Apart from sex, what compels you to pursue women?

I’m kinda struggling with purpose. I do decent with women (compared to my peers), but something feels missing. Sex is a fleeting pleasure. And I tend to get bored of the same person if there’s no challenge or nothing to discover (I know this is something I must fix). But all my pondering has led me to the question of why I must even pursue women apart from the fact that my senses are genetically wired for it. That’s not a good enough reason for me. Why do yall do it?

When I try to answer this question myself, I come with emotional satisfaction and intellectual compatibility. The later I can easily seek elsewhere, perhaps more efficiently. The former, I’m afraid to talk about because I feel I lack experience to truly understand what it means. In harsher words, I have a low emotional quotient. So could someone help me understand this?