Do Red Pill men get desensitized to female beauty?

King_conscience · 2024-11-20T19:08:18+00:00

Idk what you mean here

I mean every guy has their type honestly

Beautiful women are still beautiful women to me

Zabadoodude · 2024-11-20T19:07:13+00:00

I don't think it's the redpill, but more repeated exposure. For most people, sleeping around gets old after a while. Once you've had a few gorgeous women they lose their power over you.

I think when those guys say they don't see any 95%ers anymore, they mean they don't see women that can make them lose their heads just by their beauty. I can definitely relate to this.

Altruistic_Ad_0 · 2024-11-20T19:14:39+00:00

Desensitization will happen to anybody. Male or female. With the internet we already know beauty standards are rising. And probably because some people are better at Photoshop and Instagram filters than others. We subconscious prefer people who are pretty. This is a well known fact. Our feeds get filled with these pretty people. And our perception of the world changes as a result. As a young teen who only followed people who I knew years ago, I did not get this. But many of my friends did. Celebrity worship is also a form of this. Everything is based on personal consumption of multi media including IRL.

No-Rough-7390 · 2024-11-20T21:18:34+00:00

I’m not desensitized to it, it’s just not foreign to me.

A beautiful woman is a beautiful woman. Im just way more cognizant of what may be coming along with the package.

cromulent_weasel · 2024-11-20T22:00:21+00:00

Eh, I think everyone benchmarks everything to get a sense of what is normal. How your boss treats you, what your salary is, what you car looks like, how often you eat out, what effort your partner puts into their appearance, how much exercise you get etc etc etc

Social media is a contagion in the sense that it warps the consumer's sense of what normal is.

saywhatitis11 · 2024-11-20T19:43:33+00:00

The RP doesn’t desensitize anything. When you have one option, she’s your hottest option. When you have 50, you have to prioritize because you don’t have time for them all. So you pick according to whatever are your attraction cues and turn offs. Women do the same thing. As your options grow, you’ll tend to pick the best of that option group.

just_a_place · 2024-11-20T22:44:40+00:00

I would say no. The fact that we can attract and get with hot and sexy girls means we see more shit than the average bear and we're not blindsided by women's physical beauty and attractiveness. We see every flaw. And we become much less tolerant of them.

At first yes, when I was in high school I was cocky and full of myself at being able to get so much female attention but with time I started to see more. Shit that other guys in the sidelines don't see. A hot and beautiful girl might be a total drama queen. She may be cute and hot but be a total fucking weirdo believing in moon spirits or some other crap. But most often, they are just plain uninteresting, their looks are their personality. They do not even bother having opinions of their own and just go with the flow.

PM_ME_YOUR_DONGERZ · 2024-11-20T20:33:10+00:00

i don't need rp for that, porn did just a fine job

Ok-Assistant-1220 · 2024-11-21T19:05:57+00:00

Less vulnerable. You can identify Beauty, but Not simp.

FreitasAlan · 2024-11-21T20:29:56+00:00

Beauty is still beauty. What can happen is a 9/10 is beauty is no longer a 9/10 overall because now you’re not only considering beauty. That’s independent from any ideology.

Beautiful_Bunch_6079 · 2024-11-21T20:53:55+00:00

I didn’t sleep around, and I didn’t watch excess corn or anything, but I do notice that I don’t really check women out or anything.

I also never hit on women per Se. Aside from my first gf. Every other woman had come to me first so I guess I’m lucky there

My relationship life and prospects are pretty great too. As a matter of fact my lack of thirstiness gives my partner peace of mind a lot.

I guess at some point I became turned off of the idea of men being like dogs or something , I don’t want to be a slave to that kind of stuff.

I can’t think of a time I really turned my head to check women out for sexual reasons, even though I can point to very recent experiences in the gym around a guy who would do exactly that.

-he says check that out - I look and realizes he’s gesturing to this girl - I shrug it off

That’s basically how I am. I think there are many people who look great and all but I just don’t really seem that sensitive to being woo’d over by just looks alone.

Even in bed I don’t really get off that easily, I now would rather spend my time pleasing my partner so I don’t give my partner the impression that she’s unattractive or anything.

I can see beautiful women all the time yet I have no desire to sleep with them mostly. It would take a woman entering my space and becoming a part of my life to get me to even get to that point

Raii-v2 · 2024-11-20T22:13:11+00:00

Absolutely true.

Once a man (RP or not I guess) deals with enough women that are conventionally beautiful. He values it less overall, because so the fuck what?

