:18 PM
0

You can learn this in the field - and there's plenty in this sub-reddit to help you. ​
/r/seduction23/12/18 06:01 PM
1

Wow thanks
/r/seduction23/12/18 06:00 PM
1

Hi I saw this post when you first published it. I took some time to dwell on it and wrote a full response here. I would add that you should stop with the negative self-talk. The fact that you got that one girl's number wasn't a fluke...you were attractive to her at that point. At that point, she wanted you to text her with a view to meeting up again. She's a grown woman. Let her decide whether you're good enough. Anyways, the full post explains how going out more will help you realise that you a…
/r/seduction23/12/18 03:32 PM
1

Thanks! In my experience, a lot of new guys in the community know that it's wrong, but then demonstrate needy behavior that drives her away anyway.
/r/seduction22/12/18 11:22 AM
1

We have no affiliation with RSD, but I'm flattered that you asked ;)
/r/seduction22/12/18 07:46 AM
1

Interesting theory! I will have to think about this ;)
/r/seduction22/12/18 07:45 AM
0

Thanks for your feedback, buddy :) I'm guessing you don't resonate with the idea of being excited to meet women?
/r/seduction20/12/18 05:31 AM
3

I've had longer relationships from girls I met during my day. I met my last girlfriend in a queue for ramen noodles...
/r/seduction20/12/18 04:05 AM
1

I should think so...
/r/seduction19/12/18 04:18 AM
2

Awesome!! Yeah, I'd say these tips are international
/r/seduction19/12/18 04:05 AM
72

I was expecting this post was going to moan about their immaturity...not how hot they are
/r/seduction13/12/18 12:36 PM
2

Hmm I think it's possible to show the same body language regardless of how you're dressed
/r/seduction13/12/18 03:55 AM
1

It's not nerves, it's excitement ;)
/r/seduction13/12/18 03:55 AM
1

I agree
/r/seduction13/12/18 03:54 AM
1

Thanks for your insight ;)
/r/seduction13/12/18 03:53 AM
-8

Honestly, the haircut, eyebrows (seriously??) and fashion routines sound like things not worth giving a fuck about
/r/seduction12/12/18 03:02 AM
1

Give it a go :)
/r/seduction12/12/18 03:01 AM
8

I've been travelling the world for a year. Can confirm :)
/r/seduction12/12/18 03:01 AM
2

Nailed it. Attention, validation and fun
/r/seduction09/12/18 06:48 AM
1

You don't need charisma? Interesting theory... What do you need then?
/r/seduction09/12/18 06:45 AM
2

Yeah, from the first minute, he's obsessed with finding 'The One'. What a bellend.
/r/seduction09/12/18 06:44 AM
1

Thanks buddy
/r/seduction08/12/18 07:47 PM
3

It makes the average mainstream guy feel good...and that's the only thing that matters eh. Even Ross dotes over Rachel like a pathetic loser throughout the whole series
/r/seduction08/12/18 07:46 PM
2

I've travelled the world solo for over a year. Going to a club solo is only a big deal if you make it one. The only hurdle is in your head. Got some great results with girls over the last 12 months too. I wrote a three-step guide to successful solo nights out here.
/r/seduction08/12/18 07:43 PM
4

I agree. The problem is that many protagonists also develop oneitis, then they get the girl. Many are equally as pathetic. Think Albert from Hitch, or Ted from How I Met Your Mother. Hollywood often encourages dudes to obsess over one woman.
/r/seduction08/12/18 07:35 PM
2

Until recently, I have been travelling the world solo for one year. Bouncing between cities every few weeks. I didn't even have any true "friends" in these cities during this time. Thankfully, I've practicing game for five years, so I've been fulfilling my "social needs" by meeting girls in clubs, on the street, in hostels on guided tours etc. Whether it's been a one-night stand or brief "holiday romances", it has been the best year of my life. Any pangs of loneliness would only last a few hours…
/r/seduction08/12/18 03:13 PM
1

What purpose are you currently chasing?
/r/seduction08/12/18 02:49 PM
2

What's your plan of action? :)
/r/seduction08/12/18 04:49 AM
0

Thanks!
/r/seduction08/12/18 04:48 AM
1

Let's call it tough love/harsh truth
/r/seduction02/12/18 03:10 AM
-3

You don't like making decisions? It's called being a man
/r/seduction28/11/18 02:21 AM
1

Hit me up if you drop by Chiang Mai :)
/r/seduction28/11/18 02:19 AM
1

I never dated a hired gun, nor have I tried to...I imagine it might be the same as a regular 10, but an even bigger bitch shield to smash through.
/r/seduction27/11/18 09:24 AM
2

