Is it even worth learning night game?

Holiday_Treacle6350 · 2024-08-26T06:20:59+00:00

its a lot of fun with the right people. But no totally you don't have to, focus on your strengths :)

Mysterious_Pickle_78 · 2024-08-26T09:28:37+00:00

Nightgame is good but it requires a different set of skills compared to daygame.

Most dudes just get drunk and talk to woman with high energy and occasionally bed one of them without any nightgame experience. But you can't do that during the day... It's easier because almost all the girls are like single and horny so most of the time you can hit.

Daygame is harder and requires more skills. The social risk is higher.

MyUsername0_0 · 2024-08-26T10:51:13+00:00

Honestly I think its easier to get a high quality women during the day. I feel like really attractive ones are more on guard at night imo. It's definitely easier to pull at night but usually it's going to be mid girls are okay looking girls at best. (Unless you're super attractive like a 9/10)

You can also try calmer places like lounges or bars where it's not as rowdy, honestly those are easier to converse with people.

Everyone is different though, I have an easier time at night than during the day because there's more volume so I can hammer them out.

Conjoined_Triangles · 2024-08-26T13:29:15+00:00

Not going to lie, of all the types of game night game is a lot of work. I say this because you need to find venues that have girls, you have so many variables for interruption when talking to someone, you need to match their energy levels which can be hard for some, and then you need to problem solve for how to get them to your place.

There are some behavior shifts that you need to make for night game to work. Like knowing how to talk to a girl in a loud environment and getting better at kino escalation.

The common thing I see most in night game is guys that will go solo and end up being a wall flower. You have to combat this right away or that becomes your whole night. Some people do it with drinking but if you start talking with some people can snowball that into approaches. So far my strategy to do this is accountability partnership. I pay a friend money I don't want to lose, if I don't approach I lose the money.

I would say its still worth it though on these conditions. If it's a Friday/Saturday night and you have no dates, absolutely go out even if you're solo. It's better than staying home doing nothing.

Chicagoj1563 · 2024-08-27T01:34:35+00:00

Night game seems to have a much higher abundance of attractive women. Some places you won’t see an attractive women during the day all week. You have to consider your location and the options that are available to you.

Mc_Dickles · 2024-08-26T06:39:46+00:00

I’m a big night game advocate, but I will also admit that it’s difficult and not for everyone. I’m also slowly thinking it’s not for me. I know I love the rush of meeting someone and speedrunning all the bases. Going from “how’s your night going” to rubbing on her knee and whispering in her ear and making out. I like loud music, I like dancing, I like the feeling of letting loose and dressing up and looking hot for the night.

I’ve been drinking a lot more than I normally do. I used to get drunk every couple of months and now I’m drunk maybe twice a weekend. I try to night game every weekend with friends or solo, but it’s also been leading to this creeping dependency on alcohol with the excuse of “loosening up.” I’m young and these are the best years to ruin my liver lol but yeaaaah I’m trying not to make it some crazy habit.

Is it worth learning night game? IMO Yes; night game is the dating version of skydiving. It’s a rush and it’s scary but it’s also really fun and highly rewarding. I think you get the same effect as day gaming but you also are potentially greeted with even more. Day game has you chasing girls for a few weeks going through texting, trying to arrange dates, trying to conversate and escalate, and hoping you don’t get ghosted. Night game has you do all of that in an hour or less, and if you fail then you simply move onto the next and try again. But that’s if you can stop yourself from chickening out. Too many girls come in groups and not every girl wants to talk to you. You just gotta keep it pushing.

Even though you just read all that, I’m still gonna say that night game is probably not your type of game. If you don’t like clubs sober then you’re definitely not gonna like them drunk or high, there’s no trying to convince. It’s not your type of thing. BUT if you decide to rule out night game, then you better not be a fucking pussy during day game. Or just do both. Mainly day game and then just night game mmm maybe once a month.

theasianplayboy · 2024-08-26T10:57:41+00:00

Each form of game has its pros and cons. Night game, in particular, gives you a high volume of opportunities to approach beautiful women in a short amount of time, which is perfect for learning fast, experimenting a lot, and getting instant results. Plus, the beauty of night game is that your mistakes don’t matter the next day—it’s all about refining your skills in a pressure cooker environment.

