Why do I see so many Western men marry Asian, Arab and Latino women?

PlzSendDunes · 2025-04-03T23:15:10+00:00

You ask those men. They will tell things that are far closer to the truth than anyone who don't know them would on the internet.

Porky5CO · 2025-04-03T23:17:27+00:00

There's lots of studies on this. It's not because they are "exotic".

It's because they hold more traditional values. In the sense of older school gender roles.

kmikek · 2025-04-03T23:16:25+00:00

Because were not as racist as people want to believe

plainoldusernamehere · 2025-04-04T03:00:04+00:00

Feminism has ruined most American woman and now the two genders are embroiled in a quasi gender war.

amaidhlouis · 2025-04-04T03:01:05+00:00

Check out hoe math

LateralThinker13 · 2025-04-03T23:52:43+00:00

Western women are beautiful and have a lot of money.

Poison arrow frogs are beautiful too, but I'm not going to kiss one. And most men DGAF about a woman's money because they'll never see any of it; whether she works or not, he'll be expected to work. Plus they're entitled, narcissistic, boiling with mental illnesses at historically unprecedented rates, and are grossly unfeminine. Most Western women have nothing to offer other than their looks, a sour attitude, and a high body count.

No thank you.

ld2gj · 2025-04-03T23:23:06+00:00

Several reasons

1) Some Western women no longer want a partnership relationship, they want a stepping stone. Either the guy will provide them a better life because they feel deserve it or they will just leave them and take as much as possible. While this is not always the case there are enough nightmare stories for guys to be cautious of.

2) Western men want a partner wife, not a partner friend; as in they see the husband as the head of the house and the wife's role is to support the house. Sadly, this has been twisted to were some people thing the wife is a slave. While in fact it is meant to be the man provides for the house and the wife manages the house.

3) Western women are terrible at relationship communicating. They expect the guy to just know. Perfect example would the scenario about the husband/boyfriend asking if it is okay to go out with his friends for the night. Wife/girlfriend says "yea sure". The next day she is upset he went out with his friends instead of spending the night with her. But if you were flip it and the lady wanted to go out with her friends, the guy would just have to accept it or be declared abusive.

4) Western women feel it is okay to be physically and emotionally abusive to guys and they will not face any consequences either by law or society since the "women cannot be abusive since they have no power or authority". So, no way a guy can win against a woman who is a threat.

No_Leather3994 · 2025-04-03T23:42:46+00:00

From what I gather feminism has flat out poisoned women in the West to the point even bi women and lesbians find it hard to deal with them. Its not even just men who find it difficult to be with them. Just endless entitlement and arrogance as well as believing their emotions should be the end all in a relationship. That sort of personality can't be in a relationship without things going 100% her way

Siegfriedthelion · 2025-04-04T04:27:24+00:00

Imagine: you are in an American high school, and you see teenager girls cutting in line at the school cafeteria. They think it's fine cutting in front of the nerdy boys. You see the girls idolizing Hollywood celebrities [and nowadays social media stars]. Teachers do not teach about humility. Cooking classes are optional and not taken by many students.

What kind of adults do you think they will turn out to be.

No1LudmillaSimp · 2025-04-04T01:59:20+00:00

Western women still demand a very traditional man, but refuse to be traditional themselves.

RevelationSr · 2025-04-03T23:13:30+00:00

Because Western women suck.

Dare_to_be_free · 2025-04-04T04:58:46+00:00

I feel weirdly out of place because my wife fits one of the demographics you've mentioned and I'm a white man, but she's been abusive and expected me to "just know" like white women. I guess I'm an outlier.

GuardUp01 · 2025-04-04T00:59:51+00:00

Maybe you should ask why so many Asian, Arab and Latino women marry Western men?

redspikedog · 2025-04-04T00:53:00+00:00

As the internet people said: "Hoe Flation".

Gotta work 12 times harder for a woman 12 times worse. These women, even the ugliest are in severe delusion that they can get a high ranking man. Which by the time they realize reality, it's too late, they're not producing good egg cells anymore.

Some woman are realistic and / or I don't blame particular women. They want a man that makes 90k+ and a few other things - in which I understand them. Economical inflation is where their brains are naturally telling them a number that would put both the man and women fly straight in the lifetime because that's just where the cost of living is.

