I didn't date anyone from 20-26. Thought something was wrong with me. Thought I was ugly and felt like a forever alone dude. I recently went out to a vacation to re connect with an old friend. He is a bartender and has a girlfriend, so they know lots of people. Within the first 2 days, they had a girl over to meet me, I just talked to her like a regular person, like she was one of the boys. She was super hot, we ended up making out at the beach and then she took me home and fucked me. It required 0 effort from me other than showing up and being a regular person. This snowballed into getting EVEN MORE attention from ladies, as once other girls see you with a pretty girl, your value shoots WAY up in their eyes.

If you are a dude sitting at home wondering what you are doing wrong, it is most likely that you just aren't getting in the right situations. Having the social proof of other men and their girl friends liking you and vouching for you, is basically the best thing you can possibly have when it comes to getting women.

Go out and do things you like to do, make friends. You will start to feel natural, especially with age. When I was 22, I would go out and be around girls, but I had so little experience, I would get so nervous and not even know what to say. Just realize, IT DOESN'T fucking MATTER!!!!! I am seriously a dork. That's why girls like me! I just embrace it and say silly shit that I would say to my bros, I don't treat them any different. I only realized all of this after being broken up with and going through a dark time where I didn't care about anything. Once you literally do not give a single fuck, the women pick up on that. It is pretty simple from there.

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Just some words from a former foreveralone depressed type dude who didn't even want to show my face in public, who now will go out to bars and literally have girls looking ME up and down, wanting to go home with ME. I promise you, it can happen with you. Disclosure I am 6'2" and fit, so that might have some effect as well.

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I forgot to add, for anyone that doubts that I'm a little dorky. When she first made out with me, I was pretty drunk during the day at a beach bar with her. I was joking around about the bar scene and about how I dont have tattoos like all the cool guys. I was in her passenger seat and said "no one ever accused me of being coool" in a kinda joking way. She looked at me and said "I bet not" then proceeded to get on top of me in the car and make out for a few minutes. The whole point is that I didn't say anything cool. I wasnt trying to be anything. I was just being my silly self and some random hot girl digged the authenticity.