I've had my fun and men are holding me accountable for it

loneliness-inc · 2022-04-04T19:21:50+00:00

First off, u/niskara - you need to do a better job editing out ALL identifying information, including sub names. Please do that in the future. Thanks.

I hate how men value my body count

Translation: I hate that men value different things than I do. C'mon, men! Fall in line and value what I neeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeed you to value. Don't value what I don't waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaant you to value.

To start this out I’m 23 and have had sex with 36 men

SLUT!!!

which I know is more than average but it’s my life I wanted to have all the fun I can.

It's your life. You have the authority to do with it as you please. Now you must live with the responsibility for your choices.

This may shock you sweaty, but men also have the right to choose what they do and don't value in a partner. Men choose not to marry used up sluts.

In the last year I’ve calmed down and want to settle down and find a man to settle down with and start a family but that’s fucking impossible.

Isn't it lovely that you're finally ready. Good for you.

NOT OUR PROBLEM!

When I match with a guy or just meet one in real life the question they all ask is “what’s your body count?” when I tell them I get a disgusted look usually and get ghosted . one time I was told I’ve been ran through by a guy who I thought was so sweet. It just sucks I’m More than the men I’ve slept with I have cool hobbies and interests and I’ve got a nice job after graduating high school. I guess I’ll be a hoe in every man’s eyes.

Boohoo 😥😿

Edit: stop dming for a date im not interested

Lol 😆 🤣 😂 😹

Nice try at a humble-brag.

Edit: funny how the men who run this sub shut down this post that was getting something off my chest it is what is I guess lol thank you all so much for the rewards.

Welcome to the real world - where people don't bend over backwards to cater to your every whim.

People did that because of your sexual appeal, but you blew that. Now you're just a regular person and you're bitter about it.

Seethe.

Cheers!

razuten · 2022-04-04T04:09:58+00:00

"I'm more than my body count."

Well I'm more than my bank account.

Natuasi · 2022-04-04T04:23:02+00:00

“In the last year I’ve calmed down…”

Notice she didn’t stay stopped.

vic_vega_is_fake · 2022-04-04T04:25:39+00:00

36 is what she admits to, I bet the real count is closer to 100.

IamAlbanian · 2022-04-04T04:00:32+00:00

Thank god for hoes, but would never marry one

✌️😎

tiernach · 2022-04-04T04:18:06+00:00

Another victim of the lies of feminism. No guy worth having wants the used up leftovers.

NutsLikeMelons · 2022-04-04T04:57:46+00:00

They want us to work all our lives to provide for them, choose them to be the mother’s of our children, risk death for them if there’s a bump in the night, run the risk of divorce and financial ruin and losing our kids... and all that after they let 7 basketball teams inside them before they even look at the guys who want a family and legacy. Then they have the audacity to complain about not being taken seriously.

Land_of_the_Losers · 2022-04-04T04:26:35+00:00

When I match with a guy or just meet one in real life the question they all ask is "what's your body count?"

They ALL ask that? Right off the bat? Maybe you should get in their faces and ask them that question first?? In fact, yell the question!! It'll throw those evil slut-shaming Neanderthals onto their back foot! And after they mumble some pathetically small number, you can yell "HAH! I've had 6 times that many! I'm a bigger stud than you are!" And then punch 'em in the cock. Men only respect strength! Show 'em both your Grrl Pwr and your Pussy Pwr!

hornetsfalcons12 · 2022-04-04T04:55:59+00:00

36 men (that you’re willing to admit to) got it for free. Now man #37 (at least) needs to commit to you. And I’m sure he’ll get to do none of the crazy stuff Chad and Tyrone got to do.

Because yeah, serious men want a woman that can show restraint, since we know that a woman can have sex easily.

warlocc_ · 2022-04-04T07:10:13+00:00

Not only is she a used up slut, but she's also, in that very post, turning down dudes offering to put up with it, showing that she doesn't want the kind of men she's caused herself to deserve.

You can't make this up.

DrDog09 · 2022-04-04T04:14:57+00:00

Honey, invest in wine stocks, and get a dog. When you are in the mood rent a stud. Have a happy life.

ronoda12 · 2022-04-04T05:28:54+00:00

Men decide what they want in women like women decide what they want in men. 36 body count by 23? Thats a turbo 304. Send her to the streets.

SolidStateDynamite · 2022-04-04T06:09:38+00:00

She made her bed, then let at least 36 guys sleep in it. No man worth his salt wants to wager half of his life just so he can sleep in those crusty sheets.

Saianna · 2022-04-04T06:34:55+00:00

My normal looking friend from highschool was happy when he ended up with body count of... 1. He had to work his charisma to the breaking point like a madman on crack. All just to lose virginity to below average "land whale in the making".

