At the end of the day, we are biologically wired to feel a visceral and negative reaction when faced with rejection.

In modern society, where women are pursued, and men chase, men are constantly facing rejection. rejection feels so bad that some men choose not to participate in the dating game at all - and as a form of coping, create a wall of half truths, bogus statistics, and flimsy reasons to disqualify themselves from the game of dating so that they don’t have to participate.

they project blame on social norms and expectations, or parts of themselves that they don’t have control over like their height, facial aesthetics maybe somethings wrong with women. Maybe there’s something wrong with western society or just something wrong with the world at large.

Regardless, if you can you stack up enough reasons so that your chances of acceptance are 0% and your chances of rejection are 100%

At that point only an idiot would play the game And we’re not idiots so we’re not going to play. And as an added benefit because I’m not playing the game, I won’t face rejection and so I’ll never be hurt

Which was the whole point in the first place come up with enough reasons to justify not playing the game so that we don’t get rejected and then we don’t get hurt.

If my logic is correct, what does that make people that follow this pill movement? cowards? If we run from our problems instead of facing them head on, we’ll never get better at managing feelings of rejection.

Meanwhile, by engaging in this ideology we develop extremely toxic belief systems, misogynistic, and fatalistic where the game is rigged and we can’t win.

Now the fewer reasons we have to stand by this ideology the easier it is to dismantle.

So in a necessary perpetuation of this movement members/people add to the reasons it “must be true”

Theyve added endless bullshit onto the pile until it has become a massive smoke screen that has become impossible to blow away without taking each and every single argument apart piece by piece by piece by piece, which is a massive amount of mental labor that nobody would be willing to undertake .

Keep in mind if you wanted to dismantle this ideology your opponent in this undertaking is incentivized to look past logical arguments, and deny solid points; because if they are wrong, then their safety that is gone and they have to start putting work into themselves and they have to start trying again which they don’t want to do because if they try, they get rejected and rejection hurts and that’s the whole idea! we have to not get rejected at any cost!

All of this is to the benefit of the persons following the ideology. if the ideology can’t be dismantled easily then it must be true. after all, where do you get your supporting arguments for your ideology? Well, if you use Reddit as an example, there are thousands of users desperately looking for supporting arguments. This movement has been going on for years and so the arguments go back for years, article after article, newspaper clippings, forum posts, YouTube videos, TikTok videos, Reddit posts, is an endless stream of garbage that you would have to try and refute.

It’s a self built, self-perpetuating pile of sand that people can bury their heads into because rejection is painful. prove me wrong.