Thought experiment: describe your ideal companion

Senfor69 · 2024-04-13T21:23:32+00:00

What is this?

Some data collecting or ero fanfic convention?

Dense-Tell-6147 · 2024-04-14T02:06:59+00:00

European like me

Age: around mine

Personality: confident, calm, adventurous, elegant. Not shallow/flirtatious

Sex: we must desire each other profoundly

Interests: musician, art and history buff, well traveled (30+ countries), multilingual (at least 3) outdoorsy (likes cycling, hiking, skiing and camping in the wild), enjoys fine dining and wines, must have a craft she works to improve (painting, embroidery, cooking…)

Values: a lady, with modern beliefs, non-religious, sticks to science

How do you treat each other: with respect, affection, admiration - we are independent but we continuously choose each other

Body/Appearance: not necessarily overly athletic, but very feminine, don’t mind a couple lbs on the right place

Lifestyle: share the duties and enrich each other’s lives with our interests, go to each other’s concerts/events, travel the world

Do they aspire to have children: yes

ArtifactFan65 · 2024-04-14T04:23:02+00:00

My dream girl is a 5'8 hot bipolar hypersexual slutty sex demon with black hair who is constantly psychoanalyzing and thinking of new ways to mentally torture me and chains me to my bed and m*lests me in my sleep and plays video games with me all day.

Individual_Speech_10 · 2024-04-15T11:09:20+00:00

I want the male equivalent of myself.

Lilrip1998 · 2024-04-15T13:49:16+00:00

I’m dating mine , y’all stay safe though

baiser_vole · 2024-04-13T21:46:07+00:00

Close in age ideally. But I gravitated towards younger guys than older guys when I was single.
Don't care much about personality. Character is what matters.
Non-promiscuous, pro-delayed gratification
Some overlap in musical taste and cuisine is nice.
Pro-Christian virtues
I chose my partner because I believe no other guy could possibly treat me better than he would for life. It was how my mom chose my dad, and what I learned from their relationship.
Like actual family. I have had very good examples of how families should be imo.
Fit
I like pretty boys
Nothing over the top, and doing one's best to take as much burden off the other (also learned from my parents' relationship)
Not too many

Da_Famous_Anus · 2024-04-13T21:33:12+00:00

Age: within 15 years older or younger

Personality: someone who likes me and wants to be with me, is nice, and does not suffer from extreme npd or bpd - like personality disorders.

Sex: Likes sex and understands that it's important.

Interests: Literally doesn't matter. You are curious enough to have a read a book about something one time in your life.

Values: They value keeping our relationship together through thick and thin.

How do they treat you? Nice. Which means no games and they have no need to stir up drama in order to feel a certain way.

How do you treat them? Nice. Which means I don't have to be inauthentic.

Body: I could say that I would accept a body as fit as mine, but I realize that's very hard to expect from any woman. I'm willing to accept any body type that is not overweight. If you're overweight, you can change that.

Appearance: Whatever you're doing or trying out, your appearance is such that I'm bare minimum level attracted to you.

Lifestyle: I have a nice life with nice things. There's more than enough at home, in town, and in my life. I will not travel constantly just because you're bored.

Do they aspire to have children? Literally does not matter. I refuse to insist on having children with someone who is not enthused to do so with me.

y2kjanelle · 2024-04-14T00:40:23+00:00

age: same age or up to 4 years older. Basically someone who has graduated college just like I have recently.

personality: a type B who's more goofy, fun, and laid back. Im bubbly and social but also can be analytical and type A.

interests: they can have their own interests and spend time doing that alone or with me if I also like it. All I rly care about is that we have things we like to do together. I don't need a carbon copy of myself.

values: must be liberal (I grew up with conservatives and republicans and will never deny that I have a chip on my shoulder about it) and must be feminist. Feminist men aren't hard to find tbh they just aren't as vocal (which makes sense as an ally) and most are pretty cool and chill.

treatment: I want to laugh together and have fun. I want them to be able to communicate with me and treat me just..like a partner. With respect and love.