I agree with them because if I was a woman, I'd want a man to provide, and I'd do my part to support, respect, and love a man and the kids he gave me. I don't need 300k earner. I'd just want financial security.

However, there are so many women who want more than that. SO MUCH MORE and they don't even think about the man they want. They want what the man brings. They see men as temporary bank accounts.

Another one is that this culture brainwashed them to disrespect the man. That "they don't need a man", when in reality, almost all aspects of their lives was because of a man.

Women here are trained to believe they are obligated to princess treatment and that accountability isn't in the female vocabulary. Furthermore, convenience and shortcuts is granted. So whatever females do it isn't "their fault.

A woman cheat on you? It's YOUR fault, not hers. A woman crashed into your car? It's your fault, and it's just a "giry mistake" and she will try to drive away thinking she can get away with it. Oh you're drowning in cement? She will just watch or even just leave because it's not her problem, someone else is suppose to be a hero.

Women want to take male dominated roles, but any other girl, but themselves should do it. For example, they want to take on electrical technicians roles, but when you ask them what position, they say "oh not for me, but for stacey the lesbian". Then stacey the lesbian says, "no i am taking manager role even though I have no hands on expirience, let jessica do it". Then jessica says, no I don't want to but I know girls want to do it, so lets have britney do it because I want to take HR role even though I never ran a squad out in the work field". They say something and do differently...

crodr014 · 2025-04-04T01:42:00+00:00

American women have horrendous expectations. Culture in america taught them to think they can get whatever they want with wierd power expectations especially in marriage dynamic.

Magical-Hummus · 2025-04-04T03:41:49+00:00

Look at the divorce and break-up rates in the West. Marriage died here. I am "technically" Arabic and live in Germany and I have only ever met a single German child whose parents are not divorced.

Upper-Divide-7842 · 2025-04-04T10:43:11+00:00

"Western women are beautiful and have a lot of money."

Sure, but they hate men.

And that's whatever they can have whatever opinions they want. There's no accounting for taste but why would a man seek out a relationship with someone who hates them?

Worried_Carp703 · 2025-04-03T23:58:16+00:00

I will say although it’s not my own personal experience: I know before my dad met my Filipina mom he was married to an American woman. I’m not sure if the divorce left a sour taste in his mouth about his opinion on American women but it wasn’t like my dad was a prototypical travel bro nor did he seem to be extraordinarily interested in any culture outside of his own to be frank. I think my mom had/has many of the stereotypical Asian woman characteristics (good & bad) and maybe it was refreshing change for him.

Now for me personally I’m not really that attracted to asian women in particular but that being said I would pick them over most American women. Not that some American women aren’t physically attractive but It’s the mindset for me. I’ve dated many westernized women and I just can’t with their attitudes and ways of thinking. It’s a no for me. Right now I’m dating a woman from Brazil who can balance being independent (she has to be to move to a whole different country by herself) but also knows how to fall back into her femininity when around me and I feel like that’s something American women either don’t know how to do or simply go out of their way not to to prove some kind of point. We’re trying to date. It’s not a competition to see who’s the top dog we both have our roles to fill and they’re not all interchangeable for the most part lol

fluxdeken_ · 2025-04-04T00:13:38+00:00

Less risks + more respect

VicenteFox4070 · 2025-04-04T00:25:55+00:00

I'm mexican-american, I've been with African-American, white, native American and, of course, mexican women in both countries. My first choice would be a Thai or cambodian woman, even if I had to pay her, at least I'll know where I'm standing. American women are cold, frivolous, they lack femininity. Mexican women can be a little better, but they're clearly moving in that direction too.

Fridanalia · 2025-04-04T17:16:39+00:00

It’s because the vast majority of American women are completely undatable. The worst man hating attitudes, the highest body counts, the least effort, the highest expectations, and some of the fattest people. If you as an American man have money and the freedom to travel there is no reason at all to settle for what you can get in America.

J2501 · 2025-04-04T09:30:32+00:00

Why do skinny men marry overweight women? Why do smart men marry stupid women? Why are the body counts of wives often higher than their husbands'?

Female hypergamy, and deprivation of males.

Negative_Comfort6848 · 2025-04-04T11:36:57+00:00

Feminism ruined relationships in the western world.

It ruined it for men and specially for women.

I totally understand the passport bros que gonl east to find wives.