Yep, the scarcity is what makes them '10s' by definition...
/r/seduction25/11/18 01:48 PM
4

Exactly....and this exercise is very good for that as well. Here, you're focusing only on approaching as many as possible. You're not thinking about who's a 1 and who's a 10. You're not thinking about pulling (yet). Just open with the line, and take note of how you feel and how they react.... A great starting point for any newbie.
/r/seduction25/11/18 01:48 PM
3

This is actually a relevant question.... The main point is you'll only get the girls you believe you deserve. I also strongly believe you WILL get a lot of the girls you believe you deserve (or at least come close most nights) once you're familiar with the basics of closing/pulling. My guess is that, even if you call them 'ones', there's something telling you you're not good enough.
/r/seduction25/11/18 01:46 PM
0

Fair point well made, brother. Where are you posting your articles??
/r/seduction23/11/18 08:47 AM
1

Yes, I follow RSD - and I've met most of my girlfriends in clubs
/r/seduction22/11/18 05:57 PM
5

These are ideas to illustrate the overall point. The overall point is: do anything to get out of your head and into taking action. When you’re thinking, you get overwhelmed. When you’re doing, you don’t.
/r/seduction22/11/18 01:18 PM
2

Ok then
/r/seduction22/11/18 10:12 AM
39

Even using push/pull with men on Reddit. An experienced PUA indeed
/r/seduction22/11/18 10:10 AM
32

Hahaha. I mean it could be argued that life - and what people think of you - is ultimately as pointless as the sims
/r/seduction22/11/18 10:08 AM
1

It's fun. It's spontaneous. It's uncertain. It's an adventure. Plus, I listed the hidden benefits of studying pick-up here.
/r/seduction20/11/18 07:27 PM
10

Learning game is great for situations like this. You learn how to deal with social pressure. You learn how to entertain people. You learn how to read social cues and adapt to them. You learn how to stand out from a crowd of average people. You learn how to make people like you, while also learning how to stop giving a fuck whether people like you or not. By the sounds of this post, it sounds like you haven't run a lot of game. Let situations like this be a wake-up call for you. Learning game isn…
/r/seduction20/11/18 04:18 PM
2

It's about setting boundaries - and being willing to walk away when she breaks those boundaries. Fail to do that and she'll walk all over you
/r/seduction20/11/18 02:13 AM
1

Sex in a loving relationship is better. It’s physically better because you get to know what each other like. It’s emotionally better, because you actually care about making them feel good. Maybe you even trust each other not to use a condom. A key advantage of a relationship for sure… But what if you’re not in a relationship?? What’s your solution?
/r/seduction19/11/18 01:08 PM
1

Spicy and Las Vegas. The best for game, not the best overall. I work remotely as a lifestyle writer/confidence coach
/r/seduction19/11/18 12:55 PM
1

Of course. Instagram doing a lot of the hard work for me these days. I never cold-approached on IG. Interestingly, my buddy Ciaran submitted a post on this earlier this week and it bombed...
/r/seduction17/11/18 01:45 AM
1

This is why I say contribute to forums like Seddit or our Telegram group. Other people can often offer insight you hadn't thought of
/r/seduction17/11/18 01:45 AM
1

Yup, you've got it nailed. Don't plow when they actively tell you to leave, but if they're listening to you, stay in there. For running out of things to say, we teach our students how to talk to a lamppost non-stop for three minutes - and have a great time doing it.
/r/seduction15/11/18 03:25 AM
1

The steps in this post will help you, buddy
/r/seduction12/11/18 04:04 AM
2

I love how you know the exact percentage...haha. My best mate has 100% because he's only dated one girl ever :P
/r/seduction12/11/18 04:03 AM
1

link me
/r/seduction11/11/18 05:11 AM
1

I feel like this may be true, although I don't have any solid proof. I never use the word 'date' and I only ever invite girls to the bar nearest my house. The more low pressure, the more likely they are to agree to it. So big formal dates probably are a no-no. Have an upvote from me ;)
/r/seduction11/11/18 04:12 AM
3

Daygame all day, then nightgame in a high-end club! You can make this into a memorable experience if you choose to. I've heard it said by RSD Julien that if you've got a gun to a head, you'd know what to do! Why not give your buddy to the key to your house so you're homeless if you don't pull to their place too?? (Seriously though, a '10' is completely subjective. Who's judging this????)
/r/seduction08/11/18 05:18 PM
1

