Men will use the “women just hate male sexuality” excuse when criticized displaying for selfish behavior.

The_Forgotten001 · 2025-11-07T00:03:20+00:00

That’s not men, you’re just describing narcissistic people. Women do a version of this too.

What exactly are you expecting to happen?

If they are narcissists they literally will never change. It’s a mental disorder.

There’s a difference between lack of empathy and just not being aware.

No empathy means they can’t relate to others. Meaning they don’t have friends.

Why complain about men with no friends? Do you want to be their friend?

The-Devilz-Advocate · 2025-11-06T23:06:43+00:00

The issue is with men who dont know how to behave and demanding empathy while he has none for others. if you think men can’t express their sexuality without being pieces of shit, that says a lot about how you view men.

I'm gonna be honest. The kind of men that behave that way, tend to be either burned out incels online, or sociopaths/abusive men that always seem to have a partner justifying and excusing their behavior.

Crying “Men arent allowed to have preferences, but women are!” but then this is how they react when they see a woman that doesnt fit his preference

Why yes, please do list the evidence of a low tier dating video. Certainly as valid as saying "Women are golddigging sluts" and posting a FreshNFit video as evidence.

Funny how most comments even by men disagree heavily with the aggressive way the buffoon popped the trans woman's balloon. But I guess that's something you ignored out of your own cognitive dissonance.

Men: Women dont care about men’s issues!

Women: SA not being taken seriously? Circumcision? The draft? Homophobia? Being forced to uphold toxic behavior that’s propagandized as masculinity?

SA is not taken seriously... Circumcision is even defended by women... Homophobia? Is not a male issue. It's a sexuality issue. The draft? Women make up excuses as to why it's justifyable for men to be drafted.

Being forced to uphold toxic behavior that’s propagandized as masculinity

Yet, the moment a man shows an emotion that can be perceived as weak by women or opens up about mental health issues that he has, they immediately get the "ick" and lose respect towards him.

How about mentioning something that actually matters that all men in the western world suffer and it's one of the biggest ways to determine how well they succeed in life? Education and Academia.

In Education and Academia, boys and men are falling extremely behind their female peers. Why? Because the system of sedentary education that we currently have, is not apt for boys and men. Girls tend to be more passive, and less physically active that boys, so a system that encourages that type of behavior and heavily punishes the other, in all levels, do lead to the kinds of academic problems men and boys currently have.

Not only that, but boys get to be graded much HARSHER than girls do for the same tests. Girls get to be treated way more softly by the education system in general. No, this is not because most teachers are women, in fact there is virtually no difference between a male or female teacher that grades a boy vs a girl. They both heavily favor girls over boys.

Then as the level of education increases, so does the direct blaming of the male gender. Boys are taught even as little as the 4th grade, how "evil" men used to be in the past, but instead of teachers and professors to highly the differences between the men of today and the men of the past, they instead heavily punish and direct their hatred to the men of today for the sins of the men of the past. Every single social science, or literature class that you could have ever taken, will ALWAYS have at least 1/3rd of it's structure to read and understad Feminism-related concepts.

So these boys get unfairly hated by their teachers and their fellow girl peers, for the sins of the past men. If somebody grows up constantly being bombarded how they are the spawn of Satan because of what people of their gender did in the past is it not surprising how a good chunk of them would grow up to despise education in general?

And this is ever more present once you get to the higher levels of education. College applications of women are higher than they have ever been, but what about the men? Low. In fact, very low. Most men don't even want to purse further education, not because they don't want decent jobs, but because of the aformentioned structural problems of Academia.

But hey as a person quoted in an article discussing this posted by a BP user:

After all, the number of men applying to college had already begun to fall below the number of women — a trend that would soon accelerate, worsening a growing nationwide decline in enrollment. But admissions officers still wanted to balance out the number of men and women on campus.

“Toward the end of filling out the class, there would definitely be a push to look for more men to admit,” said Medley, who was in her role at Brandeis from 2012 to 2014. “The standards were certainly lower for male students.”

