I'm gonna get some shit for this but this is honest.

The skills that make a man good at seduction (namely cold approach) are NOT good for relationships.

See cold approach requires a thick skin. You will face a volume of rejection that vast majority of people are not willing to face. Most men don't do it because of that. And most women will never need to go through this at all. So it's unrelatable to except a small few.

To deal with that rejection, I built an emotional wall that protects my inner self worth from the rejections that occur. I also do not emotionally invest that much to begin with. This enables me to move on from rejection without anger or sadness.

However, because of that same skill set, I cannot invest heavily in relationships. I don't care to at the moment, but I've noticed I simply don't fall in love. I'm a fuck boy lol.

I started this whole journey because I was on a place of scarcity, lack of choice and loneliness. I absolutely do not regret going down this road. I've met and slept with incredible women personality wise and also hot. At the start I would take rejections poorly. I wouldn't take it out on the girl EVER. My internal world would be a storm though. So I had to figure that piece out.

But yeah, this is the dark side. Maybe you guys can relate. The women that lurk here probably judging the shit outta me. Society tends to do that against men these days haha.

Anyone else can relate?

Side note: this is not a "woe is me" post. No matter who you are, if you cold approach, you will get more rejections that acceptance. You could be Mr 6'4" good looking thundercock and still you will be rejected more than accepted due to things outside of your control. I'm not special in the rejection. Just trying to point out my experience if maybe others can relate or not