Been separated for about 2 or 3 months. It was devastating to me in the beginning. She went on dating apps and had no problem finding matches. For me, it took a little more effort.

One day last week I was out running an errand over lunch and I talked to a woman who I could just tell I had instant chemistry with. We exchanged snaps and I spent this weekend with her.

Now I feel instantly cured from the previous pain of separation and divorce, and I can tell my stbxw is a little upset. Which gives me just a little more satisfaction.

I don't understand how some husbands hold out, try and make things work, put themselves through hell, when they can be finding someone new, and better for them.

Hang in there fellas it definitely gets better!