She literally made more sex in a year than half of my friends will ever get to do in their current... and next lifetime.

Sigh.

I kinda wish I was born before sex revolution... or after it has crashed and burned, which it will...hopefully. Being between those 2 points is just miserable for dating.

SpiritualEnema · 2022-04-04T04:04:59+00:00

I’m more impressed that she knows her count is exactly 36. She must be keeping notes. My count is 40 something but I don’t know it exactly.

Consequences are a tool of the patriarchy

IncoherentNonsense · 2022-04-04T06:45:16+00:00

My girlfriend sucked 37 dicks! IM THIRTY SEVEN?!

toastedtomato · 2022-04-04T08:00:43+00:00

"Want to settle down and find a man to settle down with and start a family but that's fucking impossible" "Stop dming for a date im not interested". Fucking tutorial mode

TourismCarcosa · 2022-04-04T04:30:26+00:00

That's at least a 1/2 mile of cock if they're just one night stands

vesuvius_1_02 · 2022-04-04T04:56:59+00:00

Ok. Just going off personal experience. I lost my virginity at 16 (36M). And from the norm that I've heard while serving and amongst friends, male and female acquaintances 16 is the average. She's 23. From 16 to then is 7 years. 36÷7=5. Never-mind the decimal, those were just dry-humps and swapping spits.

Thats 5 guys per year. I'm being generous and assuming (making an ass out of u and me) there wasn't any 2 on 1 action. But known what I know these days about how the church girl down the street had a train (4 on 1) ran on her....I'm unapologetic when I say I can't offer you the benefit of the doubt!

That being said, I'm not, several of my friends aren't and red-pill men of today....we ain't checking for that. Not approving of that. Not signing on for that. And definitely ain't trying to sponsor and wife that. Sorry hun you drank the kool-aid and these are the consequences. You opened your Pandora box to much and the hinges are creaking and the lids falling off. I say this in jest, but I'm entirely serious. You lose! Good day sir!

FormerBTfan · 2022-04-04T07:55:26+00:00

For sure she has in her profile that she had her fun and is now ready to commit or every single guy would not be asking how many loads have been pumped into her guts. Or as was mentioned she is bullshitting to try to spin it around that once again how dare men not want to be a liberated free thinking "easy to to love"woman who will suck Chad Chode for a cocktail and a well used unoriginal corny pickup line.

How does that saying go? Women sleep with who they want and then marry who they can and men sleep with who they can and marry who they want.

Women like this are becoming the rule rather than the exception as we all know.

As we all know the only way to win this game is to not play it.

waveformcollapse · 2022-04-04T05:15:53+00:00

this post is an entire comedy session in one paragraph, I love it.

sony_anumo · 2022-04-04T08:46:40+00:00

I recruit people in my work, i am not some huge manager but i interview people for my team.

When someone comes in and hands me a CV with 5 years experience over 36 different workplaces, i am not going to be over the moon.

Most likely i will tell them that this means every 2 months they switch jobs, they never got past the probation period, and unfortunately we will not be the 37th job you can quit from.

InevitableOwl1 · 2022-04-04T07:25:19+00:00

Does she really expect readers to believe that every single guy she has met has asked her that question ? I call bullshit. I know there is loads more red pill content out there but I simply don’t believe that even a majority of guys ask that question - unless she has some kind of tell in her profile like “I’ve had my fun and want to settle down” specifically written. And even then I have my doubts whether most would directly ask for an n-count

Maybe it is all guys in her age range and they are seeing loads of TikTok’s so now ask?

gfgdhj5784yu8 · 2022-04-04T07:25:56+00:00

What is one thing that modern women and serial killers have in common?
They both hide their body count

loinclothfreak · 2022-04-04T05:28:48+00:00

She sucked 36 dicks?

deckran · 2022-04-04T08:44:01+00:00

Damn, she must have really got played and tossed around by Chad and Tyrone if she's looking to settle down with a safe guy at such a young age. Too bad for her, men have standards for a relationship. Being relatively chaste is at the top. Until more women really understand this, they're gonna keeping shooting themselves in the foot with their lifestyle and then continue to whine about it online. More content for this sub though.

NGG_Dread · 2022-04-04T12:07:51+00:00

She’ll just start lying about it now lol

vtec__ · 2022-04-04T13:09:33+00:00

this is every woman who is over the age of 25 on any dating app.

Yowazzuplol · 2022-04-04T08:20:23+00:00

36 body count at 23 wow, what a slut.. Yikes

IceCorrect · 2022-04-04T06:42:03+00:00

Just like I saw post of men 30 virgin and complain women doesn't want to date him because of his body count. He is more than label from other women that he is undesirable

Joaquino7997 · 2022-04-04T08:15:39+00:00

So in one breath she's complaining that she's getting ghosted because of her high body count. And then tells men to stop asking for dates (when she said she wants to 'settle down' - HA!).