Very fun for sexy time, otherwise you better show me you have some sort of skill outside of looking pretty.

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FluffyAgency6173 · 2024-11-21T02:31:29+00:00

This is like astrology for weird ass men. You do realize you can work out and get a good job without being a manipulative asshole right?

giveuporfindaway · 2024-11-22T03:10:29+00:00

All men can theoretically get tired of pussy, but few men reach that point. A few notable ones come to mind. There's Dan Blizrrian who's now married. We have Charlie Sheen who got so bored of sex that he would just play online poker instead of screwing the hookers he hired. There's also Gaddafi, who got so bored of raping women that he switched to men.

The vast majority of men won't be able to exhaust their sexual hunger in their lifetime (outside of libido dropping and erectile dysfunction).

BobtheArcher2018 · 2024-11-22T12:09:14+00:00

Yes. The hedonic treadmill is real for all humans, and you can become desensitized to anything. I know players who have trouble being attracted at all to decently pretty women anymore.

This is something women intuitively know. A lot of guys will say 'women waste their time becoming preoccupied by fashion, etc. Men don't care.'. But the truth is that a lot of higher value men DO notice and do care, because they are no longer as overwhelmed by basic female beauty. Not as thirsty, More picky. I know 'high value men' and players who care about what shoes a woman wears, how she fucks in bed, her sexual technique in general, how they do their makeup, etc.

These guys (not necessarily the 'players') are who women are often aiming at. Women aren't stupid. Watch what high value men do, and not what average men say, is sort a gender reverse of a classic TRP adage.

rustlerhuskyjeans · 2024-11-20T19:41:01+00:00

Yes this happens to both men and women who date and sleep around too much. It all becomes desensitizing, sex and beauty. I’ve dated around a bunch and to keep it interesting I just kept going after different physical types like I was playing Pokémon. Platinum blonde big boobs, big booty latina, tall asian girl, fit milf, busty milf, red head with freckles, goth, slim thick Persian etc.

What I find out is I didn’t have a type, is I was generally most attracted to the women that really want me, as long as I thought they were attractive. So you start to look past beauty a bit with raised standards for attraction, and end up going for women who are the most fun and best personality.

For women, once you’ve had smooth handsome ballers or very hot men, going back from that to get a relationship is felt as a sacrifice. This is called alpha widowed in rp. Every woman wants hot, tall, and rich, they dial down until they can find real dates and a relationship. That’s why guys like women with less dating experience, she’s going to compare you to the most exciting attractive men and best lays she’s had, then have disappointment in you.

harmonica2 · 2024-11-20T19:42:29+00:00

I'm not sure that I'm red pill but I've been told I definitely prioritize personality and chemistry over looks.

berichorbeburied · 2024-11-20T21:50:58+00:00

Idk how to put this in terms you can understand

Before I knew about huge natural boobs.

Or let’s even say big asses or waist to hip ratio or etc

I was “attracted” to just average women with no body. That was skinny or just healthy weight

But I NEVER went crazy for them or was filled with lust or really really wanted them

It was just like mild attraction. I was horny and I liked them. And when I wasn’t I didn’t.

That’s the level of attraction most men who don’t focus on this stuff are

But once you find your fantasy type of woman that elicits unlimited lust and desire in you

You just notice the difference

And you rank and value women sexually accordingly

That’s literally all it is

It’s not desensitization

It’s just actually finding out what YOU WANT & what’s your fantasy and what you’ll go crazy for or fills you with unlimited lust and desire

And everything else is mid in that aspect

That’s all it is

Everything else was already mid. But you never wanted anything. Because you never knows what you wanted. And you were never stimulated to that extent befire

Cunning_Linguists_ · 2024-11-21T12:03:44+00:00

what?

Women think that just because all of the women around them got fatter that they somehow got prettier. That's not how it works.

James_M_Croft · 2024-11-21T14:28:07+00:00

"Hunger is the best spice", or in this case "Sexual desperation is the best makeup"

Red pill are not desperate, blue/black pill men are desperate. Simple as that.

HTML_Novice · 2024-11-20T18:34:39+00:00

When you spend enough time around a woman you’ve had sex with, her beauty has less and less of an effect on you until it basically has no effect at all. However, when a new woman is introduced her beauty is novel and therefore still has a major effect on you, until you then spend time around her and this cycle continues forever

Title	Do Red Pill men get desensitized to female beauty?
Author	ComprehensiveRope160
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Comments	60
Date	November 20, 2024 6:19 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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