treatment of them: the same. I work hard to be good to my current partner. Definitely have more things to work on LMAO. But I aim to support him in everything and I love him. His input matters, always.

body: just not super skinny or like obese. prefer taller than me. ive dated from 5'4-6'4.

appearance: more of a boyish look. I don't like the scruffy super manly look. I just find it cheesy.

lifestyle: I mean pretty simple. I want to do things together. I want to have memories together. I want to live in a nice apartment where we aren't struggling or facing like poverty.

pretty much just described my bf. LMAO. we work together well most days. we're an opposites attract couple FS.

aslfingerspell · 2024-04-14T03:10:01+00:00

I'll bite.

Age: Close in age. To the extent that they are significantly apart from me (say 4 years or more), I'd prefer them to be older. People with more experience (in life or in relationships) don't bother me.

Personality: Adventurous in a local sense. Trying a new recipe for dinner or going on a vacation to another state would be our fun. We wouldn't need to travel the world.

Interests: Creative writing and outdoor exercise/sports is a plus, but honestly one of the things I've learned in life is that a lot of things I think I hate just need to be presented in the right way or by the right person.

Values: In terms of sexual politics/gender roles, personal independence and equal partnership in a casual way. We'd both have our own careers and personal projects, but we'd still support each other on an everyday level. As a practical example, either of us might do the laundry depending on who comes home first or who is more tired; we do not necessarily need to create a formal split of chores or keep score. We'd both be functional adults who live together who also happen to love each other and have sex.

Politically, it would really depend on the exact mix of beliefs and how strong they are. Liberal to progressive political beliefs are preferred in general, but I do have my disagreements with left-wing people and certain beliefs or coming on too strong would be a turnoff. If someone has centrist or mixed beliefs, I would prefer an economic conservative over a social conservative. I don't really care about your opinion on tariffs. If social views are mixed, basic things like "marriage ensures stable families" or "we need the police to ensure law and order" are fine; it's culture war tabloid-article takes like "The wokes are ruining video games!" that gets on my nerves.

Religion is much simpler: agnostics or atheists preferred, but people with non-proselytic religious beliefs (i.e. it's not a tenet to try to convert me) are welcome. I am willing to participate in rituals/holidays/ceremonies/prayers out of respect and community, as long as it's clear that I still have my own views, and do not feel pressured to convert or pretend/lie for sake of politeness.

How We Treat Each Other: We would both be "low maintenance" and share lots of romantic moments, but not necessarily feel a need for them a lot of the time. I understand that a lot of women do not want to become a "forever girlfriend", and I know that married couples don't like to feel like "roommates", but I have to admit that coming home to a woman who loves me would itself be amazing, even if we didn't have sex or even kiss on that particular day. I don't need to be taken around the world to feel loved, and I don't want to feel like I have to do that.

Body/Appearance: By definition the "ideal" would be 10/10, but for sake of at least some realism I would say a 7/10 fit woman would be my ideal. 7/10 and fit is probably the most attractive I could possibly be myself, and thus a 7/10 woman would be the most I could realistically "afford" if we want to have the whole SMV/RMV metaphors. A 7/10 person is attractive enough to be hot, but flawed enough to still have a unique appearance that doesn't make them look like the same model body we see every day in the media, while also not being so attractive that it would make other people too jealous of me.

Lifestyle/Children: I value material stability over material wealth; my hobbies are low-cost and I value functionality over style in most things, so for me money is more about having a cushion if life goes bad than fancy vacations, big houses, or luxury items. For kids, I intend to live a Double-Income, No-Kids lifestyle with a fellow working professional, both for myself and for the sake of supporting my aging parents and relatives who do plan on having kids. I want to be the "cool uncle/aunt" pairing of our family, if that makes any sense.

