Q4Men: have you ever left the US and experienced a massive bump in your SMV/RMV?

PPD-Angel · 2019-09-23T17:23:06+00:00

Just a reminder race-baiting is against the rules.

crackrocksteady7 · 2019-09-23T17:24:43+00:00

I felt the opposite when I went to the richie rich part of london for a week. Everyone was looksmaxing just as hard, i was average to slightly below. Didnt see 1 fatty or homeless the whole time. And then i came back to chicago filled with 5'5" 220lb mystery meat goblins

PickUpScientist · 2019-09-23T17:49:06+00:00

i studied abroad in tokyo in 2007 and found this to be true. i live in southern california, where blond haired blue eyed guys are the dime a dozen. i had stopped bothering with hitting on women by my second year of high school.

in tokyo blond hair is a plus for asian girls that watch a lot of american tv. the population even in tokyo was like 99% japanese when i went there, so the supply of blond white dudes was low. by the end of the year in tokyo i had two girlfriends.

going from being invisible, to visible, then back to invisible when i came home was a trip. when i got back to the U.S. it was back to mild disinterest from any chick i even tried to have a friendly conversation with. it took a lot of resource cultivation and working out to get close to where i was in tokyo smv wise, and i am only getting there now ten years later.

being a normal looking blond skinny white dude in tokyo is like being a 6'2" guy with a six pack and a maserati in the U.S.

babystarboyx · 2019-09-23T17:24:04+00:00

I went to England and it didn’t matter, went to Vietnam on a trip and bitches where all over me.

abicus4343 · 2019-09-23T18:12:01+00:00

Well no shit. You are a walking green card.

Henk7839 · 2019-09-23T17:55:21+00:00

Any country is better than western Europe tbh. The more feminist a country is, the tougher it is for men to get anything, even relationships, from women.

WhiskeyOnASunday93 · 2019-09-23T17:58:24+00:00

China, definitely.

Spent a few months there.

The LBH (loser back home) stereotype is true for a lot of western English teachers. Not all of them of course. But I saw some severely dumpy neckbeardy dudes with good looking girls on their arm. Honestly shocking how accurate the stereotype was.

analt223 · 2019-09-23T17:50:33+00:00

Honestly, a little. I went to Poland to visit relatives a few years ago and other local people put 2 and 2 together and figured out im american. A few girls seemed kinda more interested in me, but not by leaps and bounds.

rus9384 · 2019-09-23T17:57:35+00:00

Kind of? I went to Ireland and got like an insane amount of matches on tinder (like about 400 in a week of being there) but they barely responded anyway so it didn’t really matter

churnthrowaway123456 · 2019-09-23T18:13:59+00:00

Not abroad, but when I moved from a smaller "metro" area in the Midwest US (town of about 20k in a region of 250k) to a major city in the Northeast, my dating success went waaay up. Not just because there's more people, but relatively more successful, more women showing interest, etc.

This is despite the fact that I went from being relatively high status to being just another middle-class rube in a place with serious power and privilege. People here just seem to be more into my "type" - personality, interests, and even physically to an extent.

wtknight · 2019-09-23T17:36:39+00:00

Sure. I had all kinds of attention from women when I visited the Philippines. I would have had even more if my fiancée now wife was not with me most of the time that I was there. I also had increased attention from women when I visited Japan, but not as much as when I visited the Philippines, partly because I was older when I visited Japan.

gunbusterxl · 2019-09-23T18:14:08+00:00

OMG yes.

Being a black dude in Japan is goddamn amazing. Women will straight up fight over you. Like physically fight. You can date any women you want. The bars and clubs fight over you too. You get bigger discounts to get in than the women do, and some will even waive the entry fee entirely. Please note: the entry fee is mostly to cover the free drink list, that remains open the entire night (most clubs close around 6AM). So yes, that means you can drink for free for like 8 hours straight.

deadlegs12 · 2019-09-23T17:38:54+00:00

I have never been abroad long enough to say. But I have two friends who experienced this.

One basically a really average looking dude who saved a bunch on hotels by using tinder as girls found him “exotic”.

The other is Vietnamese but 6ft 2in. When he goes to see his family there he towers over everyone for miles

MissLute · 2019-09-23T18:59:12+00:00

r/justbewhite

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QuestionablePresenc3 · 2019-09-23T18:24:09+00:00

Technically, I come from the second world country, but I look like a generic tall white guy, so I guess it still counts. I've been to Thailand, China and Japan as a tourist and I was just as invisible there as I am back home, so I have no idea what bump you people are talking about. To be fair, things might have been different had I stayed in one place long enough, but I hadn't, so dunno.

Dunc0ne · 2019-09-23T18:32:33+00:00

I live in South Africa. There is a myth in Cape Town that there are more women then men living there.

I was asked out or for my number every day I was in Cape Town(a few months ago). It was fun. I didn't feel like dating or meeting people was a burden on my time or resources.

methylotroph · 2019-09-23T22:47:48+00:00

Yes, when I did work in Africa, city women assumed my mzungu ass was loaded and I was like "woo back, I work for a NGO!"

cxj · 2019-09-24T00:45:36+00:00

Lol I drove 90 miles out of town and have a huge SMV bump and with very young girls . Small towns 🤷‍♀️

smokecheck1976 · 2019-09-24T03:30:50+00:00

Yes. Traveled to Asia on work. I literally felt like a rock star in a few countries. It wasn't because I was hanging out in those districts or paying for it either. A lot of the girls just really liked American guys and they said it was because we aren't pushy. There were a few days where it was hard for me to go to work, man that attention was really something. If I wasn't still reeling from a divorce, I would have come back married.

-OpportunityCost · 2019-09-24T07:20:17+00:00

I think its pretty obvious that a western white guy can go from a 4 to a 7 or 8 in Asia or South America, although you are nothing more than a walking ATM/green card.

Title	Q4Men: have you ever left the US and experienced a massive bump in your SMV/RMV?
Author	Mr_Smoogs
Upvotes	9
Comments	161
Date	September 23, 2019 5:18 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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