The Femosphere deliberately genderizes behaviors that AREN'T gendered. (CMV)

bondepart · 2026-05-24T17:41:42+00:00

No behaviour is truly gendered. It’s all just stereotypes.

Equivalent_Dance2278 · 2026-05-24T18:15:40+00:00

Look, not even the behaviour that the redpill puts on women is solely things women do. I can assure you, that normal average schmo’s like me, do not think those things are only done by men. Nor murder. Nor rape. Nor domestic violence. They are HUMAN issues. Not gendered.

EugeneCezanne · 2026-05-24T21:32:04+00:00

Ironically, you're making a similar mistake by focusing on the "femosphere." The manosphere does the same thing, as do humans in general. Most (straight) people are simply more sensitively attuned to how the other gender behaves than how their own does. Like, if men and women cheat, but you only date women, you're a lot more likely to eventually generate the idea that cheating is a female thing.

AnimalLoose2402 · 2026-05-24T21:31:55+00:00

Well men tend to do the same thing. It’s not soley a trait of women I have known men that are/do

Gold diggers Monkey branchers Social media addicts Only date women their boys think are pretty Baby trappers Have Daddy issues

But these are generally female coded

Gravel_Roads · 2026-05-24T17:25:05+00:00

I don’t think you can say it’s just the “femosphere” gendering behavior when RP coined the phrase “AWALT”.

sablesalsa · 2026-05-24T18:42:10+00:00

Women generally only talk about abusive/shitty behaviors from men because the majority of women are straight and primarily experience it from men. I could say the same about men gendering behaviors that both women and men do... gold digging, for example.

I'm pretty sure everyone in possession of a brain knows those behaviors aren't tied to gender. If they're stupid enough to think otherwise, you can't do anything about that.

Kaleidoscopetide · 2026-05-24T17:49:15+00:00

I have never heard of the femosphere but that sounds bad. Goes to show there are also socially isolated women who don’t hang out with men and just get crazier and crazier watching TikToks. Gender equality indeed

Feeling_Ad_1034 · 2026-05-24T20:23:17+00:00

Did you ever notice that none of those behaviors are gendered

honestly, no.

maybe punching holes in walls or physical violence, but none of the ones you mentioned.

esdebah · 2026-05-24T21:02:09+00:00

Anyone who doesn't bristle at being called femosphere or manosphere is going to be gendering stuff. It's the whole game. The more pointless and inflammatory, the more engagement.

NiaMiaBia · 2026-05-24T17:51:08+00:00

If it’s women talking, it’ll be from a woman’s perspective. Most women date/marry men so they discuss it. Y’all act like there’s some ulterior movie, or malice. There’s not. Women are talking about their experiences.

That said, MOST behaviors are not inherently gendered. This should not be news to anyone.

Theawkwardmochi · 2026-05-24T18:14:13+00:00

The ironic thing is that you're now gendering the gendering 🤣 and gendering is not a gendered trait. Tragically, both sides do that and completely ignore the fact that pretty awful things people do are just that - awful things people do. Not women, not men, people. Like the propagators of the hilarious idea of "female hypergamy" will be very vocal about how materialistic women are while completely ignoring the fact that men are actually MORE likely (so slightly it's irrelevant, but more nonetheless) to admit they would marry for money.

People are addicted to the victim mentality. Sure it turns your brain into mush, jeopardizes your goals, makes you deeply unhappy, but boy does it feel good in the moment. It's like self-regulating with meth lol. It might have started on one side of the political (and, broadly , ideological) spectrum that is notorious for viewing the world as a place full of threat and oppression rather than freedom and opportunity, but has since spilled pretty much everywhere. The rise of the so called "woke right" (it's a super interesting phenomenon I think) is a prime example of how far it's gone.

Why? Because if we grab all those non-gendered behaviors and keep addressing them only men do them... the men will stop doing, but the women who do will keep doing them.

Like you just mentioned, these aren't gendered behaviors. They are human behaviors. No amount of talking about them is going to end them. So you aren't at risk of living in the world where all men are faithful, but women cheat left right and center. However if people continue to marinade in their own victimhood, we will live in a world full of really bitter men and women.

Downtown_Cat_1745 · 2026-05-24T17:14:52+00:00

Men are statistically more likely to cheat than women are

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Tess27795 · 2026-05-24T23:33:41+00:00

No, deep down most people do not want anyone to do these behaviours with a person. The behaviour sounds definitely like a person with a personality disorder. Men are more likely to have anti social personality disorder and narcissistic personality disorder. Lucky me I have run into more women with narcissism and definitely more men with anti social personality disorder. Basically, these are the people you run from. The faster the better.

Artistic_Speech_1965 · 2026-05-26T07:53:05+00:00

The femosphere? Also those are male coded because women are too vocal about that

Present-Afternoon-70 · 2026-05-24T18:12:49+00:00

These things are traits of abusers, and abusers tend to be less empathetic and enjoy power. Men tend to be socialized to have less empathy and more desire for power. You tell use where the direct line is actually not connected a and b?

ImaginaryDimension74 · 2026-05-24T23:01:24+00:00

Portraying human issues as female specific issues is the first step in winning policies advantageous to women.

Studies show women initiate more domestic violence than men, but the feminist Duluth model pushed the exact opposite idea. The result was police bias, court bias VAWA, etc.

Far more men than women are being killed in the Ukraine war, yet we see the UN and other organizations pushing women most negatively impacted B.S.

Inquiz_ · 2026-05-25T16:20:43+00:00

The femosphere is a century older than the manosphere, is far bigger by a huge degree, and believes far worse things about men than the manosphere does about women.

Title	The Femosphere deliberately genderizes behaviors that AREN'T gendered. (CMV)
Author	AntiSocialPartygoer
Upvotes	22
Comments	46
Date	May 24, 2026 5:12 PM UTC (1 month ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
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