Yep, more a funny story worth sharing (or not as the upvotes would indicate), than the secret key to women's hearts...
/r/seduction06/11/18 11:24 AM
15

Independent from parties, most people are socially awkward and just want to sit on their phones and swipe away on tinder or whatever tf they do, and I feel like stranger to stranger interactions are increasingly rare. ​ You know what? This is probably true. But how many people think that's a good thing? How many girls daydream of meeting heir 'Prince Charming' through Tinder or a drunken hook-up? Maybe offline socialising is 'out of date', but a lot of people think that sucks. That's what makes …
/r/seduction06/11/18 03:35 AM
1

Please do elaborate
/r/seduction06/11/18 03:08 AM
2

Please do elaborate
/r/seduction05/11/18 08:42 AM
2

I recently befriended an American man, who is in his 40s/50s. He's become a mentor of sorts to me. He's in great shape with great charisma. Dominates conversations (in a good way, mostly because he's travelled everywhere and always has something to say about the girl's country of origin haha). People think they'll struggle in their 40s, and they will if they turn into the Al Bundy character that most married/divorced dudes do. However, this guy (and the likes of RSD Tyler, RSD Derek, RSD Jeffy) …
/r/seduction05/11/18 06:11 AM
3

Thanks for the responses. I'd like to add that this is what keeps me in the field. That and the fact that Game Is FUN AS HELL. ​ To the commenters who say I sound obsessed, please tell me something that is worth obsessing over more than this. ​ This shit be important :)
/r/seduction05/11/18 05:33 AM
2

Great post. Look at this way, guys. There are three possible outcomes in situations like this You take action and it goes great. Euphoria like the OP's story You take action. Your life stays exactly the same The third option is you take action and it goes badly. I think a lot of people assume that the outcome to this has negative long-term consequences. That's almost never the case. At worst, there is short-term embarassment and ego damage (which is a good thing anyway). Yet, in the long term, y…
/r/seduction04/11/18 02:15 PM
2

Read this. Work out why you feel incomplete. Fix it. ​ Also, go meet more girls
/r/seduction03/11/18 12:21 PM
1

Haha thanks!
/r/seduction03/11/18 12:08 PM
1

This post will really help you, (although I expect you don't want to be helped) https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/9t0tvt/5_brutal_truths_to_help_you_feel_good_enough_for/
/r/seduction01/11/18 03:40 AM
7

I guess they're more brutal to a woman than they are to an experienced Seddit reader
/r/seduction01/11/18 03:38 AM
1

Great post. ​ I would recommend you try to close, regardless of whether you see these signs or not. ​ Never try, never know ;)
/r/seduction31/10/18 01:42 AM
1

It is, or it isn't, depending on who you're hanging out with
/r/seduction31/10/18 01:32 AM
1

What are you afraid of when you experience this? Most likely some sort of reputational damage from it not going well? If so, this is 100% ego. You are not your reputation. You are not your ego. This is all in your head. Get out of your head and start living in the moment
/r/seduction30/10/18 11:20 AM
1

The ego can tell you negative stories. That's a whole other topic that I didn't want to cover in this post. In short, this description you've written isn't you. It's the identity you've created for yourself. You carry this identity around with you, even though it's deeply unhelpful to your goals. Read 'The Power Of Now' for more info on this
/r/seduction30/10/18 11:15 AM
1

I'm excited too. Very much still a beginner
/r/seduction30/10/18 03:10 AM
1

I'm excited too. Very much still a beginner
/r/seduction30/10/18 03:10 AM
1

So few bother when they reach adulthood though
/r/seduction30/10/18 03:09 AM
2

Beautiful
/r/seduction30/10/18 03:09 AM
1

Go Beast Mode
/r/seduction28/10/18 05:24 PM
1

Why transition from social to phone number? You just need a means of contacting her. Who calls these days? So what if at first she just adds you for her IG ego??? It remains a better platform to contact her if you had a choice between the two
/r/seduction28/10/18 02:07 AM
1

Nice!
/r/seduction28/10/18 02:01 AM
2

Yep sure! Being social in general is useful
/r/seduction28/10/18 02:01 AM
1

I mean the worst case scenario is she says no. But, even then, rejectoin makes you stronger in the long run.
/r/seduction27/10/18 05:22 PM
2

A profile that shows you to be a person that has the qualities a woman would want (social proof, active, fun, adventurous etc)
/r/seduction27/10/18 05:21 PM
1

Good. I'm sure you'll reap the rewards of that in the long run
/r/seduction27/10/18 05:20 PM
3

