Have you done hookers?

Mostass · 2020-08-29T08:27:23+00:00

Yea, I live in eastern europe and the price of half an hour with a decent looking girl is about as much as I would pay for a regular date.

I don't do it to replace hooking up with regular girls, but it's a fun thing that I do once every few weeks.

I feel it gives me absolute abundance. Even when you have multiple plates, they might all be busy on the same day, but you will always find a decent hooker available.

saltyfiredude · 2020-08-29T09:35:28+00:00

A wise man once said:

"if it floats, flies or fucks... Its better to rent rather than buy"

mrrooftops · 2020-08-29T11:03:34+00:00

Nothing beats a '10' who genuinely wants to have sex with you. The difference is night and day. This all goes without saying. Unless you are a sociopathic thirst monster, then there is no difference in your connection expectation between a woman or a sock; so you won't care. You will short circuit your self improvement if you use escorts because your expectations will be set higher than what your current SMV can actually achieve. Like the low SMV women who think they are super hot because of all the losers falling for their thirst traps. Although there is a case for doing it to numb your putting women on a pedestal if you have lower SMV and are constantly 'looking up'.

yellowsquare1980 · 2020-08-29T06:23:11+00:00

Yes I’ve been with a few and believe every man should directly pay for it once in his life. The mere exchange of $100 for instant fuck is amazing and changes the value of women and pussy forever. You realize immediately after, that any girl can literally just sell it and all you have to do is pick up an extra shift.

It lowers the value of cunt and makes you more confident. Plus knowing “I can just pay for it later” takes the edge off of flirting and social interactions, even if you’d never do it again. Merely HAVING the option, even if you aren’t USING it changes your mindset.

OneTrueQ · 2020-08-29T08:48:33+00:00

definitely causes a mental paradigm shift. Got the hottest girl with the best body I’ve ever experienced through paying for it. Its nothing particularly special and it put its into perspective that a genuine connection truly does matter most.

undercovergex22 · 2020-08-29T12:19:24+00:00

Yes. Quite a bit of experiences with outcall escorts

Here are the advantages:

You can gain confidence notching 10s on your belt, which can help with your game

You can live out your fantasies

You can use them as an alternative/leverage if a girlfriend/plate isn't servicing you right

It can be mentally reassuring to know that pussy is ALWAYS available if you can come up with the cash. You never have to worry about being shut out of sex again

Can help to get over a breakup

Here are the disadvantages:

Unless you are really wealthy, paying for them more than a couple times a month will likely be over your budget. And you probably want to be having more than two short hours of sex per month

It can be extremely addictive. Knowing that you can have sex any time you are horny if you dish out the cash can lead to always wondering if "today is the day" you splurge and call the number

If you decide to do it keep a schedule/budget and do not budge from what you planned in advance. Being impulsive and deviating from a well thought out plan can lead to financial ruin early in life. I've heard of guys digging a hole of so much debt that few would ever be able to get out of

It can kill your game. It's hard to get motivated to go out and chat girls up when you can just text a number and know a model is coming right over who will let you use her body however you want

The sex won't be as good with a girl who actually is turned on by you or loves you. Remember these girls are pros and the longer they are in the Industry the better they get at making men nut very quickly and getting out of there. Once in a while you will discover a young sweetie whose heart hasn't hardened yet and gives you a "girlfriend experience", but those doves are rare. Most are all about the money and it shows

It can easily lead to doing drugs (especially coke) since the girls are always ok with you doing it and some even encourage it and partake themselves ("party friendly" is the code word). This is quite different from many non-escort women who wouldn't be ok with you snorting lines before sex. Drugs make the experience even more aggressive and exciting, but also that much more expensive and addictive.

Overall I'd say the disadvantages outweigh the advantages, but that's just my opinion. I would like to think that if I was mega rich I still wouldn't do it again because I would prefer the genuine attraction, even if it's a real temptation to boss women around sexually with money. Be careful.

michael1962-01 · 2020-08-29T06:48:38+00:00

You allways pay..

LarsleDarsle · 2020-08-29T08:42:31+00:00

I read the intro as "since i was 10"

BeppeGrillo666 · 2020-08-29T09:13:20+00:00

You did the right thing. Hookers are good if they are extremely beautiful. It's a bad thing when you search a replacement for love

InvisibleMan97 · 2020-08-29T09:13:57+00:00

Banging hookers has its pros and cons, pros being you get sex handed to you on a plate and some of the women are really sexy, cons it costs money and it makes you lazy and not bother talking to other women when you know you can pay for it and get it so much easier, just my experience anyway

dzmisrb43 · 2020-08-29T10:52:31+00:00

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TeddyMGTOW · 2020-08-29T11:47:08+00:00

If there is one place being with a hooker should not be shamed is here, The Red Pill. But IMHO, never go 100% hookers, lifes a balance..

