Society loves to shame women for being single especially older women. There's the stereotype that women who are single are unwanted by men.

Honestly, there's no reason why you should date because society frowns upon those who don't. Most men I got to know more on a "deeper" level have at least one red flag or one undesirable trait. These traits include:

  • Being sexist

  • Objectifying women

  • Having a fragile male ego

  • Flirting or pursuing other women while they are in a relationship

  • Looking down on women who don't conform to society's beauty standards

  • Looking unattractive

  • Being poor

  • Being extremely frugal despite not being poor

  • Likes to gossip

  • Is mean to others

  • Is bad-tempered

  • Gets jealous easily

  • Lack of empathy for others

  • Lies a lot

  • Uses other people for their own benefit

  • Being extremely lazy

  • Having a video game addiction

  • Likes to rant a lot

  • Having bad breath

And yes, I've observed all these red flags without even being "close" to these men. I suspect they are hiding even more red flags as LVM tend to portray themselves in the best way possible when they're around other people. If all of the men you know are LV, why date them for the sake of dating? You're just asking for trouble.

Nope, I'm not even talking about how they don't have HV traits such as paying for dates and supporting their SOs. Some of these men can't even meet the bare minimum in terms of treating other people with respect.