What is your favorite type of porn and does it differ from what you are looking for in a relationship?

shoup88 · 2017-01-06T18:27:04+00:00

Degrading, rough, simulated non-consent/coercion type stuff.

IRL I like a much more vanilla form of that, and only with my partner.

DrunkGirl69 · 2017-01-06T19:11:43+00:00

I'm into some pretty hardcore stuff - humiliation and degradation, freeuse, gangbangs, bondage, rapey stuff, and lately a lot of lezdom, which I think falls under the bracket of humiliation because I genuinely find other women's bodies (especially vaginas) to be really gross so watching a woman be forced to eat another woman out is more intense than watching her be forced to suck a cock (which she is more used to and might even like).

I haven't done any of this stuff irl and I don't even think I want to, especially at the more extreme ends. Like if I was legit tied up and a woman sat on my face I don't think I'd enjoy that at all. Or if a guy insulted me when I got naked like those guys in the facial abuse videos do I'd probably just cry and never talk to him again.

nomdplume · 2017-01-06T17:13:02+00:00

Amateur porn.

Lines up with my desire to have sex with amateurs IRL, too, so not much difference there, lol.

[deleted] · 2017-01-06T18:55:25+00:00

Lesbian porn.

I'm not a lesbian. Lol.

Noircir · 2017-01-06T17:17:13+00:00

I'm more partial to amateur.

And I usually search for big ass _________ girl.

The blank because the type of woman may vary.

Sooo.. I guess my porn reflects on what want in a woman.

[deleted] · 2017-01-06T22:33:25+00:00

I don't watch a lot. Sometimes I've watched gay men porn.

I'm not a man, nor gay. The biggest consumers of gay lit porn are also women. I really like men's chests. As a teen, I was once at a party where the guys were drunk and they stripped off their shirts and pretended to dirty-dance with each other as a joke. That was hotter than I can say.

I also really, really like the look of penises.

I dislike anything degrading or where there's coercion involved. Immediate turn-off - same as in real life. So the gay porn in which there is humiliation (and there's a lot of that) is a turn-off.

I really, really like boobs too. I find looking at boobs a turn on. But I don't want to touch them in real life (much ;) ). But porn with women in it is full of women sucking men's penises, and it's not much about her but all about him, which I find a complete turn-off.

Atlas_B_Shruggin · 2017-01-06T22:36:55+00:00

I watch exclusively lesbian porn and am 100% heterosexual in attraction, so yeah, pretty different

Falkner1992 · 2017-01-06T18:05:46+00:00

Honestly? Older sister/younger brother incest porn. And no, I have no brothers or sisters.

Lyanina · 2017-01-06T18:16:46+00:00

I prefer my porn in written form, so I don't accidentally land on some guy I find unattractive making a woman I find unattractive wince. Straight, gay male, lesbian, I'll read it all, but to watch I pick lesbian because it's easier to find videos where things seem more... mutual.

I do remember one straight amateur video that was very sexy -- either they were actually decent actors (uncommon and nice), or they were actually into each other (also nice). That video would be my favorite.

More generally, though, yeah, girl-on-girl. It differs from what I look for in my relationship in that I have a boyfriend -- but I still want the non-degrading, not "just for his pleasure" aspect of sex with him.

FTR, I once told him we don't have sex like they do in porn, and he said, "Um... I don't think it's that different?" So I guess he and I have seen very different videos.

SetConsumes · 2017-01-06T18:21:27+00:00

The only types I don't like are bestiality, scat, water sports.

Typically I enjoy Latinas, teens, amateurs, foreign. Sometimes I'm up for rough, bukkake, intoxicated, consensual non consent, voyeur, bdsm.

That said, I haven't watched porn regularly or much at all for years. If I do these days it's usually with my girl.

My girl is Latina, which is my favorite overall category.

[deleted] · 2017-01-06T20:20:35+00:00

Gangbangs and hot wife, two girls one guy

Not something I would do with a gf, but is pretty fun to do with fwb.

