15 things I learned from cold approaching over 300+ girls

CocoBabeNYC · 2022-06-20T17:03:49+00:00

Great stuff. I would add that the biggest differentiator for me was to focus on what I wanted. Too many guys try to keep all of their doors and windows open. If they want to get laid asap, they will still entertain a girl who might be looking for a relationship or someone who is just being nice but probably won't sleep with you, or a girl with a bf. Like stop. Figure out what you want and what you want out of these girls and go only for those that can give you what you want. That being y said, don't expect fast sex from day game.

Archyblackcat · 2022-06-20T18:32:29+00:00

Also what I learned is that the more effort I put into my appearance (gym , haircuts, dressing style) the better looking girls you get and it makes it way easier to the point that you don’t need no game cause girls will spit game on you.. it also helps to look good because the cashiers will give me extra of whatever I ordered just for my looks, or the waitress serves your food faster than the others, or the girls at the weed shop serve you faster than girl costumers just cause you’re a “cute guy” .. or the girls at the strip club will just let you get away with a lot more without really paying just cause they like you, they will let you in certain places even if you don’t adhere to their dress code just cause of your looks, girls will buy you drinks at parties .. I could go on and on .. Moral of the story: work on your fucking looks and make life easier for you

smokinlilvixen · 2022-06-20T18:42:55+00:00

This is very interesting. I’m a woman and have only done night gaming. Guess I’ll have to give it a shot.

SimonNewfarm · 2022-06-20T18:01:17+00:00

How do you open, personally?

SimonNewfarm · 2022-06-20T17:04:36+00:00

Did you work on your appearance too?

ShiningDraken · 2022-06-20T20:06:23+00:00

Must be nice being so successful, no matter the results. I got to five approaches and I'm starting to think it's pointless to even bother, at least until I get in shape. And even then there's an if.

TheRealMe54321 · 2022-06-20T19:34:30+00:00

What do you look like?

I know plenty of dudes who tried this and got nothing but endless rejection.

v2014m5 · 2022-06-20T21:50:35+00:00

Out of curiosity does the game change on your height? I'm confident in myself, but I'm not a tall guy, 5'4" but everything else I have going for me in a sense of finances and whatnot.

toliveistocherish · 2022-06-20T19:22:17+00:00

its not a numbers game if you have a rock solid foundations. its like playing chess, the more experience you got the more chances you will win.

DanielSnipeCelly · 2022-06-20T19:14:14+00:00

Great stuff! Where are some of the places you’ve tried to meet people? I’m 26 and am honestly not interested in dating college-aged girls.

smokinlilvixen · 2022-06-20T22:02:24+00:00

To the guys, quick question, I was at a restaurant/bar a week or so ago, and this guy was at a table with some guys. He never made a move but before he left, he made it a point to lean over and say “bye smokin hot little vixen”. So what was up with that? Why say something as you’re leaving and not ask for my number?

jjboy91 · 2022-06-22T06:22:17+00:00

Why the dirty delete...

dude123nice · 2022-06-20T20:48:39+00:00

Wow, you've really mastered the art of using a whole lot of words to say nothing at all.

FirmMorning26 · 2022-06-20T17:58:01+00:00

In Denmark, what I'd you weren't white?

cangero0 · 2022-06-21T00:45:34+00:00

Is your goal hookups or relationships?

SnooHesitations4922 · 2022-06-20T17:05:22+00:00

Pretty good takeaways from day gaming in Denmark. Now allow me to give my take aways from doing it in America.

Be really good looking.
Have alot of money.
Follow #1 and #2 and get away with anything.

-James-Bond-007- · 2022-06-20T18:43:22+00:00

I needed this

Careless-Visual-7630 · 2022-06-20T20:26:54+00:00

do you help people in Grance too

theosamabahama · 2022-06-20T22:18:14+00:00

I should never had spend so much time listing to all the dating advice and bullshit on how to pick up a girl. Most of it is retarded.

What advice would you then give to guys interested on daygame cold approach and other advice in general?

dark_helmt8 · 2022-06-20T23:16:34+00:00

Where did you learn from?

TricksyTrampoline · 2022-06-21T01:25:21+00:00

Curious what did you do to make habit of approaching girls stick?

Feel like I get in a grove where I can approach 5 in a day but then I go into a lull and get rusty which makes AA come back in full force 😭

greenlight144000 · 2022-06-21T01:45:04+00:00

What do you mean by intention, body language and eye contact?

jjboy91 · 2022-06-21T06:40:07+00:00

I'm not realistically remotely attractive. Even if I dress good my face doesn't work for them 😅

yo_saturnalia · 2022-06-21T07:46:57+00:00

Great stuff! But make sure you don’t run out of girls as you’re in a tiny country😂

johnprynsky · 2022-06-21T08:04:52+00:00

Where are the best places to daygame other than colleges? I got crazy results from there but I want somewhere new to hangout.

BaldBeaverHunter- · 2022-06-21T09:16:26+00:00

Nice bro, thanks for this.

samozleg · 2022-06-21T09:21:31+00:00

potatoeswithfries · 2022-06-21T09:31:10+00:00

Decent post.

I can see you're the real deal, because I also do daygame and I have a lot of similar insights to yours. Stick around the subreddit and get involved in discussions, we need people like you in here.

TheExcitingEnd · 2022-06-21T09:46:49+00:00

That's an informative post , no cap

bwoytremor · 2022-06-21T11:35:49+00:00

Remember, regrets hurt more than rejections.

Absolute facts right here bro

Yesman3 · 2022-06-21T12:00:39+00:00

How would you approach a girl working as a cashier in a small take out place?

Title	15 things I learned from cold approaching over 300+ girls
Author	SimonNewfarm
Upvotes	166
Comments	122
Date	June 20, 2022 4:44 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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