As bizarre as your point on social media leeching is, it wouldn't surprise me if that was true. Sadly, I'm not the resident expert on this. I have 256 IG subscribers, although my profile is stacked with hot girls and cool activities
/r/seduction27/10/18 05:19 PM
1

This is a very interesting debate. I look back on past sexual experiences with pride. Dare I admit, it even helps with my self-esteem. I'm sure you'd agree that this is incomparable to the real thing, or any sort of present moment stimulation. I'm currently reading 'The Power Of Now' and that book would definitely suggest that there's no joy in reminiscing.
/r/seduction26/10/18 05:45 AM
4

Yes, sex with someone you love is amazing. It's still a temporary high, as how this post suggests. Having a child is a completely different topic... (P.S I like the sly dig at Seddit users, suggesting they'll never experience sex in a loving relationship) ​ ​ ​ ​
/r/seduction26/10/18 05:43 AM
1

I'd like to say I'm warmed and inspired by pretty much all of the comments in this thread. Fight the good fight, friends!
/r/seduction25/10/18 04:15 AM
3

got a TLDR?
/r/seduction25/10/18 04:14 AM
3

Paragraphs and sub-headings are your friend, dude
/r/seduction25/10/18 04:14 AM
3

Haha someone call the internet police!
/r/seduction25/10/18 04:13 AM
3

Search for Matthew Hussey
/r/seduction24/10/18 01:48 PM
6

It's literally the most expensive city in the world 🤷‍♂️
/r/seduction22/10/18 04:44 AM
2

I believe that approach anxiety never fully leaves you. You just have to learn how to deal with it. One way is to put yourself in situations that make you nervous 👍
/r/seduction22/10/18 02:55 AM
4

Why?
/r/seduction21/10/18 04:32 PM
5

Hahaha ;D
/r/seduction21/10/18 04:27 PM
1

I need you to send your Telegram handle
/r/seduction21/10/18 06:23 AM
2

Ok ok ok, if there's one thing I've learned about Reddit, it's that you get downvoted to fuck for linking to any website that isn't Reddit. But I count like half a dozen commenters who have asked for tips on how to be a more engaging speaker. So here goes... ​ Here's a video that my business partner and I made called The Epic Story-Telling Challenge. It features everything we know about how to speak in a way that makes people want to fucking listen.
/r/seduction21/10/18 06:03 AM
1

There seems to be no shame in your reply. You must be a cool guy ;)
/r/seduction19/10/18 01:53 PM
49

Final point Yes, A-list celebs and rich handsome men may find it easier to 'be cool' because they have society telling them they are. So what? There are plenty of rich good-looking chodes who aren't cool and don't get great girls. There are plenty of physically flawed men who ARE cool. OWN the cards that are dealt to you....
/r/seduction18/10/18 04:15 PM
2

Same. Back in the UK, ALL of my first dates were in the same place. The staff started giving mart knowing looks ;)
/r/seduction15/10/18 03:30 AM
2

Not sure why anyone would do this?
/r/seduction15/10/18 03:29 AM
1

Feel free to read it again ;)
/r/seduction15/10/18 03:29 AM
1

Hi mate, A few ideas from me... Find a process to trust in The early days of the pick-up community didn't focus on self-confidence at all. These guys just had confidence in the PROCESS. They knew if they followed steps A,B,C,D,E properly, they'd get results, so they performed these steps. I think a great start would be to find a process - and immerse yourself in this for 28/30 days. Consider purchasing a digital course from Real Social Dynamics. 'The Natural' by RSD Max would be exactly what I'm…
/r/seduction11/10/18 11:09 AM
1

Not obvious to everyone. Plenty of guys dont try because theyre not good looking. This aint about outclassing Ryan, it's about getting a sex life you can be proud of
/r/seduction06/10/18 03:35 AM
1

Me too
/r/seduction06/10/18 03:33 AM
1

This isnt about outclassing anyone. It's about regularly getting laid with hot girls
/r/seduction06/10/18 03:32 AM
1

It's not normal. That's why it's AWESOME
/r/seduction04/10/18 01:48 AM
1

As a rule, attraction first.
/r/seduction04/10/18 01:46 AM
0

Read the synopsis, get really good at hyping it up, then watch it with your next date ;)
/r/seduction03/10/18 02:03 AM
5

On reflection, you're probably right. I read this from another Reddit post and added it here. Maybe that guy worded it better... Depends on the vibe I guess... A woman sat peacefully reading Reddit probably isn't going to go for this. If she's already horny on a date, it could work. I'd advise guys to calibrate to the situation...
/r/seduction03/10/18 02:01 AM
13