DicklessAlpha · 2017-01-06T20:30:36+00:00

I like watching decrepit old men taking advantage of young women.More like offering them money for sex.

willbabysit4ketamine · 2017-01-06T20:46:58+00:00

Has anyone mentioned voyeurism yet?

DrunkGirl69 · 2017-01-06T23:03:30+00:00

I like Ron/Hermione fan fiction and, every once in a while, some domination stuff... true love with a touch of kink is pretty close to my real life preferences.

LordFishFinger · 2017-01-06T23:19:00+00:00

Let's just say such a relationship would not be possible under the current laws of physics.

wub1234 · 2017-01-06T17:31:18+00:00

I don't really watch porn, but if I do watch it then it is usually lesbians! That's purely because women kissing is sexy and I just find men-with-women porn phoney and unconvincing. Women don't fuck men they've met 10 minutes ago generally, the evidence on casual sex is quite clear on this matter, and if they do then they're inebriated. On the odd occasion you can find men-with-women porn where the woman is to some extent enjoying it, but this is rare.

anitapk · 2017-01-06T18:24:08+00:00

I love porn with fake bimbos but I only date men

EverytingsShinyCaptn · 2017-01-06T19:07:30+00:00

I like looking at amateur stuff, fairly vanilla. Tend to look at older women and bbw, I'm attracted to both irl though I wouldn't pursue a relationship with anybody significantly older than me.

FairlyNaive · 2017-01-06T19:22:41+00:00

oh boy, NOW THIS is my Jam 😁😁😁

BDSM, degrading sex, dominating sex, burgar gets into house lol and you know the rest.

IRL I want a chick who call me up a couple times a week to bang and won't talk to me the rest of the week.

Sadly my only girlfriend at the time is my left hand. I named it Josephine, because I'm a classy act just like that 😘

[deleted] · 2017-01-06T19:34:20+00:00

I've never enjoyed porn even in my teens. It just made me pissed that I wasn't fucking them. I feel like porn is inherently cuckish behavior. I'm gonna piss off a lot of RP dudes with that too but idgaf because I aint a cuck.

edit: lemme go one step further and say internet porn is what turned the nation into cucks and eventually expanded into the cuckery that has nothing to do with sexuality but like philosophical and political ideology.

HitchensTwoPointOh · 2017-01-06T19:53:41+00:00

I strictly watch POV-style porn regardless of the subgenre or what have you because although many things turn me on, watching other men is certainly not one of those things.

[deleted] · 2017-01-06T21:32:41+00:00

I watch gang bangs, but I never want to have sex with more than one person at once.

FairlyNaive · 2017-01-06T21:49:01+00:00

Interracial. No, Im not black.
Edit: Most favourite is tall, hung, buff black(really dark, not mixed) dude with a deep voice with short, petite blue-eyed blonde(yes, im boring), second most popular would be blonde, tall, athletic white guy with eastern asian woman.

sunkindonut149 · 2017-01-06T23:20:21+00:00

My favorite porn is Jefferson Morris' Star Whores series because it talks about stuff like Lukes relationship with the trash compactor monster as well as how R2D2 and C3PO as well as Darth Vader and the emperor are couples

Neoprime · 2017-01-07T04:23:49+00:00

Anything anal, and no it isn't different from my relationships, all my female mates were always up for anal and liked it.

DashneDK2 · 2017-01-07T08:20:13+00:00

Here's my reddit porn list:

18_19
adorableporn
blondehairblueeyes
blowjobsandwich
bottomless_vixens
bustypetite
facedownassup
GirlsFinishingTheJob
GirlsHumpingThings
groupsofnudegirls
nsfw
oldschoolcoolnsfw
plusatingcumshots
simps
StraightGirlsPlaying
TheHangingBoobs
vintagebabes
xsome

Which match my preferences. I want a couple or three 18-19 yo adorable/cute blonde girls with old school morals and big tits going around without panties when they're not busy finishing off my pulsating cum in their various orifices. For recreaton they can hump things.