Miserable-Willow6105 · 2025-04-03T23:39:57+00:00

Because they care more about the person they love than this person's ethnicity

kaisear · 2025-04-04T00:05:31+00:00

What should be asked is why we don't see so many western women dating outside their kind? Economical reasons I suppose. Western men are richer than women from developing countries.

i_live_in_sweden · 2025-04-04T12:33:20+00:00

Me personally have no luck trying to date women from my own country. They are just to picky and I'm clearly not attractive enough for them. Would really deep down prefer to get a woman from my own country, but that doesn't seem to be an option. So unless I accept being alone for the rest of my life, I need to try my luck with a girl from another country.

63daddy · 2025-04-04T00:47:25+00:00

I’m dating someone who immigrated to the U.S. as a young child and fits one of the demographics you mentioned.

I’m not dating her because she’s not a traditional Caucasian, I’m dating her because I enjoy her and part of that is she hasn’t been drawn into the identity politics including feminism that many Caucasian women and those who have been here for generations have. She’s appreciative of what I as a man has to offer her which is very different than a sense of entitlement. I don’t see her as her race, I see her as a kind woman who appreciates men.

For me, it’s not about race, it’s about whether the woman in question appreciates men and what we bring to the equation. I think however, fewer non-western women have been indoctrinated into feminism and identity politics.

Speaking for myself, I’m open to any woman who doesn’t have a privileged anti-male attitude, regardless of her race.

Mechanik_J · 2025-04-03T23:49:54+00:00

Since the inception of moving pictures, and Hollywood... It has made women from around the world comfortable with the image of white men.

Zestyclose-Thanks662 · 2025-04-04T02:59:39+00:00

Well, what I’ve seen is that the American woman no longer wants to respect her husband or be told what to do. She wants to be the one that’s in control and men are finding out that maybe they can have a relationship with somebody where it’s mutual respect and mutual admiration

But then they’re all those guys too, where they want to control every aspect of somebody’s life, which is not a good thing that’s not Love question is does Love even exist anymore?

Radiant_Tonight5388 · 2025-04-04T05:11:27+00:00

Because white women are useless

Both-Ad-9225 · 2025-04-03T23:53:52+00:00

Because I don't care one single solitary f about where or what nation/culture/religion , not what attracts me to them.

darkuen · 2025-04-04T00:17:47+00:00

As a kid from one of these marriages its because my dad traveled for work.

lujimerton · 2025-04-04T04:56:26+00:00

Because they’re hot, make those guys feel alive and are easy to fall in love with like all other women.

9_11_did_bushh · 2025-04-04T13:52:38+00:00

These days these white woman are manly af

NohoTwoPointOh · 2025-04-04T17:28:20+00:00

You just named one thing that is ephemeral at best and another thing that men care nothing about. Money doesn't benefit us one bit, so we don't care. Do you think a Western woman is going to share that with you? On top of that, money makes a lot of Western women absolutely insufferable (if not tyrannical).

As for beauty? Big deal. That's a commodity like pork bellies or bananas. Every country has beauty. It's table stakes.

Are they cooperative, friendly, modest, and raised by a strong, masculine father? If not, then all the beauty in the world doesn't help a man's cause.

magestik12 · 2025-04-04T19:13:49+00:00

Because, when you compare them to white/very Americanized women, you realize there is no comparison.—socially, emotionally, mentally.

Aussie_solo_guy · 2025-04-04T19:29:52+00:00

Because western women made themselves a over entitled liability to good men. Why would we want anything to do with them?

We don't care about their money. Theyre over inflated sense of self entitlement and greed means that's her money, while my money is "our money".

Then they choose to up and leave simply because they're bored and want something new. At which point they take most of everything the man owns, ½ his money, and alienates him from his children.

And the system supports this in the west, in many places a chunk of his future income goes to her as alimony too.

Meanwhile they refuse to contribute in any way at all, be it financially or by way of house keeping and cooking etc.

What possible reason would we have any part of that?

Honestly, what benefit does a man get from that agreement?

Tell us all how that's not an utter liability to us.

xxTheMagicBulleT · 2025-04-04T19:41:04+00:00

Easy cause those women are taught and grown up to be wife's.

While many western women are taught and grown to be entitled selfish brats.

World-Three · 2025-04-04T21:01:05+00:00

I'd probably do it for structure...