Warframe_Immortal · 2020-08-29T12:57:39+00:00

Bruvs I have to be honest it became good discussion but...

What you mean by a 10 that generally wants to be with you? It's the same, they always go to the rich dude or the one that can benefit them and they shake him down if they can for MUCH more than 100$. Let's face it - banging 10/10 (true 10s) is never because of your game. It's always combination of your status, wealth, pre-selection and so on.

I doubt any of you regularly fucks 10s and if they do they will get so attached to them that it will show that they are not Red Pill at all, which brings me to my next observation:

Most of us do VALIDATIONAL sex. I'm sure you may disagree but based on what I'm reading it's true. You want to VALIDATE your own ego that SHE WANTS YOU. Again we put the perspective on her, we feed ourselves with validation based on her desire for "us" even though that desire might be your money, your status, your connections etc.

For me it should be old school like the mafia did - we have regular wife and we have lovers/hookers on the side. This is the real deal for me.

ThrowawayYAYAY2002 · 2020-08-29T10:45:47+00:00

Yep, many times.

1) You always pay when with a woman, hooker or not. Always.

2) I've done a bunch.

It's a great arrangement. You pay her to leave, she earns good money. Win/Win.

I've fucked at least 10-15 hookers. Not once have I caught an STD. You are way more likely to catch an STD from a woman that isn't a hooker. I'm talking escort, not a street walker, btw.

SoA_MC · 2020-08-29T08:52:31+00:00

Once, when I was 20, and had been drinking. I remember she was extremely good looking. It was fine but it didn’t do anything for me. Sex is a million times better with girls you put at least a bit of time into (and they into you), and the mutual attraction is its most intense. I’d take one round of that with a 6 or 7 over ten rounds with a 10/10 hooker tbh

RevolutionaryPea7 · 2020-08-29T09:02:15+00:00

How do you go about hiring a 10/10 hooker? I've looked into it myself but quite honestly it looks more expensive than having an LTR if I want sex more than one a month or so. I also have this impression that whores are going to be skanky and unattractive. If I knew I could pay for a 10/10 I would be more inclined to try. I'm sure it's the blue pill that teaches you this about whores, though. But still I'd be interested to know about the practicalities of actually finding one. I live in the UK so it's perfectly legal.

PatrickIIDX · 2020-08-29T13:48:29+00:00

After reaching age 30, I decided to quit the games and just hire an escort. After enough of them, all of it was just novelty. Get laid to get laid. Short term pleasure. The more I seen them, the more boring being with them got. I dressed them up just to see them for 1-2 hours.

Advice from a guy who did all this: Sex really isn't all that people crack it up to be. But, sometimes to convince you to realize that, you might just have to blow a few hundred dollars a few times to find that out yourself.

Stupyyy · 2020-08-29T14:13:50+00:00

It's cause your thirsty lizard brain is starved for pussy and it's only aim is to get you to fuck as many bitches and reproduce as many times possible. It's that primal instinct that got us to survive as species.

PepinoSF · 2020-08-29T16:07:50+00:00

Rich men in the past initiated their grown sons by visiting togheter high class madams.

This is to remove the indecisevness of the beginer and to prevent them of being tricked by the natural players - more experinced women

AuberyBitoni · 2020-08-29T11:58:52+00:00

Yes, I've fucked many hookers. Some experiences were shit, others were amazing.

But it fucked me up mentally. Where I live it's 40 euros for a hooker for 15 minutes. I've fucked dozen of 9's and 10's but it fucked me up mentally so hard.

Don't go down this path, I got addicted and it ruined me with normal girls.

Purplegetraenk · 2020-08-29T13:45:37+00:00

Hooker: no time wasted, you chose what you want, no headache from any sort of bullshit, they are usually good at what they do.

Free pussy: spend lots of time (time you could have spent on working/hobbies/family/exercise) before the actual sex, possibly a bit of money for date/transportation etc. , pussy and quality of sex is a hit or miss, chances of a regular dude fucking a 10/10 are very low. And you have to deal with the whole bullshit women bring.

If your time is valuable and you want to focus on your purpose then fucking hookers is fine if you ask me. Better than going to a club or bar to fuck a entitled 7/10

throwitdownman · 2020-08-29T17:16:04+00:00

The comments here who are extreme anti-hooker have never tried them.

The truth is it’s not the best shit in the world, it’s also not the worst. In a way it’s like TRP - it’ll make you emotionally detach yourself from the whole ‘pussy is sacred’ belief we are fed through media growing up.

If you used to place pussy on a pedestal, or are obsessed with hot babes, getting a hooker even once will let you mentally ‘move on’ from this phase.

