Truth & stats - men are statistically more vulnerable to divorce and its deleterious effects

First-Sail8421 · 2025-01-30T04:10:00+00:00

Thx for sharing. I want to read the underlying article. Also reminds me of the well known phenomenon that when an old wife dies, the husband usually follows within one or two years (or less). But when an old husband dies, the wife may carry on for another 25 or 35 years and do fine - which was the case with both my grandmothers.

Bumblebee56990 · 2025-01-29T23:01:23+00:00

The answer is prenup. Lay it all out. If she won’t sign don’t marry her.

oldschool818 · 2025-01-29T14:15:55+00:00

This is a “dog bites man” story.

LonelyNC123 · 2025-01-29T13:24:50+00:00

This is no surprise at all.

Andrew Tate is kind of a monster and a very, very poor role model for young men. I fear for 15 year old boys who look up to him. (I'm old, I'm 60).

However, Andrew Tate accurately observes.....even if you are a grossly unattractive woman who is broke, with bad credit, no income and no job (but you have low standards) you can go to a club, get drunk and have some guy take you home and have sex with you.

You will feel LOVED for at least one night.

Plenty of guys, even guys who are married and have been married for many years (like me) don't feel loved.

FYI.....with our baby being finished with college I am trying to get a friendly, grey divorce.....I'm tired of giving 150% every fucking day for over 25 years to a partner who, on a really good day, gives maybe 10% back.

So, yes, this article does not surprise me at all.

Strong-Adeptness270 · 2025-01-29T10:31:43+00:00

Yeah, no shit. I actually care about our kids and would do anything to spend more time with them and be a secure stable parent in their life. She sees our kids as a paycheck, therefore she is fighting against 50/50 custody, she drops them off at daycare all day, blew up our family and separated me from the kids so she could take new cheating dick. Of course being a sociopath is easier on you psychologically; and I'm sure she'll call me that too

ImportantRecipe3087 · 2025-01-29T09:13:25+00:00

This is a generalisation, but my view is that as soon as a man needs a woman more than vice versa, the relationship is doomed. Perhaps there are some truly equal relationships out there but my view is that the secret to success (I.e. a relationship that lasts) is to make sure she always feels that she needs you more than you need her.

Too_old_3456 · 2025-01-29T09:10:23+00:00

Yeah Im drowning right now. Teetering on the brink of bankruptcy while she has full physical custody and barely works a bullshit part time job, off living life with the dude that’s been around on the side our entire marriage. And I’m the piece of shit if you ask anyone in their family.

Gattsama · 2025-01-29T08:09:25+00:00

Until women start to routinely marry men who earn less than them, nothing will change. When Adele got divorced, I remember all the women were upset that she had to give the eX ~$140M. All the standard BS: he didn't earn that, she did all the work, she supported him, etc...

The system is fundamentally broken, but it's broken by design. That design will not change until the pain is felt by the other half of the population.

Content-Class1259 · 2025-01-29T08:01:57+00:00

From my own experience I would agree with this statement.

Title	Truth & stats - men are statistically more vulnerable to divorce and its deleterious effects
Author	shroom_dot
Upvotes	48
Comments	34
Date	January 29, 2025 7:38 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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