There’s a lot of talk about how the man should be the prize here at TRP. Women in this day and age, in Western Civilization, are so used to being pedestalized that they get a shock to their system when a man breaks the norm of bending to a woman’s will. The shock, which may sound bad at first, induces a strong sense of tingles. There are (or should be, at least) plenty of FRs and RP examples posted about guys here doing this after first swallowing the red pill and “seeing instant results.”
For a quick example, I was recently at a party. One of the guys there is an überbeta when dealing with his very bitchy girlfriend with whom I haven't had so much as an introduction's worth of interaction. I was talking with a friend when she butted her way in. Trying to be a part of this two-man boys' club. My buddy and I, who has a semblance of TRP in him, basically told her that we weren’t interested in what she had to say. After the rejection, she said, “well excuuuuuuse me! *bitchy laugh accompanied by her storming off*”. As she got up to walk away, I responded, “You’re excused.” Stopped her dead in her tracks. She looked back at me with a face of “OMG I can’t believe a guy would say that to me but I really, really, really like it!” and said verbatim, “fluviant, I like you! You’re really funny!” Shock to the system. This chick has been waiting for a long time to be put in her place.
For the average man (read: beta male), a woman is an opportunity to prove his worth in the sexual market. Betas will essentially unload everything on the woman at first chance. Like verbal diarrhea, it all comes out and repulses the woman. Imagine a guy you just meet who tries to tell you about his life. You couldn’t give less of a fuck about this shmuck. He does this with every woman he meets, though. “How can I impress her? What does she like? Will this work on her to win her over?” This is what women are used to. You all are aware that this is the exact wrong way to approach the subject. The man is the prize.
One way to signal this value is by making the woman work for you. Don’t give away information about yourself easily. Hold your cards close to your chest. At a base level, you may think this is a case of not having the time to relay your life story to a woman. But it goes deeper. You value yourself, your characteristics, your life experiences, memories, stories, etc. These things are what you tell people close to you who have enough meaning in your life to have earned the privilege to know you on a personal level. Only people of value with whom you want to associate get this treatment from you.
Set this stage from early on. Refuse to tell her the nitty-gritty about your past. Hold on for dear life until she has earned that privilege of knowing you on a personal level. A woman will sense a “mysterious” vibe when you raise an eyebrow to a question about your upbringing, job, etc. instead of answering with glee. She might even give a light shit-test if she’s intrigued. Ignore and deflect the attempt to dig information out of you.
You’re a closed book. She has to win your favor and adoration if she wishes to pry you open. And when she starts investing in you sufficiently by giving IOIs (and eventually sex), give her a page’s worth of your multi-volume biography. Give her just enough to sate her for the time being. This will keep her hooked. Whenever she tells you you’re “closed off,” “mysterious,” “emotionally unavailable,” anything of that sort, tell her that you’re a closed book.
She’s an open book. What you learn here at TRP is how to identify the roguery of women’s sexual strategy. Amused Mastery. You can see right through every act she puts on. It doesn’t faze you. It’s endearing, adorable, cute. You can read her like an open book. Not only is this little act of hers not fooling you, but you can predict her next move as if her strategy is laid out before you. And, again, tell her you can read her like an open book. This has many positive side-effects: the mystery of “What does he truly think of me?”, “He’s obviously experienced and must know what women like”, “He’s had many women flock to him in the past”, etc. You get the idea.
You’re a closed book. She's an open book.
You have to be pried open. She doesn't stand a chance at duping you.
Now get out there and make women swoon.
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