This comes up a lot. The claim that since women are statistically more likely than men to find someone who will fuck them, they can't be incel and also basically can't complain ever because of all the sex they drown in. But for me personally, if my partner isn't invested in my pleasure sex is probably going to feel like nothing at best and at worst actually hurt. I'd rather just not have sex if that's how it's gonna go down. I think it's difficult for some men to understand since from their point of view, sex almost always feels good to some extent and features an orgasm.

So I'd like to hear other women's thoughts. Is bad sex better than no sex? Is PIV even your preferred type of sex? There's a thread on a post from the other day about how some women prefer dry humping (myself included) to PIV, and as that thread is pretty buried at this point I think it deserves it's own post. Ladies, how do you define good sex? And what can make sex so bad you'd rather just not have it at all?