Girls want you to be genuine.. Whatever you are.. Own it. They hate when you are confused of your identity and is not comfortable with yourself and is trying to change yourself. It means you are not proud of yourself.

CaptainLisaSu · 2020-03-04T20:19:29+00:00

A man should be genuine. For himself. Not because girls don't like it.

BiggerBadgers · 2020-03-05T02:16:17+00:00

Man I fall in and out of this headspace a lot. Needed this today exactly.

sigma_1234 · 2020-03-05T02:10:15+00:00

I remembered going on a date with my ex before. Though I was good looking, I had nice guy signals all over me. She founded it really cute, and we dated a while. It was one of the best feelings ever.

If a girl is turned off by my nice guy-ness, I just went to the next one without giving a damn. Girls love it when you own who you are.

SeanTYH · 2020-03-05T03:32:46+00:00

Forgive me if I m wrong but Isn't it counter intuitive to self improvement?

Abouelkhir · 2020-03-05T01:32:50+00:00

I understand what you are saying. It makes sense for the game but always change yourself for better!

reginalnz · 2020-03-05T04:27:28+00:00

Good advice but not sure it applies to all girls though. For instance I used to tell girls about my mental issues and try and be open but that just put them off me without even getting to know the real me. I guess I'm still genuine but tend to hide deeper things about me to try and be "normal".

Umbran_scale · 2020-03-04T23:15:23+00:00

And what if a guy is someone who wants to stay in his house all day and look at a screen?

MicDrop2017 · 2020-03-05T01:28:34+00:00

...and it's OK to wear glasses...

Emperorerror · 2020-03-05T04:52:38+00:00

Some of the worst comments I've had the displeasure of reading in this thread.

blizzard_youaintme · 2020-03-05T04:18:59+00:00

what of I own being half nice half ass ?

hunterpua · 2020-03-05T08:26:42+00:00

Women love nice guys as long as they're genuine nice guys who don't just act nice to specific people to get them to like them.

If you're nice by principle and even go against the wishes of others sometimes to do what you think is right then lots of women would be head over heels for you.

We need to change the term we use to describe weak guys who let everyone walk all over them from "nice guy" to "ass kisser" because those who are genuinely just nice are in fact quite strong and very hard to push around.

user20180620 · 2020-03-04T22:20:31+00:00

Nope.

I know what OP is trying to say, but it's said poorly.

The point is to be congruent. Best is to congruently be alpha as fuck.

If you can't pull off being a badass with congruence... Then next best is to be as close to alpha as you can, while maintaining congruence.

Worst of all is congruently being a "niceguy" beta.

That said, I'd like to see some good examples of different styles of game. Most coaches I've seen have a very similar style. It's a laid back, witty, sexual vibe... That, while alpha, is hard for beginners to pull off congruently.

I'd actually really like to see a progression from niceguy to alpha in stages.

phatfather · 2020-03-05T02:03:41+00:00

Maybe superficial women are like that. What does it matter to a woman if you are not proud of yourself? If she had love, she would be able to see past the negative qualities, love the positive qualities, and bring out the best in you.

Lord_Augastus · 2020-03-05T03:51:01+00:00

Because this way ypu can attract those who are interested in ypu, not a version a lie of ypu. Sure ypu will get rejected more, but at the min it wont be a lie

MuzikVillain · 2020-03-05T08:06:28+00:00

I've struggled with this a lot throughout the years. Trying to be someone I'm not to attract women. Slowly I've begun to realize that this method will not only drive me crazy but will not help me in finding compatible quality women.

Sure I can fake my way into seducing an attractive shallow girl, but then I'll be stuck with a person who I have nothing in common with. You just end up struggling to keep up the charade, resenting the relationship and wasting each other's time.

FakeTrending · 2020-03-04T20:38:13+00:00

Bluepill advice. Women want a good looking guy. They don't care if Chad isn't genuine

oe84 · 2020-03-05T02:35:49+00:00

So girls like narcisstic people ?

Alex_O7 · 2020-03-05T06:55:45+00:00

Actually girls appreciate when a man is pushing to change himself for the best. They recognise the effort and the will to be better.

SickCiclon · 2020-03-05T07:02:19+00:00

I don't like myself because I can barely fit anywhere 😂

VDKay · 2020-03-05T08:39:58+00:00

Might I add that guys also love girls who are real with real personalities, identities, desires and feelings! Girls who are not comfortable being themselves ususally end up whiny bitches or drama queens.

Girls, no matter what you do and who you are right now, own it. Be confident! It is sexy AF.

VDKay · 2020-03-05T08:48:01+00:00

What someone said about pick-up (I think was RSDTyler), he said that the biggest resistance we put on ourselves when we don't take action (or practicing "game") is not the fear of rejection, but rather the fear of admitting to ourselves that we are doing something we are not. E.g. you know how a good-looking super-confident womanizer would act, or what would say. You have the blueprint in your head already. You know what you have to do, but doing it would mean that you are admitting to yourself that you are not that guy, and this generates fear. This is a paradox of the human psychology.

p.s. Not being comfortable with where you are now is not OK. Being comfortable at any point in your life means that you know exactly how you ended up there, what lessons had to be learned, how to best take advantage of the current circumstances and also where you want to be next. However, wanting to change and improve is always OK and actually advisable.

helstan45 · 2020-03-05T11:18:51+00:00

Well most of the times , boys change to fit in the personality girls like , a funny guy will act like a introvert for a quite girl and vice versa ,

2020-03-05T12:02:01+00:00

I have a bracelet that says “Do your shit” it’s the truth

salutcemoi · 2020-03-05T12:49:22+00:00

I’ve always pretended I was an Architect

throwaway1op · 2020-03-05T13:01:05+00:00

It's insane that simply being a nice person has a stigma attached to it now.

Troupbomber · 2020-03-05T13:04:12+00:00

Cool, I'll just stop having anxiety and depression.

MAMustafa · 2020-03-05T15:06:48+00:00

I think they would like it if you actually became who you truly are , even if that means not being a nice guy all the time

caesarfecit · 2020-03-05T16:24:38+00:00

Nice guys don't get laid when they don't embrace their sexuality and learn to use it. Girls need to feel wanted, and nice guys struggle at dropping little teases and hints that stir her imagination.

Nice guys do get laid when they're outcome independent and that makes the girl chase. Nothing drives a girl more nuts then when she can't make a guy chase dat ass even though he likes her.

Smokeysmoot · 2020-03-05T16:46:28+00:00

Be the person you are around your friends and family, just because you are into someone doesnt mean you have change your personality.

abbehardy · 2020-03-05T17:08:22+00:00

Amazing!

herendzer · 2020-03-05T19:17:23+00:00

Why’s is it us humans that struggle with this lol? Have you seen a donkey or a dog or a cat worry about mating? They just do it naturally. Something is wrong with us human males

retarded_shit · 2020-03-12T20:30:04+00:00

Doesn't this just means to "be yourself" ?

77tuoemtae · 2020-03-05T07:09:56+00:00

Us guys dont wear make up so who is really trying to be someone else?

2020-03-05T06:28:33+00:00

Bullshit, women don't give a fuck about anything other than what benefits them, if you're a fuckhead they're gonna pretend you're not even there

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