I personally feel you are less likely to get hooked on hookers, than you are getting hooked on alcohol, or even on a video game. It’s just another (potentially) expensive recreational activity.

Johnnybeachboy · 2020-08-29T17:55:10+00:00

I would never stoop so low to pay for sex. If you're dating a girl who cares about spending a ton of money on a date you are doing it incorrectly. It's even worse if you're going on these dates and not enjoying them!

Much more fun knowing a girl actively wants to fuck you who isn't doing it based off rather shady implications. Sex slavery is everywhere and prostitution supports it.

omega_dawg93 · 2020-08-29T17:58:16+00:00

and you wonder why sooooo many women are opposed to legalized brothels...

WeddingCrasher91 · 2020-08-29T10:35:09+00:00

I get escorts because I like fake tits

Warframe_Immortal · 2020-08-29T08:38:58+00:00

Then one more question:

I know some MULTI-MILLIONAIRES that do hookers almost all the time (threesomes, foursomes and so on). They don't even try to game or do whatever. They are some really really serious people and almost 90% of the interactions they have with women are with hookers.

Why is that?

I'm talking people so far ahead in life that probably we would never catch them - they have their families on the side too, is that the reason? They don't want some girl to fall inlove with them and make problems?

We always talk on this forum here how we should have money and so on and so on, but many of the dudes that have LOTS of money do primarily hookers... they don't game no girls, they don't chat them etc.

Redditorsheaven · 2020-08-29T07:54:13+00:00

I have done it but I haven’t put philosophies behind it. Nothing special.

Iamnotproud64 · 2020-08-29T13:29:21+00:00

Twice, and night and day experiences as well. Both were about 5 or 6 years ago. 1st time was a white girl(I am white) from craigslist..was boring, total starfish, and just in a hurry...and blatantly greedy... I genuinely felt played, We had agreed upon 150...but she basically intimidated me out of another 100(I had no idea if a bf/pimp were nearby..so I paid) 2nd time was at an Asian massage parlor...which I went to not sure of how it worked. anyhow, I get a really great massage, and then..licks the nuts, putss on a condom...and the sex was really good...yes I am sure it was an act, but she wasnt starfishing, rushing, etc. the room charge was $40. but the tip was extra...at no point did she mention price, or anything..but I happily gave her a couple hundred. i wont do it again, but that was my experience.

Optionsmfd · 2020-08-29T13:58:11+00:00

i dream for the day the USA has a GOT style brothel

where u can get instantly tested and enjoy a GF experience for a few coppers silvers or maybe once a year gold

catz123456 · 2020-08-29T15:56:36+00:00

Lol at true 10

acertenay · 2020-08-29T17:02:56+00:00

I dont like it. Most hookers I have encountered are focused on quick pump and dumps so you pay like a 100 euros and will be done in 10 minutes.

superomar13 · 2020-08-29T17:19:28+00:00

Here's what I think: Going down that road once or twice is fine to bring some abundance or break a dry spell. But you can end up relying on it and lose the thrill of the chase. ALSO, it will never give you ABSOLUTE abundance. Absolute abundance imo is knowing deep down that you can walk around and know you can find an LTR quality girl (looks, personality, etc wise) whenever you feel like it. One of my mentors had absolute abundance, and wasn't gotten from hookers.

Realmadrid4499 · 2020-08-29T18:26:40+00:00

No true 10/10 is a hooker, hookers can be max a 7 and that’s if your lucky

Ducthadon · 2020-08-29T18:51:08+00:00

Yes a whole bunch of times, the good you get to pick and choose the type of girl you want. It's not all about picking 10's as I've fucked some white European women with big ole booties like natural and round or women with extremely large breasts. That's not something you come across in the dating world unless you really go looking for it.

Seeing a hooker takes out the middleman of having to date a girl before you fuck, although recently I've been fucking from the 1st/2nd date.

But for me it doesn't replace the mutual attraction and intimacy you get from a civilian, you usually need to see the same hooker over and over to achieve that plus spend money. I'd say seeing a hooker is worth the experience especially travelling abroad see South America, RLD in Amsterdam or a sex club.

redmaxz · 2020-08-29T19:56:37+00:00

Started after having some erection issues with my first girl due to anxiety. The hooker was a really nice girl and never had issues again with anxiety after her.

Another one after some rp truths hit me irl, made me get over it and restored some of my confidence.

