What’s a fact you wish more women knew about men?

hasbulla_magomedov · 2024-01-18T23:47:48+00:00

The last thing we want to be labeled as is creepy or weird. So if you think were just being dry or not making a move, that’s almost always the reason why

Head-Medium-3007 · 2024-01-18T20:24:19+00:00

I wish more women were aware of the fact that women have an in group bias and men have an out group bias. This is one of the greatest barriers to Men’s advocacy, women overcoming their in group bias and men overcoming their out group bias, then men’s advocacy would really help

Silencio00 · 2024-01-18T23:24:17+00:00

That women have no idea what is to be a man and therefore they should not assume we have a better and easier life and being a man is preferable. They should stop thinking they do and stop saying how a man should be.

GoofBallGamer7335 · 2024-01-18T21:17:43+00:00

Men can feel more hurt if not as much by the same thing women feel hurt by regarding relationships and dating, for example physical barriers that can't be changed without some miracle. We are tired of holding the pain back

ButWhatOfGlen · 2024-01-18T20:46:18+00:00

That we are humans just like them.

ETF-The-Token · 2024-01-18T21:36:06+00:00

That just because we find them beautiful and are attracted to them, it doesn’t mean we cant see them as human beings and value them as equals. It can be both, and it is.

notwhelmed · 2024-01-19T00:18:53+00:00

Men are sometimes just as scared as women when walking alone at night in some places, and statistically are actually much more likely to be assaulted/murdered.

Ok-Crab-4063 · 2024-01-18T21:47:16+00:00

That women are under a ruthless constant bombardment of propaganda meant to hurt our relationship with them

FewCollar227 · 2024-01-18T21:10:27+00:00

Even though we want to provide, appreciation helps us keep in that mindset. For many of us it is very hard to be emotional in front of our partner so if that's what you really want think twice because most of the time you can't handle it. We really are simply creatures. We don't want mind games, let's just be in love with each other and get old. If we are spending less time on the toilet then you're doing something right.

PossibilityNo8765 · 2024-01-19T00:41:06+00:00

That just because I'm a man, doesn't mean I can do whatever I want. I hate when women say that. Only the top 1% of men can do whatever they want. The rest of us play by the same rules as you.

SwordfishMiserable78 · 2024-01-18T21:53:45+00:00

Men get tired of all this “kicked or hit in the balls” humor. It’s not funny.

Mobile_Lumpy · 2024-01-18T21:57:11+00:00

I got even a better question, what facts do you wish women ADMIT about men?

Conscious_Luck1256 · 2024-01-18T23:35:07+00:00

That we are extremely disadvantaged in many things and there is no such thing as a general male privilege. Many trans men can prove this. Life might be even harder for the average man than the average women, but people will never even think about this...

stumje · 2024-01-19T02:05:43+00:00

That a great deal of men are suffering and need your empathy

Adeus_Ayrton · 2024-01-19T01:18:16+00:00

We're not machines devoid of emotion or sentiment.

I would even argue we're more sentimental than the fairer sex. But when ultimate survival is dependent on suppressing them to such an extent that it's become ingrained in our dna, it looks from the outside as if we're trying hard to look like assholes. We're not.

NameIs-Already-Taken · 2024-01-18T21:49:34+00:00

Food, Sex, Respect and Peace... make most men happy most of the time.

stupuff · 2024-01-18T22:09:48+00:00

that we're humans like them.

Final_Community2318 · 2024-01-19T01:50:00+00:00

That using private Facebook groups to get ☕️ or red flag 🚩 is so elementary and we have access to the groups as a list of who not to date. Grow up

Final_Community2318 · 2024-01-19T01:50:52+00:00

That we are people too and we have feelings and we matter

viciousmalacite · 2024-01-19T05:48:44+00:00

that erection doesn't mean arousal and that a man rejecting a woman is not a pedo or gay.

Chinny_YT · 2024-01-19T00:03:15+00:00

sperm cramps

Spins13 · 2024-01-18T20:37:27+00:00

We don’t like being nagged to death

Huntress_Nyx · 2024-01-18T21:32:50+00:00

1) that circumcisions are wrong, and circumcised penis isn't natural.

2) that asking for paternity test is not accusation of cheating. But instead is asking for equal confirmation about the baby's parents.

3) that feminism doesn't actually fight for equality. Many women actually believe in equal rights, and think that feminism is about equality. Then they either become like the misandrists or they realise that feminism doesn't actually help.

4) that conscription is not good, and it hurts men.

5) that pay gap doesn't exist.

6) that men aren't all horny, and aren't horny all the time.

virphirod · 2024-01-19T01:52:10+00:00

That we're human too

White_Buffalos · 2024-01-19T10:15:11+00:00

I treat women exactly like I treat men. Most of them hate it. I feel it's a form of respect, and don't give a damn what they think about it.

Top_Recognition_1775 · 2024-01-19T04:33:27+00:00

We're not made out of stone, we're probably more sentimental than you are.

kaisear · 2024-01-19T09:08:05+00:00

A lot of men are living miserably in this country. If women are strong and independent, do something about it!

Muted-Ad3402 · 2024-01-19T10:12:16+00:00

We love peace and quiet

barkmagician · 2024-01-19T03:04:58+00:00

that men are not misogynistic for not wanting a woman with a high bodycount.

and that it is not men's fault that women wont reject playboys or men with high bodycount.