And closes out with "thank you all so much for the rewards."

Who is she thanking? The men on the dating website who dissed and dismissed her or the 36 men who pumped-n-dumped her?

APathWellTraveled · 2022-04-04T10:02:21+00:00

And that number she says is WAY lower than the real count.

Funny how a man's normal reaction to not want a promiscuous partner is mocked/questioned in modern culture.

player89283517 · 2022-04-04T18:14:30+00:00

Lol “stop asking me for a date” after complaining no one will date her because of her body count

2022-04-04T06:05:52+00:00

Karma catches up with the ladies.

nantucketghost · 2022-04-04T11:35:49+00:00

Actions have consequences...

Shocked Pikachu face

Old_snowboarder · 2022-04-04T14:19:06+00:00

Woman who lived her life according to her preferences hates that idea that men also live their lives according to their preferences. Oo, the irony.

Mr_Chad_Thunderpenis · 2022-04-04T20:29:36+00:00

Imagine you are a 23 year old guy. What are the chances you'll be better than all those 36 men that came before you? Someone was probably significantly more handsome than you, someone was taller than you, someone was way more muscular than you, someone had a bigger dick than you, someone was wealthier than you, someone was funnier than you etc etc. Worst case scenario most of them were top tier guys and were better than you at everything, or almost everything. You simply cannot compete. That's the sad reality. And since she is used to a certain standard of man, even if that kind of man doesn't want anything long term with her, it's hard to stay loyal and faithful. Once you taste that juicy 200€ steak, it's hard to be satisfied eating a 20€ steak for the rest of your life.

bgovern · 2022-04-04T13:08:44+00:00

Why is there a nearly perfect correlation between poor grammar and spelling, and making bad life choices?

Optimal_Wendigo_4333 · 2022-04-04T14:27:51+00:00

"No hymen, no Diamond." - Undead Chronic XVI

Brady-Bryan-Atkins · 2022-04-04T08:13:23+00:00

Ahahahhaa I saw this post earlier and didn't even click it would fit here. I just thought wow what a slut and moved on lol

RedMeatTrinket · 2022-04-04T09:00:14+00:00

People are the sum of their experiences. If one has a track record of not being able to maintain a healthy relationship for more than a short period of time after 36 tries, no one wants to be the 37th try. Maybe she's like WD40 and the 40th person will be the winning recipe.

tayllerr · 2022-04-04T17:34:42+00:00

Saw the post and commented “no respectable man wants to turn a hoe into a housewife.” I stand by my words and hope it’s a warning to every other woman out there. I’m not saying you can’t go have your fun, by all means it’s your right. But understand a well to do man won’t waste his time on you once he finds out your body count.

lemko1968 · 2022-04-04T20:02:16+00:00

Would you buy a car that has been used and abused by 36 prior owners and pay a new car price for it?

captainsaveahoe69 · 2022-04-04T14:56:20+00:00

I love women like this, they've been a godsend. But dear God, marriage and kids? NO!

PrimaryStop5 · 2022-04-04T16:06:01+00:00

Disgusting whore

YaBoiMarcuss · 2022-04-04T22:55:09+00:00

How much do you guys wanna bet that she'd still reject an average/below average guy?

3HardWay · 2022-04-04T14:35:30+00:00

What a world we've created.

This should make it clear why women hide (i.e. lie) about their "body count". Why would she be honest knowing the reaction it gets? Which also makes me think this is fake, or one daft women. Giving the benefit of the doubt, she's got a lot of life left ahead of her, so she better start training up that hamster.

AndromedasMilkyWay · 2022-04-04T15:29:45+00:00

I love how they can’t see that while they’re free to ride the cock carousel; men with options are free to filter out these 304s.

mohd_sm81 · 2022-04-04T08:38:11+00:00

How dare men hold her accountable... No shame no blame for wahmen who have infinite body count... Just take her like any buzzer beater and maintain her instead of having a brand new Porsche 911 Turbo... Cuz she said she deserves it.

happychickenpalace · 2022-04-04T23:26:58+00:00

Surprise pikachu! If you are a slut men will see you as a slut, no man will see you as a wife candidate anymore.

RecentCar1561 · 2022-04-05T00:42:45+00:00

I get get why Tupac said “ bitches ain’t shit…”

2022-04-05T13:54:37+00:00

I'm glad to see men are not willing to commit without bringing up the ?

casra888 · 2022-04-04T18:31:53+00:00

In reality, that's way below average these days and probably a total lie. 23 years old? Try over 100 on the body count.

