Low skilled under qualified workers settle for and accept low paying unenjoyable jobs because they have to, but they still don’t like going to work. It’s the same with partners.

Just because a person may be low value themselves doesn’t mean they by default enjoy or are happy with a low value partner.

Women in particular are now turning a corner where it’s almost glorified and rewarded culturally for absolutely refusing to settle and remaining alone. The “cool drunk single aunt” is a positive meme amongst younger people. Staying single for women is MUCH more tolerable and in some instances enjoyable, whereas men tend to struggle.

I think low men come from a place of scarcity and desperation and can’t relate to even low value women’s growing reluctance to settle for somebody in their league. When you’re that sex or relationship starved you start to view “settling” the same way a homeless person would view a horrible low paying job - “But it’s A job….it pays money…”

Whereas a lot of people who either have family or husbands who pay for everything or come from money or are happy to claim state benefits view menial jobs as beneath them at worst, and refuse to do it, or something they do but hate at best.

I’m not saying all “low value” men and women hate or aren’t happy with their relationships that they settle for, but my point is just because a woman for instance is low value, doesn’t mean she’s going to be happy with her equal in a partner. She may either refuse to settle at all or do it out of necessity but hate every moment of it.

The key really is just to be as high value as possible. Your relationships will come easier and be more enjoyable.