Q4RP: Are your sisters, mothers, aunts and grandmothers AWALTs?

Salty-Bastard · 2018-06-01T20:28:50+00:00

Oh. My. Well. This is really in good faith, now isnt' it?

Yes, every single one of my female relatives was an AWALT. Every one. No, they didn't all ride the cock carousel. Only a female cousin and her mother did that (as far as I know - women are really good at concealing this).

No, they didn't all trick a beta bucks into marrying them. My grandmothers did that, except they didn't "trick" my grandfathers. They settled for those men. Very, very deeply settled. Settled a lot. Compromised a lot. So did my sister - married a guy she really wasn't all that into because she wanted to get married really really really bad and her bio-clock was roaring in her ears like a freight train.

No, they didn't divorce rape/branch swing. Not all of them. The aforementioned cousin and her mother both did, though.

They all, though:

--are hypergamous

--shit test men within an inch of their lives

--react hyperemotionally, use emotional "thinking" instead of logic

--allow their emotions to rule their lives

--make decisions based on how they feel about something rather than what they think about that something. Instead of thinking it through, they just impulsively react based on how they feel

--fly off the handle at the smallest things

--use emotional manipulation, especially with men, to get men to do what they want/stop doing things they don't want

--try to rule men and "rule over everything" wherever they are, requiring men to shut them down and put them in check

--use fraud, deception and subterfuge to attain their own ends

--use sex and sexual allure to manipulate men

--are keenly aware of the FSM, its operation, and their places within it

--are quite shallow and looks-based in their attraction triggers, and lie through their teeth about it

--can be real superbitch ragecunts if the situation calls for it or they just decide to be

The absolute worst AWALT? My mother. She is every one of these things. She is 74 years old, and except for the sexual allure part, does every single one of these things still to this very day, and has from my very earliest memories.

Ultramegasaurus · 2018-06-01T18:24:26+00:00

My now-dead mother was a walking AWALT

Ditched STEM beta for exotic, foreign Chadlet, my father who was loud, agressive and loved to party
Surprise, surprise, foreign Chadlet beat her, she divorces him
Gets to know working-class beta stepdad
Have a kid together, my half-sister
Almost immediately afterwards, she starts massively disrespecting my stepfather and it gets worse every year
Sexless marriage for 10 years
They are on vacation in the same country my Chadlet father is from
She cheats on stepdad with a fucking poolboy
Makes scenes, gets violent against him and the cops side with her
Divorce
Send poolboy and his family probably more than a thousand € while complaining to me that money is scarce being a single mother
Finally marry and import poolboy from shithole country
He leaves after a fucking week
Mother starts drinking and is miserable, he was "the love of her life" puke
Finds a new boyfriend in own country, hard-working, funny guy
A year later, she gets cancer from chainsmoking
New boyfriend stayed with her until the end, legit good guy
Find out later that she still wrote with the poolboy behind his back almost up to the day of her death

God rest her soul, she was hard-working and took care of my sister and me. But fuck me if she wasn't rotten when it came to relationships. A textbook Chad chaser and Alpha fucks/Beta bucks practitioner.

BirdManBrrrr · 2018-06-01T20:04:24+00:00

Fun question.

My mother lived her emotions with everyone close to her: kids, husband, mother, MIL, etc. Looking back, she was a very typical "AWALT" woman in that her emotions were her reality and trying to logic with her was generally not productive. Very much a mamma bear to her kids which left my honorable but self sacrificing, beta father in a bit of a subordinate spot for most of the marriage; she ran the house and the family 100%. He admits as much. Whenever he would set a boundary or stand up to her all hell would break loose: screaming at eachother, her threatening to leave, all that. They loved eachother very much, but the whole ordeal could have been something right out of MRP.

She was a party girl in college and her early 20s also, mom "dated" a lot. Did she cheat or attempt to branch swing from my father? I have no idea and I'd like to think not given the unique kid situation she was in; I think she went the opposite way of orbiting her kids (one special needs) to the exclusion of everything else. That, and this was a very old school, European immigrant, religious trad-con family so there's a lid on some of that behavior.

My grandmother (mom's mom) was a manipulative BPD woman who took her emotional reality and squared it. The woman thrived on drama to the Nth degree; if there was none she would unilaterally start something to get it and then cry victim when someone would call her out on her shit. To quote my father: "She'd come over, get into a fight with your mother, then leave and I'd have to deal with it for the rest of the day."

My dad's mom was much more subdued, probably because she married a good looking, womanizing guy at 19 and stayed married for the duration. My grandfather was very much a DGAF guy and did his own thing...she just followed along; her propensity for female drama was much lower than my mother's side. Coincidence? Maybe, maybe not. Interesting to think about.

