Green card marriages are for true love, right guys?

IWantTo____You · 2023-01-01T03:17:50+00:00

They exist, but speaking as a 23 year old who went to a foreign nation a girl wanted me to stay in her home country. I told her i couldnt do it. She did not want a green-card, but would've if it was necessary to stay together. Many women prefer their home country and don't want green card weddings.

BiodegradableOffense · 2022-12-31T23:30:48+00:00

It's an interesting topic, too interesting for Purge

DerekMorganBAU · 2022-12-31T23:58:47+00:00

Crazy western woman gold digger or sane foreign woman gold digger

What a hard choice

DeepfakeGretaThunbrg · 2022-12-31T23:42:22+00:00

Guys dating foreign women are under no delusion that we're not attractive enough for non-transactional relationships, so we go where we can leverage our only bargaining chip the most.

PhilosophyEvening770 · 2022-12-31T23:42:40+00:00

Exactly guys, from the horse's mouth they just admitted all they want our our resources. Dangle that carrot to get what you want gentlemen, and do it shamelessly.

ThorLives · 2023-01-01T00:38:30+00:00

The Uno reversed version:

"Western women aren't using you for money. Beta bucks is a misogynistic lie." 😇

"Foreign women only only want your money. They're all a bunch of gold diggers. You're a damn loser if you go for them! Nobody will ever truly love you!" 👿

Slootandoh · 2023-01-01T00:00:09+00:00

Geomaxxing can work, even with no greencards involved or little money spent.

Non-Western men are generally shorter, poorer (which matters for optical reasons in the eyes of women even with no beta-buxxing), and less into weight-lifting culture, so a Western man would automatically be higher on the totem pole.

Suppose overnight your country’s men (except for you) somehow got shrunk by 3 inches in height, their net worth cleaved by 10, and their physiques reset to DYEL. Of course your SMV would automatically increase.

2023-01-01T02:31:25+00:00

Finally, the thing I’ve been saying all along. Having a foreign woman marry you for your resources is just betabuxxing with more steps

RocinanteCoffee · 2023-01-01T00:12:49+00:00

How about, if you visit another country you go to meet someone genuinely, you look for people who aren't in desperate poverty and flash your money, instead you try like a normal person to just meet someone because you both like each other.

Not all men who go overseas and date someone there are exploiting only desperate people, and not all women marry a foreign dude for a green card.

But if you specifically seek out people who don't have enough to eat and have trouble supporting their parents and you flash your money around you are going to attract more of a certain kind of people than if you are reserved about sharing information about your finances and you are going places just to meet people as equals, not people who are barely legal age or vulnerable.

DisplacedBitzer · 2023-01-01T01:18:58+00:00

If I am to provide, I would like to provide for the highest quality match, or at least a decent one. The west does not make many of those. I’m half American, and foreign women are just better on average.

iwasneverherehaha · 2022-12-31T23:40:48+00:00

Play stupid games win stupid prizes.

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-01-01T09:46:52+00:00

...both will marry you for your resources.

Marry the one which will actually respect you for your resources.

Sunshine12e · 2023-01-01T00:35:13+00:00

Well, for guys who cannot attract women locally, why not go elsewhere? I was in Thailand last month, and there were quite a few adorably dorky guys, with their adorable wives and children. I saw another guy, at a coffee shop, SO NERVOUS on his date with an attractive young Thai woman---it was cute, actually. I mean, there were also the entirely disgusting men, going after the not-so-attractive prostitutes. But, yeah, these woman are going to expect a certain financial situation from the man. The man has to be careful, that her family is not going to push and push for more money. Otherwise, I did see many happy couples (and the men definitely would have had a difficult time dating in their own countries, due to varying factors including: appearance, things like huge birthmarks that maybe left the young man to be ridiculed when young, skin conditions, stuttering, anxiety).

AstronautLoveShack · 2022-12-31T23:39:57+00:00

This ought to be fun. Too bad it probably is too uncomfortably close to the truth for many such minded men to engage in it.

E-2-butene · 2022-12-31T23:59:17+00:00

Most foreign women aren’t green card marriages. This misses the point western men are taller and more wealthy than most local men in foreign countries.

SmarmyPapsmears · 2023-01-01T01:53:23+00:00

I'll bite:

This is implying that western men going overseas aren't already taller & more masculine than the average guy in the country they're going to. Which you know makes pussy tingles

LupeDyCazari · 2023-01-01T01:00:36+00:00

I don't have a problem paying for sex if I get commitment.

oyxyjuon · 2023-01-01T03:24:15+00:00

Russian mail order brides maybe... but otherwise? its possible she just wants a white guy

redditthrowaway1478 · 2023-01-01T08:37:18+00:00

The difference is the quality of woman you're investing your resources in is far a superior deal

WillyDonDilly69 · 2023-01-01T09:06:52+00:00

I mean wester women are ulta gold diggers expecting over 6 figures salaries from their husband while they stay at home, while foreign depending on the country both partners work or women are not so greedy

the_butter_lord · 2023-01-01T09:47:53+00:00

I don't think non-western women are only ever interested in western men for the money.

