I don’t deserve p*ssy

Broad-Cranberry-9050 · 2026-04-14T23:11:30+00:00

first, stop using text messages (apps or texts) as your regular way to get with girls. It can be interpreted however they want. Keep it short and simple, and maybe funny, but you gotta go out and meet women and make that conenction in person, then you wont have to try hard in textts.

Also 8 is nothing. If yo utalked to 8 girls in person at a bar, youd be unphazed. You might feel more confident because you got the courage to do that.

Think about it, guys who succeed have a success rate of like 5% (sometimes even less than that). If you found out your boy has hooked up with 3 different women int he last 3 months, youd think he was killin git, but what you dont hear or see is that he probably went out every weekend talked to like 10-20 girls a night, etc. At 2 weekend nights a week for 3 months that's 24 nights, and 250+ women just to fuck 3 of them.

You talked to 8 and think the world is over.

CoachSlyDating · 2026-04-14T23:16:14+00:00

8 is nothing in the grand scheme of things. It could be bad luck to a certain extent. Get it to 50 or 100 and report back.

Also, I recommend you call girls over the phone. Keep it short, flirty, vibey, less than 15 minutes.

No one calls anymore so you already look more confident by comparison.

nelsne · 2026-04-14T23:23:53+00:00

I try not to have the majority of my interactions with women over the phone before the getting to know them. You're all talked out by the time the date comes along. Phones are for setting dates, not chatting all day before you know them.

ImpossibleWaiting · 2026-04-14T23:37:40+00:00

It's not about deserving.
Stop sending the wrong texts. Learn the correct ones, flirting.
It's not supposed to be easy.

Game is hard and must be learned if you want good results.

Nghthvn · 2026-04-15T05:15:36+00:00

Listen OP. This is exactly where you need to be. The way you get laid is by going through this first. Take the rejections as a sign that you are doing something right - putting yourself out there. And use it as fuel. The poison of anger is the cure which will drive you to fix this problem.

The way you fix this problem is approach and talk to more girls. And the more you study game, apply what you learn. You’re on your way if you don’t give up.

JakeApproaches · 2026-04-15T08:13:02+00:00

“don’t deserve” … work on your Self Esteem.

jackythevillen · 2026-04-14T23:08:50+00:00

Insert Coin to Play Again

Outside_Bowler8148 · 2026-04-14T23:43:36+00:00

Fuck that texting BS, easiest way is girls at the pregame, throughout the night you can build rapport and then take em home

V3X390 · 2026-04-15T01:37:55+00:00

Bro you gotta make your mistakes and learn from them. Charge it to the game. Consider it a lesson learned. Try again.

Additional-Case4392 · 2026-04-14T23:34:52+00:00

The best players go 1 for 10. It’s a numbers game. Meet more women, grow more indifferent. Be the prize, like who likes you. Destroy all negative self-imagery and self-talk. We are representations of God’s image. Kill whatever weakness lies within you. As soon as it pops up, acknowledge and examine it, whether it be negative thinking about yourself or negative emotions. See why it came about and get to the root of the weakness. Face it head on and destroy it.

ApartmentWorried5692 · 2026-04-15T01:38:19+00:00

College used to be easy. Don’t get down on yourself.

Best thing to do as a gen z is to FACE TIME these girls instead. I used to match with girls on tinder and almost never got anywhere through texting. Soon as I face timed them, they actually invited me over sometimes.

Terrible_Assist_1345 · 2026-04-15T07:05:55+00:00

What you actually are saying is: "I'm not commited enough to put work into it and my ego is too high to make this conclusion".

If you think it's easy and you don't want to change anything in your live just go back to your room and jerk off like the rest of the losers do.

Late-Obligation6266 · 2026-04-14T23:07:52+00:00

I do be like that sometimes 🥲 what did u say? Give an example

ImmediateLanguage944 · 2026-04-14T23:31:29+00:00

share some of the texts lets see what you say and where you fuck up

Realwoujo · 2026-04-14T23:47:31+00:00

Who said its supposed to be easy?