HildaQueenOfMiletos · 2022-04-04T18:50:49+00:00

I'm at a state where she going "ThNaKs fOr tHe gOlDs kInD sTrANGErs" made me roll my eyes more than the stupidly high body count

dethred · 2022-04-04T19:02:23+00:00

Funny, a previous woman I dated had the same count. I think it's from some movie. That means it's probably 2-3 times that amount. Bet she doesn't fuck 500 pound dudes who eat more than they should, but doesn't realize it's the same thing for sex.

Wibly6174 · 2022-04-05T05:18:06+00:00

I was just about to post this here. LMAO. So much entitlement. 23 yrs old and already fucked 36 guys. Any man who wifes her up is in for hell.

Period_Licking_Good · 2022-04-04T18:35:54+00:00

I’d bet good money whatever thing runs that subs doesn’t call itself a man.

CartAgain · 2022-04-05T02:15:15+00:00

It is your life, and its fine that you want to have fun. I also want to have fun; and being with you isnt any fun

saucey_cow · 2022-04-05T18:32:57+00:00

I’m More than the men I’ve slept with I have cool hobbies and interests and I’ve got a nice job after graduating high school.

"Makeup is my hobby, I'm interested in animals, and I assume men care about how much money I make". Fixed it.

BritishTeeth11 · 2022-04-06T16:52:33+00:00

Proper garden tool.

Loud-Bottle-7879 · 2022-04-06T20:13:59+00:00

Lol look at the coping language “more than average”. The average would be like 2-5 at that age, you are a statistical outlier. “More than average” does not express how far you fall away from what average would be.

TheGeeksama · 2022-04-04T10:36:46+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ytCEjBEGyDE

i know this song must be played always in guys mind when she tells about her body count. indians will know this 😂 🅱andi babu 🅱andi

atworkthough · 2022-04-04T19:14:10+00:00

I mean she's not girlfriend material but she definitely will put out.

ZZoMBiEXIII · 2022-04-04T20:02:01+00:00

Seriously considering opening a cat breeding farm. I know there's a lot of shelters already and needy animals, but I think in the next decade they are going to be picked clean and we'll need more cats.

2022-04-05T01:30:05+00:00

No telling how many times she rotated among the 36 guys she claims. At least she had fun.

BigJohnHolmes14 · 2022-04-06T21:28:42+00:00

She a ho

datboi3637 · 2022-04-09T19:01:25+00:00

That's definitely more than 2 standard deviations above the mean

So definitely abnormal

ImaginaryUnicorn241 · 2022-04-10T01:55:59+00:00

If she is admitting to 36, imagine the real number.

UwUkraine_RussiaChan · 2022-04-14T02:04:18+00:00

"I have cool hobbies and interests"

Yea; like riding dicks, anal, doggy, threesomes, running trains, letting random strangers hit it raw behind the dumpster and swallowing their... well you get the idea.

2022-04-08T06:04:34+00:00

What was she expecting ?

babypinksunrise · 2022-04-09T13:52:16+00:00

36 is stupidly high

2022-04-10T11:04:13+00:00

Funny how when it comes to a man’s standards with regards to body count some women just can’t understand that you cannot turn a hoe into a wife.

Ari9000plus · 2022-04-11T07:54:41+00:00

So let's see...."36" x 3 = lying about getting DM's, to achieve validation...sorry, I don't believe a word that comes from your mouth 'lady"...#thesestreets!!!

ForeverSilky · 2022-04-10T02:42:22+00:00

Honestly I’m not even mad at her. If anything, I appreciate her honesty in terms of how many men she has shared her body with. This makes the vetting process much easier for the men.

Fun-Transition-5080 · 2022-04-19T15:41:44+00:00

Try not to suck any dicks on the way out to the parking lot.

moorekom · 2022-04-04T06:40:46+00:00

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Devinequicest · 2022-04-07T02:17:50+00:00

First of all, how sex is even fun ? I am NOT trying to shame sis over there, but sex is not fun. Society tells you it is but it’s not, it sucks in my opinion.

Itsjustnickg · 2022-04-11T21:17:25+00:00

You have cool hobbies? Lmao. Unless one of your hobbies includes trains or film photography, I'm not interested.

Title	I've had my fun and men are holding me accountable for it
Author	Niskara
Upvotes	737
Comments	249
Date	April 4, 2022 1:50 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen/comments/tvq3uj/ive_had_my_fun_and_men_are_holding_me_accountable/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen/ive-had-my-fun-and-men-are-holding-me-accountable.1108741 https://theredarchive.com/post/1108741

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SLUT!!!

NOT OUR PROBLEM!