No "it doesn't matter", no "I prefer it that way", no more verbal gymnastic to make defects look sweet or wholesome, and no more humble bragging.

Say something objectively bad about your partner, spoken in a neutral or negative way. Or something he would have/do, that would make things better. Exactly like you would do with your exes.

Try and be objective, things can always be improved, show us what it would look like for once.

And try and say zero positive things such as "but everything else is great", we know that already. It's a debate sub, you're not here to appear as best as possible.