I’ve always had an attraction to girls/women that are slightly older than me, not actual cougars that are 10 years+ older than me, but more so around the 3-6 years older range. When I was in high school, I had crushes on the senior girls that looked so much older and mature than me.

When I was 19, and working at a movie theater/restaurant/brewery place, there were definitely a couple of servers that were around 22-25 and I remember they were so nice to me and I’m fairly positive one of them (aged 23 at the time) had a crush on me. Not only was she really kind and caring to me as a friend, there were a couple of times where I could tell she was visibly nervous/flustered talking to me. I was also really into lifting at the time, and my arms and chest got really big. When I was carrying a heavy ass drink tray with one arm she literally grabbed my arm and fondled my arm and said I was so strong. I never really made a move on her and I ended up dating this 17yo girl who was a senior at my old high school. So she ended up dating another one of my coworkers.

So i ask the women of the sub in the age range this: what do y’all think of younger guys, or guys younger than you in general. Especially those aged 18-21? I am currently 21 but as long as I shave I can definitely still pass for a teenager 16-18. I am not the biggest guy ever but I started lifting weights consistently a couple years ago and my chest and arms are pretty big. I’m strong, but I’m still skinny, 5’8 140lbs. Every girl I’ve dated were nothing short of beautiful, way out of my league in my opinion. And they all said I was cute/hot. If I lean into a “cute” young twink look, will I have a shot at dating older girls?