Am I a Simp for this?

tigermax42 · 2022-07-19T20:59:05+00:00

Don’t think about it too much, I’d take it as a compliment. If you hadn’t already hooked up it would be sus but you good playa.

Puzzled_Nail_1962 · 2022-07-19T21:08:17+00:00

Flying across the country for pussy is very simpy. Flying across the country because you get along really well and want to chill together and have a good time isn't.

Frybread002 · 2022-07-19T22:02:25+00:00

Bro...are you literally letting internet culture dictate your life?

Just go out there and have fun man! Like damn!

GlitteringPause8 · 2022-07-19T21:05:11+00:00

Do what you want to do. If you want to travel for pussy, do it. Life is short, have fun and who gives a shit what ppl think.

dub_side · 2022-07-19T21:06:23+00:00

Just go for it dude. If she bails on you or something like that just find some fun stuff to do on your own. Otherwise enjoy king!

harrypottersuckmydic · 2022-07-19T23:46:35+00:00

This is the culture that boys have cultivated, and it’s honestly fucking sad. Grown ass men don’t worry about this type of stuff. If you wanna travel for pussy, then travel. If you don’t, then don’t. The lion doesn’t bat an eye over the opinion of a zebra. You need to do you, King. Not just in this particular instance, but in everything in life. Stop worrying about what other people think. It gets tiring bro. Trust.

saryiahan · 2022-07-19T21:02:59+00:00

For just the weekend? That’s some expensive pussy. Now if you did it for like a week and did some sightseeing it might be worth it. Little mini vacation while getting laid daily is the best of both

gmos905 · 2022-07-19T21:13:05+00:00

If you've smashed already its all good. Enjoy Miami gang.

JohnnyLazer17 · 2022-07-19T22:04:23+00:00

Bro you’re going to Miami. The flight is cheap af if you’re anywhere in the northeast at least, you won’t have to pay for a hotel, you’re hangin/bangin a cool chick, and you can hit the beach in the coolest place in the country. What’s the problem?

yatap21 · 2022-07-19T21:06:54+00:00

How much is flight and expenses? Do the math and see if it’s worth it - simple

Bosscat727 · 2022-07-19T22:07:29+00:00

Have fun. Fuck worrying about being a simp. If you want to see this girl again, do it and enjoy it. Doesn’t matter what anyone else thinks. It’s your life to enjoy.

kaileu · 2022-07-19T23:34:15+00:00

Wtf if you like her enough to even consider it, then you should go. Shits getting too weird to not do what excites you. GO BANG HER IN MIAMI

inpektorgxdget · 2022-07-19T21:32:09+00:00

You've already fucked how can you be a simp?

politits · 2022-07-19T23:25:32+00:00

Dude… It’s really sad that you care what internet strangers think and will let us decide this for you. But it’s equally sad that you care about whether or not people will put a label on you for taking a cheap flight to see someone you like and are attracted to and who wants to have casual sex with you.

What the actual fuck is wrong with you? Because from here it looks like just about everything. You’re a simp for sure, just not for the reasons you’re asking. And you’re really lucky she doesn’t know the real you yet, because that invitation would get rescinded immediately if she did. Try to be a better person by the time she actually gets to know you or you’re gonna get dropped by her and everyone who comes after her. Stop caring what other people think. No one cares. Just go live your life and do what/who makes you happy. This is sad.

focus_flow69 · 2022-07-20T01:14:11+00:00

Dont think of it as flying for pussy.

You are flying to hang out with someone cool who will show you around Miami. Sounds like a fun vacation. Go with no expectation other than to travel and have a good time.

Yerebeets · 2022-07-19T20:55:34+00:00

Yeah honestly if it weren’t for someone I’m in a long term relationship with or see a bright and long future with that person, I wouldn’t fly across the country for some pussy, seems like a waste of time & money, but you do you my man

ikeepon · 2022-07-20T00:54:58+00:00

If you were not crashing at her place then yes. But if you’re going to crash and smash then no. I think the crashing part is key, for me anyway. I’m down to fly for a nice weekend at a hottie’s and smash any day. No crash pad - not so much. So go smash, my dude 👌🏽

PerennialBag181 · 2022-07-20T01:17:54+00:00

If you offered to fly over there or fly her to you then you’d be a SIMP but considering the situation I think you just sound like a guy whose in a lucky situation and you need to make use of it.

throwaway_ta58744 · 2022-07-20T01:22:15+00:00

I'd fucking do it, I've done it before. I tend to make sure I have a backup if things don't go well, but I don't think it's simpy. Just have fun who cares.

NightMasterDom · 2022-07-20T02:32:07+00:00

I’m one of the assholes anti-simp men out there. What she’s asking for has nothing to do with simping.

