Say the same thing to every date

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biscuitcatapult · 2024-07-26T18:47:43+00:00

Finally, someone is more of a sociopath than me in this sub.

Gullible_Amoeba6488 · 2024-07-26T20:15:50+00:00

I like this flavor of autism

Bikerbats · 2024-07-26T18:49:07+00:00

You know actually dating is a helluva lot more fun than doing pseudo-scientific experiments under the guise of dating right? Seriously, why would any sane person waste their time on that?

OffTheRedSand · 2024-07-26T20:06:14+00:00

keep notes of responses

like, do i have to bring a pen and a paper to the date or do i have to remember my questions and their answers after the date?

again i don't understand why so much autisim exist in this sub. is autisim that prevalant? isn't it like 3% of the population

Ok-Dust-4156 · 2024-07-26T19:02:08+00:00

Any attempts to do it rationally are futile. Feelings are irrational. There's nothing you can do to increase your chance, but there are things that will decrease it. Behaving like a robot is one of those things.

MyLastBestChance · 2024-07-26T20:20:15+00:00

That would be great if you were living “50 First Dates” or going out with the exact same amnesiac repeatedly 🙄

RelativeYak7 · 2024-07-26T18:52:32+00:00

The recording part is creepy but I do think more people should lay their cards on the table early to avoid wasting time. Kids, no kids, weird fetish, poly? Great, just say it and move along.

Good_Result2787 · 2024-07-26T18:43:52+00:00

Recording dates seems a little odd. Can't you just do a mental playback? An audio recording won't recall the impressions of nuance and facial expressions, which can also be important.

Friedrich_Friedson · 2024-07-26T18:46:39+00:00

Why tf Would i do that

By saying different things to different people you change the conditions of the experiment or date and thus remove knowledge about what actually generally works.

Yeah because get that, people are different lmao.

SaBahRub · 2024-07-26T18:59:47+00:00

Recording someone without their permission is illegal in many states

Unique_Mind2033 · 2024-07-26T18:54:48+00:00

That's so bizarre, that wouldn't occur to me within 100,000 years

ComfortableJeans · 2024-07-26T18:54:19+00:00

Back before you could order food through an app, I used to have a mental script for how I wanted food orders to go. They say one thing off script and you fall apart.

Those were dark days.

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Cethlinnstooth · 2024-07-26T18:50:38+00:00

What happens when you have a situation in which saying the same thing as before is just stupid?

gntlbastard · 2024-07-26T19:00:17+00:00

Did you see that ludicrous display last night?

Subie- · 2024-07-26T19:08:55+00:00

Pretty much. To the matches I’m not interested in I’ll continue a conversation to keep building up social skills with women. Some are boring, like talking to a brick wall. A literal bro has better convos than one liners walled girls. But to ones I find attractive I’ll put in more effort which is few and far between on dating apps. Needle in a haystack unicorn.

chalkandapples · 2024-07-26T19:29:36+00:00

That's the kind of thing I do naturally. Naturally I would ask similar questions or behave similarly on each date, and make changes or improvements if I see a clear pattern of either positive or negative results. It sounds weird when you say it out loud like this, but that's how I naturally got better at dating.

At one point I had a spreadsheet until I realized I didn't need it, I can analyze all this in my head just fine. I appreciate you fellow weirdo :)

Perfect-Resist5478 · 2024-07-26T20:00:28+00:00

11 states have 2 party laws for recording… so don’t do this

NewPomegranate2898 · 2024-07-26T20:05:49+00:00

I recorded a date with my ex when we first started to hangout. But it was during a paranoid episode and I was doing jt to feel safe for some reason. So I think you need to take some time and figure out the real reason you feel like recording audio

IronDBZ · 2024-07-26T20:40:35+00:00

The polar opposite of rizzin em with the tism

jay10033 · 2024-07-26T22:09:32+00:00

Name checks out. Fun idea.

sprckets21 · 2024-07-26T18:54:22+00:00

You don’t need a script just ask her questions and play off her. Get her talking about her life and interests. You go on for 3 minutes straight on something she will hear at least one red flag.

There was this guy last night I was sitting next to at a bar and he was on an online date. This guy telling her about how great his job is and what he runs, how he went to Italy and saw so many incredible things, he started talking about how you have to live with a girl before you marry, and what he wants in a girlfriend. She gave me a look like omg save me from this man, he was being so braggy and annoying.

Hour-Teach-764 · 2024-07-26T18:44:36+00:00

Don’t do that ffs

Combatenjoyer23 · 2024-07-26T18:46:25+00:00

Seems like an interesting psychological experiment

Title	Say the same thing to every date
Author	debuugger
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Date	July 26, 2024 6:38 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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