One of the repeated complaints from men is that women only swipe on men who are out of their league, and that these men have no interest in an LTR with mediocre women. This fact is borne out, both on social media and in swipe statistics. Women just can't help themselves. They're suckers for a pretty face and a six-pack.

They'd have more fulfilling dating experiences if they researched their competition before they start swiping. They need to visit local parks or stroll around a Whole Foods on a Saturday afternoon. They ned to see all the 8s and 9s that are out in their yoga outfits or jogging in tight shorts and tank tops. They need to realize that dating is a competition, and they need to take a look at beautiful women, then look in the mirror and think realisticall about their chances.

But they don't. They shoot their shot, hope for the best, and end up in a series of hookups and situationships. Meanwhile, the handsome, successful men are in the park pursuing those beautiful women. Those are the women who win out.

Mid women (i.e. most of them) would do themselves a huge favor by going out and touching grass. It would help them realize that pursuing in-demand men is a contest that they aren't going to win.