This is great. Take a bow son
/r/seduction01/10/18 05:22 AM
-5

Never read either of these. Perhaps those two learned from me 😁
/r/seduction01/10/18 04:48 AM
1

Hmmm...According to Amazon, that book you recommended has 12 pages and about 50 words per page...
/r/seduction29/09/18 10:52 AM
5

I will introduce myself using my Reddit handle instead of my name. By the way, your main point also applies if you're short, fat, bald, tall, skinny, hairy and of any descent other than Indian ;)
/r/seduction27/09/18 06:12 AM
5

It's not a cakewalk for anyone, unless they have game.
/r/seduction26/09/18 06:05 AM
2

Hmm, I'd say hot girls are the most feminine.
/r/seduction26/09/18 06:04 AM
8

Exactly. Short guys with no game like to ignore comments like these.
/r/seduction26/09/18 06:02 AM
1

Nice reply. I typically mention it initially, for the reasons stated, but not again.
/r/seduction25/09/18 03:07 PM
1

Interesting generalisation...
/r/seduction25/09/18 03:06 PM
1

It's on the list. Follow my Reddit account or join our Telegram group and you won't miss it
/r/seduction25/09/18 03:05 PM
1

It's on the list. Follow my Reddit account or join one of our groups, I guess
/r/seduction25/09/18 03:05 PM
3

no
/r/seduction25/09/18 03:05 PM
1

I agree, confidence IS the most attractive thing. However, I'd say having a structure to hold onto helps people stress less about what to do next. This gives them more brain capacity to donate to being fun and witty, and helps them to be more assured with what they are doing.
/r/seduction25/09/18 03:04 PM
1

Yes, of course. The post is actually titled word-for-word after a question someone actually asked in our Telegram group. It's probably one of my favourite questions of all time. For what it's worth, I usually use 'excuse me'
/r/seduction25/09/18 03:00 PM
3

Or practice so much that it feels robotic ;)
/r/seduction23/09/18 06:21 AM
1

Parts of it, maybe. My general thoughts on nightgame are at the bottom of the post. Perhaps I'll do a similar post for nightgame soon, although it will far less structured and will focus on getting a one-night stand
/r/seduction23/09/18 06:05 AM
0

I co-run 4weekconfidence.com and the Whatsapp/Telegram groups mentioned in the post. We also offer Skype consultations
/r/seduction23/09/18 06:02 AM
3

There are pros and cons to both. Do what you enjoy!
/r/seduction23/09/18 06:00 AM
10

I typically go with "you look: nice/good/glamorous/interesting. All a tiny bit less forward than hot/cute/beautiful - mainly for the reasons you suggest
/r/seduction23/09/18 05:59 AM
25

Fair point. Take the tips you like. Discard the tips you dislike.
/r/seduction23/09/18 05:56 AM
10

Yes, I am from London. Torero is rumoured to have faked his infields though
/r/seduction23/09/18 05:55 AM
1

How often have you gone out??
/r/seduction19/09/18 05:54 PM
1

Yes, I've been travelling solo for the last year and I now realise the only thing I needed a wingman for was to get let in the club in the first place amd to cure approach anxiety....
/r/seduction18/09/18 05:51 PM
1

Fair point -but the overall point still stands. People (including myself) take way longer to improve than they should.
/r/seduction12/09/18 02:25 PM
1

Fair point.
/r/seduction12/09/18 02:24 PM
1

Yeah, the 'pick-up artist' term certainly has a lot of negative connotations. Notice how even RSD barely use it these days....
/r/seduction12/09/18 02:24 PM
2

Thanks, I'm aiming to post here consistently
/r/seduction12/09/18 02:23 PM
3

It'll always be difficult - until you force yourself to do otherwise ;)
/r/seduction12/09/18 02:22 PM
1

That probably still is the majority. They're DEFINITELY not pushing their comfort zones.
/r/seduction12/09/18 02:21 PM
1

Thank you for this post, mate! 🤘
/r/seduction08/09/18 08:46 AM
2

Yes, yes, yes. Looking back, there was never one set where having a 'wingman' benefitted me. (maybe I was going it wrong?) The only thing they were ever useful for was helping me get in the club (solo entry is frowned upon for males in London) and making me not feel like the 'weird guy with no friends'. It's particularly pointless in daygame, other than for getting over approach anxiety, because you end up losing them really quick anyway. Now, I travel the world solo, do DG and NG solo and I'm s…
/r/seduction06/09/18 03:36 PM
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