Definitely can be good fun, no drama, no time wasted. It's a good addition to a man who puts himself first.

prostaddict · 2020-08-29T20:35:27+00:00

Yeah - I just say be careful. If you struggle with attracting 7+s and don't have true abundance, I recommend against it. The reason being is one of a few:

1) After sleeping with these girls, you'll get a sense in your gut that they really just were into the money and aren't really into you. Do this enough without abundance of organic sexual relationships in your life and it'll start wrecking your inner game

2) These girls are sleeping with 60,70,80 year old fat fucks for the same amount. This ties into the above - there are forums and sites where johns review women, and you'll constantly read things like 'she was great even though im a bigger older guy, but i had my magic pill before I visited'. So as long as you realize there is absolutely no sense of accomplishment or affirmation of your game/SMV from sleeping with these women - as literal unfuckables are fucking the same broad - then go ahead

3) They can be addictive. There is also no future with these broads. Say you had mind blowing sex with one of them and you connected well, in those situations I'd feel like 'damn if only I met a girl like that outside the hobbie, I'd be set'. It's a shit feeling. Sometimes you can get their number/etc and potentially hook up with them outside that setting as an FWB, but you'd never want to LTR that

As long as you recognize the above and don't equate it to a false sense of abundance that'll help your IRL game (because they werent into you and your SMV had nothing to do with it), then go ahead and scratch that itch.

m0rty1g · 2020-08-30T05:36:39+00:00

I have probably spent 10k dollars on hookers over a couple of years. I love it tho

SteveSan82 · 2020-08-29T06:58:27+00:00

No. Hookers are for black pillers

rektum_expander · 2020-08-29T09:50:39+00:00

Yeah, I go on sex vacations. My experience has been that they see it as a job. Get it done and over with as fast as possible and if you last longer than they think it should they hit you up for more money. There’s no connection, no emotion, no nothing. Just work. So, if you’re able, go for the real thing.

jrr6415sun · 2020-08-29T10:21:18+00:00

Every hooker I’ve seen has been a 5 at best. How did you get a 10? That must have been very expensive.

jasondougies · 2020-08-29T12:18:03+00:00

i still don't think it works well for guys that dont already regulary meet/fuck new girls

krmaml · 2020-08-29T12:54:36+00:00

Ofcourse

Arnoux · 2020-08-29T13:56:11+00:00

if we are getting something SO special by being in their pants? We get nothing.

Kids. If you don’t want to kids there is less reason to have LTR.

Lightways434 · 2020-08-29T14:32:15+00:00

I did it for the first time two weeks ago at a FS massage parlor. Fake boobs, fake ass... it was nice. Definitely something I’d do again in the future.

SScharnhorst · 2020-08-29T15:38:17+00:00

Sadly TRP has no higher meaning than carnal pleasure.

downvotesanimals · 2020-08-29T15:50:50+00:00

If you're jumping hoops you're doing it wrong.

TheBunk_TB · 2020-08-29T16:28:09+00:00

Off topic: Depending on who you ask, a "hooker" is a professional wrestler or a prostitute. Tread carefully.

KeyRepresentative · 2020-08-29T17:54:26+00:00

Don’t expect some existential change or revelation from using an escort. Don’t use them as a crutch to not use your game to meet actual women.

Escorts are fun, like cocaine, and should be used as such. Every now and then while partying? Ok. Not a solution to any internal issues though.

Nighthawk_Black_ · 2020-08-29T18:42:37+00:00

I've done a bunch of them if you get a really good one it will blow your mind.

BBCinParis · 2020-08-29T20:41:01+00:00

If you pay me a month what you pay for hookers an hour, i can be your best friend.

Xxx-Lou-xxX · 2020-08-29T21:14:42+00:00

It is amazing that im reading this today!!! Yesterday i was about to do a hooker and she bailed at the last moment. It got me thinking, is it okay for a happily married man sexually satisfied but rather would love how a 10 would feels like to try out hookers?!! I was afraid to ruin my relationship with my wife and i was not sure should i do it or not? I would appreciate any input or advice!

acadiawaterbottle · 2020-08-29T21:29:02+00:00

Amen this is why girls in America are so stuck up

Standgrounding · 2020-08-29T22:02:13+00:00

Took my own virginity with one.

The sex was meh to say the least. No kissing no cuddling or other cute stuff. Just a blowjob and then I nutted.

If you wanna fuck just to fuck without cute stuff or feel the abundance its good.

ScribblesandPuke · 2020-08-31T01:16:53+00:00

I once got a blow job from a bald crackhead prostitute that I'm not even sure was a woman. And my buddy and I both used the same one right after each other. She (hopefully) told me I had a big dick tho so she was a 10 in my book. That was a good night. We also both had hot girlfriends at the time, I dunno why we did this tbh but I don't regret it.

Superl00se · 2020-08-29T10:46:57+00:00

No. Paying for sex is beta shit.

hollabomb · 2020-08-29T11:31:23+00:00

I don’t pay them to sleep with me, I pay them to leave...

Title	Have you done hookers?
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