Given a male student and a female student with a similar profile at Brandeis, for example, the university would potentially “admit the male student and wait-list the female student because of wanting to get closer to this sort of gender parity in terms of percentages in the class,” said Medley.

Colleges “want to be careful,” said independent counselor and former admissions dean Sara Harberson. “They don’t want it to look like they are giving male students an advantage in this process.” But “whether they admit it or not, gender balance is almost always a pretty big institutional priority, because prospective families can see it on tours and students can feel it when they enroll.”

https://hechingerreport.org/an-unnoticed-result-of-the-decline-of-men-in-college-its-harder-for-women-to-get-in/#:%7E:text=While%20Brandeis%20has%20actually%20had,female%20applicants%20as%20male%20applicants

wtknight · 2025-11-06T23:15:31+00:00

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leefjk · 2025-11-07T03:59:19+00:00

Hold up, that's not just a woman that doesn't fit his preference. A trans woman is not simply like, blonde versus brunette in terms of differences.

wtknight · 2025-11-06T22:50:38+00:00

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YeaNobody · 2025-11-06T23:42:42+00:00

Meanwhile women thrive off that same energy....*looks at Onlyfans and the like*

addings0 · 2025-11-07T01:36:23+00:00

Women: SA not being taken seriously? Circumcision? The draft? Homophobia? Being forced to uphold toxic behavior that’s propagandized as masculinity?

Men: OUR PENISES ARENT BEING TOUCHED! WE’RE LONELY!

This says more about you, than it does about men.

Being forced to uphold toxic behavior that’s propagandized as masculinity

No. Masculinity is the expression the undisciplined immature men happen to use, when they run out of other tools or options. Women call it " toxic " because they simply see a pattern, they don't understand, and ( more importantly for them ) don't like it.

Emergency_Might6995 · 2025-11-06T22:48:34+00:00

This is satire right,

you havent made a cogent argument.
your examples dont make sense. it seems like you cribbed the bare essentials from some argument you lost and transplated it here for upvotes.

lets take 1 Men: Women dont care about men’s issues!.

first mistake. thats a strawman.

Men: MOST women dont SEEM to care about mens issues. For examplle, higher rates of male suicide, look at how people care about trans suicide but nott male suicide. Compare the money spent of female cancers versus male. look what happens to divorce rates when custody is 50/50. why do men dominate in jobs that result in injury and death. Why does Ted Bundy get more love letters than the average man?

when i was a kid, if you couldnt sit still in class the male teachers would make sure you ran yourself ragged during recess

now, my kids have all female teachers and principles and they insist on medicating boys

Men, you didnt hear what we mean. we need female affection and approval to feel complete. Friends are fine.

got loads of friends. anf no i dont need my penis touched by an amatuer. a circle jerk is better

Legitimate_Desk_9275 · 2025-11-06T22:49:45+00:00

Women always think everything is about sex for men, when it's more about men wanting love and feeling appreciated. Reducing men's issues into "Aww you want your penis touched" is honestly yet again a way for women to diminish and ridicule men's experiences. Diminishing and invalidating people's needs and experiences is a common strategy that abusers use, btw.

You can't say you care about men's issues and then on the other hand tell us you prefer a bear, and men are pigs, and so on. Feminism is a cult that no man can ever criticize without being called an incel or misogynistic. Every time a feminist hates men publicly, all the other women stay silent. Curious.

If a man wants a woman with low body count, women will shame the man and tell he is being insecure. So yeah, men are gaslight to not have preferences. If a man says he doesn't want an obsese woman he is shamed for that.

Cultural-Ad-8486 · 2025-11-06T23:09:32+00:00

>Men: Women dont care about men’s issues!

>Women: SA not being taken seriously? Circumcision? The draft? Homophobia? Being forced to uphold toxic behavior that’s propagandized as masculinity?

>Men: OUR PENISES ARENT BEING TOUCHED! WE’RE LONELY!

