Because nobody is going to help you more than you can help yourself, ever. "Alpha" dependence on the pack is its greatest strength and weakness. They'll always be a slave to their position at the top of the pack and the validation required to maintain it. As soon as they slip their so called "pack" is ready to replace them.

The sigma enjoys many benefits of the alpha as a higher ranking position than most and may even find themselves in the alpha position, but they know pack loyalty can be fickle when times are tough and being an alpha, unlike a sigma, requires pack validation. The alpha lusts for power to maintain their position and in time it consumes them. The sigma sees power for what it is, a tool, and uses it to its fullest, but doesn't become attached to it lest it consume them.

A true sigma will shun labels and identity as a whole while recognizing and taking full advantage of their utility. Political affiliations and belief structures will be recognized for their true deceptive nature by the sigma. They understand man created god and religion not the other way around. The only higher power is the universe itself and it manifested you over billions of years... are you really gonna let some other person or their imaginary god tell you what you're supposed to do? Play the game, recognize we live in two worlds, the natural one that created us and the pretend one that we created... for the dudes this means yes she was in fact created to desire you, but you have to at least make the effort, let the rest manifest cause that's what nature intended and what we do best!