You're being too needy.

Jironasaurus · 2026-04-14T23:49:02+00:00

No such thing as easy. I don't know where you get that idea from, but everyone (including women) are finding dating difficult.

hadigene · 2026-04-15T00:24:00+00:00

Let’s see texts, ill try to help you out. Every text should serve a specific purpose in getting you one step closer to cracking buns. Remember, you take the lead. You’re herding her like a sheep, seeing if shes up to your standards, she needs to be qualifying herself to you and asking you questions. Most guys are pretty aimless in their texts.

Once you learn the framework you need to operate in, the order of operations if you will, you can start to experiment, throw in wild shit, fuck with her head and have a lot of fun with texting actually.

1- Compliment + tease (break rapport right away) 2- introduce a date idea 3- Build Investment 4- soft close 5- logistics (be normal) Theres some resources with pretty good filler texts to spike her interest level as well.

You’d be surprised how little you need to say, and how infrequently you need to text her.

ethe_ze · 2026-04-15T00:25:09+00:00

Yo give us more context lol

BounceThatShit · 2026-04-15T00:37:04+00:00

I’m telling you, call don’t text. Make your texts a long time between replies, like you’re not interested but reply like you are just take your time

IamaThrowAwway · 2026-04-15T03:16:22+00:00

Your first mistake is believing it's supposed to be easy. It's not.

Fair-Bar-4522 · 2026-04-15T04:24:29+00:00

Yeah I can just advise you to skip the part where you say you're straight ✌️🥀

professionalfumblr · 2026-04-15T04:27:45+00:00

This happens to me all the time. I really think this is the result of social media, and dudes who spend all their time texting chicks just being jesters. Swear it was not this bad even a year ago.

Dana_myte · 2026-04-15T17:10:16+00:00

You're too outcome dependent and desperate they know & can feel this.

I get the feeling you're walking on eggshells when conversating and are trying to say the perfect thing to them. You may throw a hail Mary from time to time to try to escalate things cause your urges skipping steps that ruin the attraction.

Something im learning over time that may help is girls get aroused by raising the buying temperature, they want the flirt, the tease, the getting to know you (obviously there's outliers) they want to paint a picture. Example: college kid asked for my number, we started texting, we went to get icecream, he touched my back "that was sexy", "oh he does this thing where he smiles it so attractive". Slowly start to build it.

They usually DON'T want to go from "I met this college kid and weve been texting, he text me this text, he wants to fuck".

BTW that's to say this is texting, I believe if you go out to a party, get buzzed, have fun and meet someone who is also buzzzed you can skip steps... People aren't as congruent in what they are doing

JackSquirts · 2026-04-15T18:27:05+00:00

I cannot imagine based on these post why people don't want to respond to you.

DownSyndromeLogic · 2026-04-15T19:24:09+00:00

Wait a minute. What the hell is up with your title, dude? If you actually believe that, that's your problem. And it doesn't matter if you text 8 or 80 chicks. Women can sense desperation. Self pity. Misery instantly. They only give the pussy up to someone who's in a good mood, Or at least feels like they deserve the pussy.

RedPillAlphaBigCock · 2026-04-15T21:20:42+00:00

Chilllax my dog ❤️,

Try and be loose and out the texting , text what is fun and funny to you , do NOT be afraid to go 0-200 , that will actually get you more success than trying to be perfect .

You got this

jackthehat6 · 2026-04-15T22:39:43+00:00

get it

YetzirahToAhssiah · 2026-04-16T03:02:49+00:00

I left the US and it got a lot easier

PrinceDestin · 2026-04-16T03:58:10+00:00

Bro just call these Women and have a good conversation

Comprehensive-War-34 · 2026-04-14T23:21:20+00:00

This is sad. A grown man complaining about not getting p*ssy🤦🏿‍♂️

Title	I don’t deserve p*ssy
Author	decal1210
Upvotes	31
Comments	96
Date	April 14, 2026 11:04 PM UTC (4 months ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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