Jaded_Interaction162 · 2024-04-13T21:29:31+00:00

Age: up to 5 years older from 2 years younger than me
Personality: I like a guy with a keen bullshit detector who knows what's happening. A healthy amount of confidence, adept social skills, tolerant, loving.
Sex: 4x per week or more
Interests: I like outdoorsy guys but I also think someone who is well read and well versed in literary and philosophical topics would be cool to talk to
Values: They should believe in lifelong monogamy, loyalty, and have principals of some kind. But not be a huge buzz kill.
How do they treat you? Very nice but willing to have boundaries
How do you treat them? Loads of attention, homecooked meals
Body: height range is 5'8" - 6'2" I guess. Broad shoulders. Either fit or slim.
Appearance: dark brown or black longish hair, cute eyes, good teeth, nice nose.
Lifestyle: cohabiting partners, they need to be willing to keep the house clean but not be too much of a neat freak
Do they aspire to have children? Honestly IDK

My tastes have gotten a lot more boring and conventional.

DarayRaven · 2024-04-13T21:28:50+00:00

Here comes the autistic people and their entire spreadsheet

Ok, fuck it

Hot

Crazy in bed

28-33

Book/nerdy smart

Loves to be a slut

Fucks me 6x a week

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ilContedeibreefinti · 2024-04-13T21:40:35+00:00

• Age: 3-7 years younger

• Personality: friendly, sardonic, super nerdy, HIGHLY intelligent

• Sex: confident. Enjoys sex and being sexual.

• Interests: anything other than hiking, cycling and going out constantly.

• Values: more modern but the type who doesn’t try to change me.

• How do they treat you? As a partner building a life together. Respectfully.

• How do you treat them? See above.

• Body: I prefer a little overweight, wide hips, thicker thighs, very large chest.

•Appearance: brunette, large brown eyes, healthy white teeth, clean, dressed appropriately (meaning she has a personal style but not overly obsessed with makeup and clothing)

• Lifestyle: honestly I’d live pretty much however she wanted us to live as long as it wasn’t excessive or trying to keep up with others ($$)

• Do they aspire to have children? I’m open to having children if I knew she very much wanted kids and would be a loving, patient mother who wouldn’t sacrifice our relationship to wholly obsess over them.

MikeArrow · 2024-04-13T22:19:07+00:00

In hindsight, pretty much exactly like my ex. But since we're speculating, let's see:

Age: Today's my 35th birthday so let's say, early to mid 30's would be ideal. Younger than 30 I wouldn't feel comfortable with due to the difference in shared experiences growing up and overall social acceptability. Older than me wouldn't be a good fit because I'm already quite immature for my age (just being honest, I am a bit of a manchild in terms of my nerdy interests and hobbies).

Personality: A homebody like myself would be great, someone who can just exist in their own space who doesn't feel the need to go out all the time or constantly do planned activities.

Sex: For the full production, start to finish with all the extras? Let's say once a week. For less involved stuff that's still intimate but more casual (making out, cuddling, groping, etc), once a day. That's just based on my preferences, I don't really have the mental energy or physical fitness for significantly more than that. And that doesn't include stuff like flirting, texting and actively showing interest, which should be fairly consistent.

Interests: Liking the same movies and video games that I do would go a long way, so that we can connect based on those shared interests. Star Wars, Star Trek, sci-fi and fantasy in general. A D&D player would be the ultimate since we could attend the same games, workshop characters together, and so on. I could write custom adventures for them and make them feel special that way as well.

Values: Hard to say, just 'normal' I guess. Someone that isn't too far on any extreme. I scrupulously try to avoid causing offense and being rude, so someone who is polite and courteous would be good.

Body: I don't think I have any hard preferences here, but most of the women I've dated have been brunettes with a curvy body type.

Lifestyle: No kids, just two adults working hard and saving money to ensure a comfortable retirement together. The goal is to end up as those tourist couples that take cruises and travel in their 60's, while they can still enjoy those activities.

