A man being tricked into raising another man's child could arguably be called natural. You could argue that is just smart evolutionary strategy for women for genetic diversity. This strategy aligns with womens emotions and instincts.

However with the modern invention of paternity test that strategy is now a big mistake. A simple high accuracy dna test can instantly shatter a father's trust, love and self-esteem. (Leading to suicide)

In these kind of situation people will argue (not just women) that dna, blood, biology doesn't matter. The man who raised the kids is the real father. Arguably that is also true but not if you have been lied too half of his life. It's the lies that are hard to swallow. The gaslighting, the manipulation.

When being a father is no longer backed by science. And only backed by an argument and lies that makes being a father feel hollow, fake, unfair. Like your whole life wasn't real. A giant mistake and regret.

Breaking up a family doesn't end the world. There are many family breaking up everyday for all kinds of reasons.

DIY paternity tests are still illegal in france. The potential for social instability is considered too large there.

My Q4W, what side would you argue for if you found out a family member of yours did this to their husband? Because there are always going to be liars. What disturbs me is all the people supporting the liar keeping the fake lies alive.