Asian families work together, extended families, communities, parents are in their lives and don't feel like their own children are a burden. Latin families operate similarly, having recipies, voicing their concerns and sharing assets together.

I don't really see that value in sharing assets and maintaining family structure being the acceptable norm in western society. Men living at home with family is completely shamed even if you contribute or even pay for it. Your isolation from others and absolutely no connections outside of the social realm is seen as attractive. No heap of guy friends, no boys night out stuff, or having a good out of work friend group. All of it is seen as less than if you were a guy with your own stuff just ripe for the picking with an open schedule.

Knowing my kids would have a babysitter we all trust, not HAVE to eat lunchables or snack foods because nobody has time because everyone wants to live in their own tiny box instead of live in a big box together, have a tutor, someone who can take them outside, someone who can legally be a guardian instead of putting it on our eldest child to save money, while we're running circles around ourselves to stay afloat is better than having to basically pay for interaction and friendship. You don't need to collect the dragonballs (family) to do something like board games, play Uno, video games, have conversations etc.

Obviously not all families are like that. But I'd just prefer that structure. And it's something completely frowned upon in our society.

BrodcETC · 2025-04-04T22:40:34+00:00

Most American women are awful. They’ve developed their own horrible culture

RingaLopi · 2025-04-04T01:49:36+00:00

Western women are spendaholics. 😂

missbadbody · 2025-04-03T23:24:08+00:00

Financial power and culture. Westerners earn more comparatively through unequal exchange in imperialism and so attract mates from countries that earn much less.

RevolutionaryRip2504 · 2025-04-04T12:11:38+00:00

most western men lean right and women want the right to abortion. pro life and pro choice don’t work

marks1995 · 2025-04-04T14:47:26+00:00

The three you listed tend to be very beautiful races of women.

There is also a difference in how most of those women were raised to view relationships than many western women.

rahsoft · 2025-04-04T15:08:16+00:00

Western women are beautiful and have a lot of money. أنا

that statement looks like it was based on "hello" and "ok" magazine( and any other celebrity trash media), besides a "beautiful " woman can become very ugly if they have poor narcisstic character.

I would think the reasoning is that the Arab, Latino and Asian women are not as far gone down the feminism rabbit hole as the western women.

There are plenty of western women who are not like that, its just that they are already married.... :)

the younger generation of women appear to have more anxiety issues, more anti-depressant medication, more entitlement etc. .. And I won't forget the condescending language they use on Arab, Asian and Latino women for marrying the western men.... One western woman did try this on my wife years ago( in the gulf), but was put in her place when my wife gave her a business card(international lawyer for the largest law firm in the world)

.. however, that doesn't mean that the Arab, Asian and Latino women are not undergoing feminism.. I've seen in the Arab world and Asia( I lived in both and was married to an Asian). so I would say men would have to be careful when seeking a partner.

It gets harder if marry an Asian/Arab who are Muslim( because of all the laws about living together, marriage recognition etc) which I'm sure you found out when marrying a Filipino Christian(did she have to convert?).

TLDR : Arab, Latino, Asian women generally can be a better choice than the current batch of "available" western women, but don't expect that to last forever..

DO-Kagome · 2025-04-04T19:40:32+00:00

Many of us are finished with Western women. In my case, I chose a latina from El Salvador 😜. American women helped me realize that I'm bi and absolutely not attracted to them at all 🥲

Shreddersaurusrex · 2025-04-05T00:48:09+00:00

Some guys believe that societies in those regions still hold to traditional gender roles vs societies in western nations.

mrmensplights · 2025-04-04T00:33:01+00:00

You know why.

Silly_Comb2075 · 2025-04-04T11:51:18+00:00

Real Love does not longer exists in the west.

Local-Willingness784 · 2025-04-04T03:22:00+00:00

i think its whack how many of you here idealize "non-western" women, and that's also assuming that you like what some conservative women ask, which is a whole separate thing. as if the Western woman mindset wasn't spreading to all around the world....

Drewcifer70 · 2025-04-03T23:33:52+00:00

Cause they're hot

Awkward-Push136 · 2025-04-04T00:11:54+00:00

They ironically are more typically into "traditional western values" or at least there is more domestic philosophical intersection than the average "liberated" western women of say California

gaifogel · 2025-04-04T05:15:55+00:00

Need to ask it at r/asksociology

oofieoofty · 2025-04-04T08:42:29+00:00

Why did you marry someone from outside of tour country and culture?