She’s asking you to invade her personal life. You do that bc, you’re into her. If you don’t, you better have a strong justification to her or you will lose her desire to you in the future.

You’re good at putting her in your frame, she’s falling for you and she wants more of you, so she’s asking you to visit her child memories, if you say no to this request, you’re rejecting her. and that’s totally different than simping.

A simp is constantly chasing validation from the girl. Here it’s the opposite, she’s the one chasing your validation.

boxmail2800 · 2022-07-19T21:28:17+00:00

Jet blue. $200… go have some fun dude…

PSM182 · 2022-07-19T21:07:29+00:00

I would lean no because you already banged. If this was a first time thing then yes. Also is this a possible relationship? That changes my answer as well

Laeree · 2022-07-19T21:57:29+00:00

Tell her " fly me out sugar momma"

If you really vibing with her, go. You've already hit it so it's not simply. But remember people always have bad stories about flying out and people being busy or getting stood up. I'd plan an alternative itinerary just in case, and funds.

$200 round trip isn't anywhere near cross country so it didn't sound too bad

IllustriousFail8488 · 2022-07-19T21:58:19+00:00

Get her to pay for it

Tcampbell32 · 2022-07-19T21:39:35+00:00

I’d do it if I was you. I’m 25 and was in a similar situation as you recently, decided not to fly out cause I didn’t want to spend money at the time, just do it. You’ll spend some $, but it won’t be bad. Make a memory and have fun with it. Don’t make it a usual thing, unless you have feelings, then you simpin

rewinder909 · 2022-07-19T23:31:01+00:00

Make sure to go to the beach for some tan aswell

plxxx · 2022-07-20T00:12:53+00:00

I’d go but make sure you have back up plans.

Puzzleheaded-Ad8631 · 2022-07-20T01:28:31+00:00

Yeah you’re going to not bang a chick because some people who get zero chicks and play and hang around a subReddit to get tips to do exactly what you’re doing tell you that it’s “simp” behavior

tsun_tsun_tsudio · 2022-07-20T00:12:46+00:00

I’m sorry, what’s the question here? You’re seriously second guessing a pussy banging vacation in Miami? Bruh! If I didn’t live here (and if I weren’t a straight woman), I’d take your offer and live it up. Come to town and have yourself a blast, my good man.

Montpierce · 2022-07-19T23:59:45+00:00

You are a simp for being here asking this question lol Just kidding man go and have fun!

throwawaycougfood · 2022-07-20T00:34:26+00:00

This post is some insecure shit right here. Live your life man

Kokadison · 2022-07-20T01:04:12+00:00

Who the fuck cares if something/someone is simpy/a simp? Just do what makes you happy, don’t miss out on living your life the way you want cuz other people tell you how you should or shouldn’t live your life.

Exmerus · 2022-07-19T21:28:53+00:00

Call her to your city and she should come over if she really wants to see you. She may set you up for robbery or some shit if you go there, you never know. I just knew about a case like that last week lol.

Real-Edge-9288 · 2022-07-19T21:57:40+00:00

nah man... stay home... use some of the money to go to escorts instead if you can't hook up with women in your area... why waste your time on the flight? seriously, invest that money somewhere else...buy clothes, food... or buy criptocurency with it(you get about the same odds like with this girl; you either make profit or not...)

sparklingwinepapi92 · 2022-07-19T21:22:09+00:00

Better than flying out because you think you might have a chance with her

ohsnapt · 2022-07-19T21:23:37+00:00

well if youve already had sex with her and this isnt some weird first date from the internet, then go have a great time in miami!!!

if this is some weird first date with sky high expectations then no it is a horrible idea

2022-07-19T22:17:24+00:00

its only simpy if you’re in the friend zone and you fly way out there to take her out shopping or something

mrmarkme · 2022-07-19T22:32:05+00:00

I drove 4 hours to meet up with a chick I met in miami, but I made it a boys trip

Furyann · 2022-07-19T22:33:01+00:00

depends on how rich you are cuz if its pocket change for some pussy then y not ;)

Separate_Taste3428 · 2022-07-19T22:43:32+00:00

That’s called being straight

Think_History_5682 · 2022-07-19T22:43:49+00:00

If you incorporate the pussy into a larger vacation... I don't think so.