>Women: If youre lonely, go make friends-

>Men: But HOW will that get our penises touched?!

Is it again a misunderstanding that friendship and romance are completely different things?

Or that loneliness is a very real and serious problem, on par with everything else you've listed? (Although, fun fact, these problems rarely concern feminists.)

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Gold_Sheepherder6569 · 2025-11-06T22:50:19+00:00

Saying “Sex isn’t a need, it’s just a necessary condition for overall life satisfaction in MOST humans. If you had enough empathy you’d admit this.” to justify dating a woman he doesn’t actually like.

What’s wrong with dating someone you’re not that into? If you treat them with respect and love(or at least the appearance of it) what’s the problem?

https://youtube.com/shorts/_ke-Ep2Gu1E?si=gwAX_qyND1ko126S

This specific man was rude but women get mad at men even if they express their preferences without any rudeness. An example is this Mormon dating show when the men rejected the woman not for her looks even because there was a curtain separating them but for her hobbies/personality and the response was people hating on the men there.

Also most women don’t care about any of these issues listed below:

Women: SA not being taken seriously? Circumcision? The draft? Homophobia? Being forced to uphold toxic behavior that’s propagandized as masculinity?

So even if someone said male issues is just dating it doesn’t negate that point

Adept-Development-00 · 2025-11-06T23:04:17+00:00

It's honestly frustrating. They don't seem like the get male friends, or try to find ways to live a satisfying life without women solution.

I mantain sympathy for them but it gets exhausting.

ClumsyLinguist · 2025-11-07T04:47:40+00:00

Crying “Men arent allowed to have preferences, but women are!” but then this is how they react when they see a woman that doesnt fit his preference

He's literally just straight and not pansexual.

I understand the solidarity the women had with the trans woman, but there is literally a separate sexuality for when you're attracted to trans people. That's not a fair example.

Vaudeville_Clown · 2025-11-07T08:14:32+00:00

I see compelling evidence of male sexuality truly being villified in many circumstances, but I'm more, so what? If he listen and absorbs that. That's his fault. Men shouldn't need benevolent social narratives to get by. That's weak, and weakness doesn't suit us.

A man should embrace hyperagency in his life. Everything he wants or needs is within reach to get, fix or change, at least in theory. A man must never accept the victim frame, even momentarily. Done right, he just tends to get a lot more out of life than people who feel differently, in many respects.

As for dating, if he doesn't get it, it's his failure. Most likely that's wasting time and effort looking in the wrong place, trying to attract the wrong type of people etc. That's a personal failure of discernement.

Given your many posts which rejects male victim narratives, I think we can agree on the polar opposite at least.

Men should consider themselves hyperagents.

petellapain · 2025-11-07T14:06:47+00:00

Women demonstrate their hatred for male sexuality when they find men who aren't bothering women or doing anything that could harm or annoy women even indirectly, invade their entertainment hobbies because they have fictional hot women in them, call the men gooners and predators, and take action to censor and sanitize that content. Thats a major example of outright hatred of male sexuality. All while those same women nut to morning glory milking farm smut novels

Objective_Ad_6265 · 2025-11-07T14:39:45+00:00

Yes, we already know you're aromantic and don't see any difference between friendship and relationship. So stop it already.

N_Count_Council · 2025-11-06T22:34:17+00:00

Preferences are innately selfish, so yes, you do in fact hate it when men express their preferences.

A woman saying she has a 6' tall preference is also selfish.

kvakerok_v2 · 2025-11-06T22:46:26+00:00

His preference: a woman with a vagina.

Outside_Memory5703 · 2025-11-07T02:07:07+00:00

I think it’s fine for women to dislike male sexuality. It’s not very benign or attractive to us, so why should we pretend otherwise?

Title	Men will use the “women just hate male sexuality” excuse when criticized displaying for selfish behavior.
Author	LillthOfBabylon
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Comments	132
Date	November 6, 2025 10:16 PM UTC (8 months ago)
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