Far-Hope-6186 · 2025-04-04T10:45:20+00:00

only a small % marry westerners.

belgianbaby · 2025-04-04T18:48:52+00:00

Latinas and Arabs are the most beautiful women, their features/coloring pleasing are universal, men want to be seen with them, it's not colonialism anymore where the white woman was seen as the central beauty.

Especially since the Kardashians, most women want to be "exotic" hot women and men understood that as well (Men from colonial countries are more attracted to white women than white men are attracted to white women), but arabs men now realize the beauty of their women more than they did before (colonialism). And because they see how white men are attracted to their women, which they hate.

Asian women are often looking for western guys.

Arabs are seen as the ultimate "trophy" for many western men because those women don't usually date outside their culture (by choice or not .. ) and they do have traditional values. Their "untainable" reputation makes them very attractive for dominant "real" male.

That's for most Europe.

midnightmaddness6754 · 2025-04-05T13:46:46+00:00

Because the majority of Western women have lost their minds.

Kyra92Hayes · 2025-04-05T16:15:52+00:00

They tend to be more traditional and have those values

vegatx40 · 2025-04-05T16:27:56+00:00

Megyn Kelly did half her Thursday show about how young men are rejecting career women.

West-Lie3804 · 2025-04-05T23:09:05+00:00

From what I’ve seen, it can just be a fetish thing. It feeds into the joke of marrying a young Thai woman etc, which is viewed as a huge score for a lot of men. It can also be a value / norm thing. A lot of these women come from countries that value religion a lot more e.g. Arab. I knew some girls a few years back that were shocked at the fact I had sex regularly lmao. They were both 24-27, from Sudan and Egypt, and heavy catholics. They were just raised to believe that you aren’t ‘pure’ if you lose your virginity before marriage. A lot of these women also hold traditional household values due to their upbringing and societal norms. For a lot of men, I can see why that is appealing to them. I personally don’t get it but I can understand why men would want that.

Electronic_Cap_8126 · 2025-04-04T11:24:00+00:00

For me, it's simply a case of love at first sight, but I have had some ridiculous experiences with Western women that have basically led to me not wanting to date one. My story is I first met my Hispanic angel almost 20 years ago, and as soon as I saw her, I basically said wow. Our mutual friend told me that she was not single, so I shut off my feelings and, for the longest time, I thought of her as only a friend. As time went by, we became best friends. I later got married to a Western woman, but she got bored and wanted a divorce. The woman that I now kind of hope to marry helped me get through that. I tried dating Western women a few more times. One was abusive, one was too modern feminist in her beliefs, one started an OF while we were talking, and one just wanted to use me for free food. Relationship wise things just didn't go well for her and I, which eventually led us to having a conversation about when we first met one day while hanging out. During the conversation, she said she wished that I would have ignored our friend because she felt the same way. One thing led to another, and we kissed. It was the most incredible experience of our lives. From that moment on, we have been in a relationship, and things keep getting better each day. It is a completely different experience than dating a typical Western woman. She is a third generation US citizen, so some may say it doesn't count, but she was raised with traditional Hispanic values.

Former_Range_1730 · 2025-04-04T12:08:10+00:00

Because those are the women who desire men, like men, want to build families with men, enjoy dating and having sex with men, etc, more-so than Western women on average.

It's interesting because I never planned on marrying an Asian woman myself. I'm attracted to them as well as I'm into all kinds of feminine women, but I just happened to have the most in common with her. Interesting that I got along with a woman with a background from over sees, more than any of the many western women I grew up with, went to college with, went to work with, etc.

Meanwhile a specific race of Western men claim they are being replaced, when they are choosing on their own to marry outside of their race, or avoid marriage in general.

CaffeineDose · 2025-04-03T23:44:20+00:00

Interesting question, I ask someone and he said western women are not submissive.

Fleischhauf · 2025-04-03T23:14:58+00:00

maybe they are more exotic and therefore more desirable?

chobolicious88 · 2025-04-03T23:46:56+00:00

Because of power dynamics.

Status of white men tends to be higher in those countries, and both men and women love the feeling of the man having that power over a woman.

Tireless_AlphaFox · 2025-04-04T01:06:43+00:00

Oriental fantasy/fetish

SpacelessChain1 · 2025-04-03T23:12:44+00:00

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