TLDR: A shy, nerdy girl would be my ideal partner.

januaryphilosopher · 2024-04-13T22:38:13+00:00

Same age, up to two years up or down. Introverted, intelligent, organised, nurturing, romantic, funny, loyal, caring, adventurous, honest, calm, affectionate. Up for sex every day or most days. Shares a few interests with me but mostly different (things I might find interesting but am not personally doing), probably leans nerdy. Treats me well, family is a priority, feminist or feminist ally, gives me a lot of trust and freedom that I return, up for switching some gender roles. Doesn't hold back with showing love, likes to spend lots of time together, leans towards domestic while I take care of more of the professional side of things, likes to be treated by me. Healthy weight and not athletic/muscular, smaller frame. Dark hair and eyes, cute smile, nice bum. Likes travel, wants to live in the city, serious about marriage, likes doing things in our free time not just sitting around. No children.

learn2earn89 · 2024-04-13T23:25:17+00:00

AGE: between 28-38 ( I’m 34)

PERSONALITY: reserved, quiet confidence, but thoughtful and introspective too

SEX: he’s sexual but not too much, maybe a little less than the avg. guy

INTERESTS: music, athleticism, learning

VALUES: a mixture of modern and traditional beliefs

HOW THEY TREAT ME: they see me as a person with thoughts and feelings first, so they’d treat me as such. I like my space but I also would like to cuddle and hug.

HOW I TREAT THEM: I’d give them what they want without losing my identity , of course

BODY: ideally tall but I have seen really handsome shorter men, I like a thin build with shoulders wider than their waist, longer legs even if they’re below 5’8”

APPEARANCE: large eyes, full head of hair (though I know it’s not realistic at my age), darker hair usually, average to larger nose, nice-ish jaw (doesn’t have to be chiseled), a beard helps. Slim build though a belly is cute.

Lifestyle: homebody but likes to go out occasionally, likes my family and friends, not a picky eater. He’d immerse himself in hobbies while also being attentive to his obligations. Not a messy guy, but also not a neat freak. Travel once a year at least, concerts a few times a year, interested in quality movies and tv shows. If he likes to read, even better. Buying a house together eventually.

CHILDREN: maybe one or two, but only if he is willing to be there for me when I need him.

tiddermacss · 2024-04-14T00:11:26+00:00

manifesting? cuckoo cuckoo 😂😂

WolfFamous6976 · 2024-04-14T00:19:51+00:00

Age: preferably ±3 years but I’m not particularly stingy about it as long as we generally are physically and emotionally compatible.

Personality-character traits : Emotionally self-aware/mature , down to earth, not “nice” but respectful. doesn’t take herself too seriously, and has a great sense of humor (aka laughs at all my dumb jokes). Is also confident, lady like and feminine, like Rachel Zane from suits.

Sex: doggy style (well occasionally). But in all honestly I really am a love maker sexually when I really like a girl. I like passionate intimate sex. Like tantric in a way.

Interests: any hobby she does that genuinely engages her attention and she’s highly interested in and passionate about. One that’s intellectual like art, literature, and one that’s active like yoga, a sport, dance etc.

How’s she treats me: expresses her love through acts of service physical touch and words of affirmation. She’s affectionate, caring and got my back. Always rooting for me. Also Isn’t afraid to speak her mind to me because she holds me to a high standard.

How I treat her: reciprocal, with genuine dignity and respect, and I encouraging and supportive of what she wants to do in life.

Values: moderately conservative, carries herself like a lady. To be honest I like spoiling women but I also find it attractive if a woman is self sufficient. Believes in maintaining a healthy fit body and its foundation for mental and emotional well being. We hold each other to a high standard on this particularly

Appearance: my type varies to some degree but ideally but a vibrant-Beauty, pretty and with a graceful figure, toned body, and sexy-classy fashion sense.

