One of my better approaches as a newbie. Watch carefully and u can see when she rejects me, and that i ignore it and keep going and she gets sucked back in. This is a tall sexy blonde with fake lips, tits look like a blonde kim kardashian

CaptainPUA · 2019-11-13T16:42:58+00:00

Nice work! Careful of the body laguage tho! Hands in pockets and legs crossed doesn't scream confident but that's an easy fix.

grk82c · 2019-11-13T17:33:12+00:00

Am I the only one that thinks this is weird?

DoctorNurse89 · 2019-11-13T20:57:41+00:00

She stayed turned away the entire time. Getting pulled in means her body language would turn towards you, she wasnt actively engaged, she was being engaged by you and responding

Strangeluxe · 2019-11-13T20:38:07+00:00

The way you cut her off from where she was walking would immediately put me on the defensive if I were her. Approach people from the side and let them have a way to walk a way if they want to. It feels like a predator cornering prey otherwise.

Source- imma lady

ViktorPatterson · 2019-11-13T16:44:13+00:00

I want to know what did you say to her or at least what was your conversation points

readonlyuser · 2019-11-13T21:31:22+00:00

As a woman this video is painful and I feel terrible for that poor women. You approached her so fast from behind and cut her off. This would scare me. The only people praising you on this thread are men and all women are saying this is wrong. This should be a very loud hint.

This sub never takes advice from actual women so you guys can just keep acting like you are trying to out-smart women into dating you. But acting like the guy in this video will never, ever, work.

Dr_Heinz · 2019-11-13T21:26:53+00:00

What the hell is this and why was this on my feed? This is seriously hella weird/creepy.

alimbade · 2019-11-13T21:35:53+00:00

Definitely not a pro here, I struggle as much as the next man. You had balls to engage a woman which looks way out of your league, but ignoring her rejection was a dick move. Sorry.

Women hate it when guys don't respect them and their sayings or emotions. She stayed listening to you the same way I sometimes stay listening to tramps who catch my attention by speaking to me, just not to be rude! That's a fact.

Anyway, keep working on it, overall it was a good try.

The_Ol_Grey_Mare · 2019-11-13T18:26:31+00:00

Cringe

SmokingBeneathStars · 2019-11-13T17:12:24+00:00

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SendNotSpendThyMoney · 2019-11-13T16:44:14+00:00

Sorry man. I know my hearing is bad but I couldn’t hear any of this. I know people here think they know everything about body language but if I can’t hear the exchange there is not much I can do with the information.

elinfreja · 2019-11-13T19:05:20+00:00

Pro tip: respektera ett nej och gå därifrån istället. Ärligt. Hon stannar för att hon försöker vara snäll. Inget annat.

Rhayx · 2019-11-13T22:05:55+00:00

Kudos for approaching but there are so many things wrong you made her really uncomfortable, as newbie better start with the anonymity of a nightclub and learn how to have interactions where girls feel comfortable with you. Also this is not the content that shines a good light on pickup and I suggest taking it down as it could be used to show how how "a pua harasses girls in public"

izanami94 · 2019-11-13T19:41:32+00:00

"she rejects me and i ignore it"

haha yeah not creepy at all dude

danceplaylovevibes · 2019-11-13T20:19:04+00:00

you weird

PuroPincheGains · 2019-11-13T19:31:55+00:00

This... was pretty awkward. Not gonna lie, trying to stop someone and have a conversation with them is really weird especially these days. I’m surprised she even stayed after you ignored her rejection. You should have just taken it from there and left her alone.

robertDouglass · 2019-11-13T17:35:23+00:00

It’s an asshole move to film such a thing. She deserves privacy in matters of the heart.

embarrassmyself · 2019-11-13T21:35:09+00:00

I don’t see anyone getting sucked back in. Her body is still turned toward where she was walking. Women rarely enjoy having their path of travel being cut off to be hit on...

phat_pheasant · 2019-11-13T22:23:27+00:00

Hey u/blueberryshark420 ,

I dont like this, and heres why:

First off, theres nothing wrong with walking up to someone and starting small talk with them, it the timing is right and theyre both comfortable.

But this throws me off for multiple reasons. She rejects you at first, which shouldve been a clear sign of “im not interested”. I could understand some light convo pushing after, but if shes not into it, shes not digging you my dude. She probably didnt want you to feel bad.

You also filmed this. Its a public place, which is kind a weird setting. And notice all the people looking at what seems to be the very obvious camera, then you and the woman. The people AROUND you are feeling uncomfortable. The two women off to the left stood there for a very good reason. They stayed because they were worried for her. When you cut her off and forced her to stay, they could tell she didnt want to be there, and they were going to make sure she was okay, even if they didnt know her.

The cameraman also pans away alot....almost like they shouldnt be filming this encounter, whether for legality reasons, or public shaming from all the direct staring.

She also told you she was going somewhere. If she has somewhere to be my dude, let her go. If you dont respect her plans when you dont know her, how will you when you do?

And finally, the title. It screams desperation on your part, and humiliation of the woman you were trying to seduce. “Fake lips and tits”? Really? Like, come on. You reduced her to body parts. Like she wasnt even a human being. If she saw this and at one point ended up going out with you, how do you think she’d feel?

As i said in the beginning, theres nothing wrong with stopping someone and starting a conversation, but where its appropriate. You had wrong timing, wrong setting, and wrong attitude. Sorry my dude, but this is just gross.

