For 2 years I've written about seduction and self-improvement. Now I'm giving it all away for free to Seddit this week.

falousco · 2012-05-28T22:54:49+00:00

Thank you so much Tony, it's really great to see someone who just wants people to improve regardless of what they receive in return, it's a rare trait in people. I'll be reading this over the next few days and will no doubt use it as references in posts and as a suggestion for reading for pick-up. Great job.

More or less 130 pages of pure, refined knowledge on pickup and bettering your relationships, I really hope you get the recognition you deserve for this.

iznou · 2012-05-29T01:06:38+00:00

It took me 1.5 years to realize you are Zardoz. All those downvotes... Sorry!

criticalhit · 2012-05-28T23:06:53+00:00

hi tony. i don't know if you remember me, but you did a mini event through meetup.com in vancouver about a month ago. i was the guy whose shirt looked like cat vomit (his words). i just want to thank you for this. it's great to see someone from around here.

Gilletine · 2012-05-29T02:22:45+00:00

I downloaded the PDF. There are several areas where words are missing. Should I re-download and try reading again?

EDIT: Also, many thanks for making all of this available. :)

IAmTheOmNom · 2012-05-28T23:17:04+00:00

You Are Not Different or Special

This catched my eye. Very true and hard to accept at first for most.

I'm going to give it a read.

2012-05-29T00:16:42+00:00

The carpet-bombing article had me lollin'

mrzack · 2012-05-29T01:34:07+00:00

fuking girls, why they gotta make us work so hard to get them? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dCr1g8hp8Lo

atmosfir · 2012-05-29T15:01:44+00:00

I consumed the book overnight. This is amazing, thanks man.

You talk to me through your book like i'm one of your dudes, not your client. The topics and advice are spot on. These are things that i did not know before, and stories that anyone can relate upon. The advice you give are communicated in the hard, cold, honest, truth. Simple ideas, great justifications. It is very easy to understand. No fancy words, no intricate theories, only answers from experience. Moreover, you give a reason why those things work. This is an astounding piece of scholarly work sir, and the fact that your giving it away for free is respectable. I really want to know why, tho.

meanttobeworking · 2012-05-29T16:54:03+00:00

Tony, this is brilliant (coming from a woman!). How can I get my boyfriend to read your chapter on how to keep a girlfriend? He's great and I love him but I'd love him more if he read your paragraphs on Ambition and Your Word. We're together about 18 months and he's beginning to suck at these. This chapter made me realise why I've started to pull back from him a little.

Ryu6912 · 2012-05-29T20:35:48+00:00

This is absolutely fucking amazing. I wish I could do something more to express my thanks cause holy shit man this is GOLD. Thank you so much Tony, you are a life changer.

mjaumjau · 2012-05-29T05:05:10+00:00

For three minutes I've browsed the comments on this submission.

Now I'm posting my comment for free on here, right now.

decoyman1 · 2012-05-28T22:39:37+00:00

Looks like a great read so far, thanks for the hard work you have put into it

Shmads · 2012-05-29T00:10:07+00:00

How do you suggest reading this? From front to back?

S0vv · 2012-05-28T23:03:49+00:00

Awesome, bro, awesome.

mobsta · 2012-05-28T23:19:54+00:00

Thanks a lot man. If I enjoy it I will definitely give it to my friends!

Jaricho · 2012-05-28T23:25:14+00:00

Glory is yours :)

Fiach_Dubh · 2012-05-29T01:32:56+00:00

thank you, ill be sure to read.

kilik2049 · 2012-05-29T03:13:23+00:00

Thanks Mister ! I will add your blog to my RSS from now on !

ikickrobots · 2012-05-29T05:58:49+00:00

You sir, are a gentleman and scholar.

hometownhero · 2012-05-29T07:01:17+00:00

Really awesome stuff man. Practical, no lame routines, great for developing legit game. Thanks.

kfudnapaa · 2012-05-29T15:47:06+00:00

This is really good of you man, thanks for posting this it looks like some real good advice. I've just started reading it but can I ask a question about the first part if you don't mind?

