Trying to find a female subreddit directed towards Latinas but can only find porn…

Fuckdoesithurt956 · 2021-10-04T15:15:06+00:00

can we discuss making a website just like Reddit but banning porn?!?!

I am totally down for this.

When I really get hooked to a book or TV series I like to follow up on discussion boards because I love fantheories / backstory etc. The subs usually have good episode discussion threads etc. But I've found you can type any first 3 letters in you will get nsfw subs. I watched a crime documentary called the Murder of Sister Cathy, and searching "sister" lead me to a bunch of incest subs. If I search Squid Game, the first 2 letters show four porn subs. Typing "brid" as in "Bridgerton" shows two porn subs. It's an absolute plague.

extragouda · 2021-10-04T15:14:01+00:00

I get something similar: "Can you fry rice?"

I am sorry you deal with these idiots. It is so dehumanizing.

WorkaholicParty · 2021-10-04T15:32:43+00:00

I also live in a country that used to colonize my birth country and it's rabidly obsessed with fetishizing my race. It's traumatizing and I can't wait to move out of here because people make porn-tinted jokes in the workplace but are subtle enough that you feel ashamed to point it out. I'd rather not be represented at all if the only thing I get is 1) oppressed and need white saving or 2) hypersexualized secret nympho. If people didn't know where I was from that'd be so amazing ... this is so sad.

Also, kids' media is made by pedophilic pornsick scrotes, men. And not affectionate mothers or even women. Most people in the production of animated cartoons are men, some of them might even draw or produce porn on the side. If I'm not incorrect one of the producers of this teen tv shows Victorious is a pedophile. He gave sexually/BDSM charged one-liners to an underage Liz Gillies (who subsequently was groomed and married one of the older men in charge of that tv show). He also used to infantilize Ariana Grande and make her uncomfortable.

Disney, or whatever kids-oriented network ...I don't want to get in trouble but you get it. Something needs to be done, so many child actors and performers get abused and it's still forbidden to talk about it. Additionally, if they are American, the only thing that will come to these men's minds when writing about a minority like Latina ... is a pornified image. Because they are porn sick.

thewetdog_ · 2021-10-04T15:44:45+00:00

I am Latina and built like a stereotypical one and men get stroke-face when I tell them I can’t dance at all and don’t really like to try MUCH LESS IN PUBLIC. I can barely follow a beat to clap 🤷‍♀️ I am completely devoid of rhythm and don’t care for dancing either, though I enjoy music and singing. The look on their faces is as if I’d told them ive never tried an ice cube in my life or something.

ashcantcatchabreak · 2021-10-04T15:26:45+00:00

Welcome to Reddit. Most women-focused subs are “about” women and not “for” women, and most content containing women is porn.

Determinedblonde · 2021-10-04T14:07:13+00:00

Damn. If you’re not sexualised, you’re “feisty”

Drpyroxene · 2021-10-04T16:35:58+00:00

I'm on a skateboarding sub and I never see any girls or women on it. I thought, "surely there's a sub for skater girls right?" Then went to "oh God, maybe I SHOULDN'T look for one...." I took the risk and was actually surprised to find one and the most recent post was of this little girl just SHREDDING! I was so happy I almost cried. But how ridiculous is it that we have to be cautious just searching for a sub of our interest 🙄 Someone mentioned a website like Reddit that bans porn, I'm so down for that. I hate scrolling through the popular stuff and it's just nasty. Sigh.

Feministtiktok · 2021-10-04T14:33:40+00:00

Please don’t take this in a mean way but it’s just funny to me because men are so gross 😂 I’m Syrian and before nobody knew what Syria was in America I was happier in the US. Now suddenly there’s REFUGEE PORN. dudes r gross. Welcome to the club babe American dudes are horny and get bored of their own blonde women (and their own blonde women don’t even want them back either) but certainly we don’t want them lmao

sleepysiri · 2021-10-04T16:55:19+00:00

I’m often looking for the petite fitness sub and whenever I type in “petite” or really ANY word, the first and only few subs that show up are porn ones. How depraved and pathetic is that.

binbeenbetter · 2021-10-04T18:47:46+00:00

I have a new muslim coworker who wears a headscarf and I was just curious to find out more about her culture. I looked up “hijab” on reddit and like 5/6 of the subreddits that popped up were p*rn. If guys are willing to objectify and sexualize fully covered women then what hope does anyone have. It’s disgusting how depraved they are

DuchessDurag · 2021-10-04T18:17:40+00:00

I feel your pain. I’m half Japanese and Latina. I get so offended when men assume I’m a maid and cook.

Or the worst they have preconceived notions that Latinas are sexually available. Gotta be careful with fetishism and how it effects us women.

Peak_Tree · 2021-10-04T14:41:43+00:00

That's gotta be one of the perks of being a latina in latinamerica. You are the default and therefore all those gross cliches don't apply to you here.

Sewud · 2021-10-04T18:13:06+00:00

Reddit is overridden by porn though. Back in the day I search for a subreddit for gingers (red hair, freckles and pale skin) and it was porn of women with red hair.

xfelugirlx · 2021-10-04T15:28:32+00:00

Try pocahontas is the only one that comes to my mind rn. It happens all the fucking time, latina=sexy bod,spicy,anger and they feel inherited to have you, sure scrote 🤡 And reddit is obviously men dominated, i tried to find a sub to a kpop group and there was 18+ porn subs for this group and one of the singers is a minor!

misacruzader · 2021-10-04T16:13:23+00:00

The Road to El Dorado isn’t a Disney movie, just so we’re clear… but yeah Latinas don’t get much representation in popular media.

IWannaBeAnArchitect · 2021-10-04T20:05:02+00:00

Just found a subreddit "dosxxlatinas" but it seems pretty dead :/

CuntWaffe · 2021-10-05T01:55:59+00:00

As a fellow Latina, I am sick of being called "spicy"

Maleddie · 2021-10-04T21:35:59+00:00

A teeny tiny silver lining... there is a new Disney film coming out that is set in Colombia! Honestly, I think it looks a bit stupid, but it's something. Also, the main character is a girl and she looks kinda normal i.e. not insane barbie doll or really sexualised like in The Road to El Dorado.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CaimKeDcudo

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Noemie_Mathilde · 2021-10-05T01:45:19+00:00

This video is a really good exploration of the "spicy latina" trope in cinema and TV https://youtu.be/HoyJJYRnBjA

ThatGirl60 · 2021-10-05T02:38:47+00:00

Went out last weekend and a man with a wife told me “my wife would like the exotic out of your ass”. And everyone thought it was a compliment 🥴

spicy_kitty · 2021-10-04T17:56:56+00:00

I thought Elena of Avalor was latina? If she was removed then I suppose that the closest would be Pocahontas. It's a real bummer to not have enough representation and that as latin women (myself included) we are just boiled down to the same ole stereotypes. It's sickening, demoralizing and it depresses me.

Title	Trying to find a female subreddit directed towards Latinas but can only find porn…
Author	chasingshoesales
Upvotes	861
Comments	55
Date	October 4, 2021 1:39 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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