I've recently landed a great job that pays almost double my last job. Sure there's a bit of work stress but I actually enjoy the job. The people are quite nice and it's a professional environment. I love that there's no gossip or drama, both of which are very prevalent in American work culture.
Ever since I've started this new job I've had absolutely no interest in dating. I went from having little interest to ZERO interest. Perhaps it's got to do with having something fulfilling to focus on? I also have a side hustle that keeps me busy. I don't need one but it's nice to have an extra bit of money to throw into crypto and other investments every month. I think it's a combination of FDS and a good job that makes me feel fulfilled. At this point choosing to date might make me jeopardize my career.
I do need to work on leveling up in other areas of my life. But I had to start by landing a well paying job with a healthy work environment. I found when I worked in an abusive environment, I was more likely to date. Perhaps it was unconsciously done to fill the void and have a distraction from the hell I was going through at work.
Had anyone else completely lost interest in dating after finding an enjoyable well paying job with a great work environment? Or a fulfilling hobby or passion?
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