Every now and then, even within the red pill sphere, I come across guys who obsess about their girlfriends' or wives' orbiter males, and feel compelled to mate guard their SO against them. There's a clear cognitive dissonance in that, as most guys are at the same time fully aware that orbiter males and "backup plans" are inherently unattractive to women.

So if you're the one doing the fucking, there's absolutely no reason why you should feel threatened by your girlfriend or wife having a few orbiters and backup options. Because the only time a backup option will move in front of the line, is when you decide you don't want her anymore.

In stead, think of your wife's or girlfriend's orbiter males as your little helpers too. Because they really are. Here are just a few ways in which orbiter males can be useful to you as a sex having male:

1) They will help your girlfriend out with practical stuff, so that you don't have to when you have more important stuff to do. "Sorry babe, I've got to finish up this project. Why don't you ask Steve to help you?"

2) They will provide you with endless beginner-level opportunities to display both confidence and generousity of spirit. "Of course you can hang with Steve! I'm happy for you to have friends, babe."

3) They provide you with a clear dominance hierarchy that's easy to navigate, and where you're on top for as long as you want.

4) If you at some point decide that you don't want her anymore, her orbiter/backup will cushion the blow for her. That means less resentfulness and craziness coming your way.

Important notes:

• This is assuming you and your wife/girlfriend have a healthy sexlife.

• If your girlfriend/wife is the one doing the orbiting (like meeting up with someone who dumped her in the past), that's an entirely different matter.

Please challenge my view.