ConanTheCybrarian · 2024-04-14T07:58:50+00:00

Age: Close in age but younger
Personality: https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/LVA277M8Pp
Sex: Yes, please! (1-5x/ week, unless there are extenuating circumstances)
Interests: They are a life-time learner, interested in light, deep, and theoretical conversations. Ideally creative in some way, art, music. Badminton, bicycling, swimming, and whatever else they do to stay active.
Values: Their values align with mine on important things like ethics, morals, politics, finances, etc. They only differ on lesser topics.
How do they treat you?: How I ask to be treated
How do you treat them?: How they ask to be treated
Body: Anything from slim to "dadbod" is fine as long as they take care of themselves/ are healthy. No one super ripped or excessively obese (although both of those types would be weeded out by them being healthy).
Appearance: I find them attractive. This could include a lot of qualities. I prefer gingers in most cases, but not always.
Lifestyle: Mostly comfortable and chill with some travel and excitement throw in. As long as we've got some stability, are connecting, and having fun, I'm not too particular about this.
Do they aspire to have children? Not a deciding factor

AFuzzyMuffin · 2024-04-14T09:31:04+00:00

7 years to 5 years younger personality confident and polite sex —once to twice a week interests-gaming and anime and working out values-not trad con fully i treat them with respect and high value and they in turn the same—constantly want to give each other the best appearance-toned low bodyfat or even muscular both are hot on women for me

kids 3—one to two girls one boy to two boys but at least one girl/one boy

Upset_Material_3372 · 2024-04-14T09:52:21+00:00

Age, body and values: similar to myself.

Everything else: anything.

Mysterious_Plane7127 · 2024-04-14T11:07:30+00:00

I ain't got time fo' dat

To sum things up: someone who believes in me

Agile-Explanation263 · 2024-04-14T11:22:27+00:00

I hate the term and overusage of Manifesting.

But sure I'll enterain it.

Physically, pretty face, light curves, can be chubby, just/must smell great, nothing above 7 in terms of body count and just at least a little adventerous in tbe bedroom or at least has things she hasn't tried, age 19 to 50 if we have to specify.

Mentally, someone who almost always wants to include me, I'm thier favorite person to talk to about daily things (feelings, struggles insecurities, gossip etc) doesn't go out a ton and isnt focused on having a popular phase, has an interest in watching a variety of shows, videos or trying out new foods. Won't think less of me for my hobbies.

Throwwaway4970 · 2024-04-15T15:28:34+00:00

Age: 16-21 (yep, legal where I live). Personality: good sense of humor and knowing to fool around. Sex: daily. Interests: liking nature and doing new things and experiences is cool. Bars and clubs are not.

Values: family oriented but open minded, not strictly trad. Treatment: respect, communication and empathy. Body: big ass, big tits, good hip to waist ratio, gym and doing sports is a good plus. Appearance: good face structure. Lifestyle: check interests. Children: yes

Ayaka_Simp_ · 2024-04-13T21:29:28+00:00

Beyoncé's more attractive cousin. That's it.

IronDBZ · 2024-04-13T21:34:35+00:00

I'll bite.

Age: Slightly older or same age.
Personality: So long as they're kind and mentally sharp, I don't care what else they've got going on. Maybe being emotionally stable the vast majority of the time? I've been with someone who was bipolar, it gets scary sometimes. I'd rather not, if I could help it.
Sex: Ideally, down most of the time but willing not to without getting pissy. It's easier to meet someone else's needs if they have enough needs to meet my needs. If that makes sense.
Interests: So long as they respect my hobbies and we can share or experience new ones, I don't need someone with the exact same. In fact, sharing hobbies might create bad feedback loops. If we're both lazing around doing the same thing, we're gonna rot away.
Values: Modern sensibilities, but more old school disposition. I like forward thinking people. But I also like people who mean and practice what they say. A lot of more forward thinking people can be wishy-washy. But the problem isn't the ideas, it's all the excuses they make to not be consistent about them.
How do they treat you? Like someone they want to live their life with.
How do you treat them? Like someone I want to live my life with.
Body: Whatever looks best on them, and fits together with me.
Appearance: She'll probably look good in black eyeliner, even if she doesn't wear it.
Lifestyle: Preferably cleanly. I will handle the cleaning so long as she doesn't fuck it up or take it as a personal judgement.
Do they aspire to have children? It's more important that they like kids than want them. It's a very popular idea to consider kids to be gross or annoying, and for the life of me, I don't get how people (especially ones who don't even live with or have them) can have that much hate for the people who you can blame the least for being a pain in the ass. They can grow, they will change. Never made sense to me. I think childbirth is too dangerous to risk the life of someone you love on, I'd rather adopt honestly. There's no part of pregnancy that I'd want to put my girlfriend/wife through.