You say that guys who are too nice and tend to come across as needy repulse women, and I am worried because I would come across that way. I don't mean to I just really like to make people happy, and more so with people I'm fond of. I can't help it. But how can I remain being a nice guy but not come across this way? I'd hate to lose someone I really like because I really like them, how can I be the dominant, unneedy type without sacrificing who I am?

beepbeepwow · 2012-05-29T16:30:12+00:00

Dude, thank you. This is the first time I've heard about you, but this is great stuff! Thanks and cheers!

nobody2000 · 2012-05-29T17:21:14+00:00

Hey Tony I am not trying to attack nor offend you but am just curious as I heard that a lot , is it true that lots of the so called Seduction Gurus are nothing more than internet marketers who are socially awkward creepy guys, who start an online business by outsourcing content to fill their ebooks with fairy tales ?

yesitsme117 · 2012-05-29T19:03:54+00:00

Thank you. This is what self improvement is about sharing it with everyone for free! Thank you once again. The glory is yours good sir.

skcin7 · 2012-05-29T19:35:34+00:00

You're not giving it away for free! You're sharing material that you've learned, but just the fact that you documented it helped organize your thoughts and helped YOU better understand it as well!

That being said, we are still very grateful that you took the time to write down this material and share it with us! I am very grateful and will take the time to share the information with future generations as well!

capn_waffle · 2012-05-29T20:40:01+00:00

Nice.

bubblybooble · 2012-05-29T12:18:33+00:00

If the content is just some of your blog posts, weren't you already giving it all away for free?

iitian · 2012-05-29T07:16:22+00:00

I love your writing style. You must be fun guy to talk to. Thank you.

RadicalSelf · 2012-05-28T23:03:11+00:00

Thank you!

thaelmpeixoto · 2012-05-29T02:04:10+00:00

People who use dropbox are awesome! Downloanding and reading!

CheeseBurgerRandy · 2012-05-29T02:05:27+00:00

im just gunna be nice and genunine, but not a push over. like that guy said a couple of days ago.

Wavedasher · 2012-05-29T02:27:47+00:00

Thank you so much sir :) Eternal glory is yours

sthree · 2012-05-29T02:30:57+00:00

Thanks :)

revolved · 2012-05-29T02:49:08+00:00

Much respect! you are one down to earth guy.

JimmyNic · 2012-05-29T02:51:52+00:00

Nice stuff man, appreciate it. It's nice to read blogs without sappy suck-ups or childish arguments in the comments below.

FinnTheZombie · 2012-05-29T03:28:24+00:00

Your book is free? So is my up-vote!!

But seriously, thank you for the generosity

threadcrapper · 2012-05-29T04:34:52+00:00

good stuff thanks

quantumorbit · 2012-05-29T04:39:05+00:00

Thanks for this.

the canadian women thing is so true in my daygame experience -- it's hard to get them to hang out and let alone reply to a text

enzo32ferrari · 2012-05-29T05:56:42+00:00

i'm having trouble downloading the PDF; chrome wont open the page

butter_wizard · 2012-05-29T06:33:20+00:00

Pro tip: It's Ringo Starr ;)

brendanfromboston · 2012-05-29T07:35:28+00:00

Read a little bit and I am loving it!!! thanks duuuude

david050 · 2012-05-29T07:59:51+00:00

"Watching BattleStar Galactica on a Friday night is not action". Man I appreciate you posting your stuff for free but I found your writing way too aggressive.

Barncore · 2012-05-29T08:39:15+00:00

Downloaded - thanks! :)

Im_awesome_AMA · 2012-05-29T08:51:32+00:00

I am unable to download.

I run an Android 2.3, unrooted, tried to download with the standard browser.

Just gives me Download unsuccessful on all formats, no other info. Any tips?

NiccoloDaVinci · 2012-05-29T09:10:40+00:00

Props Zardoz. Good to see you further sharing the love.