Take Asian women for instance, something like half of US-born Asian women marry white women. I genuinely think many Asian women find white men as attractive if not more attractive than Asian men. If nothing else they are at least taller and hairier.

Take a 5'6" white American guy who's short back home. He wouldn't be considered short in the Philippines, and unlike most Filipino guys if he has a bad lower face he can more easily grow a beard to cover it up.

Bedrocked · 2023-01-01T11:40:52+00:00

Why is it always assumed the foreign woman is poor though?

LupeDyCazari · 2023-01-01T13:20:29+00:00

For the most part, yes, but it depends.

I have a friend whose mother is from the Philippines and whose dad is from Denmark, and although she did indeed move to Denmark with the guy, truth is that I have seen pictures and videos of the guy when he was 25, when he went to the Philippines for work, and the dude is 6'6'' broad-shouldered, about 250lbs with low BF, square jawline, high cheekbones, deeply set green eyes, straight white teeth, a full head of very thick blonde hair.

Basically, the dude is what every guy on PPD jerks off to, while pretending to not to, and he had and still has, despite being a very old man in his 50s, as many options with hot chicks as there are stars in the universe.

He got with his wife because he wanted her, and she married him, not because of a green card, the chick was a med student and became a highly prized doctor in her own right anyway, but because she couldn't help herself but have her legs fucking drenched just by looking at this young Thor.

PPD men, most of them that is... yikes. Disgusting little creeps that wouldn't be able of banging a crackhead in need of a hit, because even those women have standards.

I'm still reeling with laughter from that thread created by that obese ugly dude who moved from the UK or was it the United States of Obesity, to the Philippines, talking shit about western women while bragging about ''banging'' chicks in the Philippines.

yeah chicks so poor I'm sure they have never seen the inside of a dentist's office, and I was thinking how hilarious it would be if I grabbed my friend, the son of the dude whom went to the Philippines at the age of 25, grabbed the fat ugly fuck, grabbed all of those phillipes girls, and brought them all to the USA and gave a green card to all of the girls.

Let's see which of the guys the girls would pick LMAOOOOOO.

NationalistGoy · 2023-01-01T15:52:47+00:00

Breaking news for all men: All women want a man with resources, all of them, there is not one that's just going to love you for who you are, love is conditional and the best way to keep her is to create a life for yourself that's attractive for women, doesn't matter if you get a wife in south America or Asia, all of them want YOU to be able to sponsor a good lifestyle for her.

Now that that's been addressed, stop worrying about it.

AntiHypergamist · 2023-01-01T02:01:35+00:00

Using racism to own the males

Mr_Chad_Thunderpenis · 2023-01-01T03:42:59+00:00

Well at least that venezuelan girl that wants to leech my resources is 20 and really really hot.

greenlightalbatross · 2023-01-01T06:14:29+00:00

I think finding a woman overseas is a very valid approach...

Let's be honest, here in America, and especially with the prevalence of OLD, men are at a statistical disadvantage.

If you can get a fine, young bride, devoid of entitlement, just by buying her mother a sewing machine and occasional plane tickets...why not consider it if things ain't working you here?

Otherwise_Zebra120 · 2023-01-01T07:42:55+00:00

The same people aren’t saying these things. Stop making up people in your head.

epicgamer1986 · 2022-12-31T23:43:09+00:00

All relationships are transactional

social_mule · 2023-01-01T01:25:40+00:00

How to successfully date internationally:

Go to a foreign country.
Fuck the women of that country in that country.
Catch a flight back home and leave the women in their home country.
Go to another foreign country.
Lather, rinse, repeat.

Capeninja · 2023-01-01T01:39:14+00:00

It's a best of bad options scenario. The foreign woman at least treats you like a highly desirable man while pursuing the card. Some random woman who's settling for stability treats you like a eunuch.

LupeDyCazari · 2022-12-31T23:34:12+00:00

Simultaneously hates immigrants and is thinking of helping one cheat the immigration system

The9thElement · 2022-12-31T23:46:56+00:00

Damn right, males are incredibly irrational, they don’t even know what they the want

2023-01-01T00:29:00+00:00

Me who’s dating a British Pakistani who’s reserved and traditional

briiiana1122 · 2023-01-01T06:48:17+00:00

It’s not sex tourism if it’s tourism to pick up impoverished foreign women with western resources!

Right guys?

anjovis150 · 2023-01-01T00:56:58+00:00

No wonder people posting here can't get laid.

This sub is as bitter as TwoX.

ThisTimeForRealYo · 2023-01-01T00:05:58+00:00

Never pressed the left button harder in my life.

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Title	Green card marriages are for true love, right guys?
Author	E-2-butene
Upvotes	95
Comments	155
Date	December 31, 2022 11:28 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
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