Peacefulwarfare · 2022-07-19T22:46:14+00:00

I would make sure you can go out there and be able to, at least, feed 2 birds with one hand. Like go out there and hangout with her, and at the same time see if there’s anything you can do out there to help with your business or see family. Just make sure it’s not only for her, she might try and take advantage of that. And possibly get your own place. You don’t know what these bitches got goin on halfway across the country🤷🏿‍♂️

Cave_dweller123 · 2022-07-19T22:46:43+00:00

Sounds like she likes you bro

motherseffinjones · 2022-07-19T22:51:57+00:00

Will flying across the country to o get laid hurt you in a major way financially? If not then I think you should go if it does then maybe re think it

ChiIdishcambino · 2022-07-19T22:52:47+00:00

Never take a trip just for pussy. take a trip, get pussy and have fun.

Also don’t worry about what others think is simping. Unless your getting cucked or pay crazy amounts on a woman who doesn’t want you, you’re fine, esp since you know her already

ThatRollingStone · 2022-07-19T23:00:48+00:00

If it makes you feel better get a hotel so you got that on back up in case things don’t go great. Worst case scenario, you’re single in Miami with a room.

entitledwank · 2022-07-19T23:01:14+00:00

It’s being a simp if you’ve never hooked up with her and we’re flying over just for the hopes of maybe getting the chance.

If you’ve already hooked up and sex is on the table then you’d be dumb not to spend a weekend in Miami

Tele-Muse · 2022-07-19T23:09:27+00:00

You’re over thinking. Go have some fun on vacation broski

groshong · 2022-07-19T23:13:59+00:00

It’s not being a simp. Simps don’t get laid.

Thirdlight · 2022-07-19T23:32:56+00:00

You're flying out for a weekend vacation and getting a local to show you around while not having to be blue balled. Who tf cares? Literally Paid 2k to go to Seattle with a friend for 3 days. Simps would be the ones who never met before and go and stay alone at a hotel and just shower the person with things and never get any. But some people find joy in life from that so w/e.

P7o7s7t7a7l · 2022-07-20T00:03:42+00:00

It isn't for pizza, it's for popularity. Do you need to be that popular?

stanthemilkman88 · 2022-07-20T00:08:04+00:00

Is it what you want? I mean frame it as a holiday for yourself.

Smile more. It's just a game

RecoveringCoomer · 2022-07-20T00:20:35+00:00

I'd say go fly out for the weekend, have good sex, chill. But don't make it a habit.

Next time, say something like "No, it is now your turn to fly to my place and spend the weekend with me". Then it will be reciprocal and not simpy.

DevelopmentOrganic24 · 2022-07-20T00:24:54+00:00

Like someone else said, if a friend came up to me and said he was flying halfway across the country to get laid I wouldn’t let him hear the end of it.

If he said he was going to hang out with someone and have a fun week in Miami, that’s respectable.

OriginalPostrSociety · 2022-07-20T00:25:12+00:00

Would you be doing it out if desperation or inspiration? Inspired to go visit a hot girl in beautiful Miami? Or so desperate for pushy you’ll fly anywhere for it?

runaround_fruitcop · 2022-07-20T00:26:34+00:00

Oh, I read it across first wrongly. But naw. Dude it's your life. Who cares if it's simp like. If you wanna go have fun with someone you liked banging and hanging with who cares what anyone thinks.

CanUnusual8729 · 2022-07-20T00:27:41+00:00

Nah not simpy

Comfortable-Unit-897 · 2022-07-20T00:35:07+00:00

Not at all! She is obviously a great lay, and likes your package. Get on the plane!!!

I have driven 14 hours from a simple text! I was not let down😍

swhatrulookinat · 2022-07-20T00:47:41+00:00

If its a good time, who cares?

_islander · 2022-07-20T01:04:13+00:00

I’d fly coast to coast for good Pusey, but that’s just me

Joshd_47 · 2022-07-20T02:03:34+00:00

Do stuff while you’re there and have her be a byproduct

bandsupjay · 2022-07-20T02:06:54+00:00

If you dont wanna do it dont do it. If u say yes to something u dont wanna do then its simpy

Key_Panic_8250 · 2022-07-20T02:11:42+00:00

Ra6ks_1 · 2022-07-20T02:19:34+00:00

Just Do That a shit dogg!

deathbypecker · 2022-07-20T02:22:55+00:00

Not simpy. Sigma. Very sigma.

clutchutch · 2022-07-20T03:08:08+00:00

“Girl I’m interested in wants me to fly to Miami to stay in her apt all weekend and fuck, is this a bad sign?”

NotteStellata · 2022-07-20T03:08:39+00:00

Do itttt

424242generation · 2022-07-20T03:23:56+00:00

You would rather not stay put and not do shit than be called a simp? Like godforbid if you show any desire to a particular woman u will be less manly?

Stop caring

Title	Am I a Simp for this?
Author	mlop456
Upvotes	135
Comments	96
Date	July 19, 2022 8:50 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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