Guess I really gotta schedule some time now to read this.

Nick

RandomRealn00b · 2012-05-29T09:45:25+00:00

A lot of the stuff seems to lack any sort of emotion or personal moral code, which is great for just information but from a standpoint of someone it can get murky and conflicting for an individual. Otherwise this is great information that should be PUBLISHED.

choc_is_back · 2012-05-29T09:59:43+00:00

You are awesome, thanks for this, I've been reading your posts for like a year now and they never fail to be awesome, genuine and inspiring.

dArN0k · 2012-05-29T13:10:02+00:00

ty dude

Eskimosam · 2012-05-29T15:48:08+00:00

Thanks for doing this!

dq9 · 2012-05-29T16:39:11+00:00

Thanks dood!

http://gifsforum.com/images/image/me%20gusta/grand/me_gusta_0341.jpg

skreendreamz1 · 2012-05-29T16:46:16+00:00

Much obliged!

P64 · 2012-05-29T17:22:11+00:00

Do you have a section about girls you are already friends with yet want to pursue? I'm in a tough position with the girl I like, but we've been friends for so long so I feel like I can't make a natural move on her without coming off as weird...

TonyDAbsolute · 2012-05-29T17:37:11+00:00

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nobody2000 · 2012-05-29T19:24:01+00:00

You can't knock free reading material. Thanks!

Tspoon · 2012-05-29T19:37:54+00:00

So i started reading the pdf, and near the start you talked about texting with a girl and she said she wanted to "just be friends" so you dropped her like she was hot.

I kinda have a problem with this, because almost every girl ive heard this from i have had sex with, sometimes in a few days sometimes in a few months.

I just want to be friends is not a deal breaker, she just doest want to be labeled as a slut

2012-05-29T19:40:48+00:00

Great write, straight to the point, no bs. I love your writing. Thank you so much for sharing this with us!

Chaveski · 2012-05-29T19:56:56+00:00

My favourite quote so far:

Let them think themselves to sleep. They're probably sleeping all the time, with their eyes wide open.

2012-05-29T20:00:23+00:00

Another random Redditor's thanks right here!

texan11moore · 2012-05-30T15:09:39+00:00

Great...I have read a couple of your articles and now I have a raging boner, gotta get out now.

enetheru · 2012-05-31T04:01:04+00:00

page 63 /s/sheppard/shepherd ty

HyeR · 2012-05-31T17:43:29+00:00

Thank you man

suitemperare · 2012-07-07T21:59:25+00:00

Just read the whole thing in one sitting. Thank you.

MrJingfuMaestro · 2012-08-16T16:01:55+00:00

I love you man especially in one of your articles i read this

I would rather make 30k a year and be able to get up an hour late without being yelled at than make 60k and have two weeks a year vacation time.

I hope to do you proud one day i really do

malcolmthetenth · 2012-05-29T02:11:44+00:00

thejr · 2012-05-29T03:49:53+00:00

Great job man! Thanks for sharing. If you ever come in SF, let me buy you a beer!

malarky87 · 2012-05-29T14:23:08+00:00

You are a good and generous man sir.

2012-05-29T09:34:28+00:00

When a woman considers your value, looks are at the top of her list.

Please don't spew bullshit and watch some documentaries and/or read books about evolution/mating instead. Looks =! self presentation. Thank you.

AlwaysCorrects · 2012-05-29T18:51:29+00:00

Page 24, under CLOSER:

You don't start projects and drop them before THEY'RE (incorrectly spelled their) finished.

Cheers, thanks for the book!

indestructable · 2012-05-29T04:17:28+00:00

awsome. so very very awesome.

heyitslongdude · 2012-05-29T04:48:05+00:00

commenting for future reference

Title	For 2 years I've written about seduction and self-improvement. Now I'm giving it all away for free to Seddit this week.
Author	TonyDAbsolute
Upvotes	780
Comments	146
Date	May 28, 2012 10:28 PM UTC (14 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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