Safinated · 2024-04-13T21:49:33+00:00

A mature adult who likes and doesn’t offend me

Yay! I already won!

UnexploitableVictim · 2024-04-13T22:31:46+00:00

Age: 1-2 years older than me. Sees me as fun and energetic

Personality: Reserved, I seem to be more outgoing with more reserved women and they don't mind

Sex: Yes

Interests: Hiking, rock-climbing, kayaking, camping, plz no gamer girls

Values: Uhhh not a dick and is able to argue without yelling

How Treat: Can get angry but never insult. I prefer women who don't have mood swings.

Body: Thinish so they can do activities I previously mentioned

Appearance: long-hair and likes to wear ponytails (idk it's just a thing I have)

Lifestyle: Can be convinced to go out but maybe isn't their preference. , clingy, wants to live together, and children yes

marmotjacket · 2024-04-14T01:45:27+00:00

At this point, any woman that isn’t obese, has a decent face, wants sex a few times a week, is nice and not crazy, can carry on a decent conversation and even be a little funny once in a while, and has somewhat above average intelligence….would be a dime piece to me. Most women that can pass basic thresholds on a few basic things like this are heavily sought after and already snatched up. Every available woman over 35 I know is at least a partial train wreck.

Friedrich_Friedson · 2024-04-14T12:07:32+00:00

Age: For just sex, irrelevant as long as they are legal age. For relationships, around my age or 2-3 years older/younger

Personality: Funny, confident, outgoing,kind, sincere, curious, smart.

Sex: They just want to fuck wherever in mood.

Interests: They are Very artistic. They like videogames/movies/books and have hobbies and/or jobs in something creative (music, writing, acting, filmmaking etc).

Values: Same as mine

Body: Either fit/muscular ,slim or thick

Appearance: i dunno tbf. Probably red or black hair, nice legs, optional big boobs, cute face.

Lifestyle: We are both artists and do artistic projects and all that stuff. She is not sure about kids.

DFVSoldHisOptions · 2024-04-14T02:45:57+00:00

Her:

Age: 18-24, Chinese.
Personality: Reserved or outgoing are both fine. I am an introvert but nobody thinks that when first meeting me.
Background: Great academically. Student. Attends a good university. Non-rich parents. From an average or below average household.
Interests: No social media. Someone who likes to think, whether it be in sports, video games, card games, or mahjong.
Values: Prefer a virgin. Aspires to be an academic. Intellectually curious.
Body: 18-21 BMI
Appearance: Pale. 1.58 - 1.68m in height. Pretty.

Me:

Age: Nearing 30. Chinese.
Personality: Outgoing at first glance.
Background: Great acdemically. Raised in poverty. Relatively high income.
Interests: No social media. Someone who likes to think, whether it be in sports, video games, card games, or mahjong.
Body: 23 BMI. Fit. Still got abs but not nearly as defined as before.
Appearance: Good looking/Good height. Got asked out/to be bf about 10 times in past.

My ideal girl if you asked me 10 years back, prob still is. It is also someone within my reach, but I don't plan on pursuing her. Long-term relationships are not important to me. My body count is high now and it led me to view and prefer relationships as casual.

Present-Afternoon-70 · 2024-04-13T21:43:58+00:00

Age:

As long as they are able to give informed meaningful consent.

Personality:

Caring, thoughtful, respectful, self confident, appropriate emotional regulation.

Sex

Not important as any relationship i am in is ethically non monogamous anyway.

Interests

As long as the ones we have we enjoy together thats fine.

Values

Appropriate loyalty, trust, and respect. Responsibility to manage the spheres they have in the relationship. Ill respect their beliefs and expect them to respect mine.

Body/Appearance

Dont care most people are generally attractive.

Lifestyle

Whatever makes us contented.

Do they aspire to have children?