However, it’s true that night game can be a much more hostile environment. It’s designed to weed out the socially weak, and the competition is fierce. But like I always say, there are no obstacles, only opportunities to succeed.

The key is to see night game as a training ground. It’s where you can build your confidence, sharpen your skills, and get comfortable with high-pressure situations. You’re going to face rejection, you’re going to encounter setbacks, but that’s part of the process. It’s about taking those hits and coming back stronger each time.

Check out my infield video where I approach a massive group of 10 girls at the club. Notice how I navigate the environment, control the interaction, and make my presence felt. That’s the level of command you want to aim for: Watch here.

TripleDigitNomad · 2024-08-26T11:16:20+00:00

If you're in your 20s and can handle long nights out, then it can be quite fruitful, but these days, I find it to be a waste of time and energy compared to other forms of game like OLD and social game.

SparkedIntoLife · 2024-08-26T10:39:32+00:00

When my divorce has finalised, I’m going to be working on night game despite really disliking clubs. But then again, I’m seeing it as part of a bigger journey to be better with women, not necessarily a place to meet my next girlfriend. Day game feels much better to me. But it also suits my strengths more - directness, emotional connection etc.

Night game involves more indirect, fun not logical and testing social boundaries communication. I currently am not great at that so want to improve. Plus night game brings up a lot of unforeseen obstacles and requires one to be a bit of a social puppeteer. It’s easier in some ways, harder in others.

I feel that improvement in night game will strengthen my game in general. Plus my social circle isn’t especially impressive so night game is a reasonable way to build it up.

That’s just me. You are on a different journey.

Dry_Manufacturer3846 · 2024-08-26T14:18:23+00:00

If you’re still in your 20s, I recommend it highly. Some of the reasons are: 1. Talking in loud clubs will improve your vocals and you can carry that in daygame. 2. Approaching women in groups will improve your handling of social dynamics. This will help in approaching group sets in daytime. (Family groups are awkward though) 3. Competition in clubs/bars will develop a sense of urgency when you are going out to approach.

I am personally not that great in daygame so not sure how point 3 applies. But first 2 will help you in daygame.

RobustMastiff · 2024-08-26T15:48:01+00:00

If you hate going to the club, you’re not gonna find women you enjoy being around there. Focus on what YOU want to do

The-Royal-Fork · 2024-08-26T17:12:17+00:00

Hmmm. Honestly the night game isn’t so worthwhile for you if you don’t enjoy it.

You’re better off continuing hitting on women in the parks and dating apps.

MouseAware809 · 2024-08-26T19:47:33+00:00

I'm not one for Nightclubs, I prefer bars, lounges and patios.

I also like doing a bit of street game at night time.

But if the night scene is not for you, I would say try day game. The only thing with nightgame, is the sheer volume. It is like a dojo for getting over Approach Anxiety, practicing kino escalation, etc.

immabeeimmab · 2024-08-27T01:48:39+00:00

It’s the easiest and fastest way to get girls by far

No-Preference8767 · 2024-08-26T06:22:24+00:00

For you personally yes . You should t be leaving a club with 0 approaches unless there's like no single women there

epimpstyle · 2024-08-26T08:24:28+00:00

In nightgame bar/club/events you can see than more than 90% of the girls look good, they are dressed nice and they have a nice makeup...this is an advantage because you see many girls on a square meter., it is easier to choose. In day game is not the same because most of them are not interested to look good because they go home from their workplace, go shopping etc it makes no sense to do their makeup and look good.