Both henpicked their husbands, both clucked with their lady friends and complained constantly, both had intense victim complexes, both blew little shit out of proportion for no reason other than to generate drama where it didn't exist...I love and miss both dearly but a lot of my childhood suddenly made a lot of sense after finding RP.

TheGreasyPole · 2018-06-01T19:24:58+00:00

Yes,

Lets see... my mother ?

Married to my dad, 3 kids, he became a good beta. Doing the good Beta things. He may have been that way all along, he may have become that way. I obviously didn't know him back then but he sounded a bit of a lad when younger but was a solid beta dad as my father.
So she branch swings away from Dad ... For a guy much more Alpha, much more angry and dangerous and about 10 years younger than her (only about 5 years older than me) with a good job and good prospects. She just didn't feel excited by my dad anymore.
She marries and has a kid, my half-sister, with the new more Alpha Hubby #2. But he's always really angry and shouty. As she ages he has an affair with a woman more his own age and then he leaves her for his affair partner.
She kicks around a bit, dating a few guys. Mainly semi-alpha guys. Guy who works on oil rigs. A few other guys. Marries guy #3 early in her 60's. He's a big docker with a neck tattoo about 5 years younger than her.
He cheats on her with another woman, she leaves him.
She swears she's never getting married again. Starts dating another guy who she is still dating now.

My full-sister... She was together with a great guy, a bit beta but a great guy. Leaves him for a much more Alpha guy who turns out to be a heroin addict. Falls madly for him, but ultimately breaks away because "Heroin". End up with another guy with a neck tattoo who already has 2 kids by 2 different women. He proposes. They're engaged now.

Half-Sister (much younger) is with guy #1 ... son of millionaire parents, buys her all sorts of shit. We'll see how that one works out.

So, yes. Family history kinda confirms RP.

Salty-Bastard · 2018-06-01T18:21:52+00:00

Acta non verba is a good rule of thumb for everybody in your life.

crackrocksteady7 · 2018-06-01T18:23:47+00:00

I had a funny moment when I showed up to my parents house after not being there for 2 months and that was the first time my family saw me with the huge get mistaken for a bouncer at the bar arms. My grandma, nicest most giving person I've ever met who always had the best bp advice, it'll all work out you'll find a nice one someday, just be yourself etc etc straight up flatly told me "you don't need to get any bigger focus on making more money now" 😂

They all know what's up every one

Pope_Lucious · 2018-06-01T18:43:39+00:00

I have 5 sisters, a biological mother, and a stepmother who raised me. I am on good terms with all of them. I love all of them.

They absolutely are AWALTs. I’ve seen all of them shit-test and use female bullshit to attempt to overcome real obstacles.

Are they CC riders? Who knows? Who cares?

But they manifest the female imperative in obvious ways.

YesICanWhoopUrAss · 2018-06-01T21:44:50+00:00

I believe in the RP theories, but let me tell you my family history

Let me see my families mothers side:

Great Great grandma, has a illegitimate child with a high nazi official in Germany and flees to brazil to not be executed before the end of WWII, settles with a son of a magnate in Rio.

Great Grandmother, no idea, died in childbirth at age of 13

Grandmother, pass young years in brazilian favela, known as "the Little Venus", has a child and gives to adoption, settles down with a powerful pastor in the community after repenting, he becomes poor after she divorces him, last time I saw him, he barely ate enough to survive. (yes he asked for it when he got another woman while married, but he does not deserve death by malnutrition, but the family seen to disagree)

Mother, right out of high-school she dates and marries the school director, my father, start college with me in the way.

and unlike where you probably live, here it is direct, we teach our sons to never trust women, they are after money and power and our daughters to settle down with a rich/powerful guy because it is the only way to a family to get up in life.

And as you may guessed it, the cock carrosel is a everyday life to a brazilian.

Do I need to continue or is this enough?

jax006 · 2018-06-01T19:09:02+00:00

My sister and mom are both AWALT.

Sister banged alphas and is now settled down with an amazing beta who works his tail off to support her.

Mom was a femcel (pretty sure) and settled for my dad when she was like 30. She despises him for being so pussy and beta but he makes triple what she ever could and pays for all her shit regardless.

My one female cousin seems cool but I don't really know much about her personal life, if anything she seems to have been branch swinging the past few years to better and better guys.

Fabianstrategy1 · 2018-06-01T19:23:34+00:00

Yes. All of them.

