Cheating shows a distinct lack of respect for ones husband or wife, it shows you do not value your partner, it shows you do not value what family you have with them and shows a distinct lack of maturity if you cheat because you “feel bad” or “want some excitement.” Someone who has more sense or scruples, is going to take the adult approach and express their unhappiness or boredom or displeasure, if they’re not heard or acknowledged in this endeavor then it stands to reason that leaving may be their best option. Cheating instead adds a highly complicated element and doesn’t do one favors in divorce court, especially men. But this about people who take back a cheating spouse especially those who take back a serial cheater. I cannot think of anything more simpish than this, beyond having your cheating spouse’s affair buddies move in with you. It shows a lack of confidence, a lack of grit and a lack of manhood or womanhood if you freely bow to someone who disrespects you. I don’t respect people who gleefully allow others to walk all over them, you have to constantly rescue such people from everyone including themselves. I don’t expect this to be controversial but you know what? It very wel may be taken that way.