Yes either by myself, another partner, or adoption as long as i am the primary father.

Konoha_Shinobee · 2024-04-13T22:45:04+00:00

Likes things I like So fantasy and horror books Video games Adventure (hiking, swimming climbing skills)

Fun loving, not too easily offended.

Ideally she can cook

Good enough with people so my parents like her.

I love to spoil women, so I don't mind expensive tastes.

Apart from that, not fat. I like petite girls. Prettier is always better of course,but I'm not picky on face, just not ugly.

uh-wat13 · 2024-04-14T00:16:12+00:00

Age: >18, <25 hopefully, i don't mind old women, but plz don't be used up lol
Personality: shy, introverted, slightly autistic, agreeable
Sex: three and at least once every day
Interests: plays fps games, minecraft, likes working out, or just chill
Values: i like a women who makes money, considerate, and moderate, strong political affiliation is kinda cringe
How do they treat you? being w/ me physically all day every day, being my emotional support, and taking care of my sexual urges
How do you treat them? i'll take her everywhere i go so i won't be lonely, put her in diapers on weekends, and cuff her to our bed when we sleep so she can't run away
Body: i prefer well built women at least 5'7(tho i am only 5'8), don't have to have much muscle but plz don't be anorexic, plz don't be overweight, i am pretty fit so hopefully that's fair, sorry
Appearance: i've always had a thing for white women, not all of them of course, just a select few w/ certain facial features, so i kinda prefer medium ugly ones b/c i'll be more comfortable interacting w/ them and they won't look down on me as much, i know ppd likes to shit on ugly men and women alike but i am pretty sure a lot of them are nice ppl overall
Lifestyle: i'd buy a house and we'd live there until something happens, i am not much of a traveler and hopefully i don't have to travel often
Do they aspire to have children? YES!!! i want four kids! how else am i supposed to spend the rest of my life and my fortunes?

edit: i need to say, i am a sucker for women w/ long legs, espcially those who wear jeans of inseam 50% of their height, they're rare tho, about 1/20 women and they're mostly indian or black but they get my stare anyway

FromAuntToNiece · 2024-04-14T01:52:58+00:00

There's the one and only LO02.

I myself have been romantically limerent, or in limerence, since 1994. I've been nominally limerent for an aunt - niece pair for 30 years now, and counting. I've been seriously limerent for that same aunt - niece pair (LO01 and LO02, respectively) for at least 22 of those years.

This one relationship has united the majority of the years, indeed.

I was romantically limerent for my "first love," ex-LO LO01, from 1994 to 2010. As a Boomer, she is the aunt of LO02.

I have been romantically limerent for my current LO, LO02, since 2008. As an elder Millennial, she is the niece of LO01.

SecondEldenLord · 2024-04-14T10:56:46+00:00

Interesting, I will give it a go.

AGE: Younger than me, between 18 and 30 ( I am 33, don't come at me with pitchforks for preferring younger women)

PERSONALITY: somewhat shy and somewhat outgoing, nerdy, funny, supportive and understainding, optimist and having a good vibe overall

SEX: once every 2 or 3 days would suffice for me, do not have the same sex drive I used to.

INTERESTS: video games, movies and gym would be ideal for me. A big plus if they are into the paranormal.

VALUES: traditional preferably, being family oriented, having a low body count or being a virgin, being selfless and caring for others, would love if they would worship me and be obsessed with me and I would treat them the same.

BODY: slim waist like 60 cms, big natural boobs like 36 DD or more, big butt like 90 cms or more.

APPERREANCE: long red hair till it reaches their waist, blue eyes, puffy red lips, wouldn't mind them wearing glasses either, good smooth skin

LIFESTYLE: laid back, not stressing about life, wanting children only on the right moment, being funny and finding all sort of interesting topics to talk about.

Title	Thought experiment: describe your ideal companion
Author	HumpsyDumpsy
Upvotes	7
Comments	61
Date	April 13, 2024 9:13 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1c3cc5n/thought_experiment_describe_your_ideal_companion/
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