Even if you are shy, a bar/club/event makes things easier because if you are in such a venue at 10pm and you see a girl for example, at 10:10pm you make eye contact again, at 10:20pm you meet her again and you make eye contact... now you can see how easy it is even for a shy guy to start a conversation with her. (because you already seen her for 2-3 times). Also, if you go there at 10 pm, until 11 pm for example, you have time to look for the single girls in a group of girls, so in this case you have a little advantage because you won't approach a girl with a boyfriend.... also you have time to see which girl has an open body language and looks more approachable.... there are all kinds of small things that you can use to your advantage to make your life easier. On daygame you don't have this luxury to "scan" the room for the right girls .... so you can say that nightgame gives you an advantage, leaving aside that many girls go to a bar/even/club to have fun because it is a social place and they want to meet new guys, on daygame they don't expect to meet new guys.

You don't have to learn too much for the night game, because in such a place everything is allowed, even if you do a silly thing, the other person will assume you are tipsy, even if you shout in the street, everyone will think you are drunk, not that you are an idiot, so no one will judge you, it is an advantage.

pendragon2290 · 2024-08-26T13:57:42+00:00

I would recommend it simply because that is just extra experience under your belt. You don't have to constantly pursue night game but if you sharpen those skills, even if just marginally it will help long term.

I also don't like night clubs but I made sure to approach even if I felt uncomfy. Now it isn't uncomfy.

Affectionate-Ant4888 · 2024-08-26T16:15:53+00:00

experience on the field is important no matter the setting, night game is where you ll find the most to practice lol

MrPound4Pound · 2024-08-26T14:54:06+00:00

"I hate that there's a ton of competition for mediocre women"

Competition? I go out a lot and I feel like I'm the only one approaching out in the walking paths of the night club venues.

In the club itself? All I see are a bunch of dudes standing in the outskirts of the dance floor watching the group girls dancing just standing there. The rest are in the corner sipping on alcohol with their other hand in their pocket doing you guessed it, just standing there.

One night, I approached a 3 set by myself after watching a bunch of dudes just hover around them and not one of them made a move the entire night. I went in made a move after seeing them go away and started dancing my way close to them.

I was probably the only one that said something to them or actually made a move within a span of 10 minutes of them just dancing. I got close and built some initial rapport. I tried to escalate but I think I escalated too quickly and strongly and was cockblocked by one of the friends lol. I'll be making adjustments next time and fix what I did wrong.

I did notice some guys saw my failed attempt and were laughing at me. Guess what they were doing? They were in the corner all of em drinking alcohol. Not one chick in sight around them.

There is no competition lol.

Inductionist_ForHire · 2024-08-26T06:41:36+00:00

If your goal is a serious relationship with a great woman, it’s almost certainly not worth it.

mallocco · 2024-08-26T07:53:46+00:00

Idk if it's a thing in your city, but try to find events where you can be a volunteer bartender. You get to talk to literally everyone. It's a great way to hone your speaking skills with strangers. Plus you can test jokes/banter. Everyone loves you. You get free drinks. You can be flirty, but then- boom- you walk away to go serve another customer.

It's actually a ton of fun too. But then there's the off-chance you rizz up some girls and one of them keeps going back to the bar looking for you. You'll know when they pass up other bartenders to find your "section."

If she lingers and chats you up, ask for her number. Easy as that.

testylentil · 2024-08-26T16:31:29+00:00

There's a zillion other options for that time of night than trashy clubs with horrific pop music. I'd say look for something else to do, and use clubs as a last resort.

Viktor2500 · 2024-08-26T06:27:58+00:00

You go there to approach, normal people go there to have fun. Approaching/meeting girls is just a byproduct of that.

bmcapers · 2024-08-26T06:41:54+00:00

Not really. This type of game is only a subset to a much larger ecosystem, which we haven’t scraped the surface of. We’re only exposed to coaches and groups who know this specific experience, but society and culture are much more grand, diverse, and complex.

Title	Is it even worth learning night game?
Author	Electronic_d0cter
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Comments	51
Date	August 26, 2024 6:11 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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