Edit: tagged OP

Captain_of_Skene · 2019-11-13T20:18:13+00:00

In Scotland you would be jailed and put on the sex offenders register for making this video

dkdldjsaos96 · 2019-11-13T19:11:13+00:00

am i the only one who got weird about this video??? lol this isnt cool

thenivnavs · 2019-11-13T16:39:55+00:00

She rejected me but because i know woman will reject you just because they eant to see how a man reacts, i ignored it and kept going. She could have just walked off but i kept going.

JacobMC-02 · 2019-11-13T22:39:37+00:00

Found OP

Flowerafro · 2019-11-13T22:41:54+00:00

Is this filmed at Oslo City?

TomHopeless · 2019-11-13T16:47:24+00:00

Little weird that you filmed it, but that's actually pretty helpful. Thanks!

PuroPincheGains · 2019-11-13T20:44:59+00:00

It's like there's people who follow this sub just to come in and shoot people down without understanding the concept of seduction at all.

theguy8432 · 2019-11-13T22:25:25+00:00

The title of this post made me think it was a shit post. I guess it’s not but I’m still not sure, very weird.

LeatherBoundWisdom · 2019-11-13T22:37:14+00:00

One thing I noticed was too much fidgeting, too much movement. I would work on outcome independence. If she wants to go, let her - no reason for you to care. You can keep talking, but I wouldn't move closer. Also be careful about unwanted escalation, that is creepiness.

Good job, keep approaching.

mackiecfh · 2019-11-13T22:41:45+00:00

This is fucking cringe

macadamia128 · 2019-11-13T22:43:42+00:00

Props to you, gotta shoot your shot. Idk why so many people hating on you. Not the best situation but well done

SmokingBeneathStars · 2019-11-13T19:24:07+00:00

I love this. It's basically the material that would help everyone most but is very hard to find. Raw footage of a set where people can criticise what was good, what was bad and some philosophies / psychological theories behind it. The only sad part is there's no sound and no script to make up for that.

I wanna see more of this on the sub

bemore_ · 2019-11-13T20:22:10+00:00

Well done on getting in there

We can see how nervous you are in the clip, in your face, your body language. Experience should help minimize these but it really comes down to beliefs. Take some time to think about why you feel the way you do when you want to meet a woman and see if you can reframe them

Keep it up!

FairAnalyst · 2019-11-13T21:18:06+00:00

Yo - nice job dude. Don’t listen to the limp wristed haters. Or people criticizing your technique you did mostly everything right.

Also you did it in a crowded area which most dudes can’t do.

Big thumbs up.

itzReborn · 2019-11-13T16:52:57+00:00

Did u get her number or anything? Good job btw, I still can’t approach

2019-11-13T19:44:37+00:00

Chad

bboyglitch · 2019-11-13T21:01:02+00:00

Good job bro! Keep at it😊👊🏽

Secrecy_Guaranteed · 2019-11-13T21:02:59+00:00

Share your openers my friend

2019-11-13T20:35:35+00:00

To people saying this video is wierd and uncomfortable, that's just a reflection of yourself because you don't want to look wierd while approach. Pick up is supposed to be uncomfortable and if you take this shit seriously you are going to make people feel wierd it's the process

2019-11-13T19:52:34+00:00

Nicely done, most men don't have the balls to even try. It's better to try and fail, then to not try at all! That's how you grow.

dickstellar · 2019-11-13T19:12:39+00:00

The importance of video! If it were me I wouldn’t notice too much about the leg crossing, I’m sure we all have something similar but without a camera how will we know?

Good job man great persistence you’re doing great

Shaunaestacaliente · 2019-11-13T21:25:54+00:00

You got balls really she looked intimidating

2019-11-13T22:40:39+00:00

Cringe

TigerDank · 2019-11-13T18:59:56+00:00

It looks like she was about to bail and you stood in there. I couldn’t have done it any better.

stumpk28 · 2019-11-13T18:25:03+00:00

Good job working up the nerve man! You were kinda fidgety, but it’s to be expected until you just do it so much you’re comfortable in that setting.

Wretmans · 2019-11-13T19:06:50+00:00

Vart kör du?

spicymichael · 2019-11-13T22:17:58+00:00

Good job dude. Do you film yourself talking to people like this a lot?

woosterthunkit · 2019-11-14T02:00:18+00:00

Asks for consent, doesn't get it, proceeds to push. You're just a role model aren't you

2019-11-13T19:19:16+00:00

Always stay until she leaves. Her telling you to leave or that shes busy is just a shit test

commander123456 · 2019-11-13T17:25:26+00:00

wow very good affort op nice job man

Altin_Beg · 2019-11-13T19:00:09+00:00

So did you smash? And what did you say exactly when you approached her?

Edit: lmao why am I getting downvoted for asking questions

NordRedditor91 · 2019-11-13T18:54:00+00:00

Why would you go for a woman that's taller than you?

SpanishIntuition · 2019-11-13T19:46:06+00:00

You're very attractive appearance wise so why would you need to feel anxiety? Also you're well dressed in this. Get your hair done.

And stop talking to older women. She looks like she's in her 40s. I'll bet $100 you could approach 100 women and if they don't have a boyfriend they will give you their number. For someone like you to feel nervous about approaching women is stupid

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