Acrobatic_Sport_7664 · 2024-01-19T04:03:27+00:00

That we don't need them.

Siganid · 2024-01-19T09:46:39+00:00

We're humans who deserve equal rights.

Diligent_Bread_3615 · 2024-01-19T12:16:17+00:00

Men may not be hard of hearing but are masters of tuning out the chatter. I tell my wife this so often that I’m beginning to believe she is hard of hearing.

Dunkman83 · 2024-01-19T13:47:14+00:00

the amount rejection the average man faces before they even leave high school

women ask me why at 40 i dont date much, im tired boss 😪

MissIndik · 2024-01-19T14:41:11+00:00

I'm a woman with a very "masculine" sense of humor, and I'd like other women to know that men joke about things that women wouldn't but that doesn't mean they're insensitive or careless. It just means that men's limits for humor are more flexible, that's all.

MereOst · 2024-01-18T20:44:27+00:00

Boys have a penis, girls have a vagina

Captainsignificance · 2024-01-19T07:03:51+00:00

That a man’s life is much harder than a woman’s ……by far

michaelpaoli · 2024-01-19T13:57:18+00:00

We're not the enemy
We're not all *ssholes (though such can pretty much always also be found among any sufficiently large group)
We're not all the same

Yeah, many women well know and get that, but alas, there are also many that very much miss or don't get/know one or more of those key points.

ericohlen · 2024-01-19T14:57:48+00:00

We don't want women to get raped. We despise that crime just as much as women do, and we DO teach our sons not to rape. However, we don't have some kind of magic wand that will stop other men from raping. If some dude across the country rapes a woman, we could not have cast some magic spell to make that not happen. We have no such magic spell if it happens in the city where we live. A man MIGHT be able to do something about it if he happens to be present, and that's exactly what two men did in the case of the Brock Turner rape. Two men chased him down and caught him so that he could be arrested. However, a man is not obligated to intervene in the case of an assault. If the assailant is some kind of expert fighter, such as a professional boxer or martial arts expert, most men aren't any more capable of successfully fighting him off than a woman is. All we can do is call 911, and almost any man would do that.

Sharon_11_11 · 2024-01-20T06:47:19+00:00

How Much time do I have:

As a man I have nearly 0 social saftey net. No one is going to coddle me or left me crash on a sofa if I decide not to work. I could be suffering mentally, or had a horrendous day, but I have a mortage to pay, so no mental days off. I had an ex who would come home, and tell me she quit here job! In her mind we are equal. But how can we be equal when, your coddled?
You have No clue, I mean No idea, How hard it is being a man. The social pressures. Other man like lions waiting to pounce on you, if you show a certian amount of weakness. Women saying your feminist and dont need a man, but depending on men for everything! I dont see many woman building roads! workig 16 hour shifts! Im law enforcment, so I always have women talking alot of trash (female officers) until its time to fight someone.
Im a man, Im simple, I want sex, food, and peace. I'm not trying to be selfish, but I only listen to how your day went so it wont interfere with S.F.P. Thats sex food and peace!
I hate going into the store with you, I dont have the patience for it. My shopping is 10-15 minutes in and out. I am on a mission. I dont need to touch the entire stores merchendise, or make it an experience. All department stores need a husband section with wi-fi, a TV snacks, and maybe a pool table. Shopping with women is the most stressful experience.
Men dont typically hold grudges. a long grudge is a violation of man code. Im talking about a petty grudge. I fought with my brother as a kid. Now we are best friends. The things that men cant let go of usually have to do with the family or loved ones. I can you forgive you for punchig me. But my kids wife, mom ect, I smash you on sight!
Men dont deal well with betrayal. If your on my team your on my team. Once your crossed off, then your crossed off. many women dont get this until divorced.

Im sorry I had alot ot say, pick one.

Huntress_Nyx · 2024-01-18T22:20:27+00:00

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PlasticAddress8283 · 2024-01-18T21:09:10+00:00

That most men want a quiet, submissive and feminine woman who cooks and cleans.

Winter-Fly-8222 · 2024-01-19T09:26:02+00:00

The fact that men are superior in every way

markieboy99 · 2024-01-18T23:24:48+00:00

Nothing.

John_Bones23 · 2024-01-19T15:10:55+00:00

We have feelings

Friendly_Might_1348 · 2024-01-19T16:44:46+00:00

That men can have preferences too, when it comes to women and it doesn't mean they're insecure

sn95joe84 · 2024-01-19T19:30:21+00:00

Maybe if more guys were thriving, and therefore appealing to you, you wouldn't all be so worried about DatingTheSameGuy 🤔

Entire_Spend6 · 2024-01-19T22:02:39+00:00

That life is a lot easier for them than men

Bubbly-Character3924 · 2024-01-20T02:03:08+00:00

Men are very simplistic. We don’t need a lot to be happy.

HeftyPreference5928 · 2024-01-20T03:08:17+00:00

Of how stupid we can be sand how quickly we shut down over them

Agile_Potato9088 · 2024-01-20T21:52:18+00:00

We don't need you. We choose to have you in our lives. We can easily choose not to.

I've made my choice.

Chama-HUH · 2024-01-25T03:27:42+00:00

Nothing really, I don’t really care much about women or their thoughts towards men anymore. Let them think whatever they want. I’m indifferent towards them.

Title	What’s a fact you wish more women knew about men?
Author	duravittivarud
Upvotes	186
Comments	166
Date	January 18, 2024 8:14 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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