Actually, I haven't watched porn in months.

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shogunofsarcasm · 2017-01-06T17:34:29+00:00

Amateur porn without much/any anal or mild/medium bdsm done professionally without much crying or degrading words or some combo of both with a specific fetish.

The first 2 are what I look for in a relationship with an option for the 3rd if I trust them

SetConsumes · 2017-01-06T18:04:16+00:00

It's a weird one, but I'm really into porn where the girl is the same height or taller than the guy. It's quite hard to find, but it turns me on the most.

I think the main reason is because I want to watch porn that I can at least relate to, and the average woman is my height or taller usually, so.

Regardless, it's still a fantasy that I can only live out in porn.

I also like watching porn where an experienced mature woman is teaching an inexperienced guy, and I relate to that because I'm a virgin.

ImNoTrueScotsman · 2017-01-06T18:31:33+00:00

I haven't viewed porn for a couple of months, now. But in the past I've been quite a frequent user.

I normally seeked out amateur videos which involved women who looked like a girl I liked IRL, or of girls who I thought I might have a chance with IRL.

I think that there's quite a clear demarcation between people who get off on concepts, fantasies, and fetishes in porn, and those who are looking for real-life, relatable and believable depictions in porn.

[deleted] · 2017-01-06T21:09:58+00:00

Anything violent and amateur is fine. Sometimes not even sexually.

I wouldn't date anyone who isn't submissive and at least somewhat masochistic.

Not that I do official relationships anyway, but hypothetically.

[deleted] · 2017-01-07T06:56:07+00:00

BBW porn lol...more cushion for the pushing.

I fucked a couple big girls before. The sex was always good. But I don't see myself marrying or being in a serious relationship with a big woman.

cxj · 2017-01-07T07:45:06+00:00

My main problem with porn is how weird a lot of it looks to me, especially most positions. My fav tbh is POV blowjobs with big facials on cute girls faces. Also, gentle ish, medium speed anal which is what I like IRL and hard to find these days because I do not want to jackhammer a girls ass, or pussy really.

I wish I was more into mainstream porn like most guys instead of unhealthily obsessing over instagram crushes and jerking off to nudes of exes :/

pls halp

[deleted] · 2017-01-07T09:54:53+00:00

Favorite type of porn: Clothed & unaroused male canes naked woman.

I guess in a relationship I'd want emotional closeness and very vanilla sex - but I'm incel so I don't really know how what I think I want holds up against my actual desires.

lollygagyo · 2017-01-07T15:59:05+00:00

My favourite type of porn is hardcore BDSM and gangbang stuff.

I don't enjoy hardcore BDSM in practice (although I enjoy a bit of light-moderate BDSM). I'd like to try the gangbang thing (more likely a threesome with 2 dudes) but I doubt I ever will because married, he's super straight and it's not an experience I'd like to have alone.

Candy_Kittens · 2017-01-07T16:07:17+00:00

I like the varied responses thus far.

Interesting that I seem to be the only one who enjoys the MILF stuff. Not sure what it says about me.

And by MILF i mean someone like Julia Ann.

GreatLoadsOfFun · 2017-01-07T21:38:21+00:00

I only look at images of naked women

I want a woman

trpobserver · 2017-01-08T03:49:08+00:00

Girls sitting on faces. Ass worship. Spitting/Drooling. Spreader bars. Blowjobs.

I don't think I could marry a girl who wasn't into at least most of this. Especially the first one. Dear God the first one.

brewmastermonk · 2017-01-09T20:41:36+00:00

I like watching women have real orgasms. What causes it depends on my mood. It ranges from super physically active orgasms like pillow humping to not being able to move at because their bottom halves are sticking out of a wall and getting fucked by random dudes or machines.

Title	What is your favorite type of porn and does it differ from what you are looking for in a relationship?
Author	Candy_Kittens
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Date	January 6, 2017 4:59 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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