My mother basically rules my father's day to day routine. Loves spending money they don't have, and nags a lot. She generally means well and has been faithful to my dad as far as I know, but both of them are the last of a dying breed.

One of my sisters snagged a Chad, and she's constantly vigilant about other women attempting to take him, they're both doctors, I don't see the marriage lasting longer than 5-10 years given their current dynamic.

The other sister has a beta 4 points lower than her SMV, but he's in banking and doing well and is connected so she'll run his life much like my mother runs my Dads.

My daughters are unfortunately, more like my ex-wife everyday which is heartbreaking because she's mentally ill and is prone to alcoholism.

analt223 · 2018-06-01T19:37:49+00:00

My women's studies major sister has said to me she won't date men under 6'0". So ya she is

LowCreddit · 2018-06-01T18:52:18+00:00

All women are whores. Except for my mother, but she too is a woman. - Probably Not Napoleon

quicklogaccount · 2018-06-01T19:11:27+00:00

Yep. LOTS OF THEM Play dumb to avoid having to justify shit EVERY FUCKING DAY. Crying when challenged is common as fuck, although sometimes I think it is legit and not forced. PURE AWALT.

Some are doing worse crap too.
One rather close to me is looking into securing a rich beta and she shames and uses ALL the weaponry she has to keep him locked. Poor dude. And she's only hard on him because she got convinced she can't swing any higher anymore.
Another one rode the CC hard, found a guy and was happy around him. Now he's abroad making them both some money to live (she makes none) and she's trying to get him to open the relationship. Poor dude, again.
ALL of them demonize their partners to allow them to end the relationship. ALL of them. There's not a single ex boyfriend in my family that's not a monster. And I say my ex girlfriend is cool even if even folks at relationships would label her abusive.

[deleted] · 2018-06-01T20:09:25+00:00

aunts: 3 of them are single moms

mother: she has been loyal, but my father is pretty alpha

grandmothers: same as above

sister: used to be pretty AWALT, but now is RP aware thanks to me

SilentLurker666 · 2018-06-01T23:04:09+00:00

I'll argue that we know from the women we actually lived with (AKA our family). One think OP has to remember that TRP isn't actually against women, but describe women's optimal mating strategy and general behavior. It's ironic how BPers claim AWALT is a bad thing, but meanwhile supports #yesallmen and #metoo.

[deleted] · 2018-06-01T18:38:09+00:00

Idk about the CC part since they got married right out of high school, but as far as female nature in general? Yes, absolutely

gasparddelanuit · 2018-06-01T18:43:18+00:00

Q4RP: Are your sisters, mothers, aunts and grandmothers AWALTs?

Yes, of course. AWALT simply represents female nature, not every critcism a RPer might have about women.

Atlas_B_Shruggin · 2018-06-01T19:03:00+00:00

My mother is the Queen of AWALT

wattwatty · 2018-06-01T23:35:27+00:00

Yep. Every one. I will give my sister full credit: she refuses to settle for BB, so has never been married in her mid-40s. She's dated drug dealers and pro athletes. She'd rather be alone than settle. She'd be happy to tell you that herself.

EnduringLiberty · 2018-06-02T11:14:14+00:00

Mother AWALT. Married a really beta STEM++ provider and resented him for his lack of social skills (he has a lot of flaws though, but she was only able to nag him). Considered divorce at one time but renounced. The law weren't so favourable for her in my country and my father is actually good with money and laws. I cannot say for her younger year, but i know she liked the seventies style concerts and lifestyle.

Also, strangely, when i hang out with my brother and his GF, people assumed it was my sister and her BF.

blackedoutfast · 2018-06-01T19:49:56+00:00

AWALT means all women are capable of doing all that stuff, it doesn't mean every single one of them is absolutely going to do it all the time.

if RP thought "All Women Are Absolutely Going To Do That Stuff All The Time" we would say AWAGTDTSATT instead of AWALT.

and yes, my female relatives are capable of doing dumb shit. and so are yours and everyone else's.

AWALT isn't an insult directed at women, it's a warning directed at men

hammerhaunts · 2018-06-01T19:22:41+00:00

One of my cousins is. But in general I don't know much about my family

daveofmars · 2018-06-01T19:25:57+00:00

Ma is AWALT in that she hen pecked my dad to death and only got more angry as he supplicated. I'm sure that if he had put his foot down they wouldn't have gotten a divorce. She now laments that her boyfriend is losing a lot of weight and looks way better than her. He unintentionally inflicted a little Dread Game.

Sister is an enigma. Very politically correct and feminist, but is also on antidepressants and not doing so well in life thanks to poor impulse control and being terrible with money. I don't consider her AWALT.

Entropy-7 · 2018-06-01T21:41:24+00:00

I have a mother and two sister and among them they have 8 husbands and ex-husbands. Not "boyfriend" or whatever but legal marriage husbands.

My sister divorce-raped her ex (who was cheating fuck, but that is an other story) and that funded her round-the-world tour.

My mother specifically DID NOT divorce rape my father but I wish that she did because my life would have been a whole lot easier.

YesICanWhoopUrAss · 2018-06-01T22:56:38+00:00

All. Women. Are. Like. That.

Period. Sharing a shred of damn DNA changes nothing about them.

mgtow_1 · 2018-06-01T23:24:38+00:00

Yep my family was what sent me to trp, watching all my female relatives and their actions really opened my eyes.

DareyFathom · 2018-06-01T18:51:13+00:00

My sisters and cousins are too young to have gone through the entire evolution, but their behavior is very predictable based on RP doctrine. Mother was from an older generation obviously, but she also reinforces RP philosophy.

bigmfkr · 2018-06-03T17:49:45+00:00

Abso-fucking-lutely.

newName543456 · 2018-06-03T20:52:42+00:00

Why wouldn't they be? I know of several cheating stories, several attention seeking examples, nagging happens for every marriage in question at one point or the other.

Theseus_The_King · 2018-06-05T00:36:24+00:00

I would like to see this same question posed to BPs and see how and if the answers differ. Perhaps experiences could play a role in if you accept AWALT or not.

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[deleted] · 2018-06-01T18:30:50+00:00

Yes.

abaxeron · 2018-06-01T20:21:48+00:00

Family is usually the first exposure to the red pill; I'm not an exception. All my relatives that are legally considered "close" - got divorced at least once. Those who didn't (cousins, grandparents, ...) - most of them lived trapped in loveless marriaged "for the sake of the children". As a result, my earliest memory is a nightmare about my mom screaming at me at the top of her lungs. Except she was actually screaming at my dad, which I found out after waking up in cold sweat.

exit_sandman · 2018-06-01T20:28:51+00:00

Yes, all of them are AWALT to some degree or another, and my grandmother was the worst of all - legit TRP cautionary tale material.

PhotosyntheticChad · 2018-06-01T22:51:07+00:00

Mother: Definitely. Sisters: hamstering off the chart. Definitely. Grandmothers were both crab-bucketeers.

Willow-girl · 2018-06-02T03:21:45+00:00

My mother pulled off an epic branch-swing! After 40+ years of an unhappy marriage, she left my dad and married her late best friend's widower. Super guy! Unfortunately they only had a few short, happy years together before cancer took her. But better a few years than none at all!

mojobytes · 2018-06-02T04:10:07+00:00

They must be, they just don't direct it fully at family. Sort of like how a woman would tell her son whose in the bottom 80% that "he'll find a girl someday" when if he weren't related he'd be as invisible to her as he is to every other quality woman.

dicklord_airplane · 2018-06-04T13:06:14+00:00

Yes, my mom is an AWALT in every way, and she's aware of it. And that's just fine. Its ok to be a woman!

But my mom never did the cock carosel or branch swinging thing because she's smarter than that. She was one of those girls who "never gave it up" as my dad recalls. He had to work to win her over, and he succeeded. And my mom chose very well because my dad is very successful. They are coming up on their 40th aniversary.

One of my mom's childhood friends is a good example of a similar woman who chose to ride the cock carosel and branch swing. She was a really hot blonde when she was young, and she had a great time fucking around with all the hottest manly men. Well guess where she is now. She's a bitter, nasty, single spinster rapidly approaching senior citizen status.

Both of these women exhibit AWALT, but AWALT doesnt mean that all women make stupid decisions. Some women are smarter than others and don't just think with their vaginas. We all have those stupid retarded-animal-lust urges (AWALT), but the smart ones with good training know that they should curb those urges in order to build a functional long-term relationship.

Nu_Guy · 2018-06-04T14:49:01+00:00

I would say they did not CC because of religion, but they have all the other traits we talk about, especially when dealing with men outside the family.

LeJacquelope · 2018-06-02T08:20:08+00:00

Nope. AWALT is as stupid as AMALT. The problem for men is they need to hold off and just accept jerking it to porn until a woman who's NOT LIKE THAT shows up. Most men are too weak to do that. "But muh b-b-b-biology!" and all that.

Title	Q4RP: Are your sisters, mothers, aunts and grandmothers AWALTs?
Author	Cuckleberry